There can be so much anxiety with decision making that it can be almost crippling to some people. How often have you wanted to do something or speak with someone or do some thing but then held yourself back? Anxiety can prevent us from getting what we want and so it’s important to learn how to cope and deal with these fears, concerns, and worry. Also, Happy New Year! Brandie has some tips to help you stick with your resolutions and create healthy habits that last! Please check out www.ethicalseduction.com where you will find additional resources for connecting with partners! References: Link to “Very Well Mind” and their 10 Great Tips for Keeping Your Resolutions - https://www.verywellmind.com/how-to-keep-your-new-years-resolutions-2795719

We explore alpha male traits and what aspects are truly attractive. There is so much macho baggage linked to being masculine and a “true” alpha male that it’s hard to tell what is legit and what may be toxic masculinity in disguise. We want to separate the misinformation from the real deal so you know what works best and what generates your strongest attraction. For additional information, please check out www.ethicalseduction.com Referenced Material and Links: What is an alpha male in a relationship? "If you're dating an alpha male -- this normally means that you have to be open to the idea of seeing things his way -- most of the time. It doesn't necessarily mean that your two cents won't matter, but rather that your partner will need to have certain things that only he will have control over." - https://www.regain.us/advice/dating/five-things-you-should-know-before-dating-an-alpha-male-before-you-get-married/ What is “alpha mentality”? "Many people think that an alpha mindset means being aggressive and dominant and that is not the case. ... An alpha mindset is letting go of control and staying in the moment, knowing that you can handle anything that happens, everything always works out, and you will learn and grow from anything that comes your way." - https://www.apolloniaponti.com/alpha-male-traits-and-mindsets/ Masculine describes gender: “Masculinity” refers to the behaviors, social roles, and relations of men within a given society as well as the meanings attributed to them. The term masculinity stresses gender, unlike male, which stresses biological sex. - https://www.oxfordbibliographies.com/view/document/obo-9780199756384/obo-9780199756384-0033.xml#:~:text=%E2%80%9CMasculinity%E2%80%9D%20refers%20to%20the%20behaviors,male%2C%20which%20stresses%20biological%20sex. Alpha describes: "In studies of social animals, the highest ranking individual is sometimes designated as the alpha. ... Alphas may achieve their status by superior physical strength and aggression, or through social efforts and building alliances within the group, or more often, simply by breeding and being the parent of all in their pack. - https://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Alpha_(ethology)#:~:text=In%20studies%20of%20social%20animals,sometimes%20designated%20as%20the%20alpha.&text=Alphas%20may%20achieve%20their%20status,of%20all%20in%20their%20pack.

Today we discuss the best places to meet people, how to approach them, and fun dating ideas. While many people use online dating apps, there are some real benefits to meeting someone in person, however one should be tactful based on venue and place. Then we move on to ways for approaching people beyond just pick up lines. We will discuss conversational openers and ways to find common ground so your approach can start forming a connection. And that will lead us into dating ideas so you can choose something that fits well for the particular person you are speaking with.

This is our first podcast and so we wanted to introduce ourselves, talk about our experience as educators and volunteers, and share a bit about where we came from and how we met. Then we discuss what Ethical Seduction is and how it can benefit and empower people for finding partners and living the lifestyle you want. Because sex and relationship education is fun to explore together!