We all have our own unique quirks about us, but we don’t usually think of our quirks as something we can use to attract other people! However the fact is, if we want to stand out from the crowd, it’s our quirks, uniqueness, and authenticity that will really amp up how attractive we are perceived as being. Here we teach you how to leverage your own quirks so you can press the other person’s attraction buttons! ------------ Download your FREE Guide to Connecting Conversations Want way better results, quicker and easier? Let’s develop your customized Attraction Plan, so you can start attracting the people you want! It starts with a 30 minute Coaching Session to figure out your most attractive traits. Then we apply that knowledge to develop a customized Attraction Plan for you to use in your interactions. Click here to Book a Coaching Session! Ethical Seduction - Seduce the people you want, so you can live the life you want!

People often give dating advice saying “just be confident”, but they never tell you HOW to do this! The secret is learning to take small risks, knowing that if you make a mistake, you can admit it and not be worried about it. So this episode teaches you: What confidence is and ways you can develop your own. How to recognize inaccurate beliefs and change or refine them. How to deal with mistakes and find the opportunities in them. And most importantly, how to be less worried about the opinions of others. ------------ FREE Guide to Connection Conversations: www.ethicalseduction.com Coaching Sessions: https://ethicalseduction-scheduling.as.me/

What can you learn from a kink/bdsm party? This episode is about breaking out of our routines, experiencing something new, and stealing ideas that will help us be more authentic and stand out from the crowd - the key things that press our attraction/desire buttons! Education is a HUGE focal point for the Kink Community and all of us who host the Ethical Seduction podcast feel like we have personally learned so much about social skills, flirting, attraction, and authenticity from the Kink Community. So when Steven was invited to attend a recent Candyland Kink Party, he took the opportunity to chat with people and steal some seduction and attraction tips from those in the kink/bdsm lifestyle. ------------ Also Available! Get the FREE Guide to Connecting Conversations here!: www.ethicalseduction.com

When two people meet up or go out on a date, they are often searching to find common interests. But more importantly, they are usually looking for that special connecting thing they want to team up and explore together. This podcast episode helps walk you through ways to make this a fun, connected conversation, where you figure out what you are both interested in exploring together. Because once you have this figured out, you will both be excited to soon be meeting up for that next date. Conversational Format Discussed: Beginning: Small talk, establishing trust and comfort. Middle: Finding commonalities. End: Uncovering what you both want to explore together. Bonus: The most important sentence of the episode: Of all the things that you love and are into, what do you want more of, and what aspect is unfulfilled that you want to explore. ------------ More Material: Link to Steven and Brandie’s Outtakes from BDSM Scene Negotiation: https://youtu.be/YdUVtkKPDtU Get the FREE Guide to connection Conversations: www.ethicalseduction.com Book a 30 minute Coaching Session: https://ethicalseduction-scheduling.as.me/ www.ethicalseduction.com

Discover how to express your desires openly while maintaining friendships. Embrace vulnerability for deeper connections and learn to navigate the fears that come with romantic interest. Enjoy a humorous take on communication and enhance your flirting skills. Explore the interplay between attraction and essential qualities like trust, while understanding the importance of creating safe spaces for sharing feelings. Tune in for valuable insights on fostering authentic relationships.

Most people complain about dating and how hard it is. Perhaps this is because what we often hope will happen is not representative of how flirting, dating, and connecting actually work. In this episode we have a round-table discussion to figure out realistic expectations to have around dating, in the hopes that this makes the process easier and more enjoyable for us all. You can download our free Guide to Connecting Conversations at www.ethicalseduction.com ------------ Ethical Seduction - Authentic approaches to flirting and connecting. www.ethicalseduction.com

Kimberly has hit the dating scene and been trying out, comparing, and using the latest dating apps. Here we will discuss the differences between the top dating apps, plus cover what approaches work best for each one. This way you can choose and focus on the one that best suits your dating style. Plus we share some tips for creating your dating app profile. Dating Apps we reviewed: #1 Feeld: https://feeld.co/ #2 Tinder: https://tinder.com/ #3 OkCupid: https://www.okcupid.com/ #4 Bumble: https://bumble.com/ #5 Hinge: https://hinge.co/ ------------ Ethical Seduction - Authentic approaches to flirting and connecting. For more ideas to improve your flirting skills, check out  www.ethicalseduction.com

This is part 2 of our two part series covering validation and qualification for dating and relationships. Part 1 covered the validation portion and this episode, Part 2, focuses on the process called “Qualification”. Qualification is a term for determining if someone is worthy of you. The dangers are that poorly done qualification can lead to manipulation, while well done qualification can act as a filter to make sure you match up with people who share similar values, wants, desires, and goals. Qualification is a process for finding people who fit well with you and the better you are at it, the easier your dating life is going to be. ------------ Ethical Seduction - Authentic approaches to flirting and connecting. For more ideas to improve your flirting skills, check out  www.ethicalseduction.com

This is part 1 of our two part series covering validation and qualification for dating and relationships. Part 1 focuses specifically on the validation process. We all want others to value and appreciate us, but it’s got to be done for legitimate reasons or else it feels manipulative and creepy. This episode focuses on how you can use validation in a positive way to help strengthen trust and increase attraction, as well as how to avoid the pitfalls that could be pushing people away from you. --------------------------------------- Ethical Seduction - Authentic approaches to flirting and connecting. For more help improving your flirting skills, check out  www.ethicalseduction.com

In this episode we will show you how mistakes, accidents, and problems that arise can turn out to be something positive, helping to establish trust and strengthen your relationship. We will give you tips for figuring out what to do in these critical moments, so you can correct the issue and demonstrate that you can be counted on! Knowing how to handle situations that come up can alleviate worry, build your confidence, and allow you to go for the things in life you really want! ------------ Ethical Seduction - Authentic approaches to flirting and connecting! For more ideas to improve your flirting skills, check out  www.ethicalseduction.com