Ethical Seduction Ethical Seduction #070 - Learning how to express your interest in someone
Sep 12, 2022
Discover how to express your desires openly while maintaining friendships. Embrace vulnerability for deeper connections and learn to navigate the fears that come with romantic interest. Enjoy a humorous take on communication and enhance your flirting skills. Explore the interplay between attraction and essential qualities like trust, while understanding the importance of creating safe spaces for sharing feelings. Tune in for valuable insights on fostering authentic relationships.
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Early Fear And Hidden Crushes
- Steven describes being terrified of girls in middle and high school and hiding crushes by staying a friend and 'nice guy.'
- He says that holding feelings in felt 'dirty' and caused long-term frustration until he learned to be more open.
Authenticity Can Spark Attraction
- Expressing desires authentically can trigger attraction by showing vulnerability and courage.
- The episode frames this as using authenticity to get what you want while being attractive.
Slow Learning Led To Vulnerability
- Steven shares that over years he learned misconceptions about women and had to lower his guard to be vulnerable.
- He credits slow learning and practice for being able to open up and form closer connections.