

The Break Up Break Down
Pionaire Podcasting
When True Love feels more like a True Crime Story....Abby is ready to investigate! Breaking Up is hard to do (obviously) but it's even harder when social media is involved. If your relationship is on display, people are noticing...especially when it ends. We talk to couples and individuals about their break ups. What went wrong? What things did they work through to try and make it work? We'll learn from them and take valuable lessons from their experience while sharing a laugh (or cry) along the way. Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.
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Sep 16, 2025 • 29min
When both her 'ex's' were taken.... - S8E8
She thought she’d found love, but both relationships were built on lies. She says she was manipulated by two older, taken men. How does her story reveal how emotional cheating can blur the line between romance and control? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.-The week we're raising awareness for the Family Justice Center in New Orleans: https://www.nofjc.org/-If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, text BEGIN to 88788.-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-(00:00): Episode Intro-(04:18): How they met-[CW: Sexual Harassment] Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sep 11, 2025 • 12min
The step-bro scandal & other big deal breakers w/ Jackson Kim | Break Down Bonus
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-National Domestic Violence Support: https://www.thehotline.org/-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sep 9, 2025 • 35min
When she dated her step-brother.... - S2Replay
This week we're raising awareness for the Help Now Shelter in Orlando, FL: https://www.helpnowshelter.org/donate-Follow the podcast!- Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/abbymariemurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps: - (00:00-06:54): Episode Intro - (06:54-11:44): How they (and their parents) got together - (11:44-23:43): Challenges when dating someone in the family/main conflict - (23:43-24:41): What the family dynamic is like now - (24:41-27:47): Her step-brother's new relationship/when friends(?) date your ex - (27:47)-35:00): Advice from our interviewee - (35:00-35:30): Episode Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sep 5, 2025 • 22min
Break Down Bonus: Protecting your mental health in casual relationships w/ Jessica Hutchison
Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-National Domestic Violence Support: https://www.thehotline.org/-What proof do you need for a protective order?:https://www.findlaw.com/legalblogs/law-and-life/what-proof-do-you-need-to-get-a-restraining-order/-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9- Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Sep 2, 2025 • 21min
When "the other woman's" housewarming gift exposed his infidelity.... - S8E7
She thought she was just hooking up with a friend...until his girlfriend confronted her on social media. Suddenly, she realized she was the other woman without even knowing it. But instead of walking away quietly, she plotted the ultimate goodbye: a gift at his housewarming party that exposed his cheating to everyone.-The week we're raising awareness for Cornerstone in Minneapolis: https://dayoneservices.org/-If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, text BEGIN to 88788.-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-(00:00): Episode Intro-(02:56): How they met Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Aug 28, 2025 • 17min
Are you crossing a line into emotional infidelity? w/ Laurie Poole, LPC | Break Down Bonus
Follow the podcast!-Thank you, Laurie Poole, LPC, for joining us this week!-Learn more about Laurie, her podcast, and The Montford Group: https://themontfortgroup.com/laurie-poole-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Aug 26, 2025 • 27min
When an avocado exposed his infidelity.... - S8E6
What seemed like a clean, amicable breakup takes a shocking turn when a single avocado in the kitchen reveals a hidden betrayal. How did one small fruit uncover a much bigger secret? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.-The week we're raising awareness for WCA in Boise, ID: https://wcaboise.org/-If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, text BEGIN to 88788.-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-(00:00): Episode Intro-(02:37): How they met Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Aug 19, 2025 • 41min
When she divorced him over his farts.... - S6Replay
'Better out, than in' might be a better suited to talking about your husband when he can't control his flatulence around you. What seemed like a harmless joke at first quickly turned into a marriage-ending factor for these two. Why could a simple bodily function contribute to the end of relationship? We'll find out when we break down this week's break up.-This week we're raising awareness for SafeHaven in Arlington, TX: https://www.safehaventc.org/-LISTEN TO THE LIVE BUBD PODCAST EVENT: https://paidbreakdownbonus.vhx.tv/-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-Timestamps:-(00:00): Episode Intro-(08:37): How they met-(13:15): The first signs something was off-(17:39): One of the worst incidents-(22:26): The last straw-(24:10): Is it a fetish?-(27:08): The divorce-(34:47): Reflecting on her relationships-(39:29): Advice-(44:18); Teaser Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Aug 14, 2025 • 14min
He's 'quiet-quitting' the relationship?! | Break Down Bonus
Follow the podcast!-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9 Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Aug 12, 2025 • 50min
When Her Roommate Turned Out to Be The Other Woman.... - S8E5
She thought it was just a fun getaway with her her friend group (including...uh...her ex), but halfway through the trip, she learned the girl sharing her bed had been sharing something else with her… her boyfriend.-The week we're raising awareness for Harbor House in Appleton, WI: https://harborhousewi.org/-If you or someone you know is experiencing domestic violence, text BEGIN to 88788.-Submit a break up story/couple: https://forms.gle/ATdabGFwyy7tEx3W8-Follow the podcast!-Abby's IG: https://www.instagram.com/theabbymurphy/-Abby's TikTok: https://www.tiktok.com/@theabbymurphy/-The Break Up Break Down on IG: https://www.instagram.com/breakupbreakdownpodcast/-Submit Feedback: https://forms.gle/jZcG5YPcBqPyNxEz9-(00:00): Episode Intro-(03:11): How they met Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.