Always Better than Yesterday with Ryan Hartley | A Podcast for Heart Centred Leaders

Rather than funnel attention, seek to amplify the way you love others. 

Come join us over on Facebook at www.facebook.com/groups/weareABTY or connect on ClubHouse and Instagram @ryanbhartley Always love Ryan 

This week I am honoured to be bringing you a world class conversation with Dr. Gary Chapman author of The 5 Love Languages a book which has sold almost 14 million copies, translated into 50 languages and been on the New York Times best seller list since 2007! Dr. Chapman is a well know marriage counsellor and has a passion for people and helping them form lasting relationships. He has written many books including The 5 Love Languages for children, men, couples, singles, the military and teens. To discover your love language, head to https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/ In this episode you will hear: 03:45 the origins of The 5 Love Languages - what makes one person feel loved doesn’t make the another person feel loved 06:35 14 million copies and translated into 50 languages around the world 07:05 our deep human need for love 09:20 the greatest show of love is to do what is most uncomfortable 11:35 imagine a world where we can lead from love and not for love 14:20 become an agent of love 14:45 if you are not a loving person you will not be a servant leader 16:55 three questions that changed everything in his marriage 17:45 love has to have an attitude of service 18:35 leaders can help people go home better for those who need them 20:05 MBA - motivation by appreciation 22:50 it’s going to seem strange leading with love to begin with 24:05 practical ways to lead with love and appreciation while working remotely 26:05 leading the unlovely 29:00 when fear is the primary motivator of a manager the workplace becomes toxic 32:00 when people feel safe, they will share their ideas 34:50 the FIRST thing you should do to create a culture of love in the workplace 38:00 life’s greatest meaning is found in helping others We hope this has inspired you in your heart, your mind, your relationships and your leadership. Please do like, share and subscribe and we look forward to bringing you more amazing episodes in future weeks as well as the back catalogue that’s available to you. Always love Ryan Hartley Connect with Dr. Gary Chapman Website: https://www.5lovelanguages.com/ Find out your love language: https://www.5lovelanguages.com/quizzes/ Instagram: @5lovelanguages YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/user/drgarychapman Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/5lovelanguages/ Podcast: https://www.5lovelanguages.com/podcasts/ Connect with Always Better than Yesterday Email: ryanbhartley@gmail.com Whatsapp: (+44) 07970339936 Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/weareabty Master Heart and Mind Group Coaching: www.ryanhartley.co.uk Instagram: @ryanbhartley Clubhouse: @ryanbhartley Thank you to our friends at WebCreation, proud supporters of the Always Better than Yesterday Interview Sessions. Head to www.WebCreationGroup.com for stunning websites at sensible prices. Don't forget to subscribe and also come join our community on Facebook www.facebook.com/groups/weareABTY

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Set your INTENTION and devote yourself to what matters. 

What is your ONE WORD for 2021?

Don't be fooled. Leading with love is not weak. It is tough, it is messy and it strong. 

It is so good to have Gemma Hunt back on the podcast. Gemma was originally on Ep 8 when we discussed her career as a children's TV presenter here in the UK with the CBBC.  Gemma has been working in TV since 2003 when she graduated with her First Class Media Performance Degree from The University of Bedfordshire. Having met an agent through a careers day at the University, Gemma's showreel was sent to CBBC who met her for an interview, invited her for a screen test and then offered her a contract with CBBC, all before she had graduated. Gemma started working exclusively for CBBC in July 2003 before going freelance in 2007. 2013 saw Gemma join the CBeebies family on BAFTA award winning pirate gameshow 'Swashbuckle'. Gemma also presents 'Together' - a BBC Learning School Radio show downloadable for school assemblies. You can see Gemma presenting live at Festivals around the UK, including Big Church Day Out and co-presenting the new Alpha Film Series for alpha.org.  Gemma also runs workshops in presenting skills and enjoys working with children, leading storytelling sessions and birthday parties. In this episode we discuss: 03:50 an interesting couple of years 05:00 shattering the illusion of the public pedestal 07:30 we all need hope and hope has a name 10:15 this season will pass 11:15 Online Alpha - enabling more people to journey together and ask questions about faith, life and meaning 13:30 counsel of Saints 15:00 plans to give you hope and a future 16:45 a daily choice to surrender 19:00 using our gifts to be salt and light in the dark place 27:00 don’t let people look down on you because you are young 30:45 off to the mountains 32:00 holding 2021 lightly I hope this conversation inspires your journey in someway. Make sure this is a two way conversation and be sure to email me or DM me your questions.  Always love Ryan  Connect with Gemma: Website: http://www.gemmahunt.com/ Email: info@gemmahunt.com Alpha: https://www.alpha.org/ Connect with Always Better than Yesterday: Email: ryanbhartley@gmail.com Whatsapp: (+44) 07970339936 Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/weareabty Master Heart and Mind Group Coaching: www.ryanhartley.co.uk Thank you to our friends at WebCreation, proud supporters of the Always Better than Yesterday Interview Sessions. Head to www.WebCreationGroup.com for stunning websites at sensible prices. Don't forget to subscribe and also come join our community on Facebook www.facebook.com/groups/weareABTY

And that's normal. Hope this helps you in your heart and mind in someway. 

Why? Because leadership is less about self. When we get better, everything around us gets better.