Always Better than Yesterday with Ryan Hartley | A Podcast for Heart Centred Leaders

Following on from last weeks Evolution is Collaboration episode. I want you to consider who loses if you do not win? When heart-centred leaders get better, it is because they have helped those around them get better. Who isn't having the opportunity to reach their potential without your help?

We've romanticised the David and Goliath story. It isn't an underdog story. It is a story of courage and strategy.  Goliath's greatest strengths were his greatest weakness.  David's great weakness was his greatest strength.  Like a game of paper, rock, scissors. David's victory was strategic.... and it also took courage to go and face up to the warrior. 

Life has a way of letting us know what is right for now. Our job is not to fight it but to learn to adjust to it.  Some of you are doing 70 in a 30 - learn to adjust  Some of you are doing 50 in a 70 - will you give more?

Friends, we have a new website! Please visit www.abty.co.uk to connect with us at a heart level and see whether our heartwork may serve you better. On episode 172 I am joined by Simon Alexander Ong, personal development entrepreneur, coach, public speaker and author of Energize: Make the most of every moment. Simon regularly speaks at organisations and keynotes public events and conferences. Some of these have included The Peter Jones Foundation, The World Business & Executive Coach Summit (WBECS) and the LSE. In Energize, Simon introduces you to the art and science of energy management. In a world where we are always 'on', Simon coaches you to work with your natural energy resources to recognize your most energized state - when to push and when to recoup - so that you can work sustainably towards your biggest goals. Get your copy here: https://getenergizebook.com/ In this episode you will hear: 00:45 the role of energy in achieving our most important goals 04:00 the energy paradox 06:00 heart and mind tension 08:00 slowing down to thrive over the long term 09:00 the space where creativity and ideas are born 11:00 people buy your energy 13:00 in case of emergency 15:00 TRY THIS ENERGIZING ACTIVITY 17:30 negative visualisation and appreciating all you already have 19:45 if you do surround yourself with negativity, make it around negative ions 21:00 an energized marriage/relationship 24:00 love is the highest form of energy 25:45 deepen our level of awareness as a leader 26:45 managing energy leaks 29:00 everyone has lessons to share and a story to tell 31:00 is Simon’s Dad the Dalai Lama? 34:00 you’ve won the lottery of life, what are you going to do with that winning ticket? I hope this interview inspires your energy. Please do subscribe, leave a little review and share it with someone you wish to inspire too. Always love Ryan Connect with Simon Website: https://www.simonalexanderong.com/ YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/c/SimonAlexanderOng IG: https://www.instagram.com/simonalexandero/ Connect with Always Better than Yesterday Come to our 5 Year Celebration Event! You can buy tickets here: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/abty-community-celebration-tickets-269908863677 Website: www.alwaysbetterthanyesterday.com Instagram: www.instagram.com/alwaysbetterthanyesterdayuk TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@abty_uk LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/abty Discord: https://discord.gg/Apm3Ja465j Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/weareABTY Thank you to our friends at Elevate OM, proud supporters of the Always Better than Yesterday Interview Sessions. Head to www.elevateom.com for Online Marketing & Web Design services that are affordable, bespoke & awesome. Please email your questions and comments to podcast@abty.co.uk

Competition requires winners to create losers.  Collaboration creates as many winners as possible. 

There's been a recurring theme in a couple of my recent interviews and it revolves around the word BUT.  Stop using it after saying something positive, or after I love you or after I am sorry... because it invalidates everything you've said up until that point! If you have to use the word, use it after saying something negative, or that you don't want to or like and it'll help you move forward with gratitude and appreciation. 

Carrying on from our episode earlier in the week, I share insights from a business perspective.  Should our team and organisation follow its heart or mind? Can we justify following our heart? It is both. Heart first then handover to the mind to do what it does best. 

"Everything in your life is your responsibility, once you realise it is your responsibility" - Dr. Bruce Lipton

On episode 171 I am joined by Peter Hopwood, Global Speaker Coach, TEDx Coach & Virtual Speaking Specialist. British born Peter travels the globe (physically & virtually) supporting executives, leaders, founders and teams to craft and deliver engaging stories, increase their leadership presence and persuasive connection - with impact. Essentially, Peter guides professionals to adopt a set of speaking behaviours and insights to create stronger chemistry and connection, using storytelling techniques to get closer to better outcomes. In this episode you will hear: 04:00 Early career with Disney 07:30 the power of presenting every week 10:00 NOBODY CARES 15:00 animation and expression 17:00 becoming a storyteller 26:00 relevance and thinking bigger 32:00 the spidey-sense of selling 36:00 keep on moving 40:30 let people judge you I hope this interview inspires your speaking and story-telling. Please do subscribe, leave a little review and share it with someone you wish to inspire too. Always love Ryan Connect with Peter Website: http://peter-hopwood.com/ TEDx: https://youtu.be/lukeZyNHZzk LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/peterhopwoodpublicspeaking/ Connect with Always Better than Yesterday Come to our 5 Year Celebration Event! You can buy tickets here: https://www.eventbrite.co.uk/e/abty-community-celebration-tickets-269908863677 Website: www.alwaysbetterthanyesterday.com Instagram: www.instagram.com/alwaysbetterthanyesterdayuk TikTok: www.tiktok.com/@abty_uk LinkedIn: www.linkedin.com/company/abty Discord: https://discord.gg/Apm3Ja465j Facebook Community: www.facebook.com/groups/weareABTY Thank you to our friends at Elevate OM, proud supporters of the Always Better than Yesterday Interview Sessions. Head to www.elevateom.com for Online Marketing & Web Design services that are affordable, bespoke & awesome.

Should I follow my head or my heart. My advice is if we connect with our heart first, they will both say the same. There are risks in following the mind first as I explain in this episode.