

Man Within Podcast
Sathiya Sam
Ready to experience a life of confidence, success, and integrity? The Man Within Podcast is the world’s #1 podcast for helping men achieve their fullest potential. We provide principles, tools, and practical insights to help professional men unlock their potential and develop a bulletproof inner life. If you want thriving relationships, a strong connection with God, and freedom from personal struggles, this podcast is for you.
I am Sathiya Sam, your host, a world-renowned coach, international speaker, and author. I specialize in helping professional men achieve long-term success and freedom. My signature program, DeepClean™, has helped athletes, doctors, pastors, executives, and entrepreneurs overcome personal challenges by resolving the root issues.
Join us on The Man Within Podcast to explore new topics, gain valuable insights, and become the best version of yourself.
I am Sathiya Sam, your host, a world-renowned coach, international speaker, and author. I specialize in helping professional men achieve long-term success and freedom. My signature program, DeepClean™, has helped athletes, doctors, pastors, executives, and entrepreneurs overcome personal challenges by resolving the root issues.
Join us on The Man Within Podcast to explore new topics, gain valuable insights, and become the best version of yourself.
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Jul 30, 2024 • 52min
823 - Josh Trent on Finding Peace Through Liberation
Josh is the founder of Wellness+Wisdom, a website, podcast, and community dedicated to helping you live life liberated.
In this episode, Sathiya and Josh discuss spiritual maturity, the pain and honesty required to achieve liberation (and why it's worth it), Josh's struggle and recovery from pornography, and the simple yet often-misunderstood path to true and lasting behaviour change.
In this episode, we discuss:
0:00 Intro to Josh and the framework of this conversation
4:23 The big WHY behind what Josh does with Wellness+Wisdom
10:46 What does it mean to be spiritually mature as a man in the 21st century?
12:33 Emotional epigenetics (and why Josh trademarked the term)
19:45 What does "wellness" truly mean?
25:58 How to find true freedom and peace through the process of liberation
32:41 What helped Josh break free from pornography
40:57 Practical behaviour change
✅ FREE "QUIT-PORN" CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
Resources Mentioned:
Wellness+Wisdom Podcast
Sathiya's Episode on the Wellness+Wisdom Podcast
Liberated Life Tribe
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Jul 30, 2024 • 13min
822 - Signs You're Overcoming Pornography
As men, we want to be sure that the actions we're taking are having the desired outcomes.
When it comes to quitting pornography, you want to make sure that the strategies you're using are ACTUALLY changing you for good.
In this episode, we'll cover the 3 main indicators of truly overcoming porn addiction so you know whether you're on the right track of not.
In this episode, we discuss:
0:37 3 signs you're actually overcoming porn addiction
3:21 Sign #1: The TREND (not the streak) is heading in the right direction
5:40 Sign #2: Your sexual appetites begin to change
7:42 Sign #3: You relate to other people more effectively
10:02 A word of caution...
✅ FREE "QUIT-PORN" CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
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Jul 30, 2024 • 35min
821 - Q&A Summer Temptation Strategies to Stay Prn Free and Improve Impulse Control with Sathiya and Shawn
Join Sathiya and DeepClean Head Coach Shawn Bonneteau on today's Q&A episode, where they answer listener-submitted questions!
Submit your questions below by clicking on the Submit Your Questions Here link.
We go deep today talking about practical strategies to manage triggers as we move into summer (and the more revealing clothing it brings), including why "bouncing the eyes" is actually not great advice. Then Sathiya and Shawn answer your questions on how to improve impulse control and what to do when you have a much higher sex drive than your wife.
In this episode, we discuss:
2:13 Summer weather, bikinis, and strategies for dealing with triggers
8:11 From lust to sadness and grief over a woman who's experienced pain
10:46 "Bouncing the eyes" is bad advice?
16:04 Practical summertime strategies when triggered
20:47 Question 1: How to improve impulse control
25:06 Question 2: What does a man do to refocus his hyperactive sex drive when his wife doesn't want sex as much as he does?
✅ FREE "QUIT-PORN" CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
Resources Mentioned:
The Last Relapse (Free Book!)
Sheila Wray Gregoire Episode
The Great Sex Rescue by Sheila Gregoire
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Jul 30, 2024 • 13min
820 - Lasting Results What Separates Boys From Men
The difference between boys and men is that boys are impatient and think they can get whatever they want without the time and effort that it requires.
Boys spend all their time on "get rich quick" schemes (financially, in fitness, in recovery), when they could have had what they wanted already if they had just prioritized long-term outcomes from the get-go.
In this episode, Sathiya will help you become a MAN by making the choices real men make.
In this episode, we discuss:
1:20 Experiencing LASTING change in your life
4:41 Prioritizing long term results over short term results
9:54 It never takes you as long as you think, and it never happens as quick as you think
✅ FREE "QUIT-PORN" CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
Resources Mentioned:
The Last Relapse (Free Book)
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Jul 30, 2024 • 1h 34min
819 - Naftali Moses on Rejecting Porn by Integrating Truth
Today's episode is a LIVE, in-person interview with a man wise beyond his years, transformation coach Naftali Moses.
We went deep, with both of us sharing transparently about our journey through porn addiction and recovery, plus the real issues that keep men from living a full, authentic life.
This conversation will challenge you, but as you'll learn, that's exactly where you need to be for growth and transformation.
Join us in uncovering the truth we all often reject.
In this episode, we discuss:
0:00 Intro to my wide ranging conversation with Naftali
2:37 The American Pie films were actually porn
3:15 Why would women ever tell a man it's okay to watch porn?
5:03 Sathiya's journey through addiction and recovery
10:20 Intimacy disorders and identity
17:34 What finally started Sathiya's recovery
25:36 A simple tool to heal perfectionism
27:51 Naftali's story of getting free from porn
36:25 Triggers, porn genres, and mommy issues
40:07 Porn tricks you into thinking you understand women
45:01 How to deal with sadness and loneliness
50:48 Letting yourself feel
57:00 Social media is the gateway drug to porn
1:03:17 How to bridge the gap between a lie that feels good and life-giving reality
1:08:26 Doubt and uncertainty
1:09:35 Reaching the ideal
1:13:55 What should a woman do if her guy is watching porn?
1:17:46 The necessity of aloneness to prepare for true community
1:21:48 Those who lack mystery in their life worship a God their size
1:24:52 What's going to happen to men?
✅ FREE "QUIT-PORN" CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
Resources Mentioned:
Naftali Moses IG
Naftali Moses YT
Naftali Moses Website
Wellness + Wisdom with Josh Trent
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Jul 30, 2024 • 13min
818 - The Dangers of Pursuing Your Potential
There was a period where I was unsatisfied with "just" helping guys quit porn. It felt like something was missing.
I finally realized that we weren't "just" doing anything...we were helping men reach their potential. Because when they were no longer slaves to pornography, their lives started flourishing in amazing ways.
In this episode, I want to talk to you about the danger of pursuing your potential, and then outline two specific things that will help you pursue your potential healthily, without cratering OR settling.
In this episode, we discuss:
1:31 The work we do is really about helping guys reach their potential
5:12 Is what you're doing now a reflection of what you envisioned in high school?
7:46 Potential is a moving goal post
9:15 How to pursue your potential without cratering or settling
✅ FREE "QUIT-PORN" CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
Resources Mentioned:
The Last Relapse (Free Book)
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Jul 30, 2024 • 48min
817 - Q&A Identity, Overcoming Triggers, and Caring Too Much About What Your Wife Thinks with Sathiya and Shawn
Join us for our another live-coaching episode! We're excited to bring two courageous men on the show who we'll coach LIVE here to help them get to the root of their issues and find freedom.
Submit your questions below by clicking on the Submit Your Questions Here link.
Before we get into the live coaching, Sathiya and Shawn discuss the importance of claiming your true identity and figuring out your ACTUAL motivation for recovery, so that you're not just constantly "managing" your addiction, but truly finding healing and growth.
We brought on two amazing listeners who asked questions, and we did our best to give them some live coaching during the episode. Questions include how to handle everything suddenly becoming a trigger after 6 months of being free from porn, and how to stop codependent patterns around caring more about what your wife thinks about your recovery than your own actual recovery.
In this episode, we discuss:
1:14 Persevering with a vision, even through hardship
3:29 What are the elements of a healthy, solid identity?
7:27 When your idea of identity betrays a false underlying belief
10:00 The power (necessity?) of having local accountability and real relationships
12:01 The challenges of isolation, especially spiritually
15:24 Is your secret life exhausting you?
17:19 Finding your ACTUAL motivation for recovery and handling higher temptation environments
21:55 Question 1: Free from porn for 6 months, but now everything is a trigger...how do I overcome this?
32:54 Question 2: How do I stop my codependent habits and correctly order my relationship with God and my wife?
✅ FREE "QUIT-PORN" CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
Resources Mentioned:
The Last Relapse (Free Book)
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Jul 30, 2024 • 14min
816 - Trigger Management For Professional Men
Everybody gets triggered. If you didn't, you'd never slip, make bad decisions, and watch porn/relapse.
I'm going to be diving into a short masterclass on triggers today, to help you understand what they are, why they matter, and how to actually manage them effectively so you take back control of your life.
In this episode, we discuss:
2:04 My recent experience with Mind Pump
4:30 Triggers are individual
6:14 Internal vs external triggers
8:00 3 tools to manage triggers effectively
✅ FREE "QUIT-PORN" CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
Resources Mentioned:
Mind Pump
The Last Relapse (Free Book!)
Sal Di Stefano Episode
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Jul 30, 2024 • 52min
815 - Mike Novotny on Confessing Taboo Topics To Find Lasting Freedom
Today Sathiya sits down with Pastor Mike Novotny to discuss his work bringing light to taboo subjects, including pornography addiction, and how Mike was freed from his own addiction.
It seems like so many Christians have a hard time talking about subjects that are uncomfortable or make us squirm a little, and sadly that's actually one of the reasons why believers still struggle with things like porn addiction...because we don't confess to one another (regularly!).
This is a convicting and very practical episode...make sure to pick up Pastor Mike's newest book Taboo (link below)!
Pastor Mike Novotny has served God’s people in full-time ministry since 2007 in Madison and, most recently, at The CORE in Appleton, Wisconsin. He also serves as the lead speaker for Time of Grace, where he shares the good news about Jesus through television, print, and online platforms.
In this episode, we discuss:
0:00 Introducing Mike Novotny
2:00 Why start talking specifically about taboo subjects?
4:18 Why is porn addiction so prevalent among Christians, even those who regularly go to church?
5:12 How to resist ever-present temptation
8:35 Should we revolt against the word "purity"?
12:27 When God heals you of porn addiction
17:40 Confession for quitting porn
22:32 Why talk about suicide
29:33 How to think about technology and social media
37:42 Tools to combat the enemy
40:44 How to get deeper into the Word of God
44:00 Scriptures to help you defeat sexual sin
✅ FREE "QUIT-PORN" CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
Resources Mentioned:
Taboo by Mike Novotny
Mike Novotny on Time of Grace
Mike Novotny on Instagram
Time of Grace Youtube Channel
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Jul 30, 2024 • 14min
814 - How To Build Unshakeable Confidence
Want to learn how to actually build confidence? Do you want to learn the 3 things that confident people do to build and maintain their confidence?
If so, hit play and listen to this episode.
Sathiya breaks down his own personal experience, findings after surveying and interviewing his staff and clients, and other proven tactics in order to give you a working definition of confidence (to give you something to aim at), plus some simple solutions for increasing your confidence starting today.
In this episode, we discuss:
1:17 My story from confident to shaken, to building back confidence
3:00 What is confidence?
6:37 The thing that actually builds confidence
8:05 The 3 things confident people do
✅ FREE "QUIT-PORN" CASE STUDY VIDEO: Learn the system that has helped HUNDREDS of men around the world realize their potential, restore their relationships, and reconnect with God.
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