The Vitalist

In this episode of The Vitalist, Dr. Sachin Patel, chiropractor, functional medicine practitioner, and breathwork facilitator, reveals why nothing heals the body better than itself. From the wisdom of a newborn’s nervous system to the hidden traumas stored in our diaphragm and fascia, Sachin uncovers the intelligence we’ve been trained to ignore. We talk about why crying is one of the fastest ways to regulate the nervous system, how mouth taping can transform your health, and why your breath is the steering wheel of your biology. You’ll hear stories of people releasing decades of pain in a single breathwork session, the science behind CO2 tolerance and the Bohr effect, and why the future of healthcare isn’t found in more hospitals, but in remembering the inner doctor already within. HIGHLIGHTS: The doctor of the future is you: why the solution isn’t more hospitals. (1:14) How modern medicine lost its way, vilifying natural healing, prescribing petroleum-based chemicals, and silencing the inner doctor within us. (5:03) The seed of vitalism: becoming a father revealed to Sachin that his son, and all of us, are born with the wisdom of the universe inside. (9:25) The nervous system as software: the master operator running every conscious and unconscious process in the body. (13:13) Breaking free from recycled thoughts: the default mode network, why 95% of our thinking is stuck on repeat, and how plant medicine or breathwork can rewrite the story. (15:56) Holographic Manipulation Therapy: how Dr. Gabe Roberts helps people rewrite the holograms of old stories stored in the brain. (18:06) Breath as the steering wheel of the nervous system: Sachin’s first Wim Hof experience showed him how to reprogram the subconscious. (24:20) Where trauma hides in the body: grief in the lungs, stress in the diaphragm, memory in the fascia and why the diaphragm is our “second heart.” (26:46) The truth about crying: why tears are one of the fastest ways to regulate the nervous system.  (30:07) The #1 breath practice you should be doing: mouth taping. Why 66% of people mouth-breathe at night and why it keeps the body stuck in fight-or-flight instead of healing. (35:17) Coherence breathing: a simple 6-second inhale and 6-second exhale boosts brain oxygenation by 20% and anchors calm on demand. (38:30) The Bohr effect: how breath holds build CO2 tolerance, shift body pH, and unlock deeper oxygenation for every cell. (44:13) The diaphragm as the lead domino: why regulating your breath cascades into regulating your heart, lymph, and nervous system. (50:56) What healthcare is missing: why your breath is a pharmacy, your body a surgeon, and your environment a nurse and how true healing begins with responsibility. (53:59) RESOURCES: Follow Sachin Patel DC  @thesachinpatel  Breathe With Sachin - BreathworkWithSachin.com Sachin’s Metabolic Program – mymetabolicreset.ca Holographic Manipulation Therapy with Dr. Gabe Roberts Celliant - clothing that reflects InfraRed Light back into the body. Mouthtape Dr. Joe Dispenza Tiny Habits by BJ Fogg   Never miss an episode. Subscribe to get notified about what's coming next. Follow us @TheVitalistPodcast www.TheVitalistPodcast.com Visit us @KinfolkOptimalLiving www.KinfolkOptimalLiving.com  

What if your brain fog, restless nights, and constant fatigue aren’t a normal part of aging, but the silent signal of mineral deficiency? In this episode of The Vitalist, Dr. Sera sits down with Caroline Alan, co-founder of BEAM Minerals, who went from corporate burnout, autoimmune struggles, and flatlined adrenals… to discovering the cellular fuel that changed her life. Caroline reveals how plant-based humic and fulvic complexes, ancient compounds from rainforest soil, may be the missing link to your energy, clarity, and resilience. You’ll learn: - Why 97% of Americans are mineral deficient (and how filtered water is part of the problem). - The truth about magnesium, zinc, and why isolated supplements could be sabotaging your health. - How fulvic and humic complexes deliver nutrients directly into your cells, where your mitochondria actually use them. - The everyday signs of deficiency, like brain fog, bloating, and poor sleep. - Why food alone can’t replenish what your body really needs anymore. - If you’re a woman in midlife navigating energy crashes, hormone shifts, or brain fog, this conversation offers not just the science, but a path to feeling truly replenished. HIGHLIGHTS: From corporate burnout to radical healing: Caroline’s personal story of autoimmune struggles, pill fatigue, and flatlined adrenals. (1:14) Every structure in your body depends on minerals, yet most women don’t realize it. (5:10) Why taking magnesium or zinc alone does not support long term health. (6:51) How decades of soil depletion left today’s foods shockingly low in minerals. (9:32) Rock-based minerals don’t work and why your body absorbs only 5% of that magnesium bottle. (12:36) Why dumping concentrated minerals in your gut is like wrecking your garden soil instead of feeding it. (14:03) The ancient wisdom of humic and fulvic complexes, decomposed rainforests, that unlock cellular absorption. (16:25) Why getting minerals out of the bloodstream and into your cells is the key to energy and mitochondria function. (19:01) Fulvic’s superpower: the only molecule that can change polarity, carry 70+ minerals, and pass through any cell wall. (20:56) The balancing intelligence of humic. (26:27) Why nearly everyone is mineral deficient and how your filtered water is making it worse. (29:05) Rethinking “dosage” and why BEAM Minerals are not medicine but foundational ecosystem support. (30:44) Are you overhydrating? Caroline’s surprising take on those giant water bottles. (34:22) Mineral deficiency symptoms hiding in plain sight like brain fog, cramps, and sleep struggles. (42:58) Simple solutions: how to use BEAM and HappyLytes for everyday support. (46:05)   RESOURCES: Follow Caroline @CarolineAlan.official Follow @BeamMinerals BEAM Minerals - Use code KINFOLK20 for 20% off   Never miss an episode. Subscribe to get notified about what's coming next. Follow us @TheVitalistPodcast www.TheVitalistPodcast.com Visit us @KinfolkOptimalLiving www.KinfolkOptimalLiving.com  

What if everything you’ve been taught about love is wrong?  In this conversation, Melissa Nanavati dismantles the myth that love is chemistry or luck and reveals how it’s actually a skill you can train, and improve the quality of your relationship. From the neuroscience of attraction to the unspoken fears that sabotage intimacy, Melissa opens up about her own anxious attachment, vulnerable moments with her husband Akshay, and the radical frameworks they’ve created to repair and thrive. This episode will make you question what you believe about your relationships and inspire you to re-imagine what love could look like when you bring science, structure, and raw courage into it.   HIGHLIGHTS: Love isn’t luck, it’s a skill. Melissa’s “four muscles of relational courage.” (1:07) Her personal confession of a decade of anxiety, people-pleasing, and believing her needs weren’t valid. (2:03) The fear behind not asking for what you need. (4:45) The chemistry of relationships requires dopamine, serotonin, and oxytocin and why the honeymoon phase doesn’t have to end. (5:14) The paradox of structure allows scheduling to bring back spontaneity and desire. (7:12) A nightly ritual that may save your marriage. (8:32) The BRAVE framework for hard conversations. (10:34) One shocking stat: Couples who end tough talks with physical touch are 80% less likely to repeat the same fight. (16:27) She shares the toughest conversation when her husband asked to return to Antarctica just two days after nearly losing his life there. (19:47) Her true fear beyond abandonment; it was more about the future they planned together. (24:34) The mantra that healed her anxious attachment and patterns of abandonment (23:58) How she forgave every single person from her past in five days with neurofeedback at 40 Years of Zen. (25:27) Why triggers and discomfort point us to our deepest work. (27:45) When one partner isn’t growing like the other, be the example and watch your relationship transform. (35:20) When is it time to end a relationship? (37:10) Re-igniting intimacy after decades together with novelty. (38:43) The four core virtues of Peak Performance Love: curiosity, courage, play, and presence. (40:35) Her definition of love: “Love is accepting someone fully, exactly as they are… and realizing love is a choice.” (41:33)   RESOURCES: Connect with Melissa here.  Follow @melissananavati Watch Melissa on Youtube Connect on LinkedIn 40 Years of Zen   Never miss an episode. Subscribe to get notified about what's coming next. Follow us @TheVitalistPodcast www.TheVitalistPodcast.com Visit us @KinfolkOptimalLiving www.KinfolkOptimalLiving.com    

In this episode, Dr. Keiko sits down with Marina Ortega, founder of Scottsdale Hydrotherapy and Trust Your Gut, to explore the fascinating and often misunderstood world of colon hydrotherapy. Marina shares her personal journey from debilitating constipation and chronic illness to becoming a leading voice in gut health and detoxification. Together, we dive into the science, history, and surprising emotional layers of gut healing. You’ll learn why supporting your drainage pathways is essential, how the gut is directly tied to immunity and mood, and what you can expect if you’re curious about colonics. HIGHLIGHTS: Marina’s shocking history of going 7–10 days without pooping and losing 7 pounds in her first colonic. (00:53) Why Hippocrates believed all disease begins in the gut and how colonics were practiced as early as 500 BC until the rise of laxatives. (2:56) What happens in your large intestine if you’re not pooping after every meal. (5:11) How a contracted nervous system and an inability to “let go” emotionally keep us constipated. (6:20) The crucial difference between drainage and detox and why you should never cleanse without open detox pathways. (7:46) Why your lymphatic system depends on movement and breath to clear toxins. (8:36) The surprising truth that 80% of your immune system and serotonin live in the gut. (9:54) Why colonics benefit not just constipation, but athletes, cancer recovery, and anyone seeking longevity. (11:01) What to expect during your first colon hydrotherapy session. (14:46) What really comes out in a colonic, think parasites, gallbladder sludge, and more. (18:06) How coffee enemas supercharge liver detox by boosting glutathione, the body’s master antioxidant. (20:49) What is castor oil and how does it work? (24:12) The therapies Marina swears by: DermaShape and the HOCATT ozone sauna. (26:39) Why Marina created the Trust Your Gut product line. (36:26)   Resources: Follow Marina: @marinathepoopfairy Follow Scottsdale Hydrotherapy: @scottsdalehydrotherapy Scottsdale Hydrotherapy Trust Your Gut - shop enemas and castor oil packs  NuCalm – technology for nervous system relaxation and healing   Never miss an episode. Subscribe to get notified about what's coming next. Follow us @TheVitalistPodcast www.TheVitalistPodcast.com Visit us @KinfolkOptimalLiving www.KinfolkOptimalLiving.com  

From growing up in a cult religion to facing years of childhood trauma, autoimmune disease, and a body in constant distress, Wes Kress’s story is not one of defeat, but of radical transformation. In this episode, Wes opens up about the hidden feedback loops that keep us stuck, the biology of emotional pain, and why true healing has nothing to do with fixing yourself and everything to do with listening to the truth your body has been telling you all along. We explore the patterns that wire shame into survival, why most people unknowingly run from the very thing that could set them free, and how to build a relationship with your body based on connection, not control. This conversation is raw, human, and packed with insights. Whether you’re navigating physical symptoms, emotional wounds, or the relentless drive to “do more,” Wes will challenge what you believe about healing and show you what’s actually possible when you stop trying to think your way out of pain. HIGHLIGHTS:  Wes shares how growing up in a cult with years of sexual trauma shaped his nervous system for survival. (1:31) Wes reveals how 70+ symptoms and four autoimmune diagnoses weren’t signs his body was betraying him. (3:30) Why most attempts at change fail — and the shift that turns survival loops into virtuous healing cycles. (5:05) How shame, blame, guilt, and fear are wired into the nervous system to keep us alive, but also keep us stuck. (6:06) Why trying harder often backfires and how presence, not productivity, creates deep transformation. (6:47) Learn why the urge to “do something” comes from not wanting to feel powerless. (8:11) The difference between processing trauma mentally vs. metabolizing it in the body. (9:44) Non-resistance is the direct experience of trust, and it starts with recognizing the body isn’t the problem. (11:28) Walking into pain instead of running from it. The counterintuitive path to dissolving resistance and integrating all parts of yourself. (16:34) Depression is often anger turned inward. (17:27) Why psychology’s mental frameworks can only take you so far, and why connecting with the body is essential. (22:05) The ‘body buff’ reset. The simple at-home tool Wes uses with every patient to bring them back into their body. (23:40) How genome mapping reveals emotional and physical predispositions — and why methylation matters for emotional processing. (24:35) Ask yourself: am I controlling my body — or connecting to it? The hidden difference that determines whether exercise heals you or harms you. (25:54) When exercise becomes self-abuse. Why the same workout can create vitality or depletion depending on your relationship to it. (28:50) Why five minutes a day won’t rewire your nervous system, and how to use meditation as a return to wholeness rather than another escape.(32:15) The NeuBie technology. How this DC waveform device finds and dissolves resistance patterns your body has been holding for decades. (41:38) RESOURCES: Connect with Wes Kress @breakthroughperformance_rehab The Body Buff The Neubie by NeuFit   Never miss an episode. Subscribe to get notified about what's coming next. Follow us @TheVitalistPodcast www.TheVitalistPodcast.com Visit us @KinfolkOptimalLiving www.KinfolkOptimalLiving.com  

In this episode of The Vitalist, master life coach Micheline Green invites us into the complex terrain of true transformation. Drawing from over two decades of experience, including her early work investigating child abuse and her training in Integral Coaching, Micheline reveals what it really takes to shift deeply embedded patterns. Together, we explore: Why real change happens beneath the psychological immune system How fear shows up in disguise: as rage, anxiety, depression, or numbness The role of the “loving witness” in releasing trapped emotion Autonomic signatures beyond fight, flight, or freeze Micheline also shares her personal story of how her unprocessed childhood rage and belief that she “wasn’t smart enough” became a portal into her own healing, and how we each carry patterns we think we’re hiding (but aren’t). HIGHLIGHTS Micheline opens up about investigating generational abuse at 23 and how motherhood forced her to face her own inherited parenting patterns. (1:40) Micheline introduces Integral Theory and how subtle shifts, not grand gestures, spark deep transformation by meeting people where fear is stored. (6:10) Micheline shares where she begins when addressing the whole human: not with a goal, but with a topic. (8:06) Fear wears many masks: anxiety, rage, numbness. Micheline helps us decode its signature in our body and reframe it as a wise teacher. (10:09) Using Dr. Robert Kegan’s "competing commitments," Micheline shows how the very thing holding us back might hold the key to unlocking forward movement. (11:27) “Numb is a feeling too.” We explore why disconnection from the body is often protection and how Micheline uses her own somatic awareness to sense what clients can’t yet name. (13:21) From the "accomplished prairie dog" to the "devoted heart compass," Micheline shares how imagery become doorways unlocking deep unconscious patterning. (14:22) Micheline reflects on her belief of “I’m not smart enough” and how unprocessed childhood rage revealed itself during her coach training. (17:11) We talk about the shame of big emotions and what changes when a loving witness helps you stay present instead of suppress. (19:40) Beyond fight, flight, or freeze lies a more nuanced map. Micheline explores Gabriel Kram’s Neurobiology of Connection and states like appease, accommodate, and collapse. (25:19) Want to control your kids, your partner, politics, or the food system? Micheline guides us through a powerful hand exercise to soften that grip. (27:50)   RESOURCES Connect With Micheline Green LinkedIn Instagram www.michelinegreen.com  Integral Coaching Canada Dr. Robert Kegan  The Neurobiology of Connection by Gabriel Kram   Never miss an episode. Subscribe to get notified about what's coming next. Follow us @TheVitalistPodcast www.TheVitalistPodcast.com Visit us @KinfolkOptimalLiving www.KinfolkOptimalLiving.com  

What if the stories you’ve been telling yourself—about your worth, your happiness, your healing, aren’t the truth? In this raw and revelatory episode, Brittny shares her journey from high-performing “happy girl” to a deeply embodied woman rewriting generational patterns. From hiking Mont Blanc on her honeymoon to navigating postpartum anxiety and uncovering childhood trauma through motherhood, Brittny holds nothing back. She’ll show you how a single belief like “everything is figureoutable” can become a lifeline, why you can’t outthink a dysregulated nervous system, and how breathwork became the tool that helped her, and her clients, finally feel safe in their own bodies. If you’ve ever felt like you were too emotional, not emotional enough, or stuck in a cycle of “doing the work” but still repeating old patterns, this conversation is for you. We talk about: The grief that cracked her wide open Why emotional triggers are clues, not problems Raising resilient kids (and reparenting yourself in the process) What happens when we finally feel what’s been buried The power of somatic therapy and breathwork to create real, lasting change By the end of this episode, you’ll feel less alone, more seen, and more equipped to meet yourself where you truly are. This is the one you listen to with your journal nearby and your heart wide open.   HIGHLIGHTS: The book, The One Thing made her realize she was spreading herself thin, and it changed everything. (3:30) Her miscarriage opened a floodgate of unprocessed trauma she didn’t even know was buried. (4:42) If your emotional reactions feel way bigger than the moment, you’ve got unhealed stories still running the show. (6:12) She used her “happy girl” mask to conceal childhood trauma until she went into  motherhood. (7:00) Her experience with postpartum anxiety until breathwork gave her a way back into her body. (8:08) No one warned her that becoming a mom meant losing herself and finding someone entirely new. (9:10) “You are not your thoughts,” and believing otherwise is what’s been holding you back. (11:06) Her favorite belief? “Everything is figureoutable.” It’s gotten her through some of the hardest chapters of her life. (12:00) You can’t outthink a dysregulated nervous system. Period. You’ve got to go into the body to actually change. (16:00) Your emotions are like a check engine light and if you keep ignoring them, something will break. (18:49) Healing doesn’t happen alone, it happens with someone safe enough to hold space for your truth. (20:00) Her daughter triggered patterns she thought she’d healed and gave her permission to finally break them. (22:20) She stopped trying to raise a happy child, and started raising a resilient one instead. (25:20) She’s not the coach with the answers, she’s the one who helps you remember you’ve had them all along. (30:15)   RESOURCES: Brittny King @BrittnyKing_ Positively Real Podcast Elemental Rhythm Breathwork Book: The One Thing by Gary Keller Book: Everything is Figureoutable by Marie Forleo   Never miss an episode. Subscribe to get notified about what's coming next. Follow us @TheVitalistPodcast www.TheVitalistPodcast.com Visit us @KinfolkOptimalLiving www.KinfolkOptimalLiving.com  

What if music isn’t just something we hear, but something our bodies remember? In this powerful episode of The Vitalist, Grammy-winning composer, producer, and sound healing pioneer Barry Goldstein joins us to explore music as medicine. From heart coherence to brainwave entrainment, Barry breaks down how rhythm, intention, and vibration interact with the nervous system, emotions, and even the cells of the body. He shares his journey from burnout as a mainstream record producer to becoming a “musitarian”, someone who uses sound to uplift humanity. Through personal stories, scientific insight, and practical tools, Barry reveals how the right music at the right tempo (especially 60–70 bpm) can activate deep healing, coherence, and states of flow. You'll learn: Why our earliest experience of sound begins in the womb How specific tempos and frequencies entrain the brain and heart How to become your own sound healer What it really means to “raise your vibration” Real-life stories of people using music to process grief, illness, and transformation Barry also shares the intention behind three of his most loved tracks, including Heart Codes and Hallelujah Amen, and explains how music can create a “field effect” that influences not just the listener, but the space around them. Whether you’re healing from stress, seeking emotional regulation, or simply curious about the intelligence of sound, this conversation will change how you listen, forever.   HIGHLIGHTS: Growing up in the Bronx, Barry witnessed music’s power to shift moods and uplift spirits across cultures long before he knew the science behind it. (1:26) Barry became a successful music producer, but success brought burnout eventually fading his passion for music. (3:16) Curious about heart coherence, Barry began composing music at the rhythm of a relaxed heartbeat, 60–70 beats per minute. What followed changed everything. (5:20) His hour-long ambient compositions began being used in massage therapy—and soon, in dental chairs, delivery rooms, hospice care, and more. (6:30) Parents of children on the spectrum gravitated toward Ambiology 5: Eden. Alzheimer's patients responded too. The music was helping, but the question became: how? (7:42) When the heart synchronizes with music, the brain follows. Barry explains how rhythmic sound brings the body into healing alpha brainwave states.  (8:07) Long before the ear forms in utero, we feel vibration. Our first music is the heartbeat and breath of our mother, imprinting a deep, embodied memory of rhythm. (10:35) The heart literally sets the tempo for every other system in the body, guiding regulation and coherence.  (11:20) Barry leads a grounding, integrative breathwork practice designed to restore inner harmony and reconnect to your unique frequency. (12:48) Frequencies aren’t one-size-fits-all. Barry encourages us to become our own sound healers and discover what truly resonates with our ever-changing inner landscape. (15:45) Music carries information. But it’s the emotion behind the intention that delivers healing. (17:31) Quincy Jones said it best: “Melody is a gift from God.” And it’s more powerful than any tech we try to layer on top. (18:06) Science is catching up. Studies now explore how frequencies can support cancer treatment. (19:16) Barry shares insights from Dr. Bill Tiller and Stephen Hawking: love and compassion literally vibrate higher than shame and fear. When we shift emotionally, we shift biologically. (19:36) Barry breaks down three powerful tracks, Heart Codes, Hallelujah Amen, and Om Shalom Home, and the intentional frequencies behind them. (21:19) Hallelujah Amen was composed with this intention: “The healing is already done.”  (22:33) Om Shalom Hom channels the primordial sound “Om”—said to contain every frequency in the universe. (23:18) Real story: A man drove into the desert, intending not to return. But something made him hit play on Barry’s track Lay Down in Love. He said, “Your music saved my life.” (24:41) Barry calls his work Acousticeuticals. Like food, we can nourish ourselves with sound intentionally, morning, noon, and night.(26:42) He breaks down how binaural beats work and how to use them to target specific brain states. (29:27) His Ambiology series and Heart Codes are all set to 60 bpm—the tempo your body instinctively trusts for rest, repair, and coherence. (30:07) Research shows music can spark autobiographical memories and neuroplasticity—making it a powerful tool in Alzheimer’s care. (30:44) His wife once felt the music he was composing, through a wall, with Barry wearing headphones. “Music creates a field beyond itself.” (31:16) The more you play a song with intention, the stronger its energetic field becomes. Music magnifies presence. (32:04) Barry is exploring with researchers how music may impact cellular structures like mitochondria. (33:07) Barry now calls himself a musitarian, someone who uses music to uplift humanity.  (34:29)   RESOURCES Learn more at barrygoldsteinmusic.com @barrygoldsteinmusic Explore sound branding at sonic-signatures.com Book: The Secret Language of the Heart by Barry Goldstein   Never miss an episode. Subscribe to get notified about what's coming next. Follow us @TheVitalistPodcast www.TheVitalistPodcast.com Visit us @KinfolkOptimalLiving www.KinfolkOptimalLiving.com  

Let us be real with you: most people aren’t actually afraid of failure, pain, or fear itself. They’re afraid of being still long enough to feel any of it. In this episode, Dr. Keiko sits down with Akshay Nanavati, a former Marine, ultra-endurance athlete, and author of Fearvana, who went from addiction and self-harm to attempting the first ever solo ski crossing of Antarctica, pulling a 420lb sled. And no, this isn’t about becoming fearless. It’s about building the courage to face the parts of yourself you’ve been running from. We talk about: Why fear isn’t your enemy, it’s your access point. How to stop distracting yourself every time fear speaks Why stillness is the most terrifying (and healing) thing you’ll ever do The neuroscience behind labeling emotions How Akshay went from drug addiction to becoming the most isolated life form on Earth What Antarctica taught him about presence, suffering, and spiritual strength This episode is packed with wisdom to help you face your fears and finally feel the stuff that’s been trying to get your attention for years. Because the moment you stop performing and start feeling, you begin healing. So, if you’re ready to do the hard thing? Be still. Listen. Feel. Fear is not here to break you. Fear is here to reveal you.   HIGHLIGHTS: Akshay’s journey from addiction and self-harm to joining the Marines (1:50) How “Fearvana” was born and why it’s not the antithesis of nirvana, but the access point. (4:17) What most people get wrong about “irrational fears” (4:59) How to engage with fear to build the muscle of courage (5:53) From avoiding stillness to becoming the most isolated person on Earth—how Akshay trained for fear, one small step at a time (7:24) The “two darts” of suffering, and how to stop adding to your pain (10:13) Neuroscience-backed tools to create space between you and fear (12:15) Akshay’s method for preparing like an astronaut (13:39) The quote that changed everything for him: “The cave you fear to enter holds the treasure you seek.” (15:03) How moving to three different countries pulled Akshay into drugs, self-harm, and the identity of “the crazy one” (18:01) How becoming a Marine revealed the purity and paradox of human suffering (19:35) What makes suffering alone so different from suffering with others (21:38) The uncomfortable truth: most of us do anything to avoid being alone with ourselves (25:43) The biggest fear no one talks about: stillness (27:28) You don’t need a cave, start training your stillness in a closet (28:11) The mission: 1,750 miles solo across Antarctica, dragging 420 lbs for 115 days (30:02) Why too much challenge blocks flow (32:21) How snow, pain, and presence shaped his mindset, and the mantra that kept him going (33:38) The real barrier to consistency? Knowing you have to do it again tomorrow (35:24) Day 58: gut pain, possible death, and the moment he finally had to stop (36:17) How to be with the emotional weight you carry, grief, guilt, shame, and how to stop minimizing it (38:40) The truth about the past: you don’t have to live in a story you didn’t choose (40:23) Pushing the edge of identity and why opposites can (and must) coexist (43:06) Akshay’s most powerful mantra: “I am awakened to the truth that all of reality is an illusion.” (45:16) His #1 advice if you want to step into your next level: “Be still with yourself.” (48:17)   RESOURCES: @fearvana www.fearvana.com Order your copy of Fearvana Watch Blackhawk Down Read Blackhawk Down   Never miss an episode. Subscribe to get notified about what's coming next. Follow us @TheVitalistPodcast www.TheVitalistPodcast.com Visit us @KinfolkOptimalLiving www.KinfolkOptimalLiving.com

In a world that praises the hustle and drowns us in noise, what if the most rebellious thing you could do… is get quiet?  In this soulful conversation, Dr. Keiko sits down with Elaine Glass, author of Get Quiet, transformational coach, and former dental hygienist, to explore what actually happens when we stop doing and start listening. Elaine has sat with over 40,000 people. She’s heard their fears, their stress, their longing for peace. And what she’s found is something we all need to hear: healing doesn’t happen in the noise. It happens in the stillness. You’ll hear the story of the day Elaine’s life shifted when, in the middle of a painful divorce and autoimmune burnout, she stumbled upon a labyrinth just half a mile from her home. That walk changed everything. It wasn’t just a path through the desert. It was a path back to herself. Whether you're a mom, healer, high-achiever, or human just trying to hold it together, this episode will meet you where you are.  Because in a world that constantly asks for more, choosing to slow down, listen in, and get quiet? That’s not weakness. That’s your quiet rebellion. And honestly? It might be the most powerful thing you do all week.   HIGHLIGHTS: How a heavy metal-loving, high-energy woman learned to get quiet. (1:30) What inspired Get Quiet and Elaine’s journey in reclaiming her inner peace. (2:20) Can you get quiet at a rock concert? The role of nature, environment, and embracing change. (3:27) The insight gained from 40,000 dental chairside conversations: “I just want people to get quiet.” (4:33) The moment Elaine found the labyrinth that would change her life. (6:09) What is a labyrinth and why are more people building them in their backyards? (7:41) How to enter the labyrinth (and life) with childlike innocence. (8:48) The first message Elaine heard in the labyrinth: Surrender. (9:11) Reconnecting to intuition after losing it to life’s noise and how the labyrinth woke her up. (11:29) Why the labyrinth always delivers a message and how it helps women release what they’re carrying. (14:06) How hearing these soul-messages changed Elaine as a woman. (15:16) The first path of the Get Quiet method: Nurturing your body. (15:48) Why women disconnect from their bodies and how to come back through movement and breath. (16:50) “For the first time, I heard myself breathing.” The rebellious simplicity of getting quiet. (17:54) The trap of “more, more, more” and how it numbs us from what really matters. (20:06) The second path: clearing your physical environment. (21:30) Letting go of memory clutter and finding safety in your body instead of your belongings. (23:03) Two truths every woman needs to hear about putting herself first. (24:37) Elaine’s surprising parenting advice: focus on your relationship, not just your kids. (25:12) From the sideline-yelling mom to the grounded, present one, what her boys noticed. (26:05) What becoming a life coach taught Elaine about healing herself (and her kids). (27:16) From autoimmune issues to vitality; how “getting quiet” allowed Elaine to feel 20 years younger. (29:47) Why “retirement” isn’t the end; Dr. Jeffrey Bland’s beautiful reframe. (30:52) The most difficult (and essential) path: quieting the mind. (32:01) What’s next: Elaine’s vision for building a labyrinth retreat and teaching others to live from soul. (34:26)   RESOURCES Order your copy of Get Quiet  Explore more of Elaine’s work here.  Download Elaine’s 6-minute visualization here.   Never miss an episode. Subscribe to get notified about what's coming next. Follow us @TheVitalistPodcast www.TheVitalistPodcast.com Visit us @KinfolkOptimalLiving www.KinfolkOptimalLiving.com