The Documentary Podcast

Amie Liebowitz interviews matchmaker and dating coach Aleeza Ben Shalom from the Netflix show Jewish Matchmaker. She then goes on her own quest to learn about the traditional and religious values of matchmaking. From a mass dating event to going through her own matchmaking experience, Amie asks herself the question: Is she being open enough to exploring new connections and can tradition save her love life in this modern world?

In Northern Iraq, Yazidi women and girls who have been the victims of brutal sexual enslavement and lost swathes of their family and community to genocide at the hands of IS, are finding an unusual way to heal - boxing. Since 2014, when ISIS began targeting Yazidis because of their religious identity, those who survived the genocide have been confined to internally displaced persons camps in the Kurdish region of Iraq. Here conditions are difficult and the women and girls still struggle to process all that has happened to them. So, in 2018, in the face of limited mental health support, Taban Shoresh and her team took a radical approach by offering boxing training to help the women and girls channel their emotions and anger.

America’s Next Top Model, the reality competition series hosted by Tyra Banks, continues to face criticism years after it stopped airing. And it is not the only reality show that critics say has not aged well. From Cops to The Swan to Mr Beast’s new show Beast Games, reality TV routinely courts controversy. We all know reality shows like The Traitors, Keeping Up with the Kardashians, The Real Housewives and Love Island. But how did the genre become so popular in the first place? We hear from Danielle Lindemann, a sociologist at Lehigh University and the author of True Story: What Reality TV Says About Us. She explains how shows like The Real World and Survivor helped define the genre and unpacks some of the biggest scandals from reality TV history.

Russians who sign up to fight in Ukraine earn big money in salaries and bonuses – and the Kremlin is even more generous to families of those killed in battle. Average compensation packages for a dead son or husband are worth about US$130,000. In less-wealthy Russian provinces, where most recruits are from, that’s enough to turn your life around. Reporter Arsenii Sokolov finds out how the relatives of the tens of thousands of men Russia has lost in the war are spending the money – and asks whether the pay-outs will help create a new “patriotic” middle class that supports Vladimir Putin.He talks to a woman who’s used her “coffin money” to open a restaurant in memory of her dead son – and hears about a craze for ultra-expensive hair-dryers among wives and girlfriends of soldiers from Siberia.Marrying soldiers has become so attractive that women on dating apps often search specifically for men in uniform.But the compensation payouts are also fuelling furious court battles, when divorced or separated fathers who’ve played little role in child rearing suddenly reappear after their sons’ deaths and demand their share of the coffin money. Besides the cash, there are many privileges offered to soldiers and their families, and to bereaved relatives of the fallen. Their children can go to university whatever their grades. And the Kremlin has started a programme called “Time of Heroes” that claims it will fast-track selected returning servicemen into elite positions in local politics and business. But can Putin’s attempt at social engineering really work? And will “deathonomics” – as one economist calls it – really boost the economy of the provinces that have suffered most from the huge death toll?

With its dancing challenges and comedy sketches, it’s no surprise why Tiktok is popular with young Kenyans. It’s also a way for them to make money through the app’s gifting service. But there’s a darker side, where young women – and girls as young as 15 – are selling sexual content on livestreams, with some being recruited and exploited by “digital pimps”. Africa Eye’s Debula Kemoli investigates who is profiting. A spokesperson for Tiktok said in a statement that they have zero tolerance for exploitation. And they enforce strict safety policies, including robust live content rules and moderation in 70 languages, including Swahili. Producers: Nalini Sivathasan and Patrick Clahane Editors: Pete Murimi and Rebecca Henschke Sound engineer: Neil Churchill

Marcin Dudek, a talented artist and former football hooligan from post-communist Poland, dives into his captivating journey of creating a sound sculpture called The Ground Harbours The Soul. He discusses how he transforms the electrifying atmosphere of Tottenham Hotspur stadium into immersive auditory experiences. Topics include the interplay between collective energy and creativity, the role of technology in sound design, and the emotional resonance of sports culture. Listeners can feel the highs and lows of fandom as he crafts a unique sonic narrative.

Soo Min Kim, a Korean journalist, dives into the beauty industry's response to inclusivity issues, discussing how brands are adapting to meet the needs of diverse skin tones. She sheds light on influencer-driven changes and the cultural significance of skincare in Korea. Additionally, Boyd Chibale from BBC Media Action shares insights on how radio helps Zambian farmers face climate change challenges, emphasizing community resilience and innovative farming techniques. A fascinating intersection of beauty and sustainability unfolds!

The lively discussion dives into the world of polyamory, exploring personal stories from individuals in the US and UK. Listeners learn about the dynamic complexities of managing multiple partners, including the joys and challenges that come with it. Jealousy and societal stigma are tackled head-on, revealing the emotional intricacies of such relationships. The speakers highlight the importance of communication and trust, and even share how they navigate celebrations like Valentine's Day with multiple connections. It's a fascinating look at love beyond traditional boundaries.

Emma Slade, also known as Lopen Ani Pema Deki, is a British Buddhist and the first Western woman fully ordained as a bhikshuni in Bhutan. She shares her incredible journey, detailing her transformation from a life in England to embracing Buddhism in Bhutan after a life-altering trauma. The discussion highlights the historic ordination of 144 women, the emotional resonance of the ceremony, and the empowerment of female monastics through improved living conditions and education. Emma's charity work for children with special needs also sheds light on her mission to support marginalized communities.

Sacha Dench, a UN ambassador for migratory species and adventurous paraglider pilot known for soaring alongside swans and vultures, shares captivating stories about these often-misunderstood birds. She discusses the dramatic decline of vultures in India, revealing the shocking impact of a veterinary drug. Sacha highlights international efforts to rehabilitate and conserve these vital scavengers, showcasing their ecological importance and the unique challenges they face, such as poaching and cultural misconceptions, sparking a conversation about the urgent need for their protection.