

The Lavendaire Lifestyle
Aileen Xu
Life is an art. Make it your masterpiece.
The Lavendaire Lifestyle is a podcast on personal growth and lifestyle design. Hosted by Aileen Xu, this podcast shares insight & inspiration on how to shine as your brightest self and create your dream life.
Bi-weekly episodes on Sundays.
The Lavendaire Lifestyle is a podcast on personal growth and lifestyle design. Hosted by Aileen Xu, this podcast shares insight & inspiration on how to shine as your brightest self and create your dream life.
Bi-weekly episodes on Sundays.
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Nov 20, 2024 • 7min
Positive Morning Affirmations for Energy, Motivation & Success ☀️ Start Your Day Right
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Start your day with powerful positive morning affirmations for energy, motivation, and success. These affirmations are designed to boost your energy, ignite your passion, and help you stay focused on achieving your goals. Listen to this daily to reprogram your mind for positivity, confidence, and productivity. Make these affirmations a part of your morning routine to feel energized and motivated every day.
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Nov 19, 2024 • 11min
Powerful Positive Morning Affirmations ☀️ start your day w/ bright beautiful energy
Powerful positive affirmations for self love, gratitude, confidence & joy. Use these morning affirmations to raise your vibration & manifest more abundance in your life. Do this everyday for 21 days to reprogram your mind for positive thinking, and invite positive energy & change into your life. ✨
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Nov 17, 2024 • 48min
267: The Healing Power of Art: Inner Child and Creative Flow with Annie Tarasova
Have you ever wondered how childhood creativity can shape our adult passions? This episode explores the journey of reconnecting with one’s inner child through art and self-discovery. Discover how unexpected paths can lead to fulfilling careers and the importance of embracing support along the way. Tune in to learn about the magic of art as a healing tool and the rituals that enhance creativity!
Annie Tarasova is an independent artist deeply inspired by the mysteries of the Universe. Through her guided journals and beautifully crafted oracle decks, she encourages others to see the magic within and around them, facilitating a safe space for self-exploration.
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TIMESTAMPS
1:52 Annie’s story
13:39 The Inspiration Behind Art
17:48 Annie’s Rituals
27:43 Manifestation
34:13 Nurturing our Inner Child
39:05 The Importance of Community
40:01 Biggest Challenge
41:51 Future Areas of Exploration
45:40 Final Message
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📹The video version of this interview is available on YouTube: Episode 267
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Nov 6, 2024 • 8min
Positive Affirmations for the New Year | Manifest Abundance, Opportunity, Alignment ✨
✨ Join the waitlist for my new app for affirmations & meditations → https://resonance.lavendaire.com
Powerful positive affirmations for the new year, and new beginnings—inviting new energy, abundance and opportunities into your life. Listen to these affirmations for 21 days—use as daily morning affirmations, or reprogram your mind while you sleep.
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Nov 3, 2024 • 57min
266: The Science of Neuroplasticity: Awakening Your Brain’s Potential with Dr. Wendy Suzuki
Dr. Wendy Suzuki, a leading expert in brain plasticity and the first Asian-American Dean at NYU, dives into the fascinating world of neuroplasticity. She shares how physical activity boosts brain health and enhances cognitive abilities. Dr. Suzuki discusses transforming anxiety into a productive force and the significant benefits of meditation. Through engaging anecdotes, she emphasizes the importance of enriched environments and social interactions for mental well-being, while providing practical tips to optimize brain performance and overcome challenges.

Oct 20, 2024 • 1h 5min
265: The Healing Journey: From Conditional to Unconditional Love with Don Miguel Ruiz Jr
What if the journey to healing begins with understanding the stories we tell ourselves? In this powerful episode, we dive deep into the art of self-acceptance and the profound shift that occurs when we break free from the chains of conditional love and societal expectations. Discover how recognizing your triggers is the first step toward mastering your emotional reactions and reclaiming control over your life.
Don Miguel Ruiz Jr. is a Nagual and a Toltec Master of Transformation, descended from the Eagle Knight lineage and the son of don Miguel Ruiz. He combines his family’s wisdom with insights from his own journey to empower others in their quest for personal freedom. His work emphasizes letting go of societal expectations and embracing unconditional self-acceptance and love.
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TIMESTAMPS
1:54 Don Miguel’s story
17:16 Guidance From Others
29:33 Letting Go of Domestication
47:41 Don Miguel’s Journey
55:00 The Mastery of Self
1:01:40 Final Message
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🎙️Complete show notes for this episode here.
📹The video version of this interview is available on YouTube: Episode 265.
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Oct 6, 2024 • 56min
264: The Path to Lasting Fulfillment: Taking Charge of Your Life with Dr. Sara Kuburic (@millennial.therapist)
Have you ever pondered the connection between freedom and responsibility? In this episode, we dive deep into existentialism, exploring how embracing responsibility and authenticity can radically transform our lives. Discover why confronting tough questions about our existence isn't just philosophical but a powerful tool for personal empowerment.
Dr. Sara Kuburic is an existential psychotherapist, consultant, former columnist for USA Today, and author of It’s On Me. She is dedicated to guiding people toward change and supporting them in living authentic, free, and meaningful lives. Her passion for psychology is rooted in her personal experiences of living through wars, navigating complex relationships, and constantly exploring the essence of what it means to be human.
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TIMESTAMPS
1:49 Existential Psychoterapy
2:48 Sara’s Story
9:02 The Role of Responsibility
18:58 Sara’s Book: Key Takeaways
21:59 Identity and Purpose
31:25 Sara’s Personal Journey
40:26 Navigating Suffering
50:54 Embracing Uncertainty
52:54 Final Message
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Sep 22, 2024 • 59min
263: The Impact of Strong Social Networks on Our Health with David Robson
In this lively discussion, David Robson, an award-winning science writer and author of The Laws of Connection, dives into the profound impact of social ties on our health. He reveals how strong relationships can be as vital as exercise for our well-being and addresses common myths surrounding social connections. David shares insights on overcoming psychological barriers like social anxiety, the power of vulnerability, and the importance of gratitude. He encourages listeners to rekindle their curiosity and engage genuinely with their social networks for a richer life.

Sep 8, 2024 • 59min
262: Change Your Life Through Toltec Wisdom with Don Jose Ruiz
How can we live authentically and release suffering? In this episode, we explore these questions with Don Jose Ruiz, son of Don Miguel Ruiz, author of "The Four Agreements." Don Jose highlights that viewing life as a dream and grasping the concepts of life and death are crucial for transcending suffering. Through his own journey of overcoming addiction and temporary blindness, he shows that true freedom lies in unlearning limiting beliefs and seeing beyond life's illusions.
Don Jose Ruiz is a renowned Toltec Master of Transformation and a contemporary Shaman. As a direct descendant of the Eagle Knight Toltecs, he carries forward a rich lineage of wisdom. He is the son of Don Miguel Ruiz, the acclaimed author of the New York Times bestseller The Four Agreements. Don Jose Ruiz has authored The Fifth Agreement among his six other influential works. Together with his family, he conducts workshops and guides transformative journeys across the globe.
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TIMESTAMPS
1:40 What is Toltec Wisdom?
2:52 Early Experiences
8:12 The Most Important Lesson
16:18 Discovering the True You
17:18 Addiction to Suffering
20:57 Healing Yourself
28:09 The Five Agreements Explained
37:28 Living Authentically
45:02 Don Jose’s Lifestyle Choices
54:38 Understanding the Divine Feminine
56:21 Final Message
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🎙️Complete show notes for this episode here.
📹The video version of this interview is available on YouTube: Episode 262.
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Aug 28, 2024 • 18min
Positive Affirmations for Love & Healthy Relationships
Discover the transformative power of positive affirmations to attract love and nurture healthy relationships. Engage in a 21-day practice designed to reprogram your mindset and enhance self-worth. Learn how to create meaningful connections and open your heart to positivity. With guided affirmations, you can cultivate the love and support you truly deserve.