

The Lavendaire Lifestyle
Aileen Xu
Life is an art. Make it your masterpiece.
The Lavendaire Lifestyle is a podcast on personal growth and lifestyle design. Hosted by Aileen Xu, this podcast shares insight & inspiration on how to shine as your brightest self and create your dream life.
Bi-weekly episodes on Sundays.
The Lavendaire Lifestyle is a podcast on personal growth and lifestyle design. Hosted by Aileen Xu, this podcast shares insight & inspiration on how to shine as your brightest self and create your dream life.
Bi-weekly episodes on Sundays.
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Jun 16, 2025 • 8min
5 Minute Guided Morning Meditation for Positive Energy ☀️ (2025 version)
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To celebrate this meditation reaching 10M views, here is an updated, slower & calmer version of the favorite 5 Minute Guided Morning Meditation for Positive Energy.
Start your day with this 5 minute meditation for positive energy, refreshing your energy with visualization and positive affirmations. This 5 min meditation will help you cultivate gratitude, positivity and motivation for your day. Great for beginners and all levels.
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Jun 15, 2025 • 55min
282: How to Make Better Decisions Using Human Design with Erin Claire Jones
In this engaging discussion, Erin Claire Jones, a leading expert in Human Design, shares insights on how understanding your unique energy type can enhance decision-making in work and life. She breaks down the five human design types—Generators, Manifesting Generators, Manifestors, Projectors, and Reflectors—illustrating their distinct strategies for navigating challenges. Erin emphasizes the power of trusting your intuition and encourages listeners to embrace their individuality for a more authentic and fulfilling existence.

Jun 1, 2025 • 60min
281: Vex King: Transforming Pain into Purpose & Finding Self Love
Vex King, a number 1 bestselling author and coach, shares his profound journey from a troubled childhood to becoming a beacon of self-love and healing. He discusses transforming pain into purpose, emphasizing that the love we seek is often found within. Vex delves into self-discovery tools like journaling and meditation, the evolution of manifestation techniques, and the intricate dynamics of love. With empowering insights, he highlights the importance of authenticity and the balance between personal growth and creative expression.

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May 25, 2025 • 41min
Bonus Episode: Becoming the Artist of Your Own Life: Aileen Xu on Embracing Your True Identity and Creativity
Aileen Xu, host of a popular personal growth podcast, shares her journey from feeling invisible to inspiring millions through creativity. She discusses the struggle of staying true to dreams amid external doubt and the importance of self-acceptance. Aileen reveals how changing her hairstyle symbolized personal growth and identity shifts. Together with media personality Erika Casupanan, they explore the impact of social media metrics on self-worth and the joy of authentic connections with their audience.

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May 18, 2025 • 50min
280: A New Approach to Success: How Tiny Experiments Can Transform Your Life with Anne-Laure Le Cunff
Anne-Laure Le Cunff, a neuroscientist and founder of Ness Labs, discusses her journey from working at Google to exploring a gentler approach to success. She introduces the concept of tiny experiments, encouraging listeners to redefine their relationship with failure and perfectionism. By embracing curiosity and an experimental mindset, individuals can foster personal growth and self-discovery. The conversation emphasizes viewing uncertainty as an opportunity and prioritizing creativity and play in daily life.

May 11, 2025 • 44min
Bonus Episode: Staying True to Yourself Through Every Season with Aileen Xu
Join Cathy Heller, a transformational coach and author, as she dives into a heartfelt conversation with Aileen Xu about embracing authenticity and creativity. They explore how personal struggles can lead to connection and purpose. Aileen shares insights on the power of music, dance, and journaling for emotional well-being. The duo discusses manifestation, the journey toward self-discovery, and the importance of aligning with true desires. This inspiring dialogue reminds us to create a life that resonates with our deepest truths.

May 4, 2025 • 1h 3min
279: Energy Mastery: Unlock Your Confidence & Express Your True Self with Ariel Niu
Ariel Niu, a thought leader in self and social dynamics, shares her journey to mastering personal energy. She discusses how awareness of inner and outer energy can transform social interactions. Listeners will learn about the trifecta of intention, breathing, and balance for authenticity. Ariel emphasizes the link between self-love and confidence, encouraging vulnerability as a path to genuine connection. Additionally, she shares insights from her meditation practice and the importance of setting daily intentions to cultivate a fulfilling lifestyle.

Apr 20, 2025 • 55min
278: 5 Powerful Shifts That Will Change How You Feel (Backed by Science) with Dr. Judith Joseph
What if the key to your happiness isn’t chasing a perfect life—but learning to collect daily points of joy? In this episode, Dr. Judith Joseph shares the science behind how we feel and introduces the 5Vs—a framework to help you reclaim your joy, validate your emotions, and reconnect with your true self. She breaks down why high-functioning depression often goes unnoticed, and how we can shift our beliefs, honor our needs, and design lives that actually feel good.
Dr. Judith Joseph is a board certified psychiatrist and researcher who specializes in mental health and trauma. Her debut book, High Functioning: Overcome Your Hidden Depression and Reclaim Your Joy, is the first of its kind on high functioning depression.
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TIMESTAMPS
1:54 Dr. Judith’s Journey Into Mental Health
3:34 The Aha Moment That Changed Everything
6:23 What Depression Really Means
12:08 High-Functioning Depression
14:49 Preventing Emotional Burnout
17:32 The 5 V’s Methodology
29:19 Becoming More Joyful
33:27 The Science Of Happiness
38:26 Dealing With Loved Ones
43:37 Dr. Judith’s Approach To Life
53:02 Final Message
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Apr 6, 2025 • 1h 1min
277: The Alter Ego Method That Will Make You Unstoppable with Todd Herman
What if you could reinvent yourself and unlock your full potential by stepping into a powerful alter ego? In this episode, Todd Herman explores how creating an alter ego can help you shift your identity, mindset, and behaviors for success. He shares how this method enables individuals to overcome self-doubt and break through limitations. By using specific tools and frameworks, anyone can transform their approach to challenges and become the person they aspire to be.
Todd Herman is an author, performance advisor, and entrepreneur. For 22 years, his training company, Herman Performance Systems, has focused on helping achievers and ambitious people in sports & business achieve wildly outrageous goals while enjoying the process. Todd’s company provides a suite of programs serving Olympic athletes, Entrepreneurs and Leaders. His program, 90 Day Year, a performance system designed to create remarkable results for business owners, has won the Stevie Award for 'Global Leadership & Skill Development Program of the Year’, twice.
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TIMESTAMPS
2:32 Todd’s Journey
6:11 Laying the Foundation
8:59 How to Build Momentum
11:50 The Alter Ego Concept Explained
19:25 Advice for Those Struggling
27:06 Overcoming Resistance
31:27 Creating Your Alter Ego
42:54 The 90-Day Program
49:03 Balancing Compassion & Toughness
53:19 What Needs to Change
57:51 Final Words of Wisdom
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Mar 23, 2025 • 57min
276: Tap Into Divine Wisdom: Akashic Records & Light Codes with Amy Robeson
Have you ever wondered how to tap into your inner wisdom and unlock your true potential? In this episode, Amy Robeson guides us through the transformative world of the Akashic Records and Light Codes, showing how they can bring clarity and support to every aspect of our lives. She explains how to access this powerful energy for healing and personal growth, whether you’re seeking answers in relationships, career, or your inner journey.
Amy Robeson, Akashic Record Master Teacher/Healer, and founder of Sacred Awakening empowers people through her powerful Akashic Records program. Amy speaks Light Codes and Light Language, and she shows you how to walk your divine path.
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TIMESTAMPS
02:07 Amy’s Story
09:13 Akashic Records
21:46 Live Practice Session
31:18 Crystalline Energy
33:29 Light Codes
36:00 Live Practice Session
45:19 Amy’s Spiritual Practices
49:49 Manifesting Abundance
52:28 What Inspires Amy
55:25 Final Words of Wisdom
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🎙️Complete show notes for this episode here
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