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Latest episodes

Aug 8, 2024 • 31min
Growing Your 7 Figure Business
Charles Read delves into his entrepreneurial journey, starting from a young age selling candy to transitioning from corporate life to building his own successful business. He shares valuable advice for aspiring entrepreneurs, emphasizing the importance of testing the waters with a side gig in the gig economy. Charles also reflects on the unique challenges of working with a spouse in business, highlighting the need for clear communication and establishing boundaries to maintain a healthy work-life balance.Charles offers timeless wisdom on entrepreneurship, reminding listeners that success is a marathon, not a sprint, and that extraordinary results come from consistent effort over time. He also underscores the importance of going the extra mile for clients, a practice that sets businesses apart and leads to lasting success. This episode is filled with practical insights and personal stories that resonate with anyone navigating the entrepreneurial path.Highlights of the Podcast00:59 - Writing a Book03:05 - Importance of Early Tax and Payroll Knowledge06:17 - Hiring and Employee Classification09:08 - Entrepreneur vs. CEO Mindset13:06 - Hiring Decisions16:07 - Challenges of Being Analytical18:03 - Strengths in Compliance and IRS Negotiations:19:05 - Risks and Investments20:22 - Entrepreneurial Risk-Taking:21:14 - Entrepreneurial Journey Beginnings22:39 - Advice for Aspiring Entrepreneurs23:56 - Working with a Spouse in Business28:12 - Communication in Business Relationships29:16 - Entrepreneurial Wisdom

Aug 6, 2024 • 37min
Does the Universe Work in My Favor?
Enlightening conversation, Eric McHugh delves into the transformative power of meditation and manifestation. He shares his meditation routines, including intensive silent sessions, binaural beats, and guided practices by Tony Robbins, emphasizing the role of specificity and positivity in achieving goals. Eric discusses how clear intentions and gratitude can significantly impact personal and professional success.The dialogue also explores the long-term vision of building decade-long plans, stressing the importance of adaptability and maintaining a clear North Star. Eric's insights on authenticity, serving others, and the interconnectedness of actions and outcomes provide valuable guidance for those pursuing ambitious goals while staying grounded in joy and gratitude.Highlights of the Podcast00:26 - Eric McHugh’s Background00:31 - IQ and Mindset02:06 - Evaluating Empathy03:12 - Defining Success and Wins04:35 - Building Software Companie05:16 - Getting Feedback06:31 - Consciousness and Emotional Frequency08:44 - Handling Low Points17:39 - Meditation Practice20:15 - Eric McHugh's Meditation Routine21:03 - Types of Meditation21:58 - Tony Robbins Meditations22:28 - Specificity in Manifestation23:00 - Focus on Positive Outcomes24:45 - Navigating Long-Term Goals 28:24 - Building in Decades31:28 - Confidence and Adaptation32:29 - Authenticity and Service33:44 - Gratitude and Joy35:06 - Specificity in Gratitude

Aug 2, 2024 • 47min
Get Out of Your Own Way
Aaron Velky discusses the importance of moving with intention and clarity in one's personal and professional life. He emphasizes the concept of "slow is smooth, smooth is fast," advocating for a deliberate approach to progress rather than frantic activity. Velky explains that understanding one's long-term goals and cutting out unproductive activities can lead to more meaningful and effective actions. He highlights the significance of finding and focusing on the key aspects of one's business or life that truly matter, suggesting that clarity in vision can streamline decision-making and enhance overall success.Additionally, the power of words and mindset in shaping actions and outcomes is emphasized. The transformative potential of asking the right questions, particularly the "how" question, is highlighted as a way to unlock new possibilities and solutions. This perspective underscores the value of surrounding oneself with diverse viewpoints and continuously auditing beliefs and emotions. Achieving more requires a deep understanding of oneself, intentional changes, and the courage to face and dismantle limiting beliefs.Highlights of the Podcast00:51 - Paul's Experience and Reflections02:21- Aaron's Coaching Philosophy05:34 - Standards and Performance12:45 - Flow State and Alter Ego19:31 - Control and Influence21:02 - The impact of speed on progress21:45 - Finding the Right Dials22:50 - Power of "How"26:07 - Mindset and Beliefs30:43 - Getting Out of Your Own Way34:03 - Permission and Small Changes40:09 - Time and Presence 41:02 - Living in the Moment

Jul 30, 2024 • 37min
Reduce Burnout and Optimize your Life
Our guest Rob Natale delves into the nuances of financial planning, particularly for high-income professionals like those in the medical field. They discuss the advantages of leveraging tax incentives and passive cash flow to achieve financial freedom and the importance of aligning investments with personal end goals. Rob shares his experiences helping clients transition from traditional employment to private practice, emphasizing the role of additional income in providing the confidence to explore entrepreneurial opportunities.The conversation also covers practical strategies for managing student loan debt and making informed investment decisions. Rob highlights the significance of mindset and the value of surrounding oneself with like-minded, ambitious individuals to achieve success. They provide a balanced perspective on enjoying life while making prudent financial choices, offering listeners actionable advice to navigate their financial journeys effectively.Highlights of the Podcast00:27 - Helping Medical Professionals01:44 - Mindset Shift for Retirement and Investment05:21 - Burnout and Work-Life Balance in the Medical Field10:08 - ABC Method for Combating Burnout11:03 - Competence and Balancing Career and Investments15:45 - Resources for Real Estate Education18:33 - Evaluating Different Asset Classes20:28 - Introduction to Tax Incentives and Passive Cash Flow21:28 - Importance of Understanding End Goals22:46 - Achieving Financial Freedom24:12 - Transition from Medical Field to Private Practice25:27 - Determining Financial Goals and Investment Strategies29:37 - Balancing Enjoyment and Investment31:55 - Student Loan Debt Management32:09 - Arbitrage and Investment Risks34:48 - Mindset and Surrounding Yourself with the Right People36:42 - Conclusion and Final Thoughts

Jul 25, 2024 • 34min
Rethink Your Definition of Success
We talk about why having a clear vision for your future can be more valuable than setting strict goals. It’s about finding what truly motivates you and investing in yourself. We also touch on how success often comes from being adaptable rather than sticking to a rigid routine.Listen in as we discuss ways to balance setting goals with staying flexible. We cover the benefits of coaching and the importance of celebrating your progress. The focus is on finding a personal vision that drives you, rather than following a one-size-fits-all plan.Highlights of the Podcast00:07 - Introduction by Paul Graham03:43 - Introduction to Patrick Menefee04:51 - Patrick's Journey into Coaching07:09 - Defining Coaching and Its Impact08:18 - Taking Coaching Seriously11:03 - Taking Coaching Seriously as a Participant12:18 - Choosing Between Reading and Coaching13:47 - Investing in Coaching15:50 - Financial Considerations and Self-Worth18:12 - Analytical Perspective on Coaching Investment20:06 - Future Vision and Opportunity Cost20:40 - Coaching and Investment21:27 - Navigating Self-Limiting Beliefs22:36 - Intention-Based Goals24:54 - Dedication to Change26:06 - Creating Space for Reflection28:42 - The Role of Identity in Habits33:05 - Mindset and Material Goals35:32 - Balancing Practical and Inspirational Goals39:45 - Vision and Flexibility

Jul 23, 2024 • 29min
Serve More, Earn More: The Secret to Profit through People
In this episode, we explore the challenging dynamics of helping others while grappling with personal discomfort. Our guest provides a blunt perspective on why comfort should not be a priority when it comes to making a difference in people’s lives. He emphasizes that living a meaningful life involves stepping beyond one’s own comfort zone and focusing on the needs of others. His no-nonsense advice highlights the importance of pushing through personal unease to create lasting positive change for those in need.Additionally, the discussion delves into the significance of maintaining a selfless mindset in business and personal endeavors. Our guest shares an inspiring story of how one individual transformed their life by shifting their focus from financial gain to genuinely serving others. This narrative underscores the idea that true success comes from solving problems for people, not merely seeking profit. Through this conversation, listeners are encouraged to reflect on their own motivations and consider how their actions can lead to both personal fulfillment and broader impact.Highlights of the Podcast01:39 - Nicky's Greeting and Origin Story04:45 - The Value of Freedom05:22 - Paul's Agreement and Reflection08:18 - Nicky's Story of a Client's Transformation10:39 - Advice on Mindset Shift11:50 - Comfort in Helping Others12:11 - Discomfort and Service13:15 - Focus on Helping Others14:11 - Conversations with God15:35 - Making a Difference19:54 - Business Goals vs. Serving Others23:40 - Emotional Attachment to Goals27:00 - Personal Experience and Advice

Jul 18, 2024 • 36min
Believing in Yourself: The Key to Business Success
Insights were shared on the crucial aspects of business support and growth. The discussion highlighted the significance of emotional backing alongside professional services, emphasizing the role of accountability through business coaching or advisory roles. Timing was also a key consideration, with advice on when businesses should consider bringing in external advisors to enhance stability and facilitate growth. Additionally, the conversation delved into collaborative practices among legal and financial professionals, stressing the importance of aligned strategies and comprehensive support frameworks for sustainable business operations and decision-making.Highlights of the Podcast00:07 - Introduction01:20 - Personal Experience with Legal Oversights02:30 - Mindset and Business Growth03:27 - Introduction of Matthew Fornaro04:20 - Business Growth Observations05:35 - Legal Preparation for Startups06:45 - Frequency of Legal Consultation08:42 - Networking and Legal Expertise10:55 - Due Diligence in Business Acquisitions13:25 - Completing Due Diligence14:17 - Legal Involvement with Lenders16:46 - Revisiting Contracts18:36 - Advice for Business Owners19:24 - Belief in Self and Business Success21:00 - Planning and Execution21:52 - Emotional Support in Business22:21 - Value of Business Coaching23:42 - Timing for Hiring Advisors26:00 - Collaboration Between Professionals28:19 - Qualities of a Good Lawyer33:04 - Mindset for Success

Jul 16, 2024 • 40min
Making the Noise Go Away: Define Success and Focus on What's Working
Join us for an inspiring episode recorded in Costa Rica, featuring Samuel Moses, the founder of the thriving custom sock company, Socrates Socks. Discover his unconventional career path from accounting to consulting, and finally to creating a successful sock business. The discussion explores the unpredictable nature of success, the importance of staying focused, and the journey of building a business from the ground up. Gain valuable insights on pivoting, managing a growing team, and balancing innovation with consistency. Whether you're in your 20s, 30s, or beyond, this episode offers lessons on embracing curiosity and navigating your professional journey.Samuel Moses emphasizes the significance of passion and effective customer service in business. He shares how Socrates Socks prioritizes responsive and branded customer interactions to foster a positive customer experience. Moses discusses the importance of starting small and consistently improving, drawing from his experiences in consulting to grow a successful sock company. Learn about the value of repeat business, sustainability, and practical advice on time management and scaling a business. Tune in for a conversation filled with entrepreneurial wisdom and actionable tips for business growth.Highlights of the Podcast00:07 - Introduction00:50 - Paul's Career Journey02:31 - Conversation with Samuel Moses03:10 - Samuel's Career Path06:37 - Consulting Insights10:40 - Entrepreneurial Decision-Making12:15 - Lessons Learned14:58 - Growth and Focus21:29 - How do you foster good customer experiences?21:59 - Importance of Branded Touches23:53 - Passion in Accounting and Career Shift24:22 - Passion and Business Growth25:41 - Turning Ideas into Businesses27:31 - Turning Ideas into Action28:52 - Building Brick by Brick29:42 - Time Management in Business31:01 - Emotional Challenges and Cash Flow Management32:35 - Long-Term Customer Value34:01 - Customizing Labels and Packaging35:27 - Future Focus and Team Building37:28 - Reconnecting with Former Colleagues38:34 - Transition from Consulting to Socks

Jul 11, 2024 • 44min
Walking for 12 Hours in a Foreign Country?
Mario shared his unique approach to business, emphasizing the importance of purpose and fun in his ventures. He discussed how he makes private lending exciting by immersing himself in markets like Spain, using his extroverted nature to build connections and avoid the typical monotony of finance. Mario's philosophy revolves around enjoying the journey as much as the destination, constantly seeking new challenges to stay motivated and engaged.Reflecting on a transformative experience, Mario recounted a 12-hour walk through Barcelona inspired by adventurer Cody O'Brien. This journey exemplified his commitment to personal growth through challenges, navigating physical discomfort and mental fatigue with resilience and a positive mindset. Mario believes that embracing discomfort leads to profound personal development, a principle he applies both in business and in life. His story serves as a testament to the transformative power of pushing personal limits and maintaining a proactive approach to overcoming obstacles.Highlights of the Podcast00:08 - Introduction 01:31 - Purpose and Fun in Business02:25 - Motivation and Journey04:23 - Transition to Spain05:12 - The 12-Hour Walk Experienc08:21 - Internal Negotiation and Mindset11:58 - Loving the Walk13:55 - Biggest Takeaway16:25 - Recommendations for Others 21:15 - Living in the Present and Inner Peace23:29 - Aligning Income with Lifestyle25:40 - Perspective on Wealth and Money30:09 - Definition of Extreme Living32:32 - Personal Growth and Self-Love

Jul 9, 2024 • 39min
Lessons from interning with a billionaire
Explore Jim Manning's journey through insightful conversations on finding purpose and fulfillment beyond financial success. Discover how Jim navigates the world of real estate investments, emphasizing passive income strategies that liberate time and create financial freedom. His reflections on motivation delve into shifting from fear-driven actions to purpose-driven endeavors, drawing parallels to iconic moments like Indiana Jones evading the boulder in 'Temple of Doom'.Throughout the discussion, Jim emphasizes the importance of measuring success not just by financial gains, but by the impact on personal relationships and community. His perspective offers a refreshing take on entrepreneurship, urging listeners to align their endeavors with a deeper sense of purpose for lasting satisfaction and joy.Highlights of the Podcast00:08 - Introduction and Background01:38 - Early Influences and Perspective Shift04:12 - Career Growth and Challenges06:09 - Emotional and Spiritual Growth14:28 - Transition to Impactful Investments17:46 - Finding Contentment19:07 - Faith and Intuition20:38 - Perseverance and Purpose22:30 - Learning from Adversity25:19 - Differentiating Happiness and Joy26:45 - The Stockdale Paradox28:49 - Gratitude and Spiritual Growth32:29 - Energy Source and Motivation34:12 - Purpose and Motivation35:15 - Measuring Success by Sacrifices36:22 - Inspiration from Family