The Coaching Inn

We asked you to contact us if you wanted to share your learning from reading Simplifying Coaching. Executive Coach Fran Smith contacted us from Brazil. Listen to some of the benefits of Fran simplifying her own coaching.  Fran is especially interested in coaches working in a second language: I see coaches who could be working in a second language and they aren't because they think their English isn't perfect. It doesn't have to be when you do less! Do contact Fran if you want to be part of that movement! Catch up on all the Book Group Episodes here And we'd love you to drop a review on Amazon or GoodReads Ask your questions and share observations by commenting on this episode, or email info@3dcoaching.com. Get a signed copy from www.3dcoaching.com/shop   Keywords coaching, coaching journey, listening skills, coaching in a second language, coaching mastery, cultural dynamics, transformative insights, coaching practice, coaching evolution, presence in coaching        

In our 100th episode, Claire talks with her own coaching supervisor Fiona Adamson, and Fiona's co-author Jane Brendgen about their new book Mindfulness-Based Relational Supervision: Mutual Learning and Transformation.    They explore the themes of coaching supervision, the importance of relational mindfulness, and the transformative power of love and vulnerability in learning. The discussion highlights the human connection in supervision, the role of courage, and the significance of improvisation in coaching conversations. The episode culminates in reflections on wisdom and the journey of becoming more authentic in professional relationships. What is supervision anyway - and another perspective on the importance of being human in coaching. Contact Fiona and Jane: Fiona Adamson Jane Brendgen   Keywords Mindfulness, Coaching, Supervision, Relational Learning, Vulnerability, Transformation, Human Connection, Love, Courage, Improvisation  

Today Claire is talking with Josephine Knowles who emailed info@3dcoaching.com with a question: I would love to reflect on how coaching can be useful in terms of power and powerlessness and working with those facing survival sex/sexual exploitation   So we said come to The Coaching Inn and let’s talk… Jose is also a teacher of Argentinian Tango so there's some great insights on partnership and coaching as a dance. 'We need to get over ourselves.  And then start working with people' “If you have come here to help me you are wasting your time, but if you have come because your liberation is bound up with mine, then let us work together.” - Lilla Watson Takeaways Coaching can be a valuable tool in working with individuals facing powerlessness and trauma, as it offers a partnership approach that empowers rather than disempowers. The coach's role is to hold space for the client, honoring their personal power and allowing them to explore their own insights and solutions. Coaching is an art that requires presence, connection, and improvisation, similar to Argentine tango. Coaches should reflect on their own power and privilege, and approach coaching with humility and a focus on the other person's needs. It is important to ask clients what they need in each moment and co-create the coaching process with them. Coaching is not about fixing or rescuing, but about empowering clients to find their own path forward.     Some links 3D's Transforming Conversations Coaching is like the Argentine Tango - an art where every moment is improvised Josephine Knowles If you have a question about an aspect of coaching where you’d like to dig deeper, let’s talk at The Coaching Inn. Email us on info@3dcoaching.com Thinking about this together out loud will enable other coaches to learn and make their own meaning.    Beyond the Streets Twitter @beyondstreets Facebook @beyondthestreets Instagram @beyondthestreets Other events from beyond the Streets: A Hidden History Of Women In The East End: The Alternative Jack The Ripper Tour   Keywords dance of coaching, coaching, power, powerlessness, survival, trauma, partnership, holding space, Argentine tango, connection, improvisation, sensing, reflection, privilege, humility, dance of coaching 

Today Claire is talking with coach Nicky Chambers who emailed info@3dcoaching.com with some lovely feedback, and a question: What are your thoughts on sensing, and on intuition? So we said come to The Coaching Inn and let’s talk…   Takeaways Coaching is about being with the thinker, not controlling the process. Intuition and sensing are distinct; sensing is present in the room, while intuition often comes from outside. Effective coaching requires a balance of control and partnership. Vibrational listening enhances the coaching experience by tuning into the thinker's needs. Cultural differences can influence coaching styles and approaches. Timing is crucial; interventions should be offered when they are useful to the client. Offering insights should be done cleanly and without attachment. Learning from mistakes is a vital part of the coaching journey. Mastery in coaching involves simplicity and clarity in communication. The dance of coaching is a partnership where both contribute to the process.   Some links The video that got Nicky thinking  Liquid Leadership and John and Johannes are on our Coaching Presence Playlist on YouTube Contact Nicky Chambers via LinkedIn If you have a question about an aspect of coaching where you’d like to dig deeper, let’s talk at The Coaching Inn. Email us on info@3dcoaching.com Thinking about this together out loud will enable other coaches to learn and make their own meaning.    Keywords coaching, intuition, sensing, vibrational listening, partnership, mastery, cultural differences, coaching styles, coaching interventions, learning  

'Coaching is the first fully egalitarian approach to human change we have ever seen' says Nick Bolton. Nick founded Animas Coaching and the International Centre for Coaching Supervision. Plenty of nuggets in today's conversation with Claire - putting in, meaning making and humility. Nick quotes Yallom who says that 'every contact leaves a trace'. What trace has this left in you?   Takeaways Coaching is about helping people face their current truth and take personal agency in moving forward. The term 'life coaching' can be limiting and misleading, as coaching is a much broader and deeper practice. Coaching is an epistemological position that challenges the idea of expertise and emphasizes the exploration of meaning. Humility and trust are essential qualities for coaches, as they allow for a collaborative and egalitarian approach to coaching. Supervision is crucial for coaches, especially when working with deep and personal issues, and it should be a norm in the coaching profession. Belonging is a complex concept, and coaches often navigate the tension between belonging and not belonging. Every contact leaves a trace, and meaningful conversations can have a lasting impact on individuals. Contact Nick through Linked In   Keywords coaching, truth, personal agency, life coaching, epistemological position, humility, trust, supervision, belonging, meaning  

'Mastery is about expanding your range as a coach'. Today, Claire Pedrick MCC talks to J Val Hastings MCC about the connection between coaching mastery and Harry Potter. Find out what made Val take 8 years of mentor coaching on his journey to MCC and hear his top tips for coaches seeking to become even better.   takeaways Mastery is the dance you don't learn in a classroom. Masterful conversations are about partnership and presence. Belief in the process is essential for effective coaching. Continuous learning and feedback are crucial for mastery. Mastery involves expanding your range as a coach. The nuances in coaching conversations can lead to transformation. It's important to embrace the discomfort in coaching. Growth often comes from taking risks on the skinny branch. Mastery is not a destination but an ongoing journey. Engaging in parallel pursuits can enhance coaching skills.   Keywords coaching, mastery, coaching conversations, presence, intuition, belief, trust, growth, feedback, learning  

"We've really neglected attention and awareness, which are just beautiful capacities that we have within us." A great follow up to Claire's conversation with Tünde, Mindfulness Practitioner Shaun Lambert talks about attentiveness paying attention and awareness offering nuggets that you can apply to every day life and to conversations.  'We can reperceive even when there are no options'. https://shaunlambert.co.uk   We also talked about Detoxing the Ego by Steven Sylvester   Takeaways Attentiveness and mindfulness are essential in our fast-paced, information-driven world. Being present in the moment and paying attention to our bodies, senses, and surroundings can lead to healing and well-being. Mindfulness of God is a unique aspect of mindfulness from a faith perspective. Mindfulness can be beneficial for young people struggling with mental health issues, providing them with tools to access their creativity and well-being. Authentic relationships and compassionate conversations are crucial in supporting young people and helping them find purpose and meaning. Mindfulness has the power to transform our perspectives, reduce anxiety, and open us up to new possibilities. Mindfulness and creativity are closely connected, and accessing our creativity can bring joy and fulfillment to our lives. Keywords attentiveness, mindfulness, mental health, faith, young people, creativity

"Coaching presence is about the non-verbal relationship between coach and client."   In today's episode, Claire is in conversation with human being, coach and academic Tünde Erdös author of Coaching Presence: Understanding the Power of the Non-Verbal Relationship. 'We don't know what presence is. We are on the cusp of understanding... think 'what else could I notice but I'm not' linkedin.com/in/tündeerdös We also mentioned A Guide to Third Generation Coaching: Narrative-Collaborative Theory and Practice Hardcover by Reinhard Stelter Takeaways Coaching presence is about the non-verbal relationship between coach and client. Embracing our humanity as coaches and being open to learning from clients is essential. Third-generation coaching emphasizes collaborative and relational meaning-making. Paying attention to non-verbal cues and the impact of the body is crucial in coaching. Coaches should be curious and continuously reflect on their practice and identity. Keywords coaching presence, non-verbal relationship, journey, humbling moment, academic, collaborative, relational meaning-making, humanity, third-generation coaching, non-verbal cues, body  

Claire Pedrick MCC and Ruth Bennett PCC ponder some useful things to think about when you're choosing your coaching CPD (Continuing Coach Education) so that it serves you, the people you're coaching and your organisation. They explore the balance between personal and professional growth, the importance of finding the right learning paths, and the courage required to engage in challenging topics. They explore the significance of community support in learning, the need for depth over breadth in CPD, and the value of reflection in the coaching journey. Listeners are encouraged to consider their own CPD choices and the criteria that guide them.   Keywords CPD, professional development, personal growth, coaching, learning, continuous education, coaching community, depth vs breadth, reflective practice, coaching journey  

At The Coaching Inn today, Claire talks with Jeff Matthews from The Madison Group about what actually is coaching anyway. We dig a bit deeper into power and partnership, and explore interest and disinterest and make a deepening commitment to explore our own privilege. Contact jeff@the-madison-group.co.uk  Books we mention: Me and White Supremacy by Layla Saad Jews Don't Count by David Baddiel Why I'm No Longer Talking to White People About Race by Renni Eddo-Lodge   Keywords coaching, power dynamics, coaching terminology, interest and disinterest, coaching supervision, personal development, coaching journey, professional coaching, coaching relationships, coaching craft