Time to Lean

This week, Crystal and Laura take a question from a listener who is wondering how to keep herself afloat because her partner isn't interested in changing. Resources Mentioned:Books Mentioned on This EpisodeHave a domestic dilemma or question? Leave us a message on Speakpipe! ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean⁠⁠⁠⁠ OR DM us on IG @timetoleanpodFollow Laura on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠@thatdarnchat⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Crystal on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠@itscrystalbritt⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Domestic Violence Resources ⁠⁠⁠Interested in learning more about Fair Play? You can check out the ⁠⁠⁠book here⁠⁠⁠ or check out this ⁠⁠⁠youtube ⁠⁠⁠video!Please note: We are not your doctors. None of what we say should be considered a replacement for therapy. ¨̮--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/timetoleanpod/message Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Laura & Crystal discuss a listener's question, where her FATHER-IN-LAW suggests her kids need her to work less...but she and her husband split work evenly. What now?Resources Mentioned:Books Mentioned on This EpisodeDownload resources and read more from Crystal and Laura ⁠here⁠!Have a domestic dilemma or question? Leave us a message on Speakpipe! ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean⁠⁠⁠⁠ OR DM us on IG @timetoleanpodFollow Laura on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠@thatdarnchat⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Crystal on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠@itscrystalbritt⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Domestic Violence Resources ⁠⁠⁠Interested in learning more about Fair Play? You can check out the ⁠⁠⁠book here⁠⁠⁠ or check out this ⁠⁠⁠youtube ⁠⁠⁠video!Please note: We are not your doctors. None of what we say should be considered a replacement for therapy. ¨̮--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/timetoleanpod/message Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Why are we obsessed with divorce? And why did dresses not have pockets until recently?! These answers and more on this week's episode with guest Olivia Dreizen, CEO of Fresh Starts Registry. Resources Mentioned:Fresh Starts RegistryFollow Olivia Dreizen on IGBooks Mentioned on This EpisodeHave a domestic dilemma or question? Leave us a message on Speakpipe! ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean⁠⁠⁠⁠ OR DM us on IG @timetoleanpodFollow Laura on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠@thatdarnchat⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Crystal on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠@itscrystalbritt⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Domestic Violence Resources ⁠⁠⁠Interested in learning more about Fair Play? You can check out the ⁠⁠⁠book here⁠⁠⁠ or check out this ⁠⁠⁠youtube ⁠⁠⁠video!Please note: We are not your doctors. None of what we say should be considered a replacement for therapy. ¨̮--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/timetoleanpod/message Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Guest Pierre Fleury discusses unfairness in partnerships, the soullessness of capitalism, and the conditioning of men. They explore the role of gender norms, patriarchy, and the importance of pushing back against oppressive systems. The chapter also addresses alternative resources, shame, and millennials' reevaluation and creativity.

How do we feel about wife strikes? How do we feel about shaming partners on the internet? All your burning questions answered in this episode!Resources Mentioned:Cindy Ditiberio's Post Post-PartnershipBooks Mentioned on This EpisodeHave a domestic dilemma or question? Leave us a message on Speakpipe! ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean⁠⁠⁠⁠ OR DM us on IG @timetoleanpodFollow Laura on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠@thatdarnchat⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Crystal on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠@itscrystalbritt⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Domestic Violence Resources ⁠⁠⁠Interested in learning more about Fair Play? You can check out the ⁠⁠⁠book here⁠⁠⁠ or check out this ⁠⁠⁠youtube ⁠⁠⁠video!Please note: We are not your doctors. None of what we say should be considered a replacement for therapy. ¨̮--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/timetoleanpod/message Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Raena Boston, expert on motherhood scams and advocate for working moms, discusses gentrification, capitalism, racism, unpaid maternity leave, paid paternity leave, and the scam of having it all. Topics include issues with the education system and neighborhood scams, finding community as a working mom, importance of men taking parental leave, and breaking the systems surrounding motherhood.

The podcast discusses the societal assumptions surrounding caregiving skills, including the lack of normalization for men. They explore the concept of invisible labor and how perceptions regarding men's involvement in household tasks are shifting. The hosts also delve into breaking gender stereotypes, challenging gender roles in domestic labor, and the intentional devaluation of domestic work. They draw parallels to 'The Secret Life of Home Economics' and urge for inclusivity and breaking societal expectations.

In this episode, Laura and Crystal discuss a TikTok that recently went viral--over paper plates versus real dinner plates. Is making the little decisions something we should "JUST GET OVER" or is there an opportunity for connection there?Resources Mentioned:Books Mentioned on This EpisodeHave a domestic dilemma or question? Leave us a message on Speakpipe! ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean⁠⁠⁠⁠ OR DM us on IG @timetoleanpodFollow Laura on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠@thatdarnchat⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Crystal on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠@itscrystalbritt⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Domestic Violence Resources ⁠⁠⁠Interested in learning more about Fair Play? You can check out the ⁠⁠⁠book here⁠⁠⁠ or check out this ⁠⁠⁠youtube ⁠⁠⁠video!Please note: We are not your doctors. None of what we say should be considered a replacement for therapy. :)--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/timetoleanpod/message Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

Have you ever heard or had a partner tell you directly, "Well if you hate taking care of the kids so much, why don't YOU work and I'LL stay home and relax?" Laura Danger and Crystal Britt discuss this zero-sum fallacy and what it means for BOTH partners to have buy in to a life you're building together--and how you BOTH get something out of that.Resources Mentioned:Lin--The Gentle CounselorDrew AfualoBooks Mentioned on This EpisodeStatistics on Father EngagementHave a domestic dilemma or question? Leave us a message on Speakpipe! ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean⁠⁠⁠⁠ OR DM us on IG @timetoleanpodFollow Laura on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠@thatdarnchat⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Crystal on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠@itscrystalbritt⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Domestic Violence Resources ⁠⁠⁠Interested in learning more about Fair Play? You can check out the ⁠⁠⁠book here⁠⁠⁠ or check out this ⁠⁠⁠youtube ⁠⁠⁠video!Please note: We are not your doctors. None of what we say should be considered a replacement for therapy. :)--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/timetoleanpod/message Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.

HEY MAMA! Join Crystal and Laura in this episode to talk about the dark recesses of the internet known as Mommy FB Groups to touch on the inequity of educating parents on...parenting.Mentioned in this Episode:Kier Gainess on IGDr. Becky on IGMichael Vaughn EpisodeBooks Mentioned on This EpisodeHave a domestic dilemma or question? Leave us a message on Speakpipe! ⁠⁠⁠⁠https://www.speakpipe.com/timetolean⁠⁠⁠⁠ OR DM us on IG @timetoleanpodFollow Laura on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠@thatdarnchat⁠⁠⁠⁠Follow Crystal on social media ⁠⁠⁠⁠@itscrystalbritt⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠⁠Domestic Violence Resources ⁠⁠⁠Interested in learning more about Fair Play? You can check out the ⁠⁠⁠book here⁠⁠⁠ or check out this ⁠⁠⁠youtube ⁠⁠⁠video!Please note: We are not your doctors. None of what we say should be considered a replacement for therapy. :)--- Send in a voice message: https://podcasters.spotify.com/pod/show/timetoleanpod/message Hosted on Acast. See acast.com/privacy for more information.