Sex for Saints

Initiating sex is really important in your relationship, but it can also be really hard. Because of societal norms, we sometimes think that men should always initiate because women should be more passive in bed. This can lead to resentment, especially when he is always being rejected. Now, I'm not saying that women always need to initiate sex or always say yes, but I am saying that talking about it is key. So, in this episode, let's talk about how initiating sex can be a burden, but it doesn't have to be.

Explore the complexities of sexual resentment in relationships. Discover how unmet needs create disconnection and the importance of reframing negative narratives about partners. Learn strategies to improve intimacy through open communication and empathy. The host also shares personal stories that highlight the journey and challenges faced in maintaining connections, underlining the emotional nuances that every couple navigates. Join the discussion on fostering understanding and healing in relationships.

Delve into the pinnacle of marital intimacy with insights on Level 3 Sex, where emotional, spiritual, and physical connections intertwine. Learn how open communication and shared practices can deepen the bond between partners. Discover tips for cultivating appreciation, empathy, and trust in relationships. Enhance your sensuality and mindfulness, and explore educational resources that promote deeper growth. This exploration promises to transform not just intimacy, but the relationship itself!

Discover the intriguing concept of Level 2 Sex, where desire meets exploration. This discussion emphasizes deepening emotional connections and the importance of communication in intimacy. Learn how vulnerability and shared responsibility can enhance your experiences. It's not the peak of pleasure, but a vital step on your journey. Are you ready to dip your toes and level up your sex life?

Explore the concept of Level 1 Sex, where gratification often feels one-sided. Learn about the barriers that keep couples stuck in unfulfilling patterns, from communication breakdowns to societal pressures. Discover actionable insights to enhance intimacy and satisfaction in relationships. The journey to better sex begins with a willingness to change, inviting listeners to take that first step.

Sexual disappointment is a complex emotion. Whenever we have expectations and those expectations aren't being met, it's natural to be disappointed. But what really matters is how we deal with that disappointment. Do we pretend we're fine? Do we get angry? Do we avoid the emotion? Or do we talk about it? We are surrounded by examples of what a 'real' sexual experience should look like, but they aren't reality. Having desires and fantasies is wonderful, but once we let in the expectations, that's where disappointment comes from. Let's talk about what we can do to overcome the sexual disappointment in our relationships that's causing us to be disconnected from our spouse.

When asked, "Are you using your wife for sex?", most men would say, "Absolutely not"! But is that true? Many men use their wives for sex without even realizing they are doing it. They don't do it maliciously, but that doesn't mean they don't do it. In this episode, let's talk about what it means to use your wife for sex, why you do it, and how to change that habit. This episode is for men and women who want to break out of a sexual habit that isn't getting you the connection you need or want in your relationship.

In this episode, let's talk about one of the most powerful tools in your relationship toolbox - relational listening. What is relational listening? It's more than hearing, it's understanding. So, how do you use it in conversations? Let's talk about that! Listen to this episode to know what to do before, during, and after having a relational conversation with your spouse. Learn how to create a safe space for both of you to express your desires, fears, and fantasies so that you can have that fulfilling sexual relationship you've always wanted.

Sexual desire is much more complex than many of us are led to believe. Desire is multifaceted and must be examined from a biological, psychological, and sociological standpoint. Why do I talk about desire so often? Because a lack of desire is the number one thing that women come to me for help with. They tell me that their desire has just disappeared and they have no idea where it's gone. So, let's dive into what goes into desire and maybe how to get it back.

I've been thinking a lot about what we all want in our relationships and what that means to our relationships. So, today I'm going to share with you the four things that we all want in our sexual relationships. We may call them different things, but everyone wants essentially the same thing. I am also going to talk about what happens when these things we want aren't happening in our sexual relationships. And what you can do about that. You see, the absence of these foundational values can lead to a host of challenges that impact both the marital and sexual aspects of a relationship. Let's see what we can do about that!