Sex for Saints

Discover how to assess the health of your marriage and enhance intimacy through candid discussions about emotional connections and shared goals. The hosts emphasize periodic reflections and open communication as essential tools for relationship growth. They also explore the significance of love and authenticity, advocating for the importance of seeking support through coaching and retreats. Strengthen your bond and embrace the journey of growth together!

“If you love me…” I’ve been seeing this phrase thrown around quite a lot lately. My clients often tell me that their spouse has said, “If you love me, you’d have more sex with me.” I recently saw in a Facebook group that someone said to their spouse, “If you love me, you’ll stop  watching porn.” At first glance, this phrase doesn’t seem like that big of a deal but it’s actually quite damaging in a relationship. In fact, a therapist called it “the divorce formula.” In this episode, we’re going to explore how this phrase can impact your relationship and what you can do about it.

Initiating sex is really important in your relationship, but it can also be really hard. Because of societal norms, we sometimes think that men should always initiate because women should be more passive in bed. This can lead to resentment, especially when he is always being rejected. Now, I’m not saying that women always need to initiate sex or always say yes, but I am saying that talking about it is key. So, in this episode, let’s talk about how initiating sex can be a burden, but it doesn’t have to be.

Sexual Resentment is a complex emotion where we feel our needs are not being met in one way or another. If we take a step back and look at the stories that we are telling ourselves about our spouse and their inability to meet our needs, we can see that those stories are simply not true. They are not serving us well and in fact are eroding our connection and trust in our marriage. So, how do you change that narrative you’ve been telling yourself about why your spouse isn’t meeting your needs? Let’s talk about it. McArthur Krishna's Books: Cherish - Vol 1 Cherish - Vol 2 A Girl’s Guide to Heavenly Mother A Boy’s Guide to Heavenly Mother

Delve into the pinnacle of marital intimacy with insights on Level 3 Sex, where emotional, spiritual, and physical connections intertwine. Learn how open communication and shared practices can deepen the bond between partners. Discover tips for cultivating appreciation, empathy, and trust in relationships. Enhance your sensuality and mindfulness, and explore educational resources that promote deeper growth. This exploration promises to transform not just intimacy, but the relationship itself!

Discover the intriguing concept of Level 2 Sex, where desire meets exploration. This discussion emphasizes deepening emotional connections and the importance of communication in intimacy. Learn how vulnerability and shared responsibility can enhance your experiences. It's not the peak of pleasure, but a vital step on your journey. Are you ready to dip your toes and level up your sex life?

Explore the concept of Level 1 Sex, where gratification often feels one-sided. Learn about the barriers that keep couples stuck in unfulfilling patterns, from communication breakdowns to societal pressures. Discover actionable insights to enhance intimacy and satisfaction in relationships. The journey to better sex begins with a willingness to change, inviting listeners to take that first step.

Sexual disappointment is a complex emotion. Whenever we have expectations and those expectations aren’t being met, it’s natural to be disappointed. But what really matters is how we deal with that disappointment. Do we pretend we’re fine? Do we get angry? Do we avoid the emotion? Or do we talk about it? We are surrounded by examples of what a ‘real’ sexual experience should look like, but they aren’t reality. Having desires and fantasies is wonderful, but once we let in the expectations, that’s where disappointment comes from. Let’s talk about what we can do to overcome the sexual disappointment in our relationships that’s causing us to be disconnected from our spouse.

When asked, “Are you using your wife for sex?”, most men would say, "Absolutely not”! But is that true? Many men use their wives for sex without even realizing they are doing it. They don’t do it maliciously, but that doesn’t mean they don’t do it. In this episode, let’s talk about what it means to use your wife for sex, why you do it, and how to change that habit. This episode is for men and women who want to break out of a sexual habit that isn’t getting you the connection you need or want in your relationship.

In this episode, let’s talk about one of the most powerful tools in your relationship toolbox - relational listening. What is relational listening? It’s more than hearing, it’s understanding. So, how do you use it in conversations? Let’s talk about that! Listen to this episode to know what to do before, during, and after having a relational conversation with your spouse. Learn how to create a safe space for both of you to express your desires, fears, and fantasies so that you can have that fulfilling sexual relationship you’ve always wanted.