
We Met At Acme
We Met At Acme is the OG dating podcast and a lifestyle tool for the next generation of adults. In each episode, you'll learn about attachment styles, rules and guidelines to follow when dating, red flags, the importance of therapy, and more. With host Lindsey Metselaar you’ll hear from dating experts, licensed professionals, celebrities, and influencers all sharing their dating experiences or dating insights. Most importantly, you'll improve your confidence, self-worth, and overall outlook towards dating - you'll laugh a little along the way and learn not to take yourself too seriously.
Latest episodes

Oct 1, 2023 • 56min
Maintaining Sex In A Long Term Relationship ft. Jordyn Hakes
On today’s episode, I sit down with Jordyn Hakes from The Horny Housewife podcast. We discuss the seasons of sex in a long term relationship, solo pleasure and masturbation, what we share or don’t share about our sexual fantasies, how to not get in your head if your partner doesn’t have the same libido, onlyfans, and more! Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Sponsors:Sign up for a Chime Checking Account today at chime.com/acme Cancel your unwanted subscriptions – and manage your money the easy way – by going to RocketMoney.com/acme Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 24, 2023 • 1h 6min
Making Your Friendships Last Through The Years
On today’s full solo episode, I’m talking all about friendship. Friendships throughout high school, college, early 20s, late 20s, marriage, babies, dogs, and more. We’ll cover how to deal with a friend in a life stage behind you, when you can vs. can’t confront a friend, when to walk away from a friendship, what to remember in friendship, ways to make friends later in life, being the single friend, and so much more. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Sponsors:Cancel your unwanted subscriptions – and manage your money the easy way – by going to RocketMoney.com/acme Sakara.com/acme code ACME for 20% off your first orderDownload Hinge and share your Dating Intentions to find someone worth deleting the app forhatch.co/acme for $20 off your purchase of a Hatch Restore + free shippingTalkspace.com/acme or $80 off your first monthDipseastories.com/acme for an extended 30 day free trialProduced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 17, 2023 • 1h 6min
The Male Mind Post Break Up ft. Toddy Smith
On today’s episode, I sit down with Toddy Smith, content creator and member of the vlog squad. We discuss his recent break up, men and therapy, dating apps, vine, the vlog squad, what it means to date like an aries, dating in your 30s, onlyfans, porn addiction, and more . This episode starts with a solo where I discuss changing your last name, why I’m not having a bris, and pregnancy weirdness. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Sponsors:Sakara.com/acme code ACME for 20% off your first orderDownload Hinge and share your Dating Intentions to find someone worth deleting the app forhatch.co/acme for $20 off your purchase of a Hatch Restore + free shippingTalkspace.com/acme or $80 off your first monthProduced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 10, 2023 • 56min
The Pros And Cons Of Getting Married Young ft. Brooks Nader
On today’s episode, I sit down with supermodel Brooks Nader. We discuss meeting her (then taken) husband, the dynamics of her marriage, being one of 4 sisters, rejection, beauty routines, keeping things fun in your relationship while traveling, what she would do differently if she got married today, and the pros and cons of marrying when young. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss 10/10 partners and some pregnancy updates.Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Sponsors:Sign up for a Chime Checking Account today at chime.com/acme DrinkAG1.com/acme for a free 1 year supply of vitamin D and 5 free travel packs Article.com/acme for $50 off your first purchase of $100 or moreDipseastories.com/acme for an extended 30 day free trialDownload Hinge and share your Dating Intentions to find someone worth deleting the app forProduced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Sep 3, 2023 • 1h 3min
Maybe You Should Lower Your Standards ft. Evan Marc Katz
Dating coach Evan Marc Katz discusses green flags in women, toxic dating advice for women, physical appearance in dating, dating as a successful woman, knowing if someone makes you happy, and the necessity of lowering standards in dating.

Aug 27, 2023 • 58min
Sex When You Don’t Feel Sexy ft. Shan Boodram
On today’s episode, I sit down with sexologist Shan Boodram. Shan and I discuss marriage pacts, how to have a good sex life when you’re not feeling good about yourself, how to enjoy sex when you’re going through fertility struggles, sex after having kids, why it takes so long to have good sex in a new relationship, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss the 101 questions to ask before you get engaged and opine on recent polls and their results. Be sure to watch Shan on The Marriage Pact on Roku!Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Sponsors:hatch.co/acme for $20 off your purchase of a Hatch Restore + free shippingSakara.com/acme code ACME for 20% off your first orderGet started with Athena Club today by shopping in - store at Target nationwideProduced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 20, 2023 • 1h 3min
The Three Stages Of A Relationship ft. Dr. Darcy Sterling
On today’s episode, I sit down with therapist Dr. Darcy Sterling. Darcy and I discuss the three important stages of a relationship and how to get to the third, the work you need to do on yourself before dating seriously, why the beginning is so important in love, the importance of switching up your therapist, how you should feel after therapy, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I opine on recent polls and their results. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Sponsors:DrinkAG1.com/acme for a free 1 year supply of vitamin D and 5 free travel packs Article.com/acme for $50 off your first purchase of $100 or moreBrooklinen.com code ACME for $20 off your online purchase of $100 or more plus free shippingProduced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 13, 2023 • 55min
Do Men Actually Learn From Divorce? ft. Hannah Stella
On today’s episode, I sit down with Hannah Stella, an influencer who famously went through a public divorce last year. Hannah opens up to us about what went wrong, getting married young, the blame game, if she would have done things differently, her mental health, vulnerability in a marriage, what she would do differently in her next relationship, and so much more. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Sponsors:Indochino.com code ACME for 10% off a showroom appointment or orderProduced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Aug 6, 2023 • 1h 22min
My Fertility Journey, PCOS, And Going Off Birth Control ft. Dr. Catha Fischer
On today’s episode, I sit down with my fertility doctor, Dr. Catha Fischer. Dr. Fischer is at Spring Fertility in NYC, and I can’t recommend that place enough. We discuss my fertility journey, egg freezing vs. embryo freezing, tips for couples with infertility, how far in advance you should test your levels, how common IVF is these days, options if you can’t afford treatment, if AMH tests are BS, PCOS and what it means for you, and so much more.Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Sponsors:Sign up for a Chime Checking Account today to build your credit at chime.com/acme If you’re looking for a meaningful relationship, download Hinge today, meet someone great, and then delete Hinge when it feels just right!Sakara.com/acme code ACME for 20% off your first orderProduced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jul 30, 2023 • 59min
We’re Having A Baby!!!
On today’s episode, I share with you my very vulnerable journey to getting pregnant. During this time, I kept a “diary” about my experience. I hope that you enjoy it and it helps you if you are going through something similar! Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Sponsors:If you’re looking for a meaningful relationship, download Hinge today, meet someone great, and then delete Hinge when it feels just right!Drinklmnt.com/acme to claim your free LMNT sample packProduced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.