

We Met At Acme
Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar
We Met At Acme is the OG dating podcast and a lifestyle tool for the next generation of adults. In each episode, you'll learn about attachment styles, rules and guidelines to follow when dating, red flags, the importance of therapy, and more. With host Lindsey Metselaar you’ll hear from dating experts, licensed professionals, celebrities, and influencers all sharing their dating experiences or dating insights. Most importantly, you'll improve your confidence, self-worth, and overall outlook towards dating - you'll laugh a little along the way and learn not to take yourself too seriously.
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Jan 28, 2024 • 34min
Why Men Date Out Of Their League And Women Date Below Theirs
In today's full solo episode, I break down the viral video I posted where men say they'd rather date out of their league and women say they’d rather date below theirs. We break down why this is true, with input and opinions from men, and so much more.Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Sponsors:greenchef.com/60acme code 60ACME for 60% off your first month + 20% off your next 2 months Deleteme.com/acme code ACME to get 20% off your planManifest the dating experience you want - download Hinge to find someone worth deleting the app forProduced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jan 21, 2024 • 1h 9min
What Millennials Can Learn From Gen Z Dating ft. Jemma Sbeg
In today's episode, I sit down with Jemma Sbeg, an Australian podcaster best known for her top-charting self-help podcast, The Psychology of your 20's. Jemma and I discuss how birth order affects your relationships, what people in their 20s do wrong in relationships, the meaning of lucky girl syndrome, what dating apps are doing to our brains, and so much more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss how to calm first date nerves and who in a relationship should initiate the future convo. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Sponsors:Deleteme.com/acme code ACME to get 20% off your planVisit drinkghia.com and use code ACME at checkout for 20% off your first purchaseManifest the dating experience you want - download Hinge to find someone worth deleting the app forExpressvpn.com/acme for three extra months completely freeProduced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jan 14, 2024 • 59min
Dating Habits You Need To Break ft. Damona Hoffman
In today's episode, I sit back down with Damona Hoffman. Damona is the official love expert of The Drew Barrymore Show, host of the popular podcast Dates & Mates, and a longtime dating coach. Damona and I discuss meeting in the middle between a fairytale and reality, our partner’s argument styles, spicing things up in January for the new year, habits we need to break in dating, and more. Buy Damona’s book here!Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Sponsors:Visit drinkghia.com and use code ACME at checkout for 20% off your first purchaseTalkspace.com code ACME for $80 off your first month Deleteme.com/acme code ACME to get 20% off your planProduced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jan 7, 2024 • 53min
Let’s Make Date Night Better ft. Topaz Adizes
In today's episode, I sit down with Topaz Adizes. Topaz is an Emmy award-winning writer, director, and founder and executive director of The Skin Deep, an experience design studio focused on human connection. Topaz’s series {THE AND} is a YouTube phenomenon, and he is the recent author of the book 12 Questions For Love. We discuss four of the twelve important questions, why we stop connecting with our partners, how to deepen our relationships with loved ones, how to spice up date night, and more. Buy Topaz’s book here! Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Sponsors:Article.com/acme for $50 off your first purchase of $100 or moreManifest the dating experience you want - download Hinge to find someone worth deleting the app forProduced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dec 31, 2023 • 49min
The Invisible String Theory
In today's full solo episode, I read your stories about having an invisible string tying you to your partner all along. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Sponsors:Find Frida Fertility on Amazon, Target, and select CVS near you.Visit drinkghia.com and use code ACME at checkout for 20% off your first purchaseProduced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dec 24, 2023 • 57min
Why Couples On The Bachelor Don’t Work Out ft. Justine Kay and Natasha Scott-Reichel
On today’s episode, I sit down with Justine Kay and Natasha Scott-Reichel of the podcast 2 Black Girls, 1 Rose. We discuss work wives and husbands, The Golden Bachelor, what the Bachelor franchise is doing wrong (and doing right), why Bachelor relationships work and why most fail, freezing our eggs, and more. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Sponsors:Clarins.com code ACME23 for 10% off plus a free 7-piece gift of skincare products when you place your first orderGlamsquad - get $20 your next appointment. It’s valid whether or not you’ve booked with them before. Code WMAA at checkout.Find Frida Fertility on Amazon, Target, and select CVS near you.Visit drinkghia.com and use code ACME at checkout for 20% off your first purchaseProduced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dec 17, 2023 • 1h 15min
The Difference Between A Wedding And A Marriage ft. Rabbi Steve Leder
On today’s episode, I sit down with Rabbi Steve Leder. Rabbi Leder is an incredible author and thought leader, and he served as the senior Rabbi of Willshire Boulevard Temple before recently stepping down. We discuss why he proposed to his wife on their second date, what he has learned working with couples in premarital counseling, what qualities young people should look for in a partner, staying positive through hard times, and so much more. Buy Rabbi Leder’s books!Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Sponsors:Dipseastories.com/acme for an extended 30 day free trialVisit Tecovas.com and Don’t Go Gently, all season longClarins.com code ACME23 for 10% off plus a free 7-piece gift of skincare products when you place your first orderDrinkAG1.com/acme for a free 1 year supply of vitamin D and 5 free travel packs Talkspace.com code ACME for $80 off your first month Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dec 10, 2023 • 1h
How To Not Let Anxiety Ruin Your Relationship ft. Allison Raskin
On today’s episode, I sit down with Allison Raskin, a writer, relationship expert, and mental health activist. We discuss how relationships OCD and regular OCD differ, how SSRI’s affect sex, dealing with a partner who has depression or anxiety, and so much more. This episode starts with a solo where I share questions to ask to get beyond the surface with someone when dating.Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Sponsors:Skylightframe.com/acme for $15 off your purchaseVisit Tecovas.com and Don’t Go Gently, all season longFind Frida Fertility on Amazon, Target, and select CVS near you.Article.com/acme for $50 off your first purchase of $100 or moreClarins.com code ACME2023 for 10% off plus a free 7-piece gift of skincare products when you place your first orderProduced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Dec 3, 2023 • 1h 26min
Being A Good Guy Is In ft. Tony P
On today’s episode, I sit down with the legendary Anthony Polcari, aka Tony P. We discuss his take on the rules, how Tony started growing a following simply by being earnest, vibrant masculinity, his ideal type, why he fears divorce, how he stays so positive, what he thinks of the P Hive, and so much more. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Sponsors:Skylightframe.com/acme for $15 off your purchaseVisit Tecovas.com and Don’t Go Gently, all season longGlamsquad - get $20 your next appointment. It’s valid whether or not you’ve booked with them before. Code WMAA at checkout.Find Frida Fertility on Amazon, Target, and select CVS near you.DrinkAG1.com/acme for a free 1 year supply of vitamin D and 5 free travel packs Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Nov 26, 2023 • 57min
The Rules For Friends With Benefits
On today’s solo episode, I break down the rules for friends with benefits. We discuss the rules for friends with benefits, how to not get feelings, setting boundaries, and how you can thrive in this situation. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode.Sponsors:Skylightframe.com/acme for $15 off your purchaseVisit Tecovas.com and Don’t Go Gently, all season longDipseastories.com/acme for an extended 30 day free trialGlamsquad - get $20 your next appointment. It’s valid whether or not you’ve booked with them before. Code WMAA at checkout,Find Frida Fertility on Amazon, Target, and select CVS near you.Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.