

We Met At Acme
Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar
We Met At Acme is the OG dating podcast and a lifestyle tool for the next generation of adults. In each episode, you'll learn about attachment styles, rules and guidelines to follow when dating, red flags, the importance of therapy, and more. With host Lindsey Metselaar you’ll hear from dating experts, licensed professionals, celebrities, and influencers all sharing their dating experiences or dating insights. Most importantly, you'll improve your confidence, self-worth, and overall outlook towards dating - you'll laugh a little along the way and learn not to take yourself too seriously.
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Mar 5, 2023 • 53min
How Moving In Together Changes Sex
On today’s solo episode, I am talking all about what happens when you move in with your partner. I discuss why sex changes, the good parts and the bad parts of living with a partner, how to increase the amount of sex you have when living together, why you need to separate from the outcome when dating, and I answer some listener questions. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Sponsors: Tawkify is offering our listeners 20% off when you become a client at Tawkify.com/ACME Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Feb 26, 2023 • 56min
Why Guys In Their 20s Let Us Down ft. Timothy Goodman
On today’s episode, I sit down with Timothy Goodman, artist and author of “I Always Think It’s Forever.” We discuss why shorter relationships burn more, why he is a recovering misogynist, how he was set up with his girlfriend, what it was like dating his friend for 40 days, why guys in their 20s let us down, people’s assumptions on long term couples who aren’t engaged, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss outdated dating tropes and traditions. Buy Timothy’ book https://www.amazon.com/Always-Think-Its-Forever-Unreliable-ebook/dp/B0B3Y7S819 Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Sponsors: Get 50% off and no delivery fee on your first order when you download the DoorDash app and use code ACME Dipseastories.com/acme for an extended 30 day free trial Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Feb 19, 2023 • 1h 2min
What Men Struggle With The Most When It Comes To Dating ft. Blaine Anderson
On today’s episode, I sit down with Blaine Anderson, a dating coach for men. Blaine and I discuss the craziest thing a man has said to her in a dating session, the male perspective on dating, meeting her husband at a workout class, what women would be surprised to hear that men struggle with, why a woman’s age is equivalent to a man’s height, what men learn from their exes, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss the most overrated and underrated sex positions, women who make more money than men, and my anniversary weekend. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Sponsors: Article.com/acme for $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more Issuu.com/podcast promo code ACME23 for a free account or 50% off your premium account Sakara.com/acme code ACME for 20% off your first order Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Feb 16, 2023 • 56min
How To Stop Dating Fuckboys ft. Anna Kai
On today’s bonus episode, I sit down with Anna Kai, the mastermind who decided to mix Get Ready With Me videos with her own dating stories. Anna and I discuss meeting her husband on Bumble, if it’s possible for your standards to be too high, the dating lessons she learned the hard way, how she stopped dating fuckboys and found the one, her advice for getting out of your head when dating, not having sex before exclusivity, why she doesn’t think women should offer to pay on dates, and so much more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss women having a higher sex drive than men. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Sponsors: Athleticgreens.com/acme for a free 1 year supply of vitamin D and 5 free travel packs Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Feb 12, 2023 • 44min
Men Don't Fall In Love The Same Way Women Do
On today’s solo episode, we are deep diving into “The Rules Revisited,” a misogynist blog written by an idiot. We go over various blog posts of his like: why you should ask for feedback after a break up, ways that men misunderstand women, how Katy Perry is brainwashing women, why you can’t get the men you want, the importance of silence after a break up, men don’t fall in love the same way women do, how to make yourself approachable, and more. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Feb 5, 2023 • 50min
What Really Happened With Suitman ft. Sofia Franklyn
On today’s episode, I sit back down with former co-host of Call Her Daddy and current host of Sofia With An F, Sofia Franklyn. We discuss what went wrong in her relationship with Suitman, if they had a trauma bond, why they stopped having sex, questioning if the break up was right, how Alex’s betrayal messed up her view of female friendship, why she doesn’t think her former co-host is happy, klonopin dependence, and more. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Sponsors: Athleticgreens.com/acme for a free 1 year supply of vitamin D and 5 free travel packs Zocdoc.com/acme to get the app for FREE Dipseastories.com/acme for an extended 30 day free trial Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jan 29, 2023 • 59min
Why You Shouldn’t Get Married Before You’re 30 ft. Alice Bell
On today’s episode, I sit down with Alice Bell, Vogue’s resident astrologer and author of Trust Your Timing. We discuss where to start if you want to get into astrology, what to look for in your partner’s chart, how Saturn return affects us, what our parent’s signs have to do with ours, not connecting with your sun sign, compatibility beliefs she agrees with, astrology myths, how to know when we’ll marry, and more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss how to know breaking up was right, Fleishman is in trouble, and how to get over a partner's physical flaw that bothers you. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Sponsors: Sakara.com/acme code ACME for 20% off your first order Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jan 22, 2023 • 54min
Do Men Marry The Person In Front Of Them? Ft. Kim and Grandma Gail
On today’s episode, I sit down with Kim and Grandma Gail from Excuse My Grandma podcast. We discuss if men marry who is in front of them, how important or not important timing is, Gail’s advice Kim doesn’t agree with, how they got so close, the biggest lesson Kim learned from Grandma Gail, Why Grandma Gail thinks you shouldn’t go out “with the boys,” what rules apply to all generations, and more! This episode starts with a solo where I discuss why I only think you should get a man candy for valentines day, the rules of valentine's day, my and Steven’s dinner experience, and how much fighting is normal with a partner. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Sponsors: Visit Carawayhome.com to score up to 10% off your next purchase of non-toxic kitchenware Article.com/acme for $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jan 19, 2023 • 53min
How Marriage Changes A Relationship ft. Victoria Garrick Browne
On today’s bonus episode, I virtually sit down with former D1 athlete and host of Real Pod Victoria Garrick Browne. We discuss changing your last name, being "mature" for your age, how to get to a good place with your body, her story getting together with her now husband , unlearning toxic relationship patterns, Taylor Swift, being sensitive about your partner's eating habits, and how marriage changes a relationship. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Jan 15, 2023 • 55min
A Complete List Of Red Flags
On today’s full solo episode, I list all and any red flags when you’re dating someone new or more seriously dating. But don’t worry, we end on a good note with green flags! Then, I discuss how to get deep with a partner and give some sample questions you can ask each other in order to do so. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Sponsors: Talkspace.com code ACME for $100 off your first month Athleticgreens.com/acme for a free 1 year supply of vitamin D and 5 free travel packs Dipseastories.com/acme for an extended 30 day free trial Zocdoc.com/acme to get the app for FREE Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


