

We Met At Acme
Dear Media, Lindsey Metselaar
We Met At Acme is the OG dating podcast and a lifestyle tool for the next generation of adults. In each episode, you'll learn about attachment styles, rules and guidelines to follow when dating, red flags, the importance of therapy, and more. With host Lindsey Metselaar you’ll hear from dating experts, licensed professionals, celebrities, and influencers all sharing their dating experiences or dating insights. Most importantly, you'll improve your confidence, self-worth, and overall outlook towards dating - you'll laugh a little along the way and learn not to take yourself too seriously.
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May 14, 2023 • 1h 18min
Who Actually Is The Favorite Daughter? ft. Erin and Sara Foster
On today’s episode, I virtually sit down with Erin and Sara Foster, hosts of The World’s First Podcast, and co-founders of Favorite Daughter. Erin, Sara, and I discuss meeting your partner in your 20s vs meeting them in your 30s, what areas they feel competitive in, what rules they both followed in dating, why Sara and Tommy Haas never tied the knot, supporting your loved ones through their fertility journey, and who actually is the favorite daughter. Shop Favorite Daughter here! Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Sponsors: lovewellness.com code Acme15 at checkout for 15% off your first purchase Sakara.com/acme code ACME for 20% off your first order Zocdoc.com/acme to get the app for FREE Issuu.com/podcast promo code ACME23 for a free account or 50% off your premium account Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

May 7, 2023 • 1h 13min
Maybe Cheating Can Be Okay ft. Dan Savage
On today’s episode, I virtually sit down with Dan Savage, host of Savage Lovecast and author of Savage Love. Dan and I discuss what people misunderstand about monogamy, the importance on sex in a relationship, why jealousy is good, when cheating is okay, how to know if ENM is right for you, Dan’s thoughts on my rules, why gay marriages are more successful than straight marriages, how it works having a boyfriend and a husband, and so much more. Buy Dan’s book here! Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Sponsors: Sakara.com/acme code ACME for 20% off your first order Visit seed.com/ACME code ACME to redeem 25% off your first month of Seed's DS-01® Daily Synbiotic Indochino.com code ACME for 10% off a showroom appointment or order Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Apr 30, 2023 • 1h 11min
Your Dating App Profile Is Cringe ft. Ali and Erica
On today’s episode, I sit down with Ali and Erica from Finding Mr. Height Podcast. We discuss toxic independence, dating in your 30s, the rules that I broke with Steven, making new friends, dating with an STD, whether to be straightforward or nonchalant with dating app profiles, and more. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Sponsors: Sakara.com/acme code ACME for 20% off your first order Dipseastories.com/acme for an extended 30 day free trial Athleticgreens.com/acme for a free 1 year supply of vitamin D and 5 free travel packs Drinklmnt.com/acme to claim your free LMNT sample pack Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Apr 23, 2023 • 1h 3min
Why He Should Like You More Than You Like Him
On today’s full solo episode, I am talking all about why men should love the woman more. I am bringing the receipts! And we also discuss some amazing meet-cute stories so be prepared to get the chills. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Sponsors: Sakara.com/acme code ACME for 20% off your first order Prose.com/acme for a FREE in-depth hair consultation and 15% off your first order Get PayPal Honey for free at Joinhoney.com/acme Article.com/acme for $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Apr 16, 2023 • 54min
Are There Two Types Of Girls? ft. Tinx
On today’s episode, I sit down with my friend Tinx. We discuss the current season of Love Island, if people talk more shit nowadays, what she learned from her break up, what we’re including on our manifestation list, if there are two types of girls and what both are like, determining how much to share online, and more. This episode starts with a solo where I discuss Taylor Swift’s break up. Buy Tinx’s book here: Theshift-book.com Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Sponsors: Zocdoc.com/acme to get the app for FREE Tawkify.com/acme to become a client and get 20% off Talkspace.com/acme for $100 off your first month Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Apr 9, 2023 • 1h 4min
Is Monogamy Over? ft. Talia Lichtstein
On today’s episode, I sit down with content creator Talia Lichtstein. Talia and I discuss if monogamy is human nature, how it became the norm, whether non-monogamous or monogamous people are happier, why ignorance is or isn’t bliss, the hardest thing about monogamy, opening up a previous closed relationship, and more. This episode starts with a Q&A where I answer questions about having doubts post break up, staying past 3 months if not official, and emerging back into the dating world. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Sponsors: Dipseastories.com/acme for an extended 30 day free trial Sakara.com/acme code ACME for 20% off your first order Visit seed.com/ACME code ACME to redeem 25% off your first month of Seed's DS-01® Daily Synbiotic Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Apr 2, 2023 • 58min
Rediscovering The Magic Of Dating ft. Marin Haugo
On today’s episode, I sit down with Marin Haugo (and Archie!), who became internet famous for going on 28 dates in 28 days and documenting the process. Marin and I discuss how the dating challenge went, the best and worst dates she had, how and why her dating approach has changed, biggest takeaways from all the dates, whether or not the spark is important, if dating really is a numbers game, rediscovering the magic of dating, and more. This episode starts with a Q&A where I answer questions about paying for things in relationships, staying present and not future tripping, and what to do about a mismatched sex drive. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Sponsors: Issuu.com/podcast promo code ACME23 for a free account or 50% off your premium account Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Mar 26, 2023 • 50min
You Never Know Where You’ll Meet Your Person ft. Olivia Amato
On today’s episode, I sit down with Peloton’s favorite and Puma athlete, Olivia Amato. Olivia and I discuss her path to Peloton, the pressures of being a fitness instructor, meeting her now husband, cultural differences in her relationship, her time single in NYC, how having a dog prepares you to be parents, creepy internet stalkers, sharing an ex with another influencer, and more. This episode starts with a Q&A where I answer questions about age gaps in relationships, what you should want to change vs accept about a partner, and dealing with avoidant partners. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Sponsors: Prose.com/acme for a FREE in-depth hair consultation and 15% off your first order Tawkify.com/acme to become a client and get 20% off Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Mar 19, 2023 • 1h 10min
Why Celebrity Relationships Fail (Or Thrive!) ft. Shannon McNamara
On today’s episode, I sit down with Shannon McNamara from the FluentlyForward podcast. We do a major deep dive into all of your favorite celebrity relationships: why they fail, why they thrive, who is cheating on who, who is in the closet, why these relationships are different than normal ones, and so much more. This episode starts with a Q&A where I answer questions about platonic friendships, getting back into dating, and if a man’s career affects proposal timeline. Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Sponsors: Athleticgreens.com/acme for a free 1 year supply of vitamin D and 5 free travel packs Dipseastories.com/acme for an extended 30 day free trial Article.com/acme for $50 off your first purchase of $100 or more Download DoorDash and use code ACME to get 50% off your first order up to a $20 value Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.

Mar 12, 2023 • 1h 2min
Is Your Relationship Over? ft. Alessia Scauzillo
On today’s episode, I sit down with my close friend Alessia Scauzillo. We discuss her decision to separate from her husband, who brought up the D word first, what living from the heart means to her, the way she got more in touch with herself, how to know if you’re growing apart, mushrooms and how they have helped her healing journey, when to bring up your divorce when newly dating, and more. This episode starts with a Q&A where I answer questions about watching porn, feeling anxious about not being experienced, and how the rules apply to 21 year olds. Join Alessia’s workout platform https://asculptbody.com/ Please note that this episode may contain paid endorsements and advertisements for products and services. Individuals on the show may have a direct or indirect financial interest in products or services referred to in this episode. Sponsors: Zocdoc.com/acme to get the app for FREE Produced by Dear Media.See Privacy Policy at https://art19.com/privacy and California Privacy Notice at https://art19.com/privacy#do-not-sell-my-info.


