
Synergistic Stepparenting Podcast
Maria Natapov has been a stepparent for 12+ years. When she and her partner learned of the abuse and neglect inflicted by the biological mother, Maria studied and took the lead to install the right supports and prevent her stepdaughter from further harm. Her passion is helping other stepparents transform their challenging responsibilities into opportunities for the whole family to thrive. In Synergistic Stepparenting podcast, Maria talks frankly about actionable steps to transform family chaos into meaningful and harmonious co-parenting. Reminding stepparents that they are not alone. Learn more about Maria Natapov. https://synergisticstepparenting.com/meet-maria/
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Jun 6, 2024 • 9min
#100: Introducing a New Romantic Partner to Your Child
Send us a textHey there, blended family rockstars!Welcome back to another episode of the Synergistic Stepparenting podcast, where we tackle all things related to blended families, coparenting, stepparenting with harmony and grace. If you’re a stepparent or divorced parent nurturing a new romantic relationship and getting serious, this episode is packed with juicy tips on how to introduce your new partner to your kids smoothly and successfully. So, stick around, because you don’t want to miss this! Find the show notes for this episode at SynergitsicStepparenting.com/100.Covered Topics:- Celebrating 100th Episode Milestone - Special Message- Common Concerns About Introducing a New Romantic Partner to Your Child- 8 Tips to Successfully Introduce a New Romantic Partner to Your Child- Special Gift to Make Introducing A New Romantic Partner to Your Child EasierClick here to listen!Rate, Review & Follow on Apple Podcasts“Tons of value in this episode, love and appreciate your authenticity in all of your content.”“Maria is amazing! Very well rounded insights.”“Your podcast is awesome!”If you like the show, please consider rating and reviewing us. This gives us the ability to reach and help more stepparents – like you – move towards the life and relationships that they desire with their blended clan.Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate us with 5 stars, and select “Write a Review” then be sure to let me know your favorite thing about the episode.Also, if you haven’t done so yet, follow the podcast so you don’t miss a thing. Follow now!

May 30, 2024 • 9min
#99: Why RRT’s the Best-Kept Secret
Send us a textHey blended family warriors! Maria here, and welcome back to another episode of Synergistic Stepparenting podcast. Today, I've got something truly special for you. If you've ever felt like you're stuck in a cycle of endless worry and emotional chaos, you’re in the right place. We’re diving into why the power of RRT is the best-kept secret and your new BFF for finally feeling clear, confident, and ready to create the harmony you seek in your blended family. Find the show notes for this episode at SynergisticStepparenting.com/99.Covered Topics:- What is Rapid Resolution Therapy? (The Recap)- Rapid Resolution Therapy: Client Case Studies- Rapid Resolution Therapy: The Process- Rapid Resolution Therapy: Clients’ ResultsRapid Resolution Therapy: Special OfferAnd these results can be yours too. In fact, I want you to experience these powerful results for yourself so badly that I’m offering a 20% OFF promotion on RRT sessions when you purchase by Midnight on Friday, May 31st, 2024 with the code bewell. Plus, I’m making a personal guarantee: if you need more than one session to get the results you seek, I’m committed to working with you for FREE until you do. So you have nothing to lose and everything to gain. Don't miss out, go grab your session now to take advantage of this deal at SynergisticStepparenting.com/rr. So, if you’re tired of battling relentless thoughts and emotions that sabotage your journey towards the life and relationships you crave, this is your chance. Together, we’ll dismantle those barriers, unveiling clarity and propelling you towards the fulfillment you deserve.Ready to take the first step? Head over to synergisticstepparenting.com/rr and book your Rapid Resolution Therapy Session. Let’s get your subconscious on board with your goals and create those easy, lasting results. Remember, you don’t have to do this alone. I’m here, holding your hand every step of the way.Until next time, be well!Click here to listen!Rate, Review & Follow on Apple Podcasts“Tons of value in this episode, love and appreciate your authenticity in all of your content.”“Maria is amazing! Very well rounded insights.”“Your podcast is awesome!”If you like the show, please consider rating and reviewing us. This gives us the ability to reach and help more stepparents – like you – move towards the life and relationships that they desire with their blended clan.Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate us with 5 stars, and select “Write a Review” then be sure to let me know your favorite thing about the episode.Also, if you haven’t done so yet, follow the podcast so you don’t miss a thing. Follow now!

May 23, 2024 • 8min
#98: Overcoming Co-Parenting Fear and Comparison
Send us a textWelcome back to another episode of the Synergistic Stepparenting podcast! I’m Maria Natapov, your guide on this journey to creating a harmonious and joyful blended family. Have you ever dealt with co-parenting fear and comparison in your blended family role? Imagine this: you start your day feeling the weight of all your responsibilities. You worry about how your stepchildren will react to your guidance, how to navigate the tension with your ex-spouse, and how to keep your family united. You fear not being accepted or loved by your stepchildren, and you’re constantly second-guessing your every move.The tension doesn’t stop there. You’re also dealing with misunderstandings and conflicts with your partner’s ex. Every interaction feels like walking a tightrope, trying to avoid conflict but somehow stepping into it with every move you make. It feels like no matter what you do, you can't seem to do anything right.Does this sound familiar? Are you struggling to connect with your stepkids while feeling the constant strain of dealing with their other biological parent? Do you feel like you’re always walking on eggshells, trying to avoid conflicts and keep the peace, yet somehow causing more friction?If you’re nodding along, then today’s episode is for you. Find the show notes for this episode at https://SynergisticStepparenting.com/98.Covered Topics:- The Blended Family Possibilities- Understanding Your Struggleswith Co-Parenting Fear and Comparison- The Power of Letting Go of Co-Parenting Comparison - 3 Steps for letting go of Comparison- Letting Go of Co-Parenting Fears - 4 Steps for letting go of Fear- Making Real Connections in Your Blended FamilyCreating a blended family that feels united and loving is possible. It starts with understanding, empathy, and letting go of the need to control everything.Imagine having someone who understands the unique challenges of your high-profile life and can offer personalized, discreet support to navigate your family dynamics.Think about the relief of having practical, step-by-step guidance to create a nurturing and harmonious environment for your blended family. Take the first step by grabbing your copy of Family Fusion, 6 Steps to Collaborative Co-Parenting ASAP.And I have something really special that drops in the next few days that you don’t want to miss. So be sure to get your copy and get on my list so that you don’t miss out on this 1st time-ever opportunity! I’ve never done this before and I’m so excited to share this with you.I’m here to help you make this dream a reality. Let me show you the way to unlocking the door to peace, and deep connections to your blended family. Grab your copy of Family Fusion: 6 Steps to Collaborative Co-Parenting today, and let’s start this transformative journey together.

May 16, 2024 • 11min
#97: Strategies for Coparenting with an Absent Coparent
Send us a textWelcome back to another episode of "Synergistic Stepparenting," the podcast dedicated to helping you navigate the complex and rewarding journey of blending families. I'm your host, Maria Natapov, and today we’re exploring a topic that weighs heavy on many stepparents’ and divorced parents’ hearts, the struggles of coparenting with an absent coparent. Find the show notes for this episode at SynergisticStepparenting.com/97.Another day begins, and as you sip your morning coffee, you can't shake off the tension that's been brewing for weeks. You're not alone in this maze of emotions. I understand your journey because I've walked it myself. Today, I'm here to offer you a lifeline, a beacon of hope amidst the chaos. Let's embark on a journey together, where understanding, validation, and solutions await.Today, we're exploring a theme that resonates with so many of you: the delicate balance of finding your role as a stepparent. Picture this: you're eager to step in and help, to be the parent that's missing, but suddenly you feel like an outsider, and your well-meaning efforts aren't quite hitting the mark. It's like trying to fit a piece into a puzzle where the edges are still blurry.Let’s explore four common challenges that stepparents face in this balancing act, and I'll share practical, neuroscience-backed solutions to help you navigate these hurdles with grace and confidence.Covered Topics:- Common challenge #1: Feeling the Urge to Step In as the Absent Parent - 3 Neuroscience-Backed Solutions to Common challenge #1- Common Challenge #2: Partner Resistance to Stepparent's Input - 3 Neuroscience-Backed Solutions to Common challenge #2- Common Challenge #3: Finding the Balance in Your Role as a Stepparent - 3 Neuroscience-Backed Solutions to Common challenge #3- Common Challenge #4: Addressing Necessary Issues with Your Partner - 3 Neuroscience-Backed Solutions to Common challenge #4Remember, you're not alone, and together, we can create the happy, harmonious blended family you've always dreamed of. If you're ready to take the next step towards a brighter tomorrow, and you haven’t done so, grab your free copy of Family Fusion: 6 Steps to Collaborative Co-Parenting, and let me support you on your journey to blended family bliss. Your story is waiting to be written, and I'm here to help you turn the page to a new chapter filled with love, laughter, and endless possibilities.Until next time, be well!Click here to listen!Rate, Review & Follow on Apple Podcasts“Tons of value in this episode, love and appreciate your authenticity in all of your content.”“Maria is amazing! Very well rounded insights.”“Your podcast is awesome!”If you like the show, please consider rating and reviewing us. This gives us the ability to reach and help more stepparents – like you – move towards the life and relationships that they desire with their blended clan.Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate us with 5 stars, and select “Write a Review” then be sure to let me know your favorite thing about the episode.Also, if you haven’t done so yet, follow the podcast so you don’t miss a thing. Follow now!

May 9, 2024 • 9min
#96: Overcoming Blended Family Challenges Overwhelm
Send us a textHey there, fellow stepparents! It's Maria Natapov, your go-to guide for navigating the ups and downs of blended family life. I know firsthand how easy it is to catch a bad case of blended family challenges overwhelm caused by juggling the demands of your career, your family, and your own well-being, especially when it feels like conflicts are constantly looming. Find the show notes for this episode at SynergisticStepparenting.com/96. Do any of these thoughts sound familiar?"I just need some space from the chaos." "Why do weekends feel like battlegrounds?" "Am I the only one struggling to find my place?"If you're nodding along, you're not alone. I hear you, and I understand how overwhelming it can feel when you're at the end of your rope. But, there is hope – and I'm here to help you find it. Covered Topics:- Validate Your Feelings- Understand the Neuroscience- Take Control of Your Space- Communicate Effectively- 3 Key Strategies for Effective Communication- Seek SupportReady to take the next step? Grab your very own copy of Family Fusion: 6 Steps to Collaborative Co-Parenting, and get critical insights, strategies, and tips to support you on your journey to finding peace and harmony in your blended family.

May 3, 2024 • 10min
#95: Blended Family Cumulative Stressors: the 4-1-1
Send us a textWelcome back to another episode of Synergistic Stepparenting podcast, where we dive deep into the realities of blended family life. It's great to have you here, warriors navigating the unique challenges of blended family dynamics. Today, we're tackling a topic that hits close to home for most of you: navigating blended family cumulative stressors. Find the show notes for this episode at SynergisticStepparenting.com/95. Covered Topics:- Reliving the Blended Family Daily Grind- Riding the Blended Family Emotional Roller Coaster- Finding Your Anchor Amidst the Blended Family Storm- 4 Tools to Curb Your Blended Family Cumulative Stressors- Getting Support to Transform Blended Family Cumulative Stressors into Harmony Co-Parenting- A Powerful Resource to Create the Serenity You CraveI'm here to support you every step of the way. Together, we'll transform your blended family from a source of stress and conflict into a source of joy and fulfillment. Ready to take the first step? Book a call with me today, and let's start your journey to a happier, healthier family life.I'm excited to introduce you to a resource that can help navigate these waters with confidence and clarity: the Family Fusion: 6 Steps to Collaborative Co-Parenting Guide.This guide isn't just another how-to manual. It's a roadmap designed to address the pain points many of us face in blended families—creating more peace and harmony among family members. Imagine having more ease in your daily interactions, and working towards that dream of harmonious co-parenting, together.With this offer, I'm not just handing you a bunch of tips and tricks. I'm helping you conquer obstacles, clarify misconceptions, and embody the core value of guidance every step of the way.So, if you're ready to take the next step towards a more harmonious family life, click below to grab your copy of the Family Fusion Guide now!Here's to creating more peace and harmony in your blended family journey!Click here to listen!Rate, Review & Follow on Apple Podcasts“Tons of value in this episode, love and appreciate your authenticity in all of your content.”“Maria is amazing! Very well rounded insights.”“Your podcast is awesome!”If you like the show, please consider rating and reviewing us. This gives us the ability to reach and help more stepparents – like you – move towards the life and relationships that they desire with their blended clan.Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate us with 5 stars, and select “Write a Review” then be sure to let me know your favorite thing about the episode.Also, if you haven’t done so yet, follow the podcast so you don’t miss a thing. Follow now!

Apr 25, 2024 • 10min
#94: Navigating the Pressure Facing Stepparents
Send us a textWelcome back to another episode of the Synergistic Stepparenting podcast, where we explore the intricate dance of stepparenting with compassion and understanding. Today, we're delving into the pressure facing stepparents to step up or back off, and the strategies for finding balance amidst the chaos. So, grab your favorite mug of tea, settle in, and let's dive deep into this important topic. Find the show notes for this episode at SynergisticStepparenting.com/94.Covered Topics:- Identifying Common Pressure Facing Stepparents- Strategist for Striking a Delicate Balance in Your Stepparenting Role- Strategies for Finding Balance Amidst the Pressure Facing Stepparents- Reflection Questions to Reduce the Pressure Facing Stepparents Are you feeling like you're walking a tightrope, trying to balance between stepping up and backing off in your blended family? Do you lie awake at night, wondering how to deepen connections and rapport while navigating the minefield of conflicting expectations? You're not alone in this struggle. It's time to stop feeling overwhelmed and start taking action. Book your call with me today, to get the clarity you need to create the blended family dynamic you crave. If you're tired of feeling stuck and yearn for support in finding that elusive balance and strengthening bonds within your blended family, don't hesitate any longer. Book a call with me today by filling out a brief questionnaire. Let's turn your frustrations into opportunities for growth and create a family dynamic where everyone feels understood, valued, and connected. Your blended family journey doesn't have to be a solo expedition. Together, we can make it a triumphant adventure towards love, harmony, and lasting happiness.Click here to listen!Rate, Review & Follow on Apple Podcasts“Tons of value in this episode, love and appreciate your authenticity in all of your content.”“Maria is amazing! Very well rounded insights.”“Your podcast is awesome!”If you like the show, please consider rating and reviewing us. Your positive ratings helps me reach and support more stepparents – like you – move towards more harmony in their blended family.Click here, scroll to the bottom, rate this show with 5 stars, and select “Write a Review.” Then be sure to let me know your favorite thing about the episode!Also, if you haven’t done so yet, follow the podcast so you don’t miss a thing. Follow now!

Apr 18, 2024 • 8min
#93: Managing Blended Family Tensions: The Stepparent's Guide
Send us a textHey there, fellow stepparents and divorced parents! I know how it feels when blended family tensions arise, and it seems like there's no end in sight. You're not alone in this struggle. I get it—I've been there too. But guess what? It's possible to foster a supportive blended family dynamic, and I'm here to guide you through it. Find the show notes for this episode at SynergisticStepparenting.com/93. Covered Topics: - Acknowledge Your Feelings- Choose Your Response - 3 Response Options- The Role Self-Care Plays- A Case Study Scenario - Working the StepsYou're not alone on this journey. With the right strategies and support, you can navigate family tensions with grace and resilience. If you're ready to take the next step towards harmony in your blended family, I'm here to help. Book your call now to discuss your unique challenges and how I might be able to help. Let's connect and explore how I can support you on your path to blissful coexistence.Click here to listen!Rate, Review & Follow on Apple Podcasts“Tons of value in this episode, love and appreciate your authenticity in all of your content.”“Maria is amazing! Very well rounded insights.”“Your podcast is awesome!”If you like the show, please consider rating and reviewing us. This gives us the ability to reach and help more stepparents – like you – move towards the life and relationships they desire with their blended family.Click here, scroll to the bottom, rate us with 5 stars, and select “Write a Review” then be sure to let me know your favorite thing about the episode.Also, if you haven’t done so yet, follow the podcast so you don’t miss a thing. Follow now!

Apr 11, 2024 • 14min
#92: Managing Your Stepchild's Challenging Behavior
Send us a textAnother day rolls by, and you find yourself tangled in the chaos of life. Managing your high-powered career and nurturing your blended family is tough. Sometimes it feels like you're juggling flaming torches, hoping they won't burn you or anyone else around you. The stress mounts. You seek to identify your stepchild's challenging behaviors, understand their emotional triggers and effectively respond to them while feeling supported as the stepparent. You long for a sense of peace and harmony within your family dynamic. If this sounds all too familiar, you’ve come to the right place. Find the show notes for this episode at SynergisticStepparenting.com/92.As a CEO, you're accustomed to conquering challenges head-on. But when it comes to navigating the intricate landscape of blended family life, even the most accomplished individuals, like you, can feel overwhelmed. It's like trying to solve a Rubik's Cube blindfolded — you know there's a solution, but finding it feels impossible.You yearn for seamless integration between your professional success and your family's well-being. Your stepchildren's happiness and success are just as important to you as your own children's. You're committed to creating a harmonious environment where everyone thrives. But how do you bridge the gap between your high-powered career and the complexities of blended family dynamics?Covered Topics:- Identifying Your Stepchild's Challenging Behavior through Emotional Signals- Understanding the Root Cause of Your Stepchild's Emotional Triggers- Effectively Responding to Your Stepchild's Challenging Behavior- Feeling Supported as the Stepparent- A Sample Scenario of a Stepchild's Challenging Behavior- A Specific Example of a Stepchild's Root Cause of Challenging Behavior- The Benefit of Enlisting Professional SupportAs you embark on this transformative journey with me, remember that you're not just seeking solutions — you're embracing a lifeline of support and understanding as the stepparent and integral part of the blended family. This will have a massive impact on your relationships with the other blended family members and in your blended family dynamics overall. Together, we'll navigate the maze of blended family dynamics with grace, resilience, and unwavering determination.So why wait? Take the first step towards a harmonious blended family life by booking a call with me today. To do this, fill out a brief questionnaire at SynergisticStepparenting.com/work. Your path to serenity and connection awaits, and I’m here to guide you every step of the way and support your, the stepparent's, emotional needs.Click here to listen!Rate, Review & Follow on Apple Podcasts“Tons of value in this episode, love and appreciate your authenticity in all of your content.”“Maria is amazing! Very well rounded insights.”“Your podcast is awesome!”If you like the show, please consider rating and reviewing us. This gives us the ability to reach and help more stepparents – like you – move towards the life and relationships they desire with their blended family.Click here, scroll to the bottom, rate us with 5 stars, and select “Write a Review” then be sure to let me know your favorite thing about the episode.Also, if you haven’t done so yet, follow the podcast so you don’t miss a thing. Follow now!

Apr 4, 2024 • 7min
#91: Dealing with a Blended Family Crisis: Tips and Advice
Send us a textWelcome to a special episode of the Synergistic Stepparenting podcast. I'm your host, Maria Natapov, and today, we're diving deep into the heart-wrenching scenario of a blended family facing a major blended family crisis: Lily, Emily's 12-year-old stepdaughter, has been diagnosed with a serious chronic illness. We're exploring the stepparent's struggle with overwhelm, the bio-parent's role balancing struggle, and the step-siblings' confusion and vulnerability. Find the show notes for this episode at SynergisticStepparenting.com/91.Covered Topics:- Insights from a Stepparenting Coach and Blended Family Strategist- The Stepparent's Struggle with Overwhelm and What to Do About It- the Bio-Parent's Struggle with Balancing the Roles of Caregiver and Supportive Spouse and What to Do About It- Embrace Effective Coping Strategies in Your Blended Family- How to Take Empowered Action in Dealing with a Blended Family CrisisAre you experiencing a similar situation to Emily’s with Lily’s diagnosis? Do you find yourself feeling overwhelmed and uncertain about how to navigate it or what the next steps are? Do you find yourself grappling with a whirlwind of emotions, unsure of where to turn for support? It's time to take the first step towards finding peace amidst the chaos.I personally invite you to book a call with me, Maria Natapov, your guide through the turbulent waters of stepparenting and blended family dynamics. During our call, we'll dive deep into your unique circumstances, exploring the challenges you're facing and the goals you hope to achieve.Take the first step now by filling out the Work with Maria questionnaire. This simple form will help me better understand your needs and tailor our conversation to address your specific concerns. Whether you're struggling to balance your role as a caregiver, navigating complex family dynamics, or simply seeking support and guidance, I'm here to help.Don't let the chaos of stepparenting overwhelm you any longer. Take action today and schedule your call with me. Together, we can find clarity, build resilience, and create a brighter, more peaceful future for you and your loved ones.Click here to listen!Rate, Review & Follow on Apple Podcasts“Tons of value in this episode, love and appreciate your authenticity in all of your content.”“Maria is amazing! Very well rounded insights.”“Your podcast is awesome!”If you like the show, please consider rating and reviewing us. This gives us the ability to reach and help more stepparents – like you – move towards the life and relationships they desire with their blended family.Click here, scroll to the bottom, rate us with 5 stars, and select “Write a Review” then be sure to let me know your favorite thing about the episode.Also, if you haven’t done so yet, follow the podcast so you don’t miss a thing. Follow now!