
Synergistic Stepparenting Podcast
Maria Natapov has been a stepparent for 12+ years. When she and her partner learned of the abuse and neglect inflicted by the biological mother, Maria studied and took the lead to install the right supports and prevent her stepdaughter from further harm. Her passion is helping other stepparents transform their challenging responsibilities into opportunities for the whole family to thrive. In Synergistic Stepparenting podcast, Maria talks frankly about actionable steps to transform family chaos into meaningful and harmonious co-parenting. Reminding stepparents that they are not alone. Learn more about Maria Natapov. https://synergisticstepparenting.com/meet-maria/
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Mar 28, 2024 • 6min
#90: Prioritizing Personal Growth in Blended Families
Send us a textAnother day begins, and the weight of your blended family's complexities sits heavy on your shoulders. You juggle your demanding career, family dynamics, and personal growth aspirations, all while striving for harmony in the chaos. You're not alone. I see you, I understand you, and I'm here to guide you through the maze. Join me as we delve deeper into how to prioritize personal growth and supporting stepchild's growth through blended families. Find the show notes for this episode at SynergisticStepparenting.com/90.Covered Topics- Recognizing the Challenges of Supporting Stepchild's Growth in Blended Families- Embracing Personal Growth in Blended Families- Crafting Clear Expectations for Your Stepchild- Samples of Developmentally Appropriate Tasks by Stepchild’s Age- Nurturing Connections with Blended Family Co-Parenting- Seeking Support Around Supporting Your Stepchild's Growth- Embracing the Blended Family Co-Parenting JourneyDear listener, I invite you to join me on this journey of self-discovery and transformation. Take the first step by grabbing your copy of Family Fusion: 6 Steps to Collaborative Co-Parenting. Together, we'll unlock the secrets to harmonious co-parenting, nurturing relationships, and creating a blended family dynamic filled with love, laughter, and lasting memories.Click here to listen!Rate, Review & Follow on Apple Podcasts“Tons of value in this episode, love and appreciate your authenticity in all of your content.”“Maria is amazing! Very well rounded insights.”“Your podcast is awesome!”If you like the show, please consider rating and reviewing us. This gives us the ability to reach and help more stepparents – like you – move towards the life and relationships they desire with their blended family.Click here, scroll to the bottom, rate us with 5 stars, and select “Write a Review” then be sure to let me know your favorite thing about the episode.Also, if you haven’t done so yet, follow the podcast so you don’t miss a thing. Follow now!

Mar 21, 2024 • 6min
#89: Navigating Blended Family Based Bullying
Send us a textImagine the heart-wrenching sight of your child, shoulders slumped and eyes downcast, as they endure the painful reality of bullying from an unexpected source — their own parent. Today, we'll delve into the complexities of supporting a child through blended family challenges. I'll offer guidance and support to parents like you to who are navigating the challenging journey of creating and upholding co-parenting boundaries as you support a child through being bullied by a co-parent. Find the show notes for this episode at SynergisticStepparenting.com/89. Covered Topics:- A Painful Blended Family Scenario- Step 1: Acknowledging the Pain of Navigating Blended Family-Based Bullying- Step 2: Advocating for Co-Parenting Boundaries- Step 3: Creating a Safe Haven within Your Blended Family- Step 4: Empowering Your Child within Your Blended Family- Step 5: Seeking Professional SupportReady to support your child through blended family challenges by supporting their co-parenting boundaries? Create a path for your child's healing by downloading my free guide, Family Fusion: 6 Steps to Collaborative Co-Parenting. Join me in championing our children’s right to safety and well-being. Together, let's sow the seeds of strength and resilience in the hearts of our children. Let's nurture a future where they feel safe, loved, and respected within their own families and beyond.Until next time, be well!Click here to listen!Rate, Review & Follow on Apple Podcasts“Tons of value in this episode, love and appreciate your authenticity in all of your content.”“Maria is amazing! Very well rounded insights.”“Your podcast is awesome!”If you like the show, please consider rating and reviewing us. This gives us the ability to reach and help more stepparents – like you – move towards the life and relationships they desire with their blended family.Click here, scroll to the bottom, rate us with 5 stars, and select “Write a Review” then be sure to let me know your favorite thing about the episode.Also, if you haven’t done so yet, follow the podcast so you don’t miss a thing. Follow now!

Mar 14, 2024 • 7min
#88: Get Rid of Stepparenting Shame and Guilt
Send us a textWelcome to another episode of "Synergistic Stepparenting." I'm Maria Natapov, your guide on this journey towards building stronger, more harmonious blended families. Today we're delving into a topic that's often shrouded in darkness. Yet it holds the key to unlocking greater connection and resilience within our families: shame and guilt. Find the show notes for this episode at SynergisticStepparenting.com/88.As stepparents and co-parents, we've all experienced moments of doubt, insecurity, and self-blame. We've questioned our worth, our abilities, and our impact on our blended family dynamics. The truth is, you are not alone in your struggles. There is light at the end of the tunnel. In this episode, we'll explore the insidious nature of shame and guilt in blended families. We'll delve into how they impact our relationships and well-being. Most importantly, we'll uncover what you can do to overcome them.Grab a cup of tea and find a cozy spot to settle in. We're shining a light on the shadows together. Let's dive deeper into the tangled web of shame and guilt that often accompanies the challenges of step-parenting and co-parenting.Topics Covered:- Acknowledge Your Feelings of Stepparenting Shame and Guilt- Embrace the Connection with Your Stepchild- Communicate Compassionately with Your Blended Family- Navigate Stepparenting Co-Parenting with Grace- Cultivate Stepparenting Self-CompassionIf you’re struggling with any of these steps unsure where to begin, I’ve got you every step of the way. Go to SynergisticStepparenting.com/subscribe to download my "Family Fusion: 6 Steps to Collaborative Co-Parenting" guide. Dont' wait to embark on a transformative journey towards peace, connection, and fulfillment. I’ll be in touch to schedule a call and we'll unlock a brighter, more harmonious future for you and your loved ones. Let's walk this path together, one step at a time.Click here to listen!Rate, Review & Follow on Apple Podcasts“Tons of value in this episode, love and appreciate your authenticity in all of your content.”“Maria is amazing! Very well rounded insights.”“Your podcast is awesome!”If you like the show, please consider rating and reviewing us. This gives us the ability to reach and help more stepparents – like you – move towards the life and relationships they desire with their blended family.Click here, scroll to the bottom, rate us with 5 stars, and select “Write a Review” then be sure to let me know your favorite thing about the episode.Also, if you haven’t done so yet, follow the podcast so you don’t miss a thing. Follow now!

Mar 7, 2024 • 7min
#87: Skip the Blended Family Co-Parenting Learning Curve...
Send us a textWelcome, dear listeners, to another episode of Synergistic Stepparenting podcast. I'm your host, Maria Natapov, and I'm thrilled to have you join me today as we dive into the complexities of step-parenting and co-parenting with compassion and clarity. To all the stepparents and divorced parents tuning in, I want you to know that you're not alone on this journey. Whether you're navigating the delicate balance between your career and family life, or striving to create harmony amidst the daily challenges, this podcast is your sanctuary — a place where your struggles are heard, your victories celebrated, and your questions answered. Find the show notes for this episode at SynergisticStepparenting.com/87.Covered Topics:- Co-Parenting: A Common Stepparenting Struggle- Stepping into Co-Parenting Harmony - Acknowledging Your Struggles - Prioritizing Your Stepchild - Establishing Healthy Stepparenting Boundaries - Fostering Love and Acceptance in Your Blended Family - Embracing Emotional Expression as a Blended Family Value - Navigating Co-Parenting Challenges Together I see you. I understand the weight of your responsibilities and the depth of your commitment to your family's happiness. My guide, Family Fusion: 6 Steps to Collaborative Co-Parenting, the ultimate guide to finding serenity in the storms of blended family life is not just a solution — it's your roadmap to a life filled with harmony, connection, and joy.Click here to listen!Rate, Review & Follow on Apple Podcasts“Tons of value in this episode, love and appreciate your authenticity in all of your content.”“Maria is amazing! Very well rounded insights.”“Your podcast is awesome!”If you like the show, please consider rating and reviewing us. This gives us the ability to reach and help more stepparents – like you – move towards the life and relationships that they desire with their blended clan.Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate us with 5 stars, and select “Write a Review” then be sure to let me know your favorite thing about the episode.Also, if you haven’t done so yet, follow the podcast so you don’t miss a thing. Follow now!

Feb 29, 2024 • 6min
#86: The Secret to Eliminating Power Struggles in Stepfamilies
Send us a textWelcome, cherished stepparents and divorced parents in blended families, to another episode of the Synergistic Stepparenting podcast. I'm here with you, your guide and ally, as we delve into the intricate dynamics of blended family life.Today, we're tackling a topic that hits close to home for many of us: power struggles. Find the show notes for this episode at SynergisticStepparenting.com/86.Have you ever had déjà vu? Let me paint you a picture…You found yourself in yet another power struggle with your stepchild, tensions rising between you and your partner as the familiar argument about discipline reared its head. You, feeling isolated and defeated, spent another night tossing and turning, replaying the same scenes like a Groundhog Day movie.Can you relate? If you said “Yes,” you’re not alone!But fear not, because today's episode is your beacon of hope amidst the chaos. We're diving deep into the misunderstood realm of power struggles in blended families. We'll navigate through this challenge and emerge stronger.Covered Topics:- Exploring Stepparent and Stepchild Fallout- Neuroscience behind how discipline kills trust and connection- Embracing a new Approach to Conflict Resolution in the Blended FamilyAnd that wraps up our introduction and first steps on our journey to redefine discipline in blended families. Discipline isn't about control; it's about connection. If you want more, I’ve just released Family Fusion: 6 Steps to Collaborative Co-Parenting.Grab your copy here to learn powerful strategies and approaches to reduce the power struggles and create more peace, ease, and calm in your blended family. It's the first step towards a harmonious blended family life. Together, we've got this!Click here to listen!Rate, Review & Follow on Apple Podcasts“Tons of value in this episode, love and appreciate your authenticity in all of your content.”“Maria is amazing! Very well rounded insights.”“Your podcast is awesome!”If you like the show, please consider rating and reviewing us. This gives us the ability to reach and help more stepparents – like you – move towards the life and relationships that they desire with their blended clan.Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate us with 5 stars, and select “Write a Review” then be sure to let me know your favorite thing about the episode.Also, if you haven’t done so yet, follow the podcast so you don’t miss a thing. Follow now!

Feb 22, 2024 • 6min
#85: How Fear Destroys Your Stepfamily Connections...
Send us a textHey there, amazing stepparents and blended family warriors! Welcome back to another episode of Synergistic Stepparenting podcast, your go-to resource for navigating the challenges of struggling with stepparenting with grace and courage. Today, we're diving deep into the heart of one of the most common struggles in blended families: overcoming our own fears and worries. Find the show notes for this episode at SynergisticStepparenting.com/85.Covered Topics:- Identifying the Monsters Under the Bed: Struggling with Stepparenting - Separate Fact from Fiction: Stepparenting Myths Debunked - Embracing the Power of Trying: Stepparenting with Courage- Cultivating Courage and Connection: Stepparenting with Grace Click here to listen!Rate, Review & Follow on Apple Podcasts“Tons of value in this episode, love and appreciate your authenticity in all of your content.”“Maria is amazing! Very well rounded insights.”“Your podcast is awesome!”If you like the show, please consider rating and reviewing us. This gives us the ability to reach and help more stepparents – like you – move towards the life and relationships that they desire with their blended clan.Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate us with 5 stars, and select “Write a Review” then be sure to let me know your favorite thing about the episode.Also, if you haven’t done so yet, follow the podcast so you don’t miss a thing. Follow now!

Feb 15, 2024 • 5min
#84: Are You Afraid of Including Extended Family in Your Stepfamily?
Send us a textHey there, fabulous stepparents! Welcome back to another episode of Synergistic Stepparenting Podcast, where I guide you to navigate the wild and wonderful world of blended families with grace, humor, and a whole lot of heart. I'm your host Maria Natapov, your trusty guide through the twists and turns of stepparenting life.Today, we’re continuing to explore how to strengthen the stepfamily for harmonious co-parenting, understanding and connection. We're diving deep into the art of building bridges within your blended family. Find the show notes for this episode at SynergisticStepparenting.com/84. Topics Covered:- Embrace Your Village - Communication is Key - Celebrate Your Differences - Keep Them in the Loop Click here to listen!Rate, Review & Follow on Apple Podcasts“Tons of value in this episode, love and appreciate your authenticity in all of your content.”“Maria is amazing! Very well rounded insights.”“Your podcast is awesome!”If you like the show, please consider rating and reviewing us. This gives us the ability to reach and help more stepparents – like you – move towards the life and relationships that they desire with their blended clan.Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate us with 5 stars, and select “Write a Review” then be sure to let me know your favorite thing about the episode.Also, if you haven’t done so yet, follow the podcast so you don’t miss a thing. Follow now!

Feb 8, 2024 • 4min
#83: What Great Stepparents do When They Have Stepfamily Issues
Send us a textHey there, amazing stepparents! It's Maria Natapov, your guide in the world of blended families. Today, let's dive into the stepfamily challenges you face and how to navigate them effectively. Find the show notes at SynergisticStepparenting.com/83.Covered Topics:- Stepparent Insight- Recognizing Stepfamily Patterns- Neuroscience of Unhealthy Patterns in Stepfamilies- Leveraging Stepfamily Advantages- Navigating Stepfamily Issues Together- Stepfamily Communication and Connection- Embracing Stepfamily TransformationYou can do this within your own family and of course I would love to support you on this journey. So please don’t hesitate to reach out to me so that we can build this wonderful community approach and collaborative approach together to set your stepfamily up for success.Click here to listen!Rate, Review & Follow on Apple Podcasts“Tons of value in this episode, love and appreciate your authenticity in all of your content.”“Maria is amazing! Very well rounded insights.”“Your podcast is awesome!”If you like the show, please consider rating and reviewing us. This gives us the ability to reach and help more stepparents – like you – move towards the life and relationships that they desire with their blended clan.Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate us with 5 stars, and select “Write a Review” then be sure to let me know your favorite thing about the episode.Also, if you haven’t done so yet, follow the podcast so you don’t miss a thing. Follow now!

Feb 1, 2024 • 9min
#82: Step Talks: Navigating Stepfamily Bonds
Send us a textHey there, amazing stepparents!Welcome back to another episode of Synergistic Stepparenting podcast, where we dive deep into the world of blended families with a touch of humor and a whole lot of heart. I'm your host, Maria Natapov, the stepparenting coach here to guide you through the ups and downs of this incredible journey.In today's episode, we're talking about something many of us face in stepfamilies: How to handle it when your child complains about your spouse, their stepparent. If you've ever felt that sting or confusion, you're not alone. Find the show notes for this episode at SynergisticStepparenting.com/82. Topics Covered:- The CEO’s Perspective- The teacher’s Perspective- Harmony Minded Approach (a 4 step process)- Tailored Harmony Minded Approach to the CEO's challenge- Tailored Harmony Minded Approach to the teacher's challengeClick here to listen!Rate, Review & Follow on Apple Podcasts“Tons of value in this episode, love and appreciate your authenticity in all of your content.”“Maria is amazing! Very well rounded insights.”“Your podcast is awesome!”If you like the show, please consider rating and reviewing us. This gives us the ability to reach and help more stepparents – like you – move towards the life and relationships that they desire with their blended clan.Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate us with 5 stars, and select “Write a Review” then be sure to let me know your favorite thing about the episode.Also, if you haven’t done so yet, follow the podcast so you don’t miss a thing. Follow now!

Jan 25, 2024 • 5min
#81: Can Mindful Mourning Boost Stepfamily Harmony?
Send us a textHey there, amazing stepparents!Welcome to another episode of Synergistic Stepparenting, the podcast where we dive deep into the unique challenges of blending families while leading with love. I'm your go-to blended family strategist, here to guide you on this incredible journey.Today's episode is extra special, as we explore the power of mourning mindfully and how it can transform your experience as a stepparent. I'm talking to you whether you’re the powerhouse CEO or the dedicated teacher – this one's for every blended family out there! Find the show notes for this episode at SynergisticStepparenting.com/81. Topics Covered: - Embrace Your Emotional Voyage- Heartfelt Healing, Family Bonding- Balancing Love and Loss- Craft Your Joyful Blend- Navigate Loss, Embrace Joy- Embrace Healing, Cherish ConnectionClick here to listen!Rate, Review & Follow on Apple Podcasts“Tons of value in this episode, love and appreciate your authenticity in all of your content.”“Maria is amazing! Very well rounded insights.”“Your podcast is awesome!”If you like the show, please consider rating and reviewing us. This gives us the ability to reach and help more stepparents – like you – move towards the life and relationships that they desire with their blended clan.Click here, scroll to the bottom, tap to rate us with 5 stars, and select “Write a Review” then be sure to let me know your favorite thing about the episode.Also, if you haven’t done so yet, follow the podcast so you don’t miss a thing. Follow now!