The Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis

Welcome back to another episode of the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave and Ashley Willis! Today, we're diving deep into the heart of marriage with our Back to the Basics series. Join us as we unpack the vow of 'for better or for worse' and get real about the struggles every couple faces. We'll share insights on staying connected, the power of communication, and the beauty of finding silver linings in tough times. Plus, we'll chat about defining cheating, finding gratitude in past challenges, and growing from our mistakes. Stick around to hear about our upcoming speaking gigs too! Let's keep this journey real and raw together!---------------------Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-familyFor all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage---------------------Takeaways Marriage is not always easy, and every couple will face struggles. Staying connected and communicating are key to navigating the challenges of marriage. Embracing the hard times can lead to growth and intimacy in the relationship. Finding the good in every season and being grateful for past struggles can bring perspective and strength to the marriage. --------------------Chapters00:00 Introduction and Series Overview02:57 The Reality of Struggles in Marriage09:04 Staying Connected and Communicating10:02 Embracing the Hard Times12:11 Finding the Good in Every Season17:02 Defining Cheating in Marriage18:17 Being Grateful for Past Struggles21:00 Learning from Past Mistakes21:29 Upcoming Speaking Engagements Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: My husband works on weekends, and I take our boys to church. When I bring up wanting him to come to church with us, he says I'm forcing my religion on him. What should I do? —————Grab a copy of the Counterfit Climax: https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/the-counterfeit-climax-1Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-familyFor all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Exploring the importance of renewing wedding vows and showcasing love through actions in marriage. Emphasizing the value of consistent gestures and understanding each other's love languages. Practical tips on cherishing and investing in the relationship for long-lasting love.

Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: My husband calls a female coworker a nickname, and it's making me uncomfortable. What should I do?—————Grab a copy of the Counterfit Climax: https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/the-counterfeit-climax-1Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-familyFor all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave and Ashley Willis! Hey, friends, in this episode, we're diving into a topic that's close to our hearts – forgiveness in marriage. We're tackling common misconceptions, emphasizing the delicate dance between grace and justice, and sharing our own stories on rebuilding trust and conquering negative thoughts. Join us as we explore the liberating power of forgiveness, breaking free from bitterness, and the crucial role trust plays in the healing journey. We're opening up about the nitty-gritty of our own experiences to inspire you, and, most importantly, reminding you to trust in God's amazing ability to restore and transform marriages through the incredible gift of forgiveness. Tune in for some real talk and real hope!------------------Need Help? : https://xomarriage.com/helpOrder your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-familyFor all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage--------------------Takeaways Forgiveness is Commonly Misunderstood Forgiveness Requires Humility Forgiveness is a Daily Choice Trust in God's Ability to Heal Separating Forgiveness and Trust --------------------00:00 The Misunderstanding of Forgiveness03:44 Forgiveness and Trust05:12 Rebuilding Trust07:36 Apologizing and Taking Responsibility09:28 Controlling Negative Thoughts13:01 Renewing the Mind16:50 The Power of Forgiveness19:10 Trusting God in Forgiveness22:02 Forgiving Oneself Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: When I turn my spouse down for sex, they throw a tantrum. What should I do?—————Grab a copy of the Counterfit Climax: https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/the-counterfeit-climax-1Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-familyFor all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave and Ashley Willis! In this episode, we're diving into the crucial topic of communication in marriage. Join us as we tackle the challenges of disagreements, break the cycle of negativity, and stress the importance of repairing communication. Discover practical insights on seeking professional help when needed and reigniting the spark in your relationship.----------------------Takeaways Communication is a crucial aspect of a healthy marriage and requires constant effort and growth. The negative cycle of fighting can be broken by choosing kindness, compassion, and forgiveness. Seeking professional help, such as marriage mediators or Christian counselors, can be beneficial in repairing communication. Reconnecting and having fun together is essential for maintaining a deep connection and friendship in marriage. Taking the first step towards positive communication and being the one to go first can lead to positive changes in the relationship. ----------------------Chapters00:00 Introduction: Communication in Marriage04:30 The Negative Cycle of Fighting09:00 The Importance of Repairing Communication13:08 Seeking Professional Help16:52 Reconnecting and Having Fun20:12 Taking the First Step21:36 Reaching Out for Help22:01 Conclusion and Call to Action Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: I've told my spouse that having one-on-one lunches with the opposite sex makes me uncomfortable, and now he's having secret connections with other women. How do I ask him to stop? —————Grab a copy of the Vision Retreat: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/vision-retreat-course-bundleOrder your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-familyFor all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hey there, Dave and Ashley Willis here, and we just want to welcome you to the Naked Marriage Podcast! In this episode, we're diving into the core of marriage – communication. We share our personal journey on how to get your spouse to really listen. From being present to avoiding distractions, we spill the secrets. Learn tips on approaching a non-listening spouse with grace and curiosity. We explore side-by-side communication and tackle gender differences in processing info. Wrap it up with the magic of giving each other time to process, and watch your relationship transform through effective communication. Grab a seat, tune in, and let's deepen those connections!---------------------------Need Marriage Help?: https://xomarriage.com/marriage-help/Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-familyFor all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage---------------------------Takeaways Listening is more important than talking in communication. Being present and avoiding distractions is crucial for effective listening. Approach a spouse who doesn't listen with gentleness and curiosity. Side-by-side communication and understanding gender differences can enhance connection. Give each other time to process information and thoughts. ---------------------------Chapters00:00 Introduction: Importance of Communication01:30 Learning to Listen Better03:10The Listening Exercise04:07 Being Present and Avoiding Distractions05:04 Approaching a Spouse Who Doesn't Listen06:32 Being Gentle and Curious08:23 Assuming and Zoning Out09:20 Side-by-Side Communication10:44 Non-Accusatory Approach11:37 Understanding Gender Differences17:29 Processing Time for Men20:12 Giving Time to Process20:43 Conclusion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Hey there! Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave & Ashley Willis. Today, in our final episode wrapping up our spicy 14-days of sex, Ashley and I get real about something close to our hearts: the importance of sex habits in a marriage. We share our experiences and insights on fostering regular, fulfilling intimacy, and dive deep into open communication, mutual needs, and how prayer plays a key role. This isn't just a talk; it's a personal invitation to prioritize connection and keep the flame burning. Join us for some candid conversations and takeaways that hit home – let's continue growing together for a more passionate marriage journey!------------------FREE GIFT: Ten Secrets to Great Sex https://dl.bookfunnel.com/fuvgz1oh6yThe Counterfeit Climax Book: https://thecounterfeitclimax.com/For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriageOur Producers Link: https://www.zola.com/registry/chloeeandtywon------------------00:00 Introduction and Recap03:41 Sex Habits10:41 Conclusion and Next Steps Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices