

The Naked Marriage with Dave & Ashley Willis
XO Podcast Network, Dave Willis, Ashley Willis
A podcast dedicated to undressing the truth about sex, intimacy and lifelong love. The concerns and questions most couples have in marriage often go unspoken, until now. Hosts Dave and Ashley Willis bring wisdom, vulnerability, and humor to even the toughest marriage topics. Together, they reach millions of couples through their social media, books, videos, articles, and XO live events. They have four sons and live in Evans, GA.
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Mar 22, 2024 • 37min
Lessons in Love and Support for Aging Parents // In Memory of Steve Swanson
Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast! We're honored to present a very special episode featuring an interview with our beloved mentors, Steve and Susie Swanson. Unfortunately, Steve passed away earlier this week, but we're grateful to share his last interview in this bonus episode.In this heartfelt conversation, we sit down with Steve and Susie Swanson as they share their invaluable wisdom and experiences in caring for aging parents. The Swansons delve into the importance of honoring and supporting parents as they navigate the journey of aging, offering practical advice for overcoming the challenges that arise during this season of life. Patience, communication, and prayer emerge as vital components in maintaining healthy relationships with aging parents, as the Swansons stress the significance of finding the right caregivers and establishing a supportive network for our loved ones.Their story resonates as a powerful reminder for listeners to cherish and care for their parents with love and respect, serving as an inspiration to navigate this journey with grace and compassion. Welcome to this special episode of the Naked Marriage Podcast.-------------------------------------------------------Check out some more of our resources:https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1For all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage-------------------------------------------------------TakeawaysHonoring and supporting aging parents is a biblical mandate, and it is important to prioritize their needs and well-being.Communication and patience are key in navigating the challenges of caring for aging parents.Finding the right caregivers and creating a supportive network for parents can greatly enhance their quality of life.Prayer is essential in seeking wisdom and guidance in caring for aging parents.-------------------------------------------------------Chapters00:00 Introduction and Background01:25 Remembering Steve Swanson06:20 How Steve and Suzy Met10:24 Grandchildren and Family15:10 Caring for Aging Parents20:26 Finding the Right Caregiver24:33 Dealing with Sibling Dynamics27:53 Navigating Disagreements in Marriage32:13 Maintaining Healthy Relationships with Aging Parents35:04 Final Thoughts and Encouragement Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 20, 2024 • 7min
My Husband Is Attracted To Other Women // Hump Day Q&A
Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: Is it okay to be attracted to other people when you're married? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 18, 2024 • 22min
I'm Married to A Stranger
Welcome back to another episode of the Naked Marriage Podcast! Today, we are going to open up about the all-too-common feeling of being married to a stranger. Sharing our own experiences and insights, we'll offer genuine advice on how to bridge the gap and reignite intimacy. From carving out meaningful moments together to nurturing individual growth while prioritizing the marriage, we dive deep into the nuances of connection. With an unwavering focus on faith, prayer, and the importance of a supportive community, we want to remind you that laughter and joy are essential ingredients for a thriving relationship. Join us as we journey together toward deeper, more authentic connections in marriage.----------------------Takeaways
Acknowledge the dynamic of feeling like you're married to a stranger and the need to reconnect.
Prioritize spending time together and engaging in meaningful conversations.
Maintain independence while actively pursuing growth and connection in the marriage.
Seek God's guidance through prayer and surround yourself with a supportive community.
--------------------Chapters00:00 Introduction00:32 Married to a Stranger01:23 Reality TV and Marriage03:14 Acknowledging the Dynamic04:39 Reconnecting and Growing Together06:08 Spending Time Together07:05 Living Parallel Lives08:29 Maintaining Independence and Connection09:51 Prioritizing Time Together11:19 Concern and Curiosity12:11 Avoiding Unhealthy Behaviors13:08 Dealing with Changes in Faith14:35 Feeling Like Strangers15:35 Avoiding Counterfeit Comfort16:30 Surrounding Yourself with a Supportive Community18:26 Prayer and Seeking God19:25 Reaching Out for Help19:55 Laughter and Connection Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 13, 2024 • 6min
Sex Is Hurting Our Relationship // Hump Day Q&A
Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question:My husband and I have been married for 6moths, and it's been rough. What do I do when sex has hurt our relationship more than helping it, creating frustration and hurt? Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 11, 2024 • 19min
Through Thick and Thin
Welcome back to the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave and Ashley Willis! We are diving into a topic close to our hearts today. We're opening up about the sacred vows of 'In Sickness, In Health, and Until Till Death Do Us Part.' Sharing intimate stories and personal reflections, we explore the profound journey of standing by each other through health challenges & More. From moments of vulnerability to the strength found in serving one another, we delve into the raw reality of marriage in sickness and in health. Join us for heartfelt conversations on the importance of empathy, honest communication, and the beauty of seeking help when needed. Plus, stick around for some lighthearted fun with the Let's Get Deep card game as we navigate the depths of love and commitment together.----------------------------Grab a copy of our book:https://store.xomarriage.com/products/naked-and-healthyFor all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage---------------------------Takeaways
Serving and caring for a spouse during times of sickness is a privilege.
Empathy and understanding are crucial in supporting a spouse facing health challenges.
Open communication about end-of-life decisions is important for couples.
Asking for help and supporting each other in difficult times is essential for a strong marriage.
----------------------------Chapters00:00 Introduction to Back to the Basics series00:59 In Sickness, In Health, Till Death Do Us Part02:14 The challenges of serving and being a caregiver03:13 Sickness and health can affect couples of all ages04:35 Understanding and empathizing with each other's experiences05:05 Navigating life-changing injuries and disabilities06:29 Finding support and gratitude in difficult times07:52 Having conversations about end-of-life decisions09:43 Honoring the wishes of the spouse facing illness12:34 The importance of serving and asking for help13:00 Let's Get Deep question: Involving food in sex14:45 Reflecting on past decisions and finding gratitude16:33 Recommendation: Let's Get Deep card game17:01 Conclusion and upcoming episodes Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 6, 2024 • 14min
My In-Laws Are Playing Us Against Each Other // Hump Day Q&A
Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: My husband's mother believes it's his responsibility to take care of her, and we've gotten into some arguments over the subject because I feel like he's allowing her to pit us against each other. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Mar 4, 2024 • 25min
The Truth Behind Forsaking All Others
Welcome back to the Naked Marriage podcast, friends! Today, we are diving deep into the heart of marriage with a candid discussion on the vow 'forsaking all other's, continuing in our back-to-the-basic series. Drawing from our own experiences and those of couples we've worked with, we're shedding light on the gravity of this commitment and what it truly means to prioritize your spouse above all else. We'll be sharing some personal stories that highlight the importance of establishing healthy boundaries and the power of making your marriage public. Plus, we're tackling the tough topic of navigating relationships outside of marriage, whether it's with the opposite sex or within family dynamics. So join us for an honest conversation about love, commitment, and the beauty of a Naked Marriage!-------------------------------Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-familyFor all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriageGive a wedding gift to our producer Tywon! https://www.zola.com/registry/chloeeandtywon-------------------------------Takeaways
The vow 'forsaking all others' in marriage represents the exclusivity and commitment that spouses should have towards each other.
Setting boundaries and making the marriage public are important in maintaining the exclusivity of the relationship.
It is crucial to recognize and avoid unhealthy relationships, both with people of the opposite sex and with family and in-laws.
Dream travel destinations and three life rules: love God, love people, and serve the world.
-------------------------------Chapters00:00 Introduction and Importance of Forsaking All Others02:14 The Significance of the Vow 'Forsaking All Others'03:10 Recognizing the Lack of Exclusivity in a Marriage04:35 The Importance of Boundaries in Marriage06:28 Making Your Marriage Public08:21 The Danger of Not Showing Commitment in Public09:49 Identifying Unhealthy Relationships11:40 Challenging the Norms of Marriage13:07 Maintaining Professional Boundaries15:02 Finding Your Own Rhythm in Marriage16:52 Identifying Dangerous People in Your Life19:46 Balancing Relationships with Family and In-Laws21:08 Dream Travel Destinations22:35 Three Life Rules22:57 Conclusion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 28, 2024 • 5min
I Can't Get Out of My Head And It's Hurting My Marriage // Hump Day Q&A
Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: My Husband and I are newly married and this is neither of our first marriages. With that being said, my past is slowly creeping into the sex life of my current marriage; what can I do?—————Grab a copy of the Counterfit Climax: https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/the-counterfeit-climax-1Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-familyFor all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 26, 2024 • 24min
What For Richer or For Poorer Really Means
Welcome back! We are here with another episode of the Naked Marriage Podcast with Dave and Ashley Willis! Today, we're continuing with our back-to-the-basics series, tackling a topic close to home: finances in marriage. Join us for a candid chat about our money mishaps and triumphs, along with some practical tips for managing your moolah as a team. From clever money-saving hacks to the joys of open communication, we've got you covered. Stick around 'til the end for some laughs and a peek into what happiness means to us. Let's dive in and make those dollars count together!------------------------------Our Sponsors: RocketMoney.com/ NAKEDOrder your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-familyFor all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage------------------------------Takeaways
Financial struggles are common in marriage, but with open communication and teamwork, couples can overcome them.
Being resourceful and finding creative ways to make and save money can help alleviate financial stress.
Managing money well requires both partners to be involved and make decisions together.
Personal opinions and preferences should be respected in marriage, even if they differ from your own.
Happiness in marriage is about being with your spouse and cherishing the moments together.
------------------------------Chapters00:00 Introduction01:24 Financial Struggles03:09 Managing Money06:24 Making and Saving Money10:59 Tips for Saving Money16:35 Different Seasons of Finances18:01 Discussion: What are you extremely opinionated about?21:48 Discussion: What does happiness mean to you?22:04 Conclusion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Feb 21, 2024 • 7min
Am I Playing Into The Generational Curse? // Hump Day Q&A
Welcome back; it's our favorite time of the week; it's HUMP DAY Q&A TIME! Today's question: What is your advice for changing my tone toward my spouse when it's not something I'm accustomed to, What do I do?—————Grab a copy of the Counterfit Climax: https://store.xomarriage.com/collections/dave-ashley-willis-1/products/the-counterfeit-climax-1Order your copy of Married Into The Family Today: https://store.xomarriage.com/products/married-into-the-familyFor all links mentioned in the episode & more XO content, visit https://linktr.ee/nakedmarriage Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices