Big Hormone Enneagram

— (3:16) Nancy shares a dream with a recurring theme / what the unconscious is trying to tell us with a repeated dream — (10:59) Compensatory dreams / John’s social last dreams and parasocial drama — (23:32) Working with Kristen on dreams — (31:39) Exploring how dreams are shaped by instincts — (35:43) Alexandra’s persistent dreams about women To book Kristen for a dream interpretation you can reach her at:https://www.inkstoryrebel.com/services-1 Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website saturnruled9.com Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their first class  — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group DAA — Becoming more fluent in the enneagram thru the practice of typing. Watch recent classes on John Malkovich, Fiona Apple, Dolly Parton. And get typed at enneagrammer.com Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about the show at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

Our dreamlord Kristen is with us this week to discuss exploring the corridors of our nocturnal psychodramas. — (9:48) How Kristen got into dream interpretation — (14:52) Dreams are a way to open up a dialogue with your unconscious and push the ego off its pedestal  — (19:14) Collective projecting from a lack of a transcendent function — (21:48) What does dreamwork add to understanding your enneagram type? — (26:41) Every person or object in a dream is an aspect of yourself — (28:13) Emeka’s psychic dreams and how those work / John’s mundane counter-4 dreams — (37:55) The significance of recurring dreams — (40:51) How Kristen stays grounded as a 9 while navigating the fluid interpretation of dreams — (43:46) Practices to begin relating more to your dreams To book Kristen for a dream interpretation you can reach her at: https://www.inkstoryrebel.com/services-1 Check out Alexandra’s astrology-enneagram offerings at her new website saturnruled9.com Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their first class  — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group DAA — Becoming fluent in the enneagram thru the practice of typing. Watch recent classes on instinct fashion aesthetics, Khabib, John Malkovich. And get typed at enneagrammer.com Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about the show at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

Josh Lavine unveils a profound new model of object relations and the centers. He explains the issues with the current framework, Ken Wilber's holonic theory, and how this new model makes the centers and trifix clearer. They discuss the object relational affects in the body center and evaluate how we hold others in symbolic space. The podcast also touches on frustration, fighting people online, and the upcoming Enneagram school.

Join us on our annual end of year drunk pod looking back on 2022’s ups and downs. — (7:13) Parasocial discord and drawing lines in the sand — (15:23) Looking back on the vibe of 2022 and the growth of the pod — (23:38) The year of Emeka slowing down / DG’s hot nerd creative updates — (32:44) Revisiting Alejohndra conscious sex talk and the sexual instinct — (50:51) Nancy getting married and moving halfway across the globe — (59:26) Favorite episodes and ideas for 2023  — (1:07:04) John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school — (1:16:59) Play vs play last OPS talk — (1:30:44) Last call for 2023 plans Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their first class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/first-offering Don’t miss Emeka and John on the ‘best of’ Enneagram Global Summit (we make cheese when you sign up) shiftnetwork.infusionsoft.com/go/egs22a23961/a23961 shiftnetwork.infusionsoft.com/go/egs22JohnL/JohnL Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group DAA — Becoming experientially fluent with the enneagram thru the practice of typing. Watch recent classes on the Liver King, Assertive 9s, Khabib. And get typed at enneagrammer.com Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about the show at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

Picking up where we left off with Josh and Spiral Dynamics. — (1:38) The conflict of what it means to help people with the enneagram from the worldviews of different stages of development — (7:33) Yellow distinguishes between and integrates interior subjectivity and external objectivity — (12:53) DG’s 7-fix ain’t got time for yellow — (16:31) Yellow makes finer distinctions beyond Green’s assumption that everyone’s whole — (20:43) The limitations of Yellow is the insistence that everyone can develop  — (25:57) Teal has an awareness of construct as a vantage point for meaning making  — (29:55) The way to develop is to reach the limits of your level’s framework — (32:24) Is DAA an example of a yellow or orange holding of the enneagram? — (37:42) Assertive types seeming orange and the need to integrate both an inner and outer orientation — (42:03) The value system of each type’s fixation evolves through the developmental stages Check out John and Josh’s new formal enneagram school. And sign up for their first class — A Developmental View of the Centers at https://www.theenneagramschool.com/ Don’t miss Emeka and John on the ‘best of’ Enneagram Global Summit (we make some cheese when you sign up) shiftnetwork.infusionsoft.com/go/egs22a23961/a23961 shiftnetwork.infusionsoft.com/go/egs22JohnL/JohnL Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group DAA — Become more fluent in the language of the enneagram thru the practice of typing. Watch recent classes on the Liver King, Assertive 9s, Khabib. And get typed at enneagrammer.com Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about the show at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

BHE 135 - THE DEVELOPMENTAL ENNEAGRAM [PART I] - Josh Lavine Josh of What It’s Like To Be You is hangin with us this week.  He broke down how the enneagram is missing and needs a developmental* model (*Not Riso’s Levels of Development) — (14:44) Our understanding of the enneagram evolves with the development of an introspective eye — (16:51) The ability to see oneself is a developmental achievement / words have different interpretations and meanings for each stage of development — (19:50) Riso’s levels of development is a measure of identification and awakening. It’s not a vertical developmental model — (21:33) Ken Wilber’s theory of everything and the difference between waking and growing up / the enneagram has a waking up framework but needs a growing up framework — (24:12) An example of what development is and how the rational-objective stage might react to the enneagram — (27:46) Spiral dynamics orange to green is a shift from the rational-objective to the personally subjective and the inner world — (30:12) Growing is an expanding sense of our capacity for meaning making — (34:54) How a lack of understanding of this developmental view limits the enneagram and the discourse around it — (40:15) The enneagram world is characterized by green empathy / the shadow and blindspots of green — (47:57) At green everyone’s subjectivity is equal and valid / Green fails to realize that subjectivity and the ability to see oneself is unequal and can grow Check out thirst demons Emeka and John on the ‘best of’ Enneagram Global Summit (we make a little cheese when you sign up) shiftnetwork.infusionsoft.com/go/egs22a23961/a23961 shiftnetwork.infusionsoft.com/go/egs22JohnL/JohnL Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble and attend his weekly study group: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T https://www.johnluckovich.com/the-study-group DAA — Become more fluent in the language of the enneagram. Watch recent typing classes on the Liver King, Heady 9s vs Gutty 6s, Watch our end of the year special. And get typed at enneagrammer.com Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about the show at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

Niklas joins us to dive more into the inner workings of our favorite type.   — (11:22) Niklas’ journey realizing and seeing his 2 rejection type structure — (14:18) Emptiness is what ignites the 2’s rejection dynamic — (17:38) The irritating penetration of 2 rejection / what’s behind the desperation of the possession dynamic — (21:09) The all or nothing of rejection prevents seeing the dynamic / the instinctual blindspot as the gateway — (27:54) The 2 and 8 oppositional relationship to life force / contending with the rejected shadow self — (37:59) 2’s shutdown their autonomy to protect the relationship  — (41:43) The emotional landscape of 2 is tethered to the dynamic working with the other — (48:58) 8’s shutting down the dynamic because of inability to register hurt and nuanced sensitivity — (57:49) Niklas’ experience of the fixation of flattery and ingratiation — (1:04:06) Emptiness and Almaas’ theory of holes / contending with the uncertainty  Check out ya boyz Emeka and John on the ‘best of’ Enneagram Global Summit (we make some money when you sign up) shiftnetwork.infusionsoft.com/go/egs22a23961/a23961 shiftnetwork.infusionsoft.com/go/egs22JohnL/JohnL Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T DAA — Become more fluent in the language of the enneagram. Watch recent typing classes on the Liver King, MC Ride, Competency types. And get typed at enneagrammer.com Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about the show at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

Our favorite type finally got winged. — (1:27) How much does the center of the wing play a role? — (22:21) Contrasting the attachment 3-wing vs the frustration 1-wing — (27:12) 2w3 as a mouth and emoji queen — (38:09) Justifying Pride with the double image of 2w3 vs the superego of 2w1 / the assertiveness of 2s — (42:37) Ego boundaries of assertive, withdrawn, and superego types / why superego types can seem very assertive at times — (46:59) How the wings support the emotional leverage of 2 — (51:27) Frustration as a singular ideal makes 2w1 far more specific in their offering and unadaptable  — (59:19) Your back pocket type was your past life type — (1:03:06) There’s a lot of energy around 2 because we’re all starving for love Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T DAA — Become more fluent in the language of the enneagram. Watch recent typing classes on assertive 9s, MC Ride, Competency types. And get typed at enneagrammer.com Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about the show at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

Coming to you live from a brooklyn bedroom in the zone. A round the chat circle audience q&a pod. Watch the video pod here: https://youtu.be/cXMTPc5YIHo — (1:27) Awkward soc-last attempts to kickstart the pod — (9:50) How everyone got into the enneagram and what it has done for them?  — (11:58) Celia, a 6w5 middle manager, mistyped as an 8 before finding us — (13:14) Sarah, a social 9 DJ, found the enneagram through evangelical christian content and mistyped as a 4 — (17:44) Kristen, a social 9 Bermuda, mistyped as a 5 before finding the pod and turning her life upside down  — (23:24) Gray, social 3 Kyle, set her life on fire after encountering herself in a zone — (27:56) Josh, a social 3 Bermuda and host of What It’s Like To Be You, gives us his podcast intro voice — (30:40) Michaela, a social 3 DJ, found us through instagram memes — (33:10) Sammy, a self-pres 9 Hateful Ghost, was upset to find out she was triple withdrawn — (41:03) Kaisa, a sexual Flatline 9, came all the way from Finland to go deep with us — (47:12) How do attachment types stop caring? — (50:36) Happy Birthday to StJUCE — (53:12) Alexandra and others give their take on integrating the psychological mixing of the sexual instinct (audio issues abound) Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T DAA — Become more fluent in the language of the enneagram. Watch recent typing classes on assertive 9s, Anton Lavey, Reactive types. And get typed at enneagrammer.com Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about the show at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message

Happy Halloween. Send in your questions and topics for the upcoming live pod.  — (3:38) Dahmer as an attachment type and death obsessed soc-blind — (10:49) The hot serial killer phenomenon / serial killers as an aesthetic   — (15:31) The disconnection from death in the west as a lived experience creates a shadow death obsession — (25:44) The social and type dynamics that allowed Dahmer to get away with it for so long — (26:22) Dahmer fandom and serial killer fixation as an example of our collective lack of relationship to death  — (34:41) Alcoholism as self-medication for loneliness and social isolation — (43:17) We should explore how to make and keep friends / We’re lonely because we’re disconnected from ourselves — (49:18) Dahmer’s attachment to disconnect and dissociation from reality — (55:07) Dahmer had a growing inner impulse centered around autonomy / everything happening to the 9 Get John’s book on the instinctual drives on amazon or barnesandnoble: https://www.amazon.com/dp/0578784971/ref=cm_sw_r_cp_api_glt_fabc_VZ3VZVEG0M1RY42AWN2T DAA — Become more fluent in the language of the enneagram. Watch recent typing classes on 3-wings, Anton Lavey, Reactive types. And get typed at enneagrammer.com Buy David’s Trifix Booklet here: https://www.enneagrammer.com/store/trifix-venn-booklet-david-gray Call the Loveline with your comments and thoughts about the show at (323) 696-0647. Or you can also email bhepodcast@gmail.com or DM us with a pre-recorded voice message