BHE 131 - DAHMER’S A 9

Happy Halloween. Send in your questions and topics for the upcoming live pod. 

— (3:38) Dahmer as an attachment type and death obsessed soc-blind
— (10:49) The hot serial killer phenomenon / serial killers as an aesthetic  
— (15:31) The disconnection from death in the west as a lived experience creates a shadow death obsession
— (25:44) The social and type dynamics that allowed Dahmer to get away with it for so long
— (26:22) Dahmer fandom and serial killer fixation as an example of our collective lack of relationship to death 
— (34:41) Alcoholism as self-medication for loneliness and social isolation
— (43:17) We should explore how to make and keep friends / We’re lonely because we’re disconnected from ourselves
— (49:18) Dahmer’s attachment to disconnect and dissociation from reality
— (55:07) Dahmer had a growing inner impulse centered around autonomy / everything happening to the 9

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