Resonate | Conversations & Life Lessons from Rancho La Puerta

Make sure to mention the code PODCAST when making your next reservation and enjoy 15% off on new bookings for 7-night stays in 2025.Applicable towards new reservations only. Not combinable with other offers. On space-available basis. Some restrictions and blackout dates apply. Booking must be made by December 27, 2025.In this illuminating episode of Resonate, Barry sits down with Jungian coach, dream analyst, former musician, and memoirist Orenda Fink to explore the vast landscape of the unconscious mind. Orenda shares how dreams reveal the 95% of our inner world we can’t access while awake, why the “shadow” holds the keys to our personal growth, and how early childhood experiences continue to shape our adult behaviors and beliefs.Resources:Learn more about Orenda Fink: www.orendafink.comCreative Mind UniversityA Witch’s Daughter by Orenda FinkUnderstanding the Borderline Mother by Christine Ann LawsonTo learn more about our wonderful presenters and exciting weeks coming up at the ranch, go to RanchoLaPuerta.com and check out our events calendar. Mention the podcast when making your reservation to take advantage of a special offer. Some restrictions may apply.Produced by NOVA

Make sure to mention the code PODCAST when making your next reservation and enjoy 15% off on new bookings for 7-night stays in 2025.Applicable towards new reservations only. Not combinable with other offers. On space-available basis. Some restrictions and blackout dates apply. Booking must be made by December 27, 2025.Welcome to Resonate, conversations and life lessons from Rancho La Puerta. In this heart-opening episode, Barry sits down with life coach, retreat leader, and author Elizabeth Trinkaus to explore one of the most universal beliefs we carry: the quiet, persistent feeling of “not enough.” With humor, honesty, and decades of experience guiding others toward self-worth, Elizabeth shares how this belief forms, how it quietly shapes our lives, and—most importantly—how we can finally let it go.Together they unpack the stories we inherit, the inner critic that narrates them, and the liberating power of rewriting that narrative with compassion. Elizabeth reveals simple daily rituals to reconnect with your authentic self, the importance of creating space to hear your inner wisdom, and why embracing life’s beautiful messiness is essential to true self-acceptance. From personal breakthroughs to practical shifts in mindset, this conversation is an invitation to soften, breathe, and remember that you are already enough.Resources:Read Elizabeth’s Book: “Enough Already! Yes, You Are”Elizabeth’s Coaching & Retreats: https://lizretreats.comPinnacle View Life-Enrichment Programs: https://pinnacleview.netListen to the “Enough Already” Podcast: https://enoughalready.libsyn.comTo learn more about our wonderful presenters and exciting weeks coming up at the ranch, go to RanchoLaPuerta.com and check out our events calendar. Mention the podcast when making your reservation to take advantage of a special offer. Some restrictions may apply.Produced by NOVA

Make sure to mention the code PODCAST when making your next reservation and enjoy 15% off on new bookings for 7-night stays in 2025.Applicable towards new reservations only. Not combinable with other offers. On space-available basis. Some restrictions and blackout dates apply. Booking must be made by December 27, 2025.A string of pearls for your body and mind. In this uplifting conversation, fitness icon and Discover Tai Chi creator Scott Cole joins Barry to explore the evolution from high-impact aerobics to mindful movement—why slowing down can heal, strengthen, and change your life.Resources:Scott’s website:  scottcole.comInstagram: @scott_cole_wellnessDiscover Tai Chi (Balance & Mobility, Beginners, and more)To learn more about our wonderful presenters and exciting weeks coming up at the ranch, go to RanchoLaPuerta.com and check out our events calendar. Mention the podcast when making your reservation to take advantage of a special offer. Some restrictions may apply.Produced by NOVA

Make sure to mention the code PODCAST when making your next reservation and enjoy 15% off on new bookings for 7-night stays in 2025.Applicable towards new reservations only. Not combinable with other offers. On space-available basis. Some restrictions and blackout dates apply. Booking must be made by December 27, 2025.From a turbulent childhood to early success in the computer industry, from selling her company at 49 to building 130+ water systems in Ethiopia, Lori Pappas has lived multiple lifetimes of service and reinvention. Now an author and speaker, Lori shares a clear path for turning struggle into wisdom—and why your most expansive season might be ahead of you.Resources:Lori’s website: loripappas.comRead: The Magic of YesTo learn more about our wonderful presenters and exciting weeks coming up at the ranch, go to RanchoLaPuerta.com and check out our events calendar. Mention the podcast when making your reservation to take advantage of a special offer. Some restrictions may apply.Produced by NOVA

Make sure to mention the code PODCAST when making your next reservation and enjoy 15% off on new bookings for 7-night stays in 2025.Applicable towards new reservations only. Not combinable with other offers. On space-available basis. Some restrictions and blackout dates apply. Booking must be made by December 27, 2025.We sit down with sociologist and sexologist Dr. Pepper Schwartz for a candid, science-backed exploration of love, desire, and connection across the lifespan. From the biology of attraction to the emotional architecture of long-term partnership, Pepper brings five decades of research—and 19 seasons of *Married at First Sight*—to reveal what truly makes relationships last. We talk about the myths that still surround aging and sexuality, how fantasy shapes our understanding of intimacy, and why chemistry, communication, and curiosity matter more than perfection. It’s an illuminating conversation about staying vibrant—in body, mind, and heart—at every age. Resources:Read American Couples: Money, Work, and SexTo learn more about our wonderful presenters and exciting weeks coming up at the ranch, go to RanchoLaPuerta.com and check out our events calendar. Mention the podcast when making your reservation to take advantage of a special offer. Some restrictions may apply.Produced by NOVA

Make sure to mention the code PODCAST when making your next reservation and enjoy 15% off on new bookings for 7-night stays in 2025.Applicable towards new reservations only. Not combinable with other offers. On space-available basis. Some restrictions and blackout dates apply. Booking must be made by December 27, 2025.We sit down with author and former legislator Dr. Ruth Nemzoff for a smart, compassionate guide to relating across generations—parents to adult kids, and families to in-laws. We explore why a well-meant *comment* can land like a *command*, how to set house rules when grown kids move home, and ways to balance joy and safety as parents age. Then we zoom out to purpose, community, and the everyday creativity that makes family life work.Resources:Learn more at RuthNemzoff.comConnect with Dr. Ruth Nemzoff on LinkedInRead Don’t Bite Your Tongue by Dr. Ruth NemzoffRead Don’t Roll Your Eyes by Dr. Ruth NemzoffTo learn more about our wonderful presenters and exciting weeks coming up at the ranch, go to RanchoLaPuerta.com and check out our events calendar. Mention the podcast when making your reservation to take advantage of a special offer. Some restrictions may apply.Produced by NOVA

Make sure to mention the code PODCAST when making your next reservation and enjoy 15% off on new bookings for 7-night stays in 2025.Applicable towards new reservations only. Not combinable with other offers. On space-available basis. Some restrictions and blackout dates apply. Booking must be made by December 27, 2025.What if the difference between choking and clutch is emotional, not technical? In this episode of Resonate, performance psychotherapist Dr. Rick Aberman joins Barry to unpack how identity, emotions, and attention shape our best (and worst) moments under pressure. We explore why vulnerability is the gateway to peak performance, how feelings precede thoughts, and the simple physiological resets that can flip momentum in your favor—on the field, in the boardroom, or during a rocky morning at home.Resources:Learn more at RickAberman.comRead Why Good Coaches Quit by Rick Aberman & John AndersonConnect with Dr. Rick Aberman on LinkedInTo learn more about our wonderful presenters and exciting weeks coming up at the ranch, go to RanchoLaPuerta.com and check out our events calendar. Mention the podcast when making your reservation to take advantage of a special offer. Some restrictions may apply.Produced by NOVA

Make sure to mention the code PODCAST when making your next reservation and enjoy 15% off on new bookings for 7-night stays in 2025.Applicable towards new reservations only. Not combinable with other offers. On space-available basis. Some restrictions and blackout dates apply. Booking must be made by December 27, 2025.What if you could see your life’s possibilities laid out before you?In this thought-provoking episode of Resonate, Barry sits down with intuitive and medium Adela Lavine, author of Seer, to explore the unseen world of intuition, spirit communication, and the choices that shape our lives. Adela shares her personal journey—from resisting her gift to embracing it fully—and explains how she helps people connect with loved ones who have passed and tune into their own inner knowing. Along the way, she offers practical tools for trusting your instincts, addresses misconceptions about mediums, and emphasizes the ethics of her work. Barry receives a brief reading, leading to reflections on skepticism, metaphysics, and the freedom that comes with embracing uncertainty.Resources:Adela Lavine’s website: adelalavine.comRead Seer by Adela LavineAdela’s podcast: The House MediumTo learn more about our wonderful presenters and exciting weeks coming up at the ranch, go to RanchoLaPuerta.com and check out our events calendar. Mention the podcast when making your reservation to take advantage of a special offer. Some restrictions may apply.Produced by NOVA

Make sure to mention the code PODCAST when making your next reservation and enjoy 15% off on new bookings for 7-night stays in 2025.Applicable towards new reservations only. Not combinable with other offers. On space-available basis. Some restrictions and blackout dates apply. Booking must be made by December 27, 2025.Step into the art and science of listening with Elizabeth Rosner, acclaimed author of Third Ear: Reflections on the Art and Science of Listening. We explore the invisible threads that connect us through trauma, resilience, and the longing for true understanding. Elizabeth draws from her own family history as the daughter of Holocaust survivors and decades of research into healing, language, and connection. Together, we consider how listening extends beyond sound, embracing intuition, body, and even silence itself.Discover stories about healing from trauma, the power of naming what we carry, and how horses and disconnected telephones can teach us new ways to connect. Whether through language, art, or quiet presence, we uncover how each of us can listen more deeply to ourselves, each other, and the world around us.Resources:Learn more about Elizabeth’s work at elizabethrosner.comRead Third Ear: Reflections on the Art and Science of ListeningTo learn more about our wonderful presenters and exciting weeks coming up at the ranch, go to RanchoLaPuerta.com and check out our events calendar. Mention the podcast when making your reservation to take advantage of a special offer. Some restrictions may apply.Produced by NOVA

Make sure to mention the code PODCAST when making your next reservation and enjoy 15% off on new bookings for 7-night stays in 2025.Applicable towards new reservations only. Not combinable with other offers. On space-available basis. Some restrictions and blackout dates apply. Booking must be made by December 27, 2025.How do you find hope after heartbreaking loss? In this moving episode of Resonate, Barry sits down with Julie Green—nurse, grief facilitator, and author of *A Thousand Little Memories*—to talk about love, loss, and healing. Julie opens up about losing her son Jack to suicide, her journey through shock and despair, and the steps she took to reclaim joy and purpose. She shares the small rituals and daily practices that anchored her, from mindful walks on the beach to honoring Jack’s memory with family traditions and dragonfly sightings. Along the way, Julie offers honest advice for supporting others through grief and breaks down the power of resources like the Grief Recovery Method and EMDR therapy. This is a conversation about the enduring presence of love, the importance of being present, and the hope that can emerge even in the most difficult chapters of life.Resources:Read A Thousand Little Memories by Julie GreenThe Grief Recovery MethodEMDR TherapyAmerican Foundation for Suicide PreventionSuicide & Crisis Lifeline: Call or text 988To learn more about our wonderful presenters and exciting weeks coming up at the ranch, go to RanchoLaPuerta.com and check out our events calendar. Mention the podcast when making your reservation to take advantage of a special offer. Some restrictions may apply.Produced by NOVA