

CONSISTENT by Primal Potential
Elizabeth Benton
Why are we so stressed & overwhelmed? Why do we have clear & compelling goals but fail to reach them? How can we want to change so desperately yet make choices that keep us from that change? Because we keep focusing on the habits we want instead of building the skill of consistency that allows us to achieve them. Consistency is a skill. It's a superpower. It isn't one-size-fits all. It unlocks any door and makes every goal achievable. A more effective, realistic approach starts here.
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Jun 6, 2019 • 42min
611: Creating Big Change & Refusing to Settle
If you want to make big change in your life but you aren't sure how - this is your show. If you're going through the motions & want to break free, tune in! Today I'm talking with Rob Murgatroyd about his decision to refuse the status quo and his unwillingness to settle for anything less than a life he loved. We're exploring how he walked about from a successful chiropractic practice and embraced uncertainty so he could create the life of his dreams instead of settling for a routine he was no longer enjoying. Rob is so full of powerful truths and empowering mindsets. He serves up some tough love, reminding us that we can certainly continue to tell the story of why we can't do something but we're also free to stop telling that story and start to focus on how and why we can. https://primalpotential.com/611/ Want to connect with Rob? Check out his Work Hard Play Hard mastermind here. Tips for Creating Big Change Ask yourself these questions: What would it look like if this was easy? What would it look like if this was fun? What would it look like if this was elegant? Learn more about morning pages for starting the day with intention & opportunity. One of Rob's tools for creating big change in his life is to use the mantra "I belong here". While I love that mantra and think it's an awesome tool for stepping up and creating confidence, what I love most is what he said next. He said that he says it over and over (for weeks and months) "until it starts to feel real..." That's the ticket. We create these new stories and we repeat them until they feel real. Whether the story is, "I make great choices" or "I am a creative energetic problem solver" or "I belong here" - you repeat it and repeat it until it starts to feel real. (Tune in for more on this) Resources: Chasing Cupcakes for questions Today's episode is brought to you by Thrive Market! Make sure to check them out and when you register via this link, you get a free 30-day trial and 20% off your first order! Want to connect with Rob? Check out his Work Hard Play Hard mastermind here.

Jun 3, 2019 • 15min
610: Inconsistency - A New Perspective
If you're struggling with inconsistency, this episode is for you. This new perspective on the cost of inconsistency will reframe all your future choices! Today we're taking something you've probably heard before and taking it someplace new and powerful. We all understand that consistency is something that accumulates in value over time and that inconsistency reflects a short term perspective rather than a long term one, but today, we're putting it in a whole new light that makes the price paid for your lack of consistency MUCH more real! I'm taking you inside the 12 Weeks to Transformation with this one and I can't wait to hear what you think! Don't forget that I'm doing free video coaching for everyone on the 12 Weeks to Transformation wait list over the next couple weeks so get on the wait list now! Today's episode is brought to you by Four Sigmatic - you can use the coupon code PRIMAL to save 15% off your next order! Resources: Learn more about the 12 Weeks to Transformation & get on the wait list! Registration opens up for our next 12 Weeks to Transformation in just a few weeks and between now and then, I'll be sharing FREE weekly coaching with everyone on the wait list to help you determine if my style is a good fit for you and if the 12 WT will help you crush your goals so make sure you're on that wait list! Have a question, challenge, struggle or topic request? Share it with us here! Connect with Elizabeth on Instagram! Want more episodes like this? Listen to episode 548 for more tough love, straight talk and tips to create progress and momentum!

Jun 1, 2019 • 34min
609: How To Get Motivated & Stay That Way
How can you get motivated? More importantly: how can you stay motivated? Get more motivated? Saturday shows are listener question & coaching episodes and today's show definitely has a theme of motivation! We also pick a winner for a free giveaway every Saturday! You can enter to win by leaving a rating & review of the podcast on iTunes, leaving a review of Chasing Cupcakes on Amazon or posting a favorite episode of the Primal Potential podcast on Instagram or Facebook. Today's winner is Joannew12 - please email sarah@primalpotential.com to claim your prize from Four Sigmatic. Four Sigmatic is the sponsor of today's show! Check them out here and use the coupon code PRIMAL to save 15%! Questions Addressed in Today's Episode: Does it matter if you use decaf coffee for bulletproof coffee? How do I get motivated? I do I keep my motivation alive and strong? How do I commit to lifestyle change without being overwhelmed? What steps does it take to become motivated and believe you can win this battle? Beyond willpower, how can I change? If you have a question, you can submit it here. Resources: Make sure you're on the wait list for the Summer 2019 12 Weeks to Transformation! Chasing Cupcakes Dos and Don'ts of Bulletproof Coffee The Motivation Manifesto by Brendon Burchard Eat the Yolks by Liz Wolfe

May 30, 2019 • 31min
608: 3 Tools for Any Change
Here's the great news about change: while there are thousands of tools, tactics and approaches, you don't need to collect all of them to win. You don't need 75,000 strategies. You don't need to know more. You certainly don't need to know anything. Creating change requires just a small handful of tools that you actually use. That right there is one of the keys - don't delude yourself into thinking that utility requires novelty - that something new is more valuable than something familiar that you just haven't implemented consistently. In today's episode I'm sharing with you the 3 most common tools I've been using with my 12 WT clients to help them create change in their lives. I think you're going to love them! You don't want to miss today's episode! https://primalpotential.com/608/ 3 Tools for Any Change: Move from a problem focus to a solution focus Leave the past out of the present Less drama means more success Resources Mentioned in Today's Episode: Get on the wait list for the Summer 12 Weeks to Transformation Chasing Cupcakes Episode 579 - Change Maker Part 1 - Awareness Episode 548 - Other Tools for Change Today's episode is brought to you by Fabletics! Shop through fabletics.com/primalpotential to get 2 pairs of leggings for just $24! The new bra I just bought is the Megan Medium Impact Sports Bra. You can see some of my other favorites here.

May 27, 2019 • 21min
607: How to Recover Faster From Any Setback
If you want to hit any goal in your life, you have to know how to recover faster from setbacks & frustrations. The other day, I had a big setback and I was emotional about it. I cried. I got mad. I spent hours focused on how I didn't understand another person's behavior or thought process. Then, I had a bit of an "aha" moment. I came to the realization of a powerful perspective shift that I now think of as my "drama shut off" valve and I'm sharing it with you on today's episode! Today's episode is brought to you by Four Sigmatic - you can use the coupon code PRIMAL to save 15% off your next order! Resources: Learn more about the 12 Weeks to Transformation & get on the wait list! Registration opens up for our next 12 Weeks to Transformation in just a few weeks and between now and then, I'll be sharing FREE weekly coaching with everyone on the wait list to help you determine if my style is a good fit for you and if the 12 WT will help you crush your goals so make sure you're on that wait list! Have a question, challenge, struggle or topic request? Share it with us here! Connect with Elizabeth on Instagram! Want more episodes like this? Listen to episode 548 for more tough love, straight talk and tips to create progress and momentum!

May 25, 2019 • 38min
606: How to Let Go of Past Patterns & Negative Thoughts
Today we are tackling how to let go of negative thoughts, past patterns and limiting beliefs. It's another listener Q&A episode AND we're announcing the winners of our 4 prizes in celebration of our 600th episode! Don't forget! We'll be doing a giveaway on every Saturday show! To be eligible to win, leave a review of the Primal Potential podcast on iTunes or a review of Chasing Cupcakes on Amazon or post on FB or Instagram (and tag @elizabethbenton or PrimalPotentialPodcast) about your favorite episode of the podcast! Questions tackled in today's episode include: Old thoughts of the past keep popping up in my head. I'm ready to create change but I don't know how to let go! Please help! What kind of coffee do you drink? Spoiler! Four Sigmatic! You can check it out here and use the code primal to save 15%! I had no idea that there are different strains of probiotics and that they function differently. Can you talk more about this? (Listen to episode 596 for more on probiotics!) Why do I do things I know are bad for me? (Listen to Change Maker Part 1 - episode 579) How do I stay focused over the long term? (Spoiler: you don't) What's the best way to cope with late-40s body changes? Listen to episode 538! Why are you so awesome? To get on the wait list for the summer 2019 12 Weeks to Transformation, please click here. Follow Elizabeth on Instagram!

May 23, 2019 • 20min
605: Tough Love on Excuses & Overwhelm
Need a little tough love to overcome your excuses and break out of a pattern of feeling overwhelmed or frustrated? Today's motivational minisode is serving up a dose of the truth: You don't need to change your circumstances. You need to change the way you interact with them. Too many people are talking themselves into their problems and their past patterns. As they do that, they're talking themselves OUT of their potential and today it's time to STOP! Resources: Learn more about the 12 Weeks to Transformation & get on the wait list! Registration opens up for our next 12 Weeks to Transformation in just a few weeks and between now and then, I'll be sharing FREE weekly coaching with everyone on the wait list to help you determine if my style is a good fit for you and if the 12 WT will help you crush your goals so make sure you're on that wait list! Have a question, challenge, struggle or topic request? Share it with us here! Connect with Elizabeth on Instagram! Want more episodes like this? Listen to episode 548 for more tough love, straight talk and tips to create progress and momentum! Join our Primal Potential Facebook Community! More Tough Love Episodes 401 - Self Talk 449 - Raise the Bar

May 20, 2019 • 54min
604: Slay All Day
Slay all day. I'm coining a new term: slay day. We are all capable of creating a Beyonce-style level 10 day, any day! It's time to get out of the middle and win the day we're in! Last week, I reached out to my friend Terri-Lynn and I asked if she'd be down to have a conversation about this "slay day" concept - what it takes to totally CRUSH the day you're in, and repeat that as a pattern. If you want to build momentum and enjoy the journey, listen in to this conversation with me and Terri-Lynn! (You can follow Terri-Lynn on Instagram here or check out her website!) Want to Slay All Day? Consider these elements: Communication Connection Nutrition Movement Stress Sleep Self-Care Thoughts/Perspective Fun Hydration Resources: Follow Terri-Lynn on IG Get on the wait list for our next 12 Weeks to Transformation! I'd love to work with you! New to Thrive Market? Check them out and register via the link thrivemarket.com/primalpotential Join our Primal Potential Facebook group

May 18, 2019 • 34min
603: Positive Affirmations, Journaling and HOW to Create Change
What's the deal with positive affirmations? Do they even work? And is journaling REALLY effective in helping you make better choices? How do I change my relationship with food? We're diving into these questions and more in today's episode of the podcast! Don't miss it! https://primalpotential.com/603/ Questions Addressed on Today's Episode How to break patterns from childhood How is journaling useful and what is it used for? Can you share more info around affirmations and journaling? Do you have a must read book list? What is your driving force? I'd love for you to talk about how to manage stress without overeating or drinking too much How do I live in the moment? What is your favorite chapter in Chasing Cupcakes? How do I improve my relationship with food? How do I change my beliefs in myself? Resources: Learn more about your summer 12 Weeks to Transformation Join the Primal Potential Facebook group Shout out to today's show sponsor - Fabletics! When you register via fabletics.com/primalpotential you get an epic deal on leggings - 2 for $24! Follow Elizabeth on Instagram Episodes mentioned in today's podcast: 559: Identity Journaling 206: Journaling Change Maker Part 1 Change Maker Part 2 Change Maker Part 3 Change Maker Part 4 Episode 577: Money Mindset Today's episode is brought to you by Fabletics! Be sure to register via fabletics.com/primalpotential to get this killer 2 for $24 deal on leggings!

May 16, 2019 • 35min
602: How to Hold Yourself Accountable
Need to hold yourself accountable? Looking to get better at following through and staying consistent? Today's episode has the tools you need! "Masterminds" have become super trendy in the past few years - it seems like everyone in business is starting or joining a mastermind. Undoubtedly, they can be great tools for growth. Because of their popularity, there are a lot of components that have been identified that make masterminds work. Fortunately, we can take these components and incorporate them into our own lives, even if we aren't part of a mastermind or group! Today, we'll explore those components and look at how you can use them in your own life or with a family member or friend! The book mentioned in today's episode is Meet & Grow Rich by Joe Vitale & Bill Hibbler Steps to Hold Yourself Accountable In today's episode we explore questions, strategies and tools to assist you in building accountability. They include: What do you want to gain? What is your singular focus? Ask yourself questions instead of giving yourself advice (Chasing Cupcakes is a great tool for questions to ask yourself) Be confrontational without being emotional How can you help you? How can I help you? Inner Counsel Meeting from Meet & Grow Rich What will you put into practice from today's episode? Resources: Hop on the wait list for the summer 12 Weeks to Transformation Join us in the Primal Potential Facebook group!


