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********* Pre-Registration for Tulum 2023 is open! Visit http://agapeescapes.com. Or enroll in a virtual Agape Intensive instead: http://agapeintensive.com ********* It feels like narcissism has taken a bigger role in society in the last few years. What might start off as charming and great can quickly turn negative and unhealthy. How do we make sure we don't get caught up with someone who is a narcissist? What should we look out for? How can you know if your partner IS one? Dr. Ramani Durvasula (better known as Dr. Ramani) is a licensed clinical psychologist in Los Angeles, CA and Professor of Psychology at California State University, Los Angeles. She takes on our modern scourges of entitlement and incivility in the book "Don't You Know Who I Am": How to Stay Sane in the Era of Narcissism, Entitlement and Incivility She is the author of the modern relationship survival manual Should I Stay or Should I Go: Surviving a Relationship With a Narcissist. The focus of Dr. Ramani's clinical, academic and consultative work is the etiology and impact of narcissism and related high-conflict, entitled, antagonistic personality styles on human relationships, mental health, and societal expectations. Dr. Ramani is an honest, authentic, and brutally honest voice on the struggles raised by narcissism in the US and globally. Follow Dr. Ramani on Instagram at http://instagram.com/doctorramani You can find Dr. Ramani's books on Amazon at https://www.amazon.com/Ramani-Durvasula/e/B00C2C5U0O Find Dr. Ramani at her website http://www.doctor-ramani.com Let's work together! Schedule a Dating Strategy call: https://calendly.com/felix-louie Follow Maria on instagram at http://instagram.com/matchmakermaria

********* Pre-Registration for Tulum 2023 is open! Visit http://agapeescapes.com. Or enroll in a virtual Agape Intensive instead: http://agapeintensive.com ********* Often during Ask a Matchmaker on Wednesdays, Maria gets asked about STIs. She's joined by comedian Erica Spera to change the conversation and debunk the myths of herpes. If you're nervous about having the herpes conversation with your partner, sit down with them and listen to this together. Erika is a comedian and the host of the Shooters Gotta Shoot podcast. Follow Erika on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/spericaa/ Find links to Erika's podcasts at https://linktr.ee/spericaa Find out where to see Erika live at https://www.ericaspera.com/ Let's work together! Schedule a Dating Strategy call: https://calendly.com/felix-louie Follow Maria on instagram at http://instagram.com/matchmakermaria

Pre-Registration for Tulum 2023 is open! Visit http://agapeescapes.com Or enroll in a virtual Agape Intensive instead: http://agapeintensive.com ********* Joining Maria on this week's hotline is Logan Ury, the Director of Relationship Science at Hinge, who has the awesome job of conducting research into modern dating. Logan Ury is a behavioral scientist turned dating coach and the author of the bestselling dating book How to Not Die Alone. She studied psychology at Harvard and ran Google's behavioral science team, the Irrational Lab. Sign up for Logan's Love Letter, her weekly newsletter and learn about her online courses at https://www.loganury.com/ Pick up Logan's book, How to Not Die Alone, here. Follow Logan on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/loganury/ Let's work together! Schedule a Dating Strategy call: https://calendly.com/felix-louie Follow Maria on instagram at http://instagram.com/matchmakermaria

If you've recently been through a break up or know someone that has, this week's episode is a must listen. Joining Maria to talk about the 4 Rs to get through a break up is Tough Love Healer, Gilza Fort-Martinez. Gilza Fort-Martinez, MS, LFMT is a Latina therapist, speaker, and writer that specializes in helping women rebuild self-love and confidence after betrayal. For 30 years, Gilza has helped hundreds of individuals navigate life transitions and create paths of resolution that have turned their lives around. She is the founder and CEO of Resolution Counseling Center, a private practice in Miami, Florida. Her passion for helping individuals improve their lives drives her to continuously find ways to reach the community, which is why when she's not working directly with individuals and couples, she can be found leading workshops or speaking at corporations and organizations. Gilza is a therapist trained in marriage and family therapy with a degree in Psychology from Barry University and a Master's Degree from the University of Miami. She is certified in hypnotherapy, family therapy, and meditation. Follow Gilza on Instagram at http://instagram.com/toughlovehealer Learn more about Gilza at https://www.gilzafort.com/ Let's work together! Schedule a Dating Strategy call: https://calendly.com/felix-louie or Enroll in an upcoming Agape Intensive! http://agapeintensive.com Follow Maria on instagram at http://instagram.com/matchmakermaria

It's another hotline episode! This week, Maria welcomes back a podcast OG guest, Hannah Orenstein! Want to join in on a live recording of a hotline episode via zoom? You get to ask Maria your questions! Follow her on Instagram to find out when she'll open it up again. http://instagram.com/matchmakermaria Hannah Orenstein is the Deputy Editor of Lifestyle and Wellness at Bustle, as well as the author of four novels, Playing with Matches, Love at First Like, Head Over Heels, and Meant to Be Mine. Previously, she held editing roles at Seventeen and Elite Daily, and once worked as a matchmaker at a luxury dating service. She lives in Brooklyn. You can also check out her books Meant to Be Mine, a rom-com about a woman who knows the exact day she'll meet the love of her life and Playing with Matches, a novel inspired by her brief, disastrous stint working as a matchmaker. Follow Hannah on Instagram at http://instagram.com/hannahorens Let's work together! Schedule a Dating Strategy call: https://calendly.com/felix-louie or Enroll in an upcoming Agape Intensive! http://agapeintensive.com Follow Maria on instagram at http://instagram.com/matchmakermaria

Today we're turning inward and looking at how your relationship with yourself impacts your outer world. Talking about everything related to mindset in your personal and business life is coach Stephanie Movahhed! Stephanie Movahhed is a San Francisco based leadership coach. She helps people find more growth, fulfillment and success in their work and lives. Prior to becoming a coach, Stephanie wore all sorts of hats as a leader within tech companies large and small (e.g. Google, LinkedIn, high growth start up). Stephanie also invests in startups and advises founders. She is certified by the ICF (International Coaching Federation) and also holds an MBA from the Michigan Ross School of Business. Follow Stephanie on Instagram at http://instagram.com/stephmovesahead Follow Stephanie on LinkedIn at https://www.linkedin.com/in/smovahhe Learn more about Stephanie at https://www.stephaniemovahhed.com Let's work together! Schedule a Dating Strategy call: https://calendly.com/felix-louie or Enroll in an upcoming Agape Intensive! http://agapeintensive.com Follow Maria on instagram at http://instagram.com/matchmakermaria

Happy Valentine's Day! Maria is celebrating on the podcast with her work husband, Louie Felix, as they take YOUR dating and relationship questions! Want to ask Maria YOUR question on an upcoming hotline episode? We record them LIVE and you can join the fun! Make sure you follow Maria on Instagram to know when the hotline will open up next: http://instagarm.com/matchmakermaria Follow Louie on Instagram at http://instagram.com/louiefelix Let's work together! Schedule a Dating Strategy call: https://calendly.com/felix-louie or Enroll in an upcoming Agape Intensive! http://agapeintensive.com Follow Maria on instagram at http://instagram.com/matchmakermaria

Today on the hotline, Maria is joined by Dr. Celeste Holbrook! Dr. Celeste is a sex educator who helps people create better sex through deconstruction and education. She speaks to audiences of all ages using the sensitive topic of sex through straight-forward language and has a knack for making the awkward approachable. Follow Dr. Holbrook on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/drcelesteholbrook/ Let's work together! Schedule a Dating Strategy call: https://calendly.com/felix-louie or Enroll in an upcoming Agape Intensive! http://agapeintensive.com Follow Maria on instagram at http://instagram.com/matchmakermaria

This week, Maria talks to the host of Narcissist Apocalypse podcast, Brandon Chadwick! Brandon interviews survivors of narcissistic and domestic abuse as well as therapists, lawyers, domestic violence advocates and agencies. Brandon's philosophy is to provide a safe space to be real, not clinical. His goal is to help survivors tell/validate their own stories, but to also validate and teach other survivors through those stories. Find Brandon… Podcast: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/narcissist-apocalypse/id1452117002 Site: https://www.narcissistapocalypse.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/narcissistapocalypse/ Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/groups/narcissistapocalypse/ Enmeshment episode: https://www.narcissistapocalypse.com/podcast/episode/1bbcc4ff/the-signs-of-enmeshment-and-your-partners-red-flag-dysfunctional-family-dynamics-qanda-with-dr-kenneth-adams-narcissist-abuse-and-domestic-violence Let's work together! Schedule a Dating Strategy call: https://calendly.com/felix-louie or Enroll in an upcoming Agape Intensive! http://agapeintensive.com Follow Maria on instagram at http://instagram.com/matchmakermaria

Joining Maria on the hotline this week is Seeing Other People podcast host Ilana Dunn! Check out the Seeing Other People podcast on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/seeingotherpeople/ Follow Ilana on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/ilana.dunn/ Follow Ilana on TikTok at https://www.tiktok.com/@ilana.dunn Follow Maria on Instagram for more dating and relationship content: http://instagram.com/matchmakermaria Or join Maria on an upcoming Agape Intensive! http://agapeintensive.com Want to work with Maria? Book a Dating Strategy call with a member of her team and learn more about her matchmaking and coaching programs. https://calendly.com/felix-louie