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Tinder just came out with a (gorgeous looking!) report called The Future of Dating 2023, looking at dating trends and what Gen Z thinks of online dating. Here to decode the data is Erika Ettin. Erika Ettin is an online dating expert and dating coach who helps people navigate the world of online dating. Her expertise includes profile creation, photo selection and photography, message writing, and date planning. She is also the author of the book Love at First Site: Tips & Tales for Online Dating Success from a Modern-Day Matchmaker and the co-host of the popular dating podcast "So, We Met Online…" Check out The Future of Dating Report here: https://filecache.mediaroom.com/mr5mr_tinder/179342/Copy_of_FOD_Report_2023_FINAL.pdf Find Erika on Instagram https://www.instagram.com/ALittleNudge/ *****Let's work together!***** Let's work together! https://calendly.com/felix-louie Register for our Tulum retreat! http://agapeescapes.com (a few spots left!) or join an upcoming virtual Intensive! https://agapematch.com/agape-group-coaching-intensive/ Follow Maria on instagram at http://instagram.com/matchmakermaria

Why are women freezing their eggs in record numbers? Talking about this important subject this week is Professor Marcia C. Inhorn. She is a Professor of Anthropology and International Affairs at Yale University and author of Cosmopolitan Conceptions: IVF Sojourns in Global Dubai. Her new book, Motherhood on Ice: The Mating Gap and Why Women Freeze Their Eggs, explores this question by drawing on the stories of more than 150 women who pursued fertility preservation technology. Moving between narratives of pain and empowerment, these nuanced personal stories reveal the complexity of women's lives as they struggle to preserve and extend their fertility. You can find where to get a copy of "Motherhood on Ice: The Mating Gap and Why Women Freeze Their Eggs" at https://nyupress.org/9781479813049/motherhood-on-ice/ *****Let's work together!***** Let's work together! https://calendly.com/felix-louie Follow Maria on instagram at http://instagram.com/matchmakermaria And join an upcoming Intensive! https://agapematch.com/agape-group-coaching-intensive/ Or register for our Tulum retreat! http://agapeescapes.com

What if you could make friends with your anxiety? What if you could learn to leverage your anxiety to be a gift? We look at anxiety as such a bad thing, but so often our anxiety is trying to tell us something. Learning how to harness that can be a game changer. This week's conversation could help you change your life. Dr. Wendy A. Suzuki is a Professor of Neural Science and Psychology in the Center for Neural Science at New York University. Her TED talk has over 31 million views and was the 2nd most viewed ted talk of 2018. She's the author of "Healthy Brain, Happy Life" and "Good Anxiety" which is now available wherever books are sold. Learn more about Dr. Suzuki's work at… https://www.goodanxiety.com/ https://www.wendysuzuki.com/ Follow Dr. Suzuki on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/wendy.suzuki/ *****Let's work together!***** Is matchmaking right for you? Let's find out! https://calendly.com/felix-louie Follow Maria on instagram at http://instagram.com/matchmakermaria And join an upcoming Intensive! https://agapematch.com/agape-group-coaching-intensive/

This week's guests are Drs. Glenn and Phyllis Hill. Dr Glenn & Phyllis Hill spent the first 30 years of their marriage living in disconnect. Their first sexual experience sent them into years of avoidance and pain. Dr Glenn was so determined to find out what went wrong that he went back to school & became a Marriage & Family Therapist and a Clinical Sexologist. But, it wasn't until he dug deep into emotional regulation where he discovered the source of all of their disconnect. From there, Dr Glenn & Phyllis created The Connection Codes which is a framework to help couples connect emotionally and physically using their 4 minute tool. Now, they are authors, speakers, and have Connection Coders in over 50 countries who are living in peace in their relationships. Download the Core Emotion Wheel, THE tool to conquer conflict in just 4 minutes for FREE at https://www.connectioncodes.co/matchmaker Learn more about the Connection Codes at https://www.connectioncodes.co/ Pick up a copy of "The Connection Codes: The Blueprint & Tools for Creating the Relationships You Crave" at https://www.amazon.com/Connection-Codes-Blueprint-Creating-Relationships/dp/B09BSKMCJM/ Follow on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/connectioncodes/ *****Let's work together!***** Is matchmaking right for you? Let's find out! https://calendly.com/felix-louie Follow Maria on instagram at http://instagram.com/matchmakermaria And join an upcoming Intensive! https://agapematch.com/agape-group-coaching-intensive/

***Matchmaker Maria's Eurovision Party in NYC this weekend, Saturday, May 13! Get tickets now! https://www.eventbrite.com/e/matchmaker-marias-eurovision-party-tickets-617316860347 *** This week on the hotline, Maria is joined by her BFF and fellow matchmaker, Laurie Berzack! She's the founder of Carolinas Matchmaker and the host of the Love on the Go podcast. Read the VOX article mentioned in the episode: https://www.vox.com/policy/2023/5/3/23707936/surgeon-general-loneliness-epidemic-report Follow Laurie on Instagram at http://instagram.com/carolinasmatchmaker Follow Laurie on TikTok at http://tiktok.com/@carolinasmatchmaker Listen to the Love on the Go podcast on… Apple: https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/love-on-the-go/id1631398944 Spotify: https://open.spotify.com/show/4ZLPYIsjL3p8HYYjaAXwax *****Let's work together!***** Is matchmaking right for you? Let's find out! https://calendly.com/felix-louie Follow Maria on instagram at http://instagram.com/matchmakermaria And join an upcoming Intensive! https://agapematch.com/agape-group-coaching-intensive/

*** Join us at Matchmaker Maria's Eurovision Party on Saturday, May 13th in NYC! Get tickets now! https://www.eventbrite.com/e/matchmaker-marias-eurovision-party-tickets-617316860347 *** This week on the hotline, Maria is joined by her husband, George, to answer your questions! Follow George on… Instagram at http://instagram.com/nerdmeetsfood TikTok at http://tiktok.com/@nerdmeetsfood *****Let's work together!***** Is matchmaking right for you? Let's find out! https://calendly.com/felix-louie Follow Maria on instagram at http://instagram.com/matchmakermaria And join an upcoming Intensive! https://agapematch.com/agape-group-coaching-intensive/

This week, Maria is getting real about body image and dating with Dr. Lindsay Kite! Dr. Lindsay Kite is co-author of the book More Than a Body: Your Body Is an Instrument, Not an Ornament (2020, HarperCollins) and co-director of the nonprofit Beauty Redefined, alongside her identical twin sister Lexie Kite. Both received PhDs from the University of Utah in the study of female body image and have become leading experts in body image resilience and media literacy. Lindsay and Lexie help girls and women recognize and reject the harmful effects of objectification in their lives through their social media activism, online course, and regular speaking engagements for people of all ages. Lindsay lives in New York City. Learn more about Dr Kite at http://morethanabody.org/ Pick up her book, More Than a Body: Your Body is an Instrument, at https://www.amazon.com/dp/0358229243/ Follow Dr. Kite on Instagram at http://instagram.com/beauty_redefined *****Let's work together!***** Is matchmaking right for you? Let's find out! https://calendly.com/felix-louie Follow Maria on instagram at http://instagram.com/matchmakermaria And join an upcoming Intensive! https://agapematch.com/agape-group-coaching-intensive/

This week, Maria is back with another hotline episode with award-winning writer, actor, comedian, and musician Lane Moore! Her first book, How To Be Alone: If You Want To And Even If You Don't, became an instant #1 bestseller and was praised as one of the best books of the year by The New York Times, New York Magazine, NPR, Good Morning America, Fast Company, Marie Claire, and many others Her second book, You Will Find Your People: How To Make Meaningful Friendships As An Adult, will be released on April 25, 2023. Pre-order now! https://www.amazon.com/You-Will-Find-Your-People/dp/1419762567 Follow Lane on Instagram at https://www.instagram.com/hellolanemoore/ Follow Lane on Twitter at https://twitter.com/hellolanemoore Learn more about Lane at https://www.lanemoore.org/ *****Let's work together!***** Is matchmaking right for you? Let's find out! https://calendly.com/felix-louie Follow Maria on instagram at http://instagram.com/matchmakermaria And join an upcoming Intensive! https://agapematch.com/agape-group-coaching-intensive/

After two weeks off, Maria is BACK with another edition of the hotline! If you want to join us for a live taping of a future hotline episode, be sure to follow Maria on instagram to know when the hotline will open next: http://instagram.com/matchmakermaria Selena Coppock is a former standup comedian, writer, author, and storyteller based in NYC. She is the creator and voice of @NYTVows, the parody Twitter and Instagram account that lampoons the New York Times Wedding section, the wedding industrial complex, WASPs, and courtship rituals of the rich and insufferable. She is also the creator and host of TWO WICK MINIMUM, America's favorite and only podcast about candles. Follow NYTVows at… http://twitter.com/nytvows http://instagram.com/nytvows Find Selena at… http://instagram.com/selenacoppock http://twitter.com/selenacoppock Check out Selena's podcast, Two Wick Minimum, on Apple Podcasts https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/two-wick-minimum-with-selena-coppock/id1440652282?mt=2 *****Let's work together!***** Is matchmaking right for you? Let's find out! https://calendly.com/felix-louie Follow Maria on instagram at http://instagram.com/matchmakermaria And join an upcoming Intensive! https://agapematch.com/agape-group-coaching-intensive/

********* Pre-Registration for Tulum 2023 is open! Visit http://agapeescapes.com. Or enroll in a virtual Agape Intensive instead: http://agapeintensive.com ********* When it comes to modern relationships, our thumbs do the talking. We swipe right into a stranger's life, flirt inside text bubbles, spill our hearts onto the screen, and use emojis to convey desire, frustration, and rage. Where once we pored over love letters, now we obsess over response times, or wonder why the three-dot ellipsis came. . . and went. Nobody knows this better than our guest this week, Dr. Mimi Winsberg. A Harvard- and Stanford-trained psychiatrist who cofounded a behavioral health startup while serving as resident psychiatrist at Facebook HQ, her work frequently finds her at the intersection of Big Data and Big Dating. Like all of us, Winsberg has been handed many a smartphone accompanied by the urgent plea: "What does this mean?" Unlike all of us, she knows the answer. She is a text whisperer. Pick up her new book, Speaking in Thumbs, at https://www.amazon.com/dp/B09J7M5X2P/ Learn more about Dr. Winsberg at https://www.drwinsberg.com/ Let's work together! Schedule a Dating Strategy call: https://calendly.com/felix-louie Follow Maria on instagram at http://instagram.com/matchmakermaria