Coming Out Late

In this special monthly episode of “Queer & Sober”, (a special offering thru the Coming Out Late podcast audience), Chris and Robin talk about one of the most universal parts of being human — belonging.  Chris and Robin's honest and personal reflections on what it's like to navigate recovery as a queer person and to find or build your own communities.In this episode, you will learn…The difference between fitting in (performing for acceptance) and belonging (rooted in authenticity)How queerness and sobriety both ask us to live in truth — and how that truth can feel lonely without communityWhy belonging is biological, not just emotional: how co-regulation, safety, and connection heal our nervous systemsReflections on forgiveness, courage, and community repair — how we hold each other when we don’t get it perfectThe power of “We” over “I” — moving from isolation to connection, from illness to wellnessThe birth of the Queer & Sober community — an invitation to bring your full self, without apology or performanceWanna support your “Coming Out Late” podcast? Please consider buying Robin a “virtual” coffee as a sign of your appreciation. Simply go to: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglassQUEER & SOBER COMMUNITY & RETREATS:-RETREATS - Contact Chris: genderexpansiveyogi@gmail.com-COMMUNITY - Contact Robin: comingoutlater@gmail.comSUPPORT GROUPS:MESSY MIDDLE MONDAY:EVERY Monday Evening - 60 minutes.8:00pm EST / 5pm PST, in Zoom, via Buy Me A Coffee, $10/meetingMonday Meeting Dates: Sept. 15, 22, 29; Oct. 6, 13, 20, 27; Nov. 3, 10, 17; No meeting on Nov. 24; Dec. 1, 8, 15; No meetings on Dec. 22, or Dec. 29. Next Meeting: Jan. 5. No Refunds or Credits given once Registered. Temporary financial assistance available. Email me: Comingoutlater@gmail.com.https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass/e/165736THE NOT-STRAIGHT SUPPORT GROUP:Every OTHER Wednesday - 60 minutes12:30pm EST / 9:30am PST, in Zoom, via Buy Me A Coffee, $10/meetingWednesday Meeting Dates:  Oct. 1, 15, 29; Nov. 12,; Dec. 3, Dec. 17;No meetings on: Nov. 26; Dec. 24, or 31.  No Refunds or Credits given once Registered. Temporary financial assistance available. Email me: Comingoutlater@gmail.comhttps://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass/e/93135THE EXPANSIVE SUPPORT GROUP:Every OTHER Tuesday - 60 minutes8pm EST / 5pm PST, in Zoom, via Buy Me A Coffee, $10/meetingTuesday Meeting Dates: Sept. 23; Oct. 7, Oct. 21; Nov. 4, Nov. 18; Dec. 2, Dec. 16; No meeting Dec. 30. No Refunds or Credits given once Registered. Temporary financial assistance available. Email me: Comingoutlater@gmail.comhttps://buymeacoffee.com/robindouglass/e/2533742026 COMING OUT LATE RETREATS:Five Retreats are on the 2026 calendar; they are: Queer & Sober, (Dec. 30-January 2, 2026, Northern Mass.); Philadelphia, PA, (February 12-15, ‘26); San Diego, CA, (April 4-9, ‘26); Lake George, NY, June 2026; Charlotte, NC (September 10-13. For more details, email Robin:  Comingoutlater@gmail.com.Support the show

In this week’s episode Robin shares with us her perspective on the frequently asked question, “Am I Less Gay Because I Was, (or Am), Married to A Man?”. Robin also answers the question, “How did you know you were gay? Did you waiver? Did you need ‘an experience’ to know for sure?”Some of the topics you’ll hear Robin share with you are:Contempt prior to investigation; and how does that relate to being newly gay?What is ‘sexuality’? And could it really be fluid?Your truth is yours to define; if you say you’re gay, you’re gay! No one else gets to weigh-in or decide for us.“The fears we don’t face become our limits.”Heterosexual women do not lay awake at night fantasizing about other women.Wanna support our “Coming Out Late” podcast? Then please consider buying Robin a “virtual” coffee as a sign of your appreciation. Simply go to: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglassLinks to Resources:SUPPORT GROUPS:MESSY MIDDLE MONDAY:EVERY Monday Evening - 75 minutes.8:00pm EST / 5pm PST, in Zoom, via Buy Me A Coffee, $10/meetingMonday Meeting Dates: Sept. 15, 22, 29; Oct. 6, 13, 20, 27; Nov. 3, 10, 17; No meeting on Nov. 24; Dec. 1, 8, 15; No meetings on Dec. 22, or Dec. 29. Next Meeting: Jan. 5No Refunds or Credits given once Registered.Temporary financial assistance available. Email me: Comingoutlater@gmail.com.https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass/e/165736THE NOT-STRAIGHT SUPPORT GROUP:Every OTHER Wednesday - 75 minutes12:30pm EST / 9:30am PST, in Zoom, via Buy Me A Coffee, $10/meetingWednesday Meeting Dates:  Oct. 1, 15, 29; Nov. 12,; Dec. 3, Dec. 17; No meetings on: Nov. 26; Dec. 24, or 31.  No Refunds or Credits given once Registered.Temporary financial assistance available. Email me: Comingoutlater@gmail.comhttps://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass/e/93135THE EXPANSIVE SUPPORT GROUP:Every OTHER Tuesday - 75 minutes8pm EST / 5pm PST, in Zoom, via Buy Me A Coffee, $10/meetingTuesday Meeting Dates: Sept. 23; Oct. 7, Oct. 21; Nov. 4, Nov. 18; Dec. 2, Dec. 16; No meeting Dec. 30.No Refunds or Credits given once Registered.Temporary financial assistance available. Email me: Comingoutlater@gmail.comhttps://buymeacoffee.com/robindouglass/e/2533742026 COMING OUT LATE RETREATS:Five Retreats are on the 2026 calendar; they are: Queer & Sober, (Dec. 30-January 2, 2026, Northern Mass.); Philadelphia, PA, (February 12-15, ‘26); San Diego, CA, (April 4-9, ‘26); Lake George, NY, (June 2026); Charlotte, NC (September 10-13). For more details, email Robin:  Comingoutlater@gmail.com.Support the show

In this episode of Coming Out Late, Robin talks about feeling all the feelings while going through the coming out late journey. Consider this a pep-talk if you willIn this episode, you will learn…  How we are expected to know things we never knew before; do things we’ve never done before.How to accept, acknowledge & be with financial insecurity, loneliness and grief.Taking a look at how much we’ve grown, learned & handled over the year. Acknowledging to yourself that you are exactly where you are supposed to be right here, right now, in this momentWhy it’s dangerous to allow ourselves to idealize our pasts.Purchase a copy of the 1-hour Interview with Kristin Key! https://buymeacoffee.com/robindouglass/e/466637 Wanna support your “Coming Out Late” podcast? Then please consider buying Robin a “virtual” coffee as a sign of your appreciation. Simply go to: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglassSUPPORT ROBIN: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglassSUPPORT GROUPS:MESSY MIDDLE MONDAY:EVERY Monday Evening - 75 minutes.8:00pm EST / 5pm PST, in Zoom, via Buy Me A Coffee, $10/meetingMonday Meeting Dates: Sept. 15, 22, 29; Oct. 6, 13, 20, 27; Nov. 3, 10, 17; No meeting on Nov. 24; Dec. 1, 8, 15; No meetings on Dec. 22, or Dec. 29. Next Meeting: Jan. 5No Refunds or Credits given once Registered.Temporary financial assistance available. Email me: Comingoutlater@gmail.com.https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass/e/165736THE NOT-STRAIGHT SUPPORT GROUP:Every OTHER Wednesday - 75 minutes12:30pm EST / 9:30am PST, in Zoom, via Buy Me A Coffee, $10/meetingWednesday Meeting Dates:  Oct. 1, 15, 29; Nov. 12,; Dec. 3, Dec. 17; No meetings on: Nov. 26; Dec. 24, or 31.  No Refunds or Credits given once Registered.Temporary financial assistance available. Email me: Comingoutlater@gmail.comhttps://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass/e/93135THE EXPANSIVE SUPPORT GROUP:Every OTHER Tuesday - 75 minutes8pm EST / 5pm PST, in Zoom, via Buy Me A Coffee, $10/meetingTuesday Meeting Dates: Sept. 23; Oct. 7, Oct. 21; Nov. 4, Nov. 18; Dec. 2, Dec. 16; No meeting Dec. 30.No Refunds or Credits given once Registered.Temporary financial assistance available. Email me: Comingoutlater@gmail.comhttps://buymeacoffee.com/robindouglass/e/2533742026 COMING OUT LATE RETREATS:Five Retreats are on the 2026 calendar; they are: Queer & Sober, (Dec. 30-January 2, 2026, Northern Mass.); Philadelphia, PA, (February 12-15, ‘26); San Diego, CA, (April 4-9, ‘26); Lake George, NY, (June 2026); Charlotte, NC (September 10-13). For more details, email Robin:  Comingoutlater@gmail.com.Support the show

In this episode of Coming Out Late, Robin & Chris announce the beginning of a brand new Community - Queer & Sober: Community and Retreats. Who is Queer & Sober for? And what is Queer & Sober about? It’s about co-creating a safe, affirming community where every voice matters, joy is shared and together we thrive.Have a listen and learn more . . .  What is a Queer & Sober Community? Who is this Queer & Sober Community for?Is it just a ‘Community’?If you’re sober and queer, how would this Community help you? What are Queer & Sober Retreats? Where are they held?What defines someone as living a ‘sober’ lifestyle?What does ‘queer’ encompass? Who does it include?Wanna support your “Coming Out Late” podcast? Then please consider buying Robin a “virtual” coffee as a sign of your appreciation. Simply go to: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglassQUEER & SOBER COMMUNITY and RETREATS:FACEBOOK PAGE: Follow us and ‘Like’ us! https://www.facebook.com/profile.php?id=61581399773746 SUPPORT GROUPS:MESSY MIDDLE MONDAY:EVERY Monday Evening - 75 minutes.8:00pm EST / 5pm PST, in Zoom, via Buy Me A Coffee, $10/meetingMonday Meeting Dates: Sept. 15, 22, 29; Oct. 6, 13, 20, 27; Nov. 3, 10, 17; Dec. 1, 8, 15; No meetings on: Nov. 24; Dec. 22, or Dec. 29.No Refunds or Credits given once Registered.Short term financial assistance available. Email me.https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass/e/165736THE EXPANSIVE SUPPORT GROUP:Every OTHER Tuesday - 75 minutes8pm EST / 5pm PST, in Zoom, via Buy Me A Coffee, $10/meetingTuesday Meeting Dates: Sept. 23; Oct. 7, 21; Nov. 4, 18; Dec. 2, 16;No meeting Dec. 30. No Refunds or Credits given once Registered.Short term financial assistance available. Email me.https://buymeacoffee.com/robindouglass/e/253374THE NOT-STRAIGHT SUPPORT GROUP:Every OTHER Wednesday - 75 minutes12:30pm EST / 9:30am PST, in Zoom, via Buy Me A Coffee, $10/meetingWednesday Meeting Dates:  Oct. 1, 15, 29; Nov. 12; Dec. 3, 17; No meetings on:  Nov. 26; Dec. 24 or 31.  No Refunds or Credits given once Registered.Short term financial assistance available. Email me.https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass/e/931352026 COMING OUT LATE RETREATS:Five Retreats are on the 2026 calendar so far, and they are: (1) Queer & Sober, (Dec. 30-January 2, 2026, Northern Mass.); (2) Philadelphia, PA, (February 12-15, ‘26); (3) San Diego, CA, (April 4-9, ‘26); (4) Lake George, NY, June 2026; (5) Traverse City, MI, (Up North Pride, Sept. ‘26). For more details, email Robin:  Comingoutlater@gmail.com.Support the show

In this episode of Coming Out Late, Robin & Chris discuss the depth and breadth in which attending Coming Out Late Support Groups are of vital importance to us on this journey of coming out later. In this episode, you will learn . . .   Why do support groups matter, and make them feel so safe and supportive?Support Groups are where you can share your story and show up as your honest and  vulnerable self;  then,y our deeper purpose begins to emerge.Support Groups are non-judgmental spaces where you’ll quickly feel relief from isolation and resilience.  Additional benefits from attending support groups are: emotional regulation and resistance; accountability & growth; skill building in real time; The three Coming Out Late Support Groups serve as a weekly or bi-monthly anchor, therefore providing you with ongoing inspiration and hope.Support Groups afford you the opportunity to benefit from the shared wisdom, peer support and real life insights from women who are walking the same road.In Support Groups your identity is not just accepted - it is affirmed & celebrated.Wanna support your “Coming Out Late” podcast? Then please consider buying Robin a “virtual” coffee as a sign of your appreciation. Simply go to: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglassSUPPORT GROUPS:MESSY MIDDLE MONDAYS: EVERY Monday, 75 mins; 8pm EST, Zoom, $10 pp each week via Buy Me A Coffee. Register each week using this link: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass/e/165736THE GENDER EXPANSIVE EDITION: EVERY Tuesday, 75 mins; 8pm EST, Zoom, $10 pp each week via Buy Me A Coffee. Register each week using this link: https://buymeacoffee.com/robindouglass/e/253374NOT-STRAIGHT SUPPORT GROUP: ON HIATUS UNTIL SEPT. 17th2026 COMING OUT LATE RETREATS:Five Retreats are on the 2026 calendar; they are: Queer & Sober, (Dec. 30-January 2, 2026, Northern Mass.); Philadelphia, PA, (February 12-15, ‘26); San Diego, CA, (April 4-9, ‘26); Lake George, NY, June 2026; Traverse City, MI, (Up North Pride, Sept. ‘26). For more details, email Robin:  Comingoutlater@gmail.com.Support the show

In this episode of the Coming Out Late podcast Robin and Chris invite two very special guests, barbers Wallace and Jess. Wallace & Jess are romantic partners, business partners and Owners of Locket Barber Shop in the Olde Kenzo part Philadelphia, PA.In this episode you will learn . . . How did Jess & Wallace meet? And, how did they get into barbering?What has surprised you most about running a business while also being together as a couple?Has being queer has helped or hindered their business? What is a queer-affirming haircut? And are there distinguishable nuances between a femme versus masc cut?What’s the difference between a Barbershop and a Salon? Wanna support our “Coming Out Late” podcast? Then please consider buying Robin a “virtual” coffee as a sign of your appreciation.  Any and all donations are deeply, deeply appreciated!!  Go to: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglassLinks to resources:LOCKET BARBERSHOP:Owners, Jess & Wallace (@wallacethebarber)Instagram: @locketbarber  TikTok: @locketbarberEmail: locketbarbershop@gmail.comLocket Barbershop, 1733 North Second Street, Philadelphia, PA (Olde Kenzo) SUPPORT GROUPS:MESSY MIDDLE MONDAY:EVERY Monday Evening - 75 minutes.8:00pm EST / 5pm PST, in Zoom, via Buy Me A Coffee, $10/meetingMonday Meeting Dates: Sept. 15, 22, 29; Oct. 6, 13, 20, 27; Nov. 3, 10, 17; Not meeting: Nov. 24; Dec. 1, 8, 15; No meetings on Dec. 122, or Dec. 29. , Dec. 5No Refunds or Credits given once Registered.Temporary financial assistance available. Email me.https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass/e/165736THE NOT-STRAIGHT SUPPORT GROUP:Every OTHER Wednesday - 75 minutes12:30pm EST / 9:30am PST, in Zoom, via Buy Me A Coffee, $10/meetingWednesday Meeting Dates:  Sept. 17; Oct. 1, 15, 29; Nov. 12,; Dec. 3, Dec. 17;No meetings on: Nov. 26; Dec. 24, or 31.  No Refunds or Credits given once Registered.Temporary financial assistance available. Email me.https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass/e/93135THE EXPANSIVE SUPPORT GROUP: - BEGINNING: SEPT. 23rdEvery OTHER Tuesday - 75 minutes8pm EST / 5pm PST, in Zoom, via Buy Me A Coffee, $10/meetingTuesday Meeting Dates: Sept. 23; Oct. 7, Oct. 21; Nov. 4, Nov. 18; Dec. 2, Dec. 16; No meeting Dec. 30. No Refunds or Credits given once Registered.Temporary financial assistance available. Email me.https://buymeacoffee.com/robindouglass/e/253374Support the show

In this episode, Robin introduces a particular topic or theme or idea that she hopes will help us all think a little deeper, feel a little more awakened and possibly even inspire us to act a little differently as we navigate through this journey of life and of coming out.In this episode you will consider the possibility of ‘impermanence’ and learn . . .What is the meaning of ‘impermanence’, and why is it important?How does ‘impermanence’ affect us: Emotionally? Socially? Intellectually? Mentally? Spiritually? Physically?Does the knowledge of ‘impermanence’ affect our daily lives?Does ‘impermanence’ impact our mindfulness and being present in the moment?What are the benefits of accepting ‘impermanence’?What can happen if we do not accept the idea of ‘impermanence’?By embracing ‘impermanence’, we learn acceptance and that ‘change’ is inevitable.How does the intersection of ‘impermanence’ and ‘comp-het’, ‘homophobia’, and deep-seeded denial play in our lives and how self-love, self-confidence and self-esteem can be the medicine!Wanna support our “Coming Out Late” podcast? Then please consider buying Robin a “virtual” coffee as a sign of your appreciation for all the time, love and energy she pours into our Community. Any and all donations are deeply, deeply appreciated!!  Simply go to: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglassLinks to resources:COMING OUT LATE SUPPORT GROUPS:1. MESSY MIDDLE MONDAY: - BACK ON SEPT. 15EVERY Monday Evening - 75 minutes.8:00pm EST / 5pm PST, in Zoom, via Buy Me A Coffee, $10/meetingMonday Meeting Dates: Sept. 15, 22, 29; Oct. 6, 13, 20, 27; Nov. 3, 10, 17; No meeting on Nov. 24; Dec. 1, 8, 15; No meetings on Dec. 22, or Dec. 29. Next Meeting: Jan. 5No Refunds or Credits given once Registered.Temporary financial assistance available. Email me and let’s chat.https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass/e/1657362. THE NOT-STRAIGHT SUPPORT GROUP: - BACK ON SEPT. 17Every OTHER Wednesday - 75 minutes12:30pm EST / 9:30am PST, in Zoom, via Buy Me A Coffee, $10/meetingWednesday Meeting Dates:  Sept. 17; Oct. 1, 15, 29; Nov. 12, No meeting on Nov. 26; Dec. 3, Dec. 17; No meeting on Dec. 24, or 31.  No Refunds or Credits given once Registered.Temporary financial assistance available. Email me and let’s chat.https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass/e/931353. THE EXPANSIVE SUPPORT GROUP: - BEGINNING ON SEPT. 23rdEvery OTHER Tuesday - 75 minutes8pm EST / 5pm PST, in Zoom, via Buy Me A Coffee, $10/meetingTuesday Meeting Dates: Sept. 23; Oct. 7, Oct. 21; Nov. 4, Nov. 18; Dec. 2, Dec. 16; No meeting Dec. 30. No Refunds or Credits given once Registered.Temporary financial assistance available. Email me and let’s chat.https://buymeacoffee.com/robindouglass/e/253374COMING OUT LATE FB GROUP:Join our private FB Group: Coming Out Late at:www.facebook.com/groups/209443717714063/Support the show

In this episode, Robin reminds us of the significance and importance of us not only hearing other women’s coming out stories, but also telling our own. We grow, we learn and we heal every time we share or hear coming out late stories. Robin reads to us the story of one particular woman who can recall always being attracted to women for as long as she could remember - but knew she had to suppress those thoughts and feelings. (Thank you social norms and comphet!) After being married to a man, and hitting 40-years old, she made a promise to herself that the second half of her life was going to be on her terms. After that inspiring story, Robin also talks about the rate or speed at which you should proceed on your journey of coming out.  And, at the end of this episode, Robin will share with us the responses from a variety of late bloomers, to this statement: “My first kiss with a woman was…”!In this episode, you will learn…How do we find ourselves and live in our truth?Going from three kids and 2 marriages to men later - how one woman went from miserable, depressed, angry and anxious to flourishing in life!Wanna support our “Coming Out Late” podcast? Then please consider buying Robin a “virtual” coffee as a sign of your appreciation she pours into our Community. Any and all donations are deeply, deeply appreciated!!  Simply go to: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglassLinks to resources:Please consider supporting my podcast efforts by 'buying me a coffee' as a sign of appreciation? Any and all caffeine donations are deeply, deeply appreciated!!  Simply go to: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglassSupport the show

In this episode, Robin picks up where she left off in last weeks’ Episode of: “The Catalyst, Part One”, by first reminding us that catalyst relationships can and DO have one of the most significant impacts on us during the early stages of our Coming Out Late journey. While there is a certain amount of mystery and excitement surrounding a catalyst experience, Robin reminds us to proceed with caution, IF we are to proceed at all. Robin also outlines for us several necessary assumptions and considerations to think about, (preferably), before we ever even meet our catalyst. In “The Catalyst, Part Two”, Robin covers what our options are after we’ve met our catalyst, and why it is so important not to lose ourselves in this, or any future relationship(s). Examining the catalyst experience can be a very deep and complex process, and in this episode, Robin only begins to scratch the surface as to why catalyst relationships tend to be so confusing, complex and volatile. Robin also covers a variety of things that need our consideration before considering to act-on the allure of a catalyst.In this episode, you will learn…What purpose does a catalyst serve?What assumptions must be considered BEFORE we meet our catalyst?Some of the key considerations that can impact an experience with our catalyst.The three most common “types” of catalyst experiences.How to take personal inventory at all stages of our coming out journey, but especially prior to revealing ourselves to our catalyst?The #1 best way to deal with and handle the dreaded catalyst break-up!Wanna support our “Coming Out Late” podcast? Then please consider buying Robin a “virtual” coffee as a sign of your appreciation she pours into our Community. Any and all donations are deeply, deeply appreciated!!  Simply go to: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglassLinks to resources:Catch up by listening last week's Part 1 of: Ep. #192: Coming Out Late - the Catalyst Experience, Part 1. https://www.buzzsprout.com/2114849/episodes/17632873COMING OUT LATE FB GROUP:Join our private FB Group: Coming Out Late Community at:www.facebook.com/groups/comingoutlatecommunity/WWW.BUYMEACOFFEE.COMWanna support our “Coming Out Late” podcast? Then please consider 'buying me a coffee' as a sign of appreciation. Any and all donations are deeply, deeply appreciated!!  Simply go to: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglassSupport the show

In this episode, Robin talks about The Catalyst and shares some insight as to WHAT a catalyst is . . . HOW the catalyst relationship is different from all other future same sex relationships . . . and WHY it’s important to understand your part, your ‘role’ in this very important, very intense first relationship with a woman. ALL women-to-women relationships are important, but there’s to be nothing like our first (catalytic) same sex relationship. There are no “silver bullets” in catalyst relationships, but understanding the nuts ‘n bolts of them, can help soothe the soul if/when our catalyst relationships end. Stay tuned for “The Catalyst: Part Two” next week.In this episode, you will learn…What IS a catalyst in a woman loving woman relationship?That “catalysts” are not always a person.The significance of the popular quote circulating among Women Loving Women circles: “You’ve never really had your heart broken until you’ve had your heart broken by a woman”.Not everyone who comes out (late) has a catalyst.What happens when your catalyst relationship starts to go south, and why?You can still purchase the recording from the June 25th Women Loving Women (Virtual) Speaker Summit - all about “Relationships”. PayPal or Venmo me $27 (and send me an email so I can email you the recorded file, to Comingoutlater@gmail.com). My PayPal is: @NovareInternational, and my Venmo is: @Comingoutlater. I need your email address to send it to you.WWW.BUYMEACOFFEE.COMWanna support our “Coming Out Late” podcast? Then please consider 'buying me a coffee' as a sign of appreciation. Any and all donations are deeply, deeply appreciated!!  Simply go to: https://www.buymeacoffee.com/RobinDouglass