Order of Man

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen respond to questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Show kick-off⠀ (3:15) When everything feels like it's falling apart and you feel like giving up, how do you push through it? (13:30) How can you build confidence in yourself after taking a major blow, such as an unwanted divorce? (18:00) After shooting the biggest whitetail buck of my life, how do I maintain my sense of pride and stay modest about what I’ve accomplished and not let the jealously of people make me feel guilty? (22:00) Why don’t more men share mental health struggles and provide support for each other versus leaving each to fight a battle on their own? (26:10) How do you overcome complacency? (27:40) Is there a pathway you or Kipp recommend for working toward quitting my job? What some considerations, other than money, that I should be aware of? (32:30) In your opinion, is journaling worth it?  (37:00) How are you helping your children to be gritty when their lives are actually significantly more comfortable than your life was growing up? (40:20) How do we balance striving for excellence without being crippled by the ideal or perfect? Any tips for overcoming the obstacle of perfection so we can improve? Or is this a false dichotomy? Is there a way to pursue perfection without falling into inaction? (50:20) How to combat intense social anxiety?     Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Fear is something that all of us have to deal with. Yet, too many men allow their fears to cripple them from what otherwise could be an incredibly meaningful life. Today, I’m joined by former Navy SEAL, Eddie Penney to talk about why fear drives too many of our life decisions. We discuss hitting rock bottom and crawling out, the compound effect of small and simple tasks that lead to big results, the distinction between “fault” and “responsibility,” the power of therapy, overcoming means of sedation, and living life unafraid.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Cutting out alcohol Exploring the “value” in vulnerability Therapy as a proactive measure Accepting and coping with PTSD Letting your kids see your weaknesses Its ok to change your mind and your opinion The journey to faith Everyone could do their small part Hitting rock bottom   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses a 3-part framework that men can use to overcome anger.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   1. Get to the root of why we are angry (who, what, when, where, why, how) Who are you angry with? What is happening when you are angry? What time of day is it happening? What is my environment like? How do you express your anger? 2. Learn to deal with anger in healthy ways Journal Margin (take a breather) Exercise 3. Learn to express yourself in a healthy way   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Kipp Sorensen respond to questions from the Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   (0:00) Show kick-off⠀ (4:00) What is your opinion on the use of crossbows during archery season? (8:20) What are some activities I can give a group of boys to scratch the primal itch without being destructive or dangerous? (13:30) Where do I draw the line between extreme ownership and letting go, as management has continued to add responsibilities to my plate with the departure of other staff? (22:30) In your separation with the wife, did you encounter a lot of negative comments and lack of support from your friends? (27:00) In a difficult circumstance, how do you prepare to be uncomfortable but not struggling? (37:10) With today’s economy and interest rates, what are your thoughts on buying a house right now and refinancing after rates go down or waiting for things to turn around? (40:20) How do you build in margin in a service-based business? 5050 From a faith perspective, when at a crossroads or facing a tough decision, ow do you know you are acting out God’s plan? (1:00:24) What are some strategies for dealing with groups or activities that brought you joy in the past but now you are finding them monotonous or less engaging?   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Serious pornography addiction is something millions and millions of men are currently dealing with. Many of these men know their addiction has gotten out of hand and yet they cannot seem to find a way to break the shackles of pornography. My guest today has worked with thousands of men over the last 4 years to finally overcome their destructive addiction once and for all. His name is Sathiya Sam and today we talk about the three greatest obstacles to overcoming addiction, how viewing pornography is often a symptom of a deeper problem, why safety, intimacy, and significance lie at the root of this addiction, why traditional methods of overcoming pornography don’t work, and 3 pillars every man needs to establish if he hopes to finally free himself from porn.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   The barrier to entry to watch porn is much lower today Behavior changes that indicate an addiction How unmet needs can lead to viewing pornography Usually the side effects of masturbation are more negative than positive Negatively rewiring the brain through watching porn The downside of counting streaks Ability to focus and sit in silence is a super power in todays society The importance of having a trusted person Using journaling and reflection to understand your thoughts and feelings Confession to yourself and others is an important step   Grab your FREE copy of The Last Relapse   Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses FOUR mindsets that will help men lead more effectively.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Overcome the ease of modernity Don’t be a superhero Lead before the title Render yourself obsolete   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Joining me back on the podcast today for this bonus episodes and one of my favorite guests of all-time is Tim Tebow. We talk a lot about what plagues so many men and keeps them from progressing – guilt, shame, and remorse for past actions. We also cover how healthy competition drives productive performance, not losing focus of the mission in pursuit of the mission, what responsibility really means and how to exercise it, and finding your own sense of worth, value, and significance.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Channeling your competitive drive Reconciling between making money and helping others Responsibility means “able to respond” How to find your sense of worth The importance of having purpose in your life The power of “interruptible” moments Encouraging others with small acts and words   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Order Tim's new book, Mission Possible One-Year Devotional.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler and Shawn Villalovos respond to questions from the Order of Man Facebook Group and Iron Council, the exclusive brotherhood of the Order of Man movement. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.  ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS ⠀ (5:45) When starting your business, how big was your vision for how large it would become? Were you immediately focused on the big picture (office’s all over the country) or more focused on creating an excellent single office with processes that were scalable? (16:40) As a leader, what is the best way to tell an employee that they need to get their shit together? (23:00 What boundaries do you suggest a spouse should put in place after infidelity? (31:00) With the holidays approaching, what should realistic expectations be for spending time with family? What is a healthy amount of time to give to others? (39:40) What are some recommendations for how a city boy can become proficient in archery and get out and hunt? (51:30) My girlfriend just left me…should I have a vision that is more focused on myself or should I keep my vision focused on family and others? (56:26) What is your best way to confront your competition in a challenge when you notice that they are competing out of integrity? (1:02:30) What is your position on self-awareness assessments, such as the Clifton Strengths assessment?     Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Psychological safety. It’s not something that we think a whole lot about even though we talk a lot about a man’s innate desire to protect those he’s closest to. But when it comes to the mental and emotional security of our loved ones, we often fall short. My guest today is my good friend Larry Hagner who is the founder of the Dad Edge and Dad Edge Podcast. Today, Larry and I talk about powerful communication strategies with our wife and kids, how crucial climate is when it comes to communicating effectively, how curiosity serves as a powerful lubricant for improving our conversations, and how to effectively create psychological safety for our loved ones to open up to us.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS:   Men know what we need to do, but need to learn the tactics to do it 80% of men want to create a better marriage Developing emotional maturity in the home How do you know how you are coming across to your kids? Different kids, different personalities The power of genuine curiosity Receiving feedback from your wife does not make you a doormat   Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler explains why it is important to put forth effort without expectations getting in the way, and provides four steps to help you stay on track and avoid these faulty expectations.  Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life.   SHOW HIGHLIGHTS   Why it is important: There are unforeseen events in life Other people have a say in the matter Often we have faulty timelines   How to keep yourself in the game: Lengthen out the timeline for the things you want to achieve Focus on the process, not the objective Take a look at the past (see how far you’ve come) Invest in yourself (hire coaches and mentors)     Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto.   Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.