

Order of Man
Ryan Michler
We are reclaiming what it means to be a man. Each week we interview the world’s most successful men on the planet - elite athletes, warriors, New York Times Bestselling Authors, and world-class entrepreneurs – extract their hard-fought lessons and experiences and deliver them straight to you. Past guests include Jocko Willink, Tim Kennedy, Andy Frisella, Lewis Howes, Grant Cardone, Ryan Holiday, Ben Greenfield, Rich Roll, and so many more. If you’re ready to level up your life as a man, this is the show for you.
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Oct 11, 2023 • 45min
Defining Moments, Avoiding Anger, and Reframing Wrongdoing of Others | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen takes on your questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (1:05) What transitions have you faced in your personal leadership or failures that could be seen as a defining moment? In leadership you have choices coming into transition, how do you use your past experiences to create defining moments? (10:40) What are some methods that we as men can utilize when trying to avoid anger in situations where anger is not the best emotion to bring to the table? (22:20) All four quadrants of the Battle Plan are important, but is there one that you feel that has a greater impact on all 4? One that when executed extremely well helps define yourself and how you attack the rest? (26:20) How can I embrace these the more masculine ways of being when they weren’t modeled well for me as a child? What strategies and tactics can I use to awaken the king and warrior in me? (33:40) What tactics do you use when you must make a decision for your family that not all members may be happy with (e.g., moving)? (37:00) What are some ways that you have overcome fear in the past and or some fears you are facing today? (43:00) When considering someone who has wronged me in the past, how do I get to the point where I can hear their name or see them somewhere and not (even briefly) think something negative? Or even hope the best for them and pray they changed for the better? Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

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Oct 10, 2023 • 1h 1min
MICHAEL EASTER | Conquer Your Scarcity Brain
So many of us, as men, are operating from a position of scarcity. We’ve wired our brains over decades to constantly crave newer, better, more. Ironically, “more” doesn’t always enhance and enrich our lives. In fact, there is plenty of evidence to suggest that the quest for better actually makes us less happy and less fulfilled. My guest today is Michael Easter, author of The Comfort Crisis and his latest book, Scarcity Brain. Today, Michael and I cover why we constantly crave more, the dangers inherent in social media, parameters to consider when looking for abundance in our lives, how to strike the balance between contentment with ambition, and how to finally conquer our scarcity brains. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Balancing contentment and ambition Recognizing and avoiding overindulgence Ways to make your phone less stimulating Buy gear, not stuff Too much clutter impacts productivity Finding gratification in the process Leaning into a higher purpose Learning from hard times Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Oct 6, 2023 • 20min
WILLIE ROBERTSON | Digging Out of the Depths of Despair
Every single one of us has a story. We all have a past. And, too many of us live in what we’ve done in the past rather than use it as fuel to propel us into the future. One of the great comeback stories that you may be somewhat familiar with is Phil Robertson’s (from Duck Dynasty) story of perseverance, overcoming extreme hardship, and the path to redemption. His son and co-star of Duck Dynasty, Willie Robertson, is here to talk with me today about his father’s story of redemption, their new movie, The Blind, why it’s never too late to write the next chapter of your life, digging out of the depths of despair, and overcoming the guilt of past behavior. Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Oct 4, 2023 • 46min
Breaking Bad Habits, Renewing the Mind, and Dealing with Narcissists | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler takes on your questions from the Iron Council and the Order of Man Facebook group. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (2:00) When breaking a bad habit/addiction, what is better? To focus on eliminating the bad habit for work to replace it with something positive. (5:00) What are some of the best objectives and tactics that everyone could benefit from implementing, at least once? (9:00) What are some innovations are taking place inside of the Iron Council to better serve the members? (12:00) Do you have a daily “mind renewal” practice? (14:40) If you had a physically crippling condition, how would you continue to contribute to those around you and how would your leadership style change? (17:20) What is the most pivotal moment in moving on from a divorce? Any advice to shake the lingering regret? (24:15) How can you work with a narcissist? (29:00) What did you do that you found helpful in processing through the grief of losing a loved one? (35:00) How do I help a friend who is struggling, but doesn’t recognize that there is problem? (39:20) With are the defining moments of your BJJ journey, and how can you implement those lessons in other areas in your life? (45:25) What are the best books you have read this year? Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Oct 3, 2023 • 1h 7min
DR. JOHN DELONY | Annihilate Anxiousness
Anxiousness, depression, suicide. These are all growing trends with men. And, it’s unfortunate because, with all we know about men’s health (physical, mental, and emotional), why is it that so many of us seem to be struggling now more than ever? Isolation, loneliness, loss of ambition, lack of clarity and goals all contribute to the epidemic that seems to be plaguing so many men. It doesn’t have to be this way. And, my good friend and author of Building a Non-Anxious Life, John Delony, is here today to tell us how to make it so. We talk about burnout, stress, and numbing behavior, unpacking what value you truly add to the people you care about, how to apply these principles in reality (and practically), why we don’t have “maps” for every situation we encounter and what to do about it, and overcoming a past of extreme guilt and shame for past behavior. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Life is meant to have ups and downs Defining anxiety Do you need a chip on your shoulder to be successful? Sometimes you need to slow down Drawbacks of using achievement as a drug Uncovering hidden value Find your purpose by showing up Curiosity is underrated Knowing the right map to follow in life Your body is always looking for red flags Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready ⠀ Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Sep 29, 2023 • 38min
Take Control of Your Financial Destiny | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses 10 secrets to building entrepreneurial wealth. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS You have to track everything Plug the holes Invest in yourself Invest in new equipment You’re not in business until you sell something Develop relationship with wealthy friends Build your social media presence today Invest abundantly Whatever you do, you are a marketer Hire, outsource, and partner Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Sep 27, 2023 • 35min
Discovering a Man's Purpose, How He Gains Traction, and How He Shows Love | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Ryan Michler takes on your questions from the Iron Council. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (2:50) Do you have a “bug out” bag and what is in it? (4:30) What does real ”romantic love” feel like? (10:40) How can I be a good, present father, when I am deployed or on long term assignment? (14:30) How can you tell wen you are gaining traction in your life? (21:00) How do I create congruency between multiple brands that I operate? (24:00) How do you say “no” to loved ones when you have to take time for self-care? (28:50) How do I find a purpose? How do I know when I am pursuing the wrong thing? Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Sep 26, 2023 • 1h 4min
BRADLEY RICHARDSON | Becoming a Secure, Confident Man
With the thousands of men I’ve talked with over the years, it’s evident that building and developing confidence is a huge issue for so many men. And, yet, so many men still struggle with the mindsets and activities required to build that confidence in themselves. Many of them believe you’re either born with it or you won’t ever develop it. That just isn’t true. And, my guest today, Bradley Richardson, is here to talk about why that is and what to do about it. Today we talk about why men hang on to unimportant, irrelevant issues way too long, how to deal and cope with a loss of control, knowing what you want and never settling, why many men settle for broken women, avoiding becoming a chameleon to others, and how to regain your sense of clarity and confidence. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS: Guys tend to get stuck in the past relationships are not just a quid pro quo We need to communicate our expectations and standards What you want may not be what you need What people really want is a connection The bar is so low for men in relationships Control the things you can control Some men use their family as an excuse We kill ourselves with overthinking Join the Iron Council brotherhood. Membership open for a limited time. Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready Download the NEW Order of Man Twelve-Week Battle Planner App and maximize your week.

Sep 22, 2023 • 34min
10 Rules for Single Fatherhood | FRIDAY FIELD NOTES
In this week’s FRIDAY FIELD NOTES, Ryan Michler discusses 10 tips to help men overcome the challenges of single fatherhood. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. SHOW HIGHLIGHTS Do not neglect yourself Learn to stack time Discipline and consistency trumps everything else Speak well of their mother Grease the grooves Learn to keep things lighthearted Shine as an example Tell your kids the truth, but don’t burden them When your kids are not with you, you should still be with them Eat dinner with your kids Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today! Order Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto. For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready

Sep 20, 2023 • 55min
The Confidence/Competence Loop, Approaching Women, and Motivating Others | ASK ME ANYTHING
In this week’s ASK ME ANYTHING, Kipp Sorensen and Sean Villalovos take on your questions from the Iron Council. Hit Ryan up on Instagram at @ryanmichler and share what’s working in your life. ⠀ SHOW HIGHLIGHTS (0:00) Episode intro⠀ (3:10) What are some strategies around implementing the confidence/competence loop? (13:40) How do you balance out your alone time in a relationship or marriage? (18:30) What are some strategies for managing a new wife and step kids? (21:50) How do you approach the topic of death with someone who's health is extremely poor? (36:00) How should I approach women at the gym who I’m interested in? (39:00) How do you motivate others to be invested in their work? (47:40) How do we validate feelings that others have that we don’t agree with? Subscribe to the Order of Man YouTube Channel Battle Planners are back in stock. Pick yours up today! Get your signed copy of Ryan's new book, The Masculinity Manifesto For more information on the Iron Council brotherhood. Want maximum health, wealth, relationships, and abundance in your life? Sign up for our free course, 30 Days to Battle Ready