

The Hook Up
ABC Podcasts
The Hook Up is about love, sex and relationships. We answer your questions, learn things together, cry over heartbreak and normalise shit. Every Tuesday Dee and Pip debate your dating dilemmas and hear your cooked stories. Every Thursday it's the sex ed you never had — we call on an expert to go deep and find answers with Dee.
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Jan 15, 2025 • 29min
ICYMI: What It's Like Having Two Vaginas
Content creator Evelyn Miller was born with complete uterus didelphys, a medical condition which means she has two vaginas. She has to use two tampons, can have two babies from two different guys at the same time and can have double the fun in her sex life.We chat to her about what her vulva looks like, how sex feels and what it's been like being an Only Fans creator with her husband.DM us your thoughts, questions, topics, or to just vent at @triplejthehookup or email us: thehookup@abc.net.auThe Hook Up is an ABC podcast, produced by triple j. It is recorded on the lands of the Wurundjeri people of the Kulin nation. We pay our respects to elders past and present. We acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as the First Australians and Traditional Custodians of the land where we live, work, and learn.

Jan 13, 2025 • 33min
ICYMI: What Is A 'Tradwife'?
Delve into the intriguing world of tradwives, women embracing traditional gender roles as full-time homemakers. Discover the viral TikTok trend showcasing a dreamy lifestyle while critiquing its unrealistic expectations. Explore the origins of this movement linking it to alt-right ideologies and the impact on feminist conversations. The hosts tackle a controversial graduation speech highlighting outdated views on women's achievements. The discussion weaves humor and critical insight into the complexities of choice and empowerment within this phenomenon.

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Jan 8, 2025 • 13min
HACK: What It’s Like To Date FIFO
In this conversation, Dave Marchese, host of the Hack podcast, dives into the complex world of dating FIFO workers. He explores the emotional toll of loneliness and trust issues faced by partners left behind. The discussion covers the thrill of fleeting romances, while also exposing the darker sides of casual hookups and infidelity among co-workers. Personal stories from FIFO workers reveal the unique dynamics of their relationships, highlighting the balance of love, communication, and the challenges of reintegration after time away.

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Jan 6, 2025 • 39min
ICYMI: Angela White On Deep Throating, Crying After Sex And Feminism In Porn
Angela White, the world’s biggest porn star, shares her candid insights on the adult film industry and the importance of genuine connections in performances. She discusses mastering oral pleasure with effective techniques and emphasizes the significance of aftercare post-intimacy. The conversation dives into emotional complexities, including crying after sex as a form of vulnerability release, while also unpacking feminism in porn and the evolving landscape of sexual kinks. Angela's honesty brings a fresh perspective to intimacy and sexuality.

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Jan 1, 2025 • 31min
ICYMI: How To Have Better Sex With Dr Tara
Dr. Tara, a sex and relationship communication professor with a massive TikTok following, shares her expertise on building sexual confidence. She emphasizes the importance of self-esteem and offers practical tips like journaling and mindful masturbation. The conversation also touches on 'edging' for enhanced pleasure and explores intimacy beyond penetration, highlighting the significance of non-penetrative activities. Dr. Tara encourages a broader understanding of sexual experiences, advocating for variety and the value of nipple play for everyone.

Dec 30, 2024 • 30min
Here’s Your Hook Up 2024 Wrapped
Reflecting on a challenging year, the hosts share their personal struggles and wins while discussing the complex landscape of modern dating. They dive into the intriguing 'trad wife' phenomenon and critique its cultural implications. Insights on dating as a neurodivergent individual reveal the importance of supportive partnerships. A unique discussion on uterus didelphus adds a fresh perspective to reproductive health. Predictions for 2025 highlight the need for higher standards and better communication in relationships, promising hope for future connections.

Dec 25, 2024 • 28min
ICYMI: How To Know When You Should Break Up
It’s hard to know when a relationship has run it’s course - so when there’s nothing really wrong or really right, how can you trust your gut on what to do? We get some advice from psychologist and couples therapist Elizabeth Neale.DM us your thoughts, questions, topics, or to just vent at @triplejthehookup or email us: thehookup@abc.net.auThe Hook Up is an ABC podcast, produced by triple j. It is recorded on the lands of the Wurundjeri people of the Kulin nation. We pay our respects to elders past and present. We acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as the First Australians and Traditional Custodians of the land where we live, work, and learn.

Dec 23, 2024 • 18min
Your Best Secrets Of 2024
From waffle stomping and ewok kinks, to reusing a housemate’s sex toy and having a SWAT team investigate your nudes - we round up the most cooked secrets spilled by you this year.DM us your thoughts, questions, topics, or to just vent at @triplejthehookup on IG or email us: thehookup@abc.net.auThe Hook Up is an ABC podcast, produced by triple j. It is recorded on the lands of the Wurundjeri people of the Kulin nation. We pay our respects to elders past and present. We acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as the First Australians and Traditional Custodians of the land where we live, work, and learn.

Dec 18, 2024 • 21min
An Expert's Opinion On Age Gap Relationships
What does the research show when it comes to relationships with big age gaps? How likely are they to be successful? And when is an age gap problematic? Professor of Psychology from Deakin University Gery Karantzas weighs in on the age gap debate in dating.DM us your thoughts, questions, topics, or to just vent at @triplejthehookup on IG or email us: thehookup@abc.net.auThe Hook Up is an ABC podcast, produced by triple j. It is recorded on the lands of the Wurundjeri people of the Kulin nation. We pay our respects to elders past and present. We acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as the First Australians and Traditional Custodians of the land where we live, work, and learn.

Dec 16, 2024 • 38min
Punk, Queer Joy And Believing In Soulmates w/ Drag Queen Bimini
Bimini, a non-binary drag queen and DJ from RuPaul's Drag Race UK Season 2, discusses their vibrant journey in drag culture. They delve into the intersection of punk aesthetics and queer politics, emphasizing self-expression and authenticity. Bimini shares insights on navigating queer identity, the emotional impact of hair loss, and the importance of humor and acceptance. Engaging in playful hypotheticals about love and connection, they explore the meaning of intimacy beyond societal norms while critiquing media portrayals of queer relationships.