
The Hook Up
The Hook Up is about love, sex and relationships. We answer your questions, learn things together, cry over heartbreak and normalise shit. Every Tuesday Dee and Pip debate your dating dilemmas and hear your cooked stories. Every Thursday it's the sex ed you never had — we call on an expert to go deep and find answers with Dee.
Latest episodes

Sep 24, 2024 • 36min
Millie Ford on Dating With ADHD And OCD
Huge fan girl moment for us in this ep!!! Content creator, muso and actor Millie Ford jumps on The Hook Up to chat about her love life. As a certified lover girl, Millie has a hot take on who should pay for the first date and opens up about what it's been like dating with her ADHD and OCD.DM us your thoughts, questions, topics, or to just vent at @triplejthehookup on IG or email us: thehookup@abc.net.auThe Hook Up is an ABC podcast, produced by triple j. It is recorded on the lands of the Wurundjeri people of the Kulin nation. We pay our respects to elders past and present. We acknowledge Aboriginal and Torres Strait Islander peoples as the First Australians and Traditional Custodians of the land where we live, work, and learn.

Sep 18, 2024 • 17min
How To Nail 69
To celebrate hitting 69k followers on Instagram, Dee chats to sex educator Georgia Grace about how to do one of the most polarising sex positions — 69.

Sep 17, 2024 • 32min
"I Pissed All Over His Bed": Your One Night Stand Stories
For our first ever live podcast we went to Warrnambool for triple j's One Night Stand and heard your one night stand hook up stories.Like… being caught naked by a housemate, meeting the whole extended family over dinner, a condom getting stuck, and pissing all over someone's bed.

Sep 11, 2024 • 0sec
How To Break Up With Someone After Realising You’re Queer
Dabaco Sunset, a relational therapist, dives into the complexities of realizing one's queer identity while in a long-term hetero relationship. They explore the emotional challenges of breaking up, emphasizing the importance of honest communication and compassion. The conversation covers personal experiences, the bittersweet journey of self-discovery, and the role of professional guidance. Dabaco also highlights the need for community support to navigate feelings of guilt and shame post-breakup, providing insights on fostering a healthier relationship with oneself.

Sep 10, 2024 • 25min
Should You Care About 'Body Count'?
Have you kept track of how many people you've had sex with? And are you worried about your 'number'?We investigate TikTok's obsession with body count, the gendered double standards and whether or not anyone actually cares.NOTES:Call Her Daddy ep with Miley CyrusStudy about global average sex numberStudy about gender differences lying about number

Sep 4, 2024 • 18min
What Will Happen If I Stop Taking The Pill?
If you're on the contraceptive pill there might come a time where you want to stop taking it. Maybe you're no longer in a relo, or you want to use a different contraception. So what will happen to your body and hormones? Will you have any side effects?We chat to Dr Theresa Larkin about everything you need to know about the pill and coming off it.

Sep 3, 2024 • 32min
Dating Diaries, Faking O’s & U-Haul Lesbians w/ Maddy MacRae
In this engaging chat, Maddy MacRae, a popular TikTok content creator known for her dating diaries, opens up about her personal experiences in the dating world. She shares her candid perspective on safe sex, discussing whether condoms are truly essential. Maddy dives into the humorous yet complex dynamics of being a U-Haul lesbian and reflects on the awkwardness of faking orgasms. The conversation is filled with laugh-out-loud moments and thoughtful insights on navigating modern relationships.

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Aug 29, 2024 • 25min
How To Nut Again And Again And Again
Have you ever wanted to shorten your refractory period?Men's sex coach Cam Fraser teaches us how. Plus, we learn how to have an orgasm without ejaculating (yes ghost loads are possible!!!)

Aug 27, 2024 • 26min
Your Tips On How To Have An Amazing Orgasm
Is there a certain sex position, or toy, or breathwork, or move you know will give you an incredible orgasm?We hear your best nut tips and tricks and chat to someone who reckons they came for seven minutes long.

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Aug 22, 2024 • 30min
What It's Like Having Two Vaginas
Evelyn Miller, a content creator born with a rare condition that gives her two vaginas, shares her unique life experiences. She discusses the fascinating realities of having dual vaginas, from needing two tampons to the potential for simultaneous pregnancies. Evelyn dives into her journey from private escorting to thriving on OnlyFans with her husband, tackling public perceptions and personal challenges along the way. The conversation also highlights the complexities of intimacy, reproductive health, and the balancing act of privacy in her extraordinary life.