
The Hook Up
The Hook Up is about love, sex and relationships. We answer your questions, learn things together, cry over heartbreak and normalise shit. Every Tuesday Dee and Pip debate your dating dilemmas and hear your cooked stories. Every Thursday it's the sex ed you never had — we call on an expert to go deep and find answers with Dee.
Latest episodes

Nov 21, 2023 • 23min
Why Do We F*ck People We Hate
We’re so obsessed with the enemies to lovers trope in movies, books and tv - but can it happen irl? Turns out yes, and the most common way to catch feelings for your arch nemesis is through hatefucking, so we chat the experts on how sexual chemistry can mess with your head and your heart

Nov 14, 2023 • 26min
I Love Feet... Do I Have A Foot Fetish?
ICYMI, you don’t have to have a foot fetish to be into feet.

Nov 7, 2023 • 29min
What It’s Like To Date With ADHD
Loads of people are getting later in life diagnoses of ADHD which has helped a lot you figure out the way you work – but what about the way you date? We’re investigating how symptoms like hyperfixation vs distraction/loss of interest, impulsive behaviour and overstimulation/hypersensitivity can affect your relationships and sex life.

Oct 31, 2023 • 18min
Autosexuality: When You’re Sexually Attracted To Yourself
Imagine if you could have sex with yourself. That’s the dream for people who’re autosexual. We delve deep into the sexuality we had no idea even existed.

Oct 24, 2023 • 18min
TF Is A Coregasm And How Do I Have One?
Exercise might give you endorphins but it also might give you an orgasm. It’s actually more common than you think. We get your coregasm stories and find out what exercises to do/avoid.

Oct 17, 2023 • 34min
When Your Body Image Is Ruining Your Sex Life
Most of you told us you’ve felt insecure about your body during sex, so how do you stop that negative self-talk and learn to accept yourself just the way you are?In this episode, we tackle body image during sex with body image advocate Bella Davis and find out how to feel confident to fuck with the lights on.

Oct 12, 2023 • 30min
A Chat With Madison Griffiths on Abortion
In this bonus episode, writer, artist and producer Madison Griffiths chat to Dee about her new book Tissue.Tissue is Madi's raw and vulnerable reflection on a pregnancy she terminated during lockdown in 2021 and the complexities that come with getting an abortion for so many people in our current political climate.

Oct 10, 2023 • 46min
How To Deal If You Keep Getting UTIs
Getting a urinary tract infection can be one of the most painful experiences, and if you're getting them all the time, they can cause a lot of anxiety around sex.So in this ep, we chat to a urologist, sexologist and pelvic floor specialist about how to cope with chronic and recurrent UTIs and find out if a UTI isn't causing your pain, then what the hell is?

Oct 3, 2023 • 38min
Can Anxious-Avoidant Relationships Ever Work?
Everyone’s obsessed with attachment theory atm! But even if you don’t subscribe - it’s a pretty common relationship dynamic where someone can be more avoidant and need space and someone can be more anxious and clingy.So here’s Stephanie Rigg from the On Attached pod, and Psychologist Chris Cheers on how to make it work.

Sep 26, 2023 • 35min
What You Need To Know About Consent With Chanel Contos
She’s the activist who helped make consent education mandatory in the Australian curriculum and now Chanel Contos has written her first book Consent Laid Bare. In this episode, Chanel chats to us about some of the ways rape culture is reinforced in Australia and what needs to change.