Dating Beyond Borders

Marina Iakovleva
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Sep 5, 2025 • 11min

(Mini Pod) "Doe Normaal": a Slavic Take on the DUTCH

In this podcast snippet, I chat with Alisa, a Slavic content creator who has made the Netherlands her home. We dive into Dutch lifestyle and mentality, from their rule-and-planning culture, to why conversations often stick to “safe” topics, to how bragging looks completely different from the Slavic kind, and why Dutch directness can sometimes feel a little too direct.Say hi to Alisa: https://www.instagram.com/alisa_law/Each week I will interview guests from all around the world on the topics of culture, connection and of course, dating. The goal is to go as deep as possible and to really understand where we all come from and how much culture influences our life.Want to join the mailing list? https://www.dating-beyond-borders.comSay hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingbeyondbordersDating Beyond Borders channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/datingbeyondborders
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Sep 3, 2025 • 1h 1min

Ep. 79 - Dating as a Gay American in BELGIUM: Love, Grindr & Stereotypes

This week I sit down with Colby, an American journalist living in Belgium, to talk about what it’s really like dating European men, especially Belgians and the Dutch. We dive into the realities of gay identity in Europe vs the US, covering everything from Pride parades and stereotypes to the challenges of Grindr culture, and why finding love beyond hookups can be so difficult.Each week I will interview guests from all around the world on the topics of culture, connection and of course, dating. The goal is to go as deep as possible and to really understand where we all come from and how much culture influences our life.Say hi to Colby:   / colbypgrey  Want to join the mailing list? https://www.dating-beyond-borders.comSay hi on Instagram:   / datingbeyondborders  Dating Beyond Borders channel:    / datingbeyondborders  
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Aug 26, 2025 • 1h 7min

Ep. 78 - From the US to Norway: Why Moving Abroad Has Completely Changed My Life! (Feat. Hendo)

This week I sit down with Hendo, from the channel Hendo in Norway, to chat about her experience leaving LA for Oslo. We talk about her biggest reasons for leaving the US, what has been the biggest struggle of life in Norway, and how her life has changed since the move to Scandinavia.Say hi to Hendo: https://www.instagram.com/hendoinnorway/Why she moved from the US: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=4rVwlDYk6l8Each week I will interview guests from all around the world on the topics of culture, connection and of course, dating. The goal is to go as deep as possible and to really understand where we all come from and how much culture influences our life.Want to join the mailing list? https://www.dating-beyond-borders.comSay hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingbeyondbordersDating Beyond Borders channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/datingbeyondborders
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Aug 21, 2025 • 1h 21min

Ep. 77 - Truth About Brazilian Sexuality: Pick-Me Culture, Youth Obsession & Double Standards

This week, I talk to Fernanda, a Brazilian sexologist, about how dating, relationships, and sexuality play out in Brazilian culture. Is Brazil really a highly sexualized society—and how does that impact women and men? What are the expectations around desirability? Are Brazilians truly “great in bed,” and where does that stereotype come from? We also dive into PDA, infidelity, and much more.Say hi to Fernanda: https://www.instagram.com/fe_alv/Each week I will interview guests from all around the world on the topics of culture, connection and of course, dating. The goal is to go as deep as possible and to really understand where we all come from and how much culture influences our life.Want to join the mailing list? https://www.dating-beyond-borders.comSay hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingbeyondbordersDating Beyond Borders channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/datingbeyondborders
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Jul 9, 2025 • 11min

(Mini Pod) No Sex Before Marriage? Why Korean Relationships are Shockingly DIFFERENT!

I chat to Kaheva, a content creator from South Korea about the Korean dating scene: what does it mean "to cause an accident", "Gold Miss" and why there are so many "old virgins" in Korea. Say hi to Kaheva: https://www.instagram.com/kaheva_official/Each week I will interview guests from all around the world on the topics of culture, connection and of course, dating. The goal is to go as deep as possible and to really understand where we all come from and how much culture influences our life.Want to join the mailing list? https://www.dating-beyond-borders.comSay hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingbeyondbordersDating Beyond Borders channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/datingbeyondborders
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Jul 3, 2025 • 11min

(Mini Pod) This Is Normal in the States... and WEIRD in Denmark

Curious about the culture shock Americans face in Denmark? In this episode, I talk to Derek from the Robe Trotting Podcast about the biggest U.S. vs Danish cultural differences — from openness vs silence to convenience, partying, and hospitality.Say hi to Derek: https://www.instagram.com/robetrotting/Each week I will interview guests from all around the world on the topics of culture, connection and of course, dating. The goal is to go as deep as possible and to really understand where we all come from and how much culture influences our life.Say hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingbeyondbordersDating Beyond Borders channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/datingbeyondborders
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Jun 25, 2025 • 1h 6min

Ep. 76 - Hate Where You Live? How to Find the Place You TRULY Belong

If you're curious about moving abroad and want more support, Leah created Fearless Abroad — a step-by-step path with structure, clarity, and real guidance to help you make it happen. You can check it out here: https://theculturepreneur.co/fearless-abroad-courseThis week I chat with Leah, an American who’s lived in over five countries and created a course all about moving abroad. We talk about the emotional side of finding “home,” why the digital nomad lifestyle isn’t always ideal—especially if you’re looking for love—and the real reason so many people stay stuck in a life they don’t love. Leah also shares the best first steps to take if you’re serious about changing your life and finally making that move abroad.Your responses: https://shorturl.at/L0tWZEach week I will interview guests from all around the world on the topics of culture, connection and of course, dating. The goal is to go as deep as possible and to really understand where we all come from and how much culture influences our life.Say hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingbeyondbordersDating Beyond Borders channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/datingbeyondborders
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Jun 18, 2025 • 1h 9min

Ep. 75 - Why THIS is The Hardest City to Find Love I EXPLICIT (Feat. Lulu Johnson)

This week on the podcast, I sit down with Lulu Johnson — author of Dating in Berlin: Tales of Modern Love and Relationships and host of the podcast Dating, Laughter and Disasters. We dive into the realities of dating in Berlin: Why is it so hard to find a serious, monogamous relationship in a city known for its endless options, vibrant party scene, and strong resistance to settling down? From ghosting and polyamory to the challenges of emotional connection, we explore what modern love really looks like in Germany’s most transient and hedonistic city.Say hi to Lulu: https://www.instagram.com/datinginberlin_/Her site: https://datinginberlin.com/Podcast: https://shorturl.at/GpJRPEach week I will interview guests from all around the world on the topics of culture, connection and of course, dating. The goal is to go as deep as possible and to really understand where we all come from and how much culture influences our life.Want to join the mailing list? https://www.dating-beyond-borders.comSay hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingbeyondbordersDating Beyond Borders channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/datingbeyondborders
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Jun 11, 2025 • 56min

Ep. 74 - From the US to Italy: What It’s REALLY Like to Date an Italian Man (Feat. Ingles With Annie)

This week, I chat with Annie from the page Ingles With Annie about her journey moving to Europe—first to Spain, then Italy—and her experience dating an Italian man. We dive into cultural differences, covering everything from communication to digestion and everything in between.Say hi to Annie: https://www.instagram.com/ingles_with_annie/Each week I will interview guests from all around the world on the topics of culture, connection and of course, dating. The goal is to go as deep as possible and to really understand where we all come from and how much culture influences our life.Want to join the mailing list? https://www.dating-beyond-borders.comSay hi on Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/datingbeyondbordersDating Beyond Borders channel: https://www.youtube.com/user/datingbeyondborders
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Jun 3, 2025 • 57min

Ep. 73 - From US to Poland: How Moving To Europe TRANSFORMED His Dating Life (Feat. Where's Wes)

Wes, the creator behind the YouTube channel Where's Wes, shares his transformative journey from the U.S. to Poland, exploring the rich contrasts in dating norms between cultures. He discusses the challenges he faces as an Asian man and reveals why Polish women often present a refreshing perspective. The conversation covers cultural dynamics of attraction and the impact of socioeconomic backgrounds on dating. Wes emphasizes the importance of community in defining a sense of home, making it clear that fulfillment comes from connections rather than locations.

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