Dating Beyond Borders Ep. 73 - From US to Poland: How Moving To Europe Transformed His Dating Life (Feat. Where's Wes)
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Jun 3, 2025 Wes, the creator behind the YouTube channel Where's Wes, shares his transformative journey from the U.S. to Poland, exploring the rich contrasts in dating norms between cultures. He discusses the challenges he faces as an Asian man and reveals why Polish women often present a refreshing perspective. The conversation covers cultural dynamics of attraction and the impact of socioeconomic backgrounds on dating. Wes emphasizes the importance of community in defining a sense of home, making it clear that fulfillment comes from connections rather than locations.
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Why He Left The U.S. For Poland
- Wes moved from Los Angeles to Colombia, then Asia, and finally settled in Poland after enjoying European life and opportunity.
- He found Poland fit his safety, social etiquette, and career goals which kept him there.
Language Shapes Feeling Of Belonging
- Wes found many developed Asian countries have high language barriers that make assimilation hard despite visual similarity.
- He prefers Europe because it allows a comfortable living standard with cultural familiarity and professional opportunity.
Positive Asian Stereotypes In Poland
- In Poland Asians are treated more like equals and often benefit from positive 'exotic' stereotypes.
- Wes contrasts this with the U.S., where Asian men face negative dating stereotypes and exclusion.
