The PedsDocTalk Podcast: Child Health, Development & Parenting—From a Pediatrician Mom

Does your child snore, mouth breathe, or seem “wired” instead of tired? Are they struggling with sleep—or is something bigger going on? In this follow-up episode with sleep expert Dr. Shelby Harris, we dive deep into the connection between sleep, behavior, and diagnoses like ADHD. If you’ve ever felt unsure whether your child’s sleep issues are causing daytime struggles—or if the behavioral struggles are disrupting sleep—this episode is for you. We cover: 🧠 How sleep deprivation can mimic ADHD symptoms 😴 When to suspect sleep apnea—and what signs often get missed 👃 Why mouth breathing in babies and toddlers isn’t “just cute” 🕵🏽‍♀️ The questions to ask before jumping to medication or a diagnosis 💊 A balanced, science-based look at melatonin (when it can help—and when to pause) 🛏️ Real-life stories from Dr. Shelby and Dr. Mona’s parenting journeys Plus: 💬 How sleep quality impacts everything from emotional regulation to anxiety—and what to look out for at every age. This episode is all about empowering you with information, not guilt. Because before we assume it’s “just behavior,” we need to explore what’s happening at night. 🎧 Tune in, take notes, and don’t be afraid to advocate for your child’s sleep. It just might be the missing piece. Struggling with your child's sleep? The Essential Guide to Children's Sleep: a Tired Caregiver’s Workbook for Every Age and Stage offers expert tips and easy tools for every age and stage-so you (and your kid) can finally rest.  Written by three psychologists (Drs. Roth, Shale and Harris) who are specialists in pediatric behavioral sleep medicine and child psychology, this book is packed with information to help anxious kids and tired parents learn the necessary tips and tricks to help everyone on the road to better sleep. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Why do newborns get a vitamin K shot—and why has it become the center of so much misinformation online?  If you’ve ever hesitated about this newborn standard, this is the episode that brings clarity and calm. In this episode, I welcome Dr. Jessica Knurick who has a PhD in Nutrition Science to break down the real reason this shot is recommended at birth, the science behind preventing Vitamin K Deficiency Bleeding (VKDB), and where social media gets it wrong. From safety concerns to conspiracy theories, we’re cutting through the noise with evidence, history, and a healthy dose of common sense. We discuss:  Why the vitamin K shot is critical for preventing dangerous bleeding in newborns. The science behind VKDB and how misinformation spreads online. Evidence-based answers to common myths about vitamin K shot ingredients and safety. To connect with Dr. Jessica Knurick follow her on Instagram @drjessicaknurick, check out all her resources at https://www.jessicaknurick.com/  We’d like to know who is listening! Please fill out our Listener Survey to help us improve the show and learn about you! 00:00 – Intro and Welcome 01:45 – How Dr. Knurick Got Involved in Vitamin K Education 03:00 – “Eyes and Thighs” and What’s Actually in That Bundle 04:10 – What Does the Vitamin K Shot Actually Do? 09:35 – Is VKDB Really That Rare? Let’s Do the Math 12:00 – Real Clinical Cases of VKDB 14:55 – A Pediatrician’s Perspective on Preventable Harm 17:05 – Why Babies Bleed Without Trauma 20:20 – Shot vs. Oral Vitamin K: What the Data Says 23:00 – Compliance, Safety, and Why Simplicity Matters 25:10 – Advice for Parents Feeling Overwhelmed by Conflicting Info 28:00 – Final Thoughts and Where to Find Dr. Knurick Our podcasts are also now on YouTube. If you prefer a video podcast with closed captioning, check us out there and subscribe to PedsDocTalk. We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on the PedsDocTalk Podcast Sponsorships page of the website.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Ever feel like you're the one who just knows when the Band-Aids are running low? The one who remembers the pediatrician’s number, tracks school spirit days, and anticipates every snack, schedule, and meltdown? You might be the default parent—and you’re not alone. In this week’s Follow-Up episode, we dig into the invisible labor of parenting: who carries it, how it ends up falling on one partner (often moms), and what it takes to shift those dynamics without resentment. We talk about: What the default parent role actually is—and how to know if you're in it Why moms in particular fall into this role (hint: it’s not just about who works more) How cultural expectations of “intensive mothering” set us up for burnout The slow unraveling of guilt, identity, and control so many of us face Practical strategies and mindset shifts that help partners share the load Whether you're feeling overstretched or trying to find more balance in your home, this episode is a validating, honest, and empowering listen. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Are you still hearing that you should wait days between introducing new foods—or that food causes eczema? Are you stressed about feeding your baby the top 9 allergens? In this episode, I sit down with pediatric allergist Dr. Dave Stukus to bust the biggest myths about food allergies. We’re talking real science, not fear: when to introduce allergens, why elimination diets can do more harm than good, and what’s actually driving the rise in allergies today.  We discuss:  Early allergen introduction helps prevent food allergies. Food doesn't cause eczema—here’s what actually does. Vaccines don’t cause allergies—here’s what’s behind the rise. To connect with Dr. Dave Stukus follow him on Instagram @allergykidsdoc, check out all his resources at https://www.nationwidechildrens.org/find-a-doctor/profiles/david-r-stukus 00:00 – Meet Dr. Dave Stukus03:50 – Myth: Delay Introducing Allergenic Foods06:23 – Feeding Should Be Fun, Not Fearful08:05 – Are Babies More at Risk for Severe Reactions?10:15 – Parking Lot Peanut Butter & Allergy Anxiety11:01 – Benadryl vs. Modern Antihistamines13:02 – What a True Food Allergy Looks Like15:31 – The Truth About Food and Eczema18:13 – The Exception, Not the Rule22:19 – Eczema and Future Allergy Risk24:11 – When to Start Solids for Prevention25:08 – Why Food Allergies Are Rising27:55 – Final Takeaways & Stay Updated We’d like to know who is listening! Please fill out our Listener Survey to help us improve the show and learn about you! Our podcasts are also now on YouTube. If you prefer a video podcast with closed captioning, check us out there and subscribe to PedsDocTalk. We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on the PedsDocTalk Podcast Sponsorships page of the website.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

You’ve probably heard the claim that sleep training—especially methods like "cry-it-out"—can flood babies with toxic stress. But is that actually what the science says? In this episode, I sit down with a leading developmental expert to unpack the research on cortisol, stress, and infant development. We cover how the stress response system works, what truly qualifies as toxic stress, and why common fears about sleep training may be missing important context. Whether you're team sleep-train or not, this episode offers clarity, compassion, and evidence-backed guidance. Key Takeaways: Cortisol is a normal, necessary hormone that helps us respond to stress. Not all stress is toxic—especially when it’s brief and supported by a caregiver. There's no evidence linking sleep training with long-term harm. Misinterpreting small or flawed studies can create unnecessary fear for parents. Sleep training, when developmentally appropriate, can be a positive and adaptive experience for both babies and parents. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

Do you have a strong-willed child? How do you know you have one? Are you approaching their behavior in a positive way? I have recorded a solo episode about strong-willed children and power struggles and I always enjoy it when I can chat with fellow parenting coaches about it.  I welcome back Zack Kasabo who is a certified school counselor and parent coach. He was on the show before talking about how to encourage positive behaviors in kids without enabling them.  We discuss:  Misconceptions about strong-willed children and parenting strong-willed children The power of “mutual submission" The number one rule when addressing strong-willed children  To connect with Zack Kasabo follow him on Instagram @coachkasabo, check out all his resources at https://coachkasabo.info/ We’d like to know who is listening! Please fill out our Listener Survey to help us improve the show and learn about you! 00:00 – Modeling Cooperation00:22 – Intro: Parenting Strong-Willed Kids00:50 – Meet Zack Kasabo02:28 – What Makes a Child Strong-Willed?05:00 – Reframing Strong-Willed as a Strength06:45 – The Problem with Labels08:18 – Parenting Starts with You09:44 – Breaking Generational Patterns12:11 – Power Struggle Example: Clean Your Room14:10 – Why Lectures Don’t Work17:27 – Teaching Through Experience20:21 – Start Before Grade School22:02 – Don’t Ignore “Normal” Behavior23:05 – Final Tips & Where to Find Zac24:11 – Encouragement for Parents Our podcasts are also now on YouTube. If you prefer a video podcast with closed captioning, check us out there and subscribe to PedsDocTalk. We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on the PedsDocTalk Podcast Sponsorships page of the website.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this honest and personal episode, I’m joined by my husband, Gaurav, as we open up about what makes our marriage work—especially through the chaos of parenting, career shifts, and everyday life. We talk about: The power of balancing each other’s strengths and weaknesses How we’ve navigated trauma, including our son's birth and postpartum period Our nightly “State of the Union” check-ins—and why they’ve changed our relationship What we’ve learned about love languages, communication styles, and unmet expectations How we’ve moved from trying to “fix” each other to simply understanding and growing together Marriage isn't always picture-perfect—and that’s exactly why these kinds of conversations matter. Whether you're partnered, married, or navigating love while raising kids, this episode offers a real-world look at building connection, even in the messy moments. Our podcasts are also now on YouTube. If you prefer a video podcast with closed captioning, check us out there and ⁠subscribe to PedsDocTalk⁠. Get trusted pediatric advice, relatable parenting insights, and evidence-based tips delivered straight to your inbox—join thousands of parents who rely on the PDT newsletter to stay informed, supported, and confident. ⁠⁠⁠Join the newsletter⁠⁠⁠! And don’t forget to follow ⁠⁠⁠@pedsdoctalkpodcast⁠⁠⁠ on Instagram—our new space just for parents looking for real talk and real support. We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on the ⁠PedsDocTalk Podcast Sponsorships⁠ page of the website.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

If you’ve ever felt alone navigating an FPIES diagnosis—or if you’re wondering what FPIES even is—this episode is for you.  I’m joined by Dr. Taylor Arnold, pediatric dietitian and mom of two children who had FPIES, and Dr. Manisha Relan, board-certified allergist and immunologist. Together, we break down what FPIES actually is, why it’s so often misdiagnosed, how it differs from typical food allergies, and what families can do to manage it confidently. Whether you're a parent seeking answers or a clinician wanting to deepen your understanding, I hope this conversation leaves you feeling more empowered, prepared, and less alone. We discuss:  What FPIES is, how it differs from typical food allergies, and why diagnosis is often delayed. Navigating food introductions, managing reactions, and reducing anxiety around FPIES. Practical tips for daycare, social situations, and long-term support for children with FPIES. To connect with Dr. Taylor Arnold follow her on Instagram @growing.intuitive.eaters, check out all her resources at https://msha.ke/growingintuitiveeaters  To connect with Dr. Manisha Relan follow her on Instagram @pedsallergymd, and check out all her resources at https://www.101beforeone.com/ and her new book: https://www.amazon.com/Baby-Leads-Way-Evidence-Based-Introducing/dp/1610027620 Additional Resources: https://fpiesfoundation.org/ https://www.fpies.org/ https://kidswithfoodallergies.org/living-with-food-allergies/what-is-a-food-allergy/food-protein-induced-enterocolitis-syndrome-fpies/ We’d like to know who is listening! Please fill out our Listener Survey to help us improve the show and learn about you! 00:00 – Intro & Why This Matters 02:00 – Meet the Experts 03:05 – What FPIES Is and Isn’t 08:20 – Hallmark Symptoms & Why It’s Missed 10:10 – Personal Story: Misdiagnosis & Learning Curve 15:00 – Diagnosing FPIES 18:30 – What Causes FPIES? 20:00 – What Parents & Pediatricians Should Know 23:30 – Figuring Out Food Triggers 25:00 – Managing Feeding Anxiety After Diagnosis 29:00 – Preventing Nutritional Deficiencies 32:00 – Practical Tips for School, Daycare & Social Events 35:00 – Emotional Support for Parents 38:00 – Outgrowing FPIES & What Comes Next 42:00 – Final Takeaways & Encouragement Our podcasts are also now on YouTube. If you prefer a video podcast with closed captioning, check us out there and ⁠subscribe to PedsDocTalk⁠. Get trusted pediatric advice, relatable parenting insights, and evidence-based tips delivered straight to your inbox—join thousands of parents who rely on the PDT newsletter to stay informed, supported, and confident. ⁠⁠⁠Join the newsletter⁠⁠⁠! And don’t forget to follow ⁠⁠⁠@pedsdoctalkpodcast⁠⁠⁠ on Instagram—our new space just for parents looking for real talk and real support. We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on the ⁠PedsDocTalk Podcast Sponsorships⁠ page of the website.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

In this insightful follow-up episode, Dr. Mona is joined by Bill Brady—CEO of Troomi Wireless and a father of five—for a powerful conversation about the realities of kids and phones. They discuss the benefits of tech, the very real risks of social media, and how parents can introduce devices with intention. From self-esteem and screen-time addiction to practical steps for safe tech use, this episode is a must-listen for any parent navigating the digital age. What We Cover: The pros and cons of giving kids phones Why it’s not about a specific age, but developmental readiness The impact of social media on teen mental health and self-esteem Why kids today are facing an “always on” culture of bullying How to safely ease children into tech (and what that actually looks like) The importance of parental controls, gradual access, and media literacy Dr. Mona’s take on being a content creator—and the mental health toll it can take Want more? Enjoy the full episode at ⁠PedsDocTalk.com⁠ Get trusted pediatric advice, relatable parenting insights, and evidence-based tips delivered straight to your inbox—join thousands of parents who rely on the PDT newsletter to stay informed, supported, and confident. ⁠⁠⁠⁠Join the newsletter⁠⁠⁠⁠! And don’t forget to follow ⁠⁠⁠⁠@pedsdoctalkpodcast⁠⁠⁠⁠ on Instagram—our new space just for parents looking for real talk and real support. We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on the ⁠PedsDocTalk Podcast Sponsorships⁠ page of the website. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices

After watching the Netflix series Adolescence, I was left gutted, moved, and full of questions—just like many of you who reached out. “I watched it. I was shocked. I was moved… but now what do I do with these big feelings I’m having and this information?” Whether you’re raising a boy or a girl, this show forces us to reckon with disconnection, violence, and parenting in the digital age. In this conversation, I sit down with Ruth Whippman and Dr. Zabina Bhasin to explore what the show reveals about masculinity, emotional disconnection, and how boys are often left emotionally starved in today’s culture. We talk about parenting, school systems, and online influences—and most importantly, how we can start doing better for our kids. We discuss:  How the Netflix series Adolescence reflects the emotional isolation many boys experience—and why it’s a cultural crisis. How masculinity, parenting, school systems, and online influences shape how boys express (or suppress) their feelings. Practical, compassionate strategies to help parents, educators, and adults raise emotionally safe, connected boys in today’s world. To connect with Ruth Whippman follow her on Instagram @ruthwhippman, check out all her resources at http://www.ruthwhippman.com/, join her Substack: I Blame Society and purchase her book Boy Mom. Ruth Whippman has previously been on the PedsDocTalk Podcast: https://pedsdoctalk.com/podcast/masculinity-and-politics-exploring-the-connection-between-gender-ideals-and-voting-trends/ https://pedsdoctalk.com/podcast/raising-boys-and-redefining-toxic-masculinity-and-how-it-impacts-friendships-and-emotional-health/  To connect with Dr. Zee follower her on Instagram @drzee_md  and @listen2thekidz_, and check out all her resources at https://www.dr-zee.com/  We’d like to know who is listening! Please fill out our Listener Survey to help us improve the show and learn about you! 00:00 Introducing Guests: Ruth Whippman and Dr. Z – Experts on masculinity, emotional safety, and parenting. 00:02:59 Themes from the Show 00:06:06 Cultural Crisis 00:07:28 Emotional Starvation 00:09:43 Nature vs. Nurture 00:11:51 Raising Emotionally Healthy Boys 00:15:17 Cultural Messaging 00:20:00 Behavioral Conditioning vs. Biology 00:24:11 Friendships, Brotherhood, and Vulnerability 00:30:44 Teaching Emotional Literacy 00:35:40 Hope for the Future 00:42:10 The Need to Be Seen 00:50:11 Action Steps for Parents 00:56:00 Closing Reflections Our podcasts are also now on YouTube. If you prefer a video podcast with closed captioning, check us out there and subscribe to PedsDocTalk. Get trusted pediatric advice, relatable parenting insights, and evidence-based tips delivered straight to your inbox—join thousands of parents who rely on the PDT newsletter to stay informed, supported, and confident. ⁠⁠Join the newsletter⁠⁠! And don’t forget to follow ⁠⁠@pedsdoctalkpodcast⁠⁠ on Instagram—our new space just for parents looking for real talk and real support. We love the sponsors that make this show possible! You can always find all the special deals and codes for all our current sponsors on the PedsDocTalk Podcast Sponsorships page of the website.  Learn more about your ad choices. Visit podcastchoices.com/adchoices