Everyone's Talkin' Money

What happens when you get everything you thought you wanted—and you still feel exhausted, invisible, or like it’s not enough? In this episode, I sit down with executive coach, author, and chronic illness advocate Amina AlTai to talk about the ambition trap that so many women find themselves stuck in. We’re talking burnout, people-pleasing, invisible labor, and the deeply ingrained systems that convince us our worth is tied to how much we produce. Amina shares insights from her new book The Ambition Trap: How to Stop Chasing and Start Living, including why redefining ambition is key to healing, how codependency and chronic overachievement are related, and what high-performing women often get wrong about success. If you’ve ever felt like you're doing everything and it’s still not enough—this conversation is your wake-up call and your permission slip to do it differently. In this episode, you'll walk away learning: How the cultural definition of ambition keeps women stuck in burnout cycles Why burnout isn’t a personal failure—it’s a systemic setup The hidden cost of invisible labor, especially for women and mothers How your core wounds shape your ambition, your money mindset, and your relationships A practical framework to move from painful ambition to purposeful ambition Why even women who “have it all” still struggle to believe in their zone of genius—and how to reclaim it Follow Amina on Instagram @aminaaltai Stay up to date with everything Everyone's Talkin' Money on Instagram @everyonestalkinmoney Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

In this powerful conversation, Shari sits down with Andres Lares, Managing Partner and CEO of Shapiro Negotiations Institute (SNI), to talk about what it really takes to become a confident, skilled negotiator in both business and life. From teaching at Johns Hopkins to consulting with major sports franchises and leading tech companies, Andres brings a unique perspective on persuasion, performance, and practical success. In this episode, we discuss: – Why negotiation isn’t about being aggressive—it’s about being strategic – The science behind persuasion (and how to use it ethically) – The one mindset shift that will instantly make you a better negotiator – How to overcome negotiation anxiety and self-doubt – Real-world negotiation tips you can use in your next raise request, contract discussion, or tricky conversation – How virtual reality and AI are transforming the way we train negotiation skills You’ll walk away with: A framework for approaching every negotiation with confidence and clarity Tools to communicate your value without second-guessing yourself Insights from one of the most respected negotiation experts in the country Permission to stop winging it—and start negotiating with purpose Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if this summer wasn’t just about Aperol spritzes and beach days—but also about building the kind of wealth that sticks? In this solo episode, Shari kicks off your Rich Girl Summer with real-talk financial and lifestyle moves that boost your net worth and your peace of mind. Forget the hype around luxury for show—this is about intentional habits, small wins, and making your future self proud. You’ll walk away with: A smarter system for managing your bank accounts and subscriptions Easy, impactful upgrades to your Roth IRA, emergency fund, and insurance Practical tips for decluttering your closet, your calendar, and your mind Low-key life tasks that save you real money (like getting your taxes in order now) Mindset shifts that turn therapy, boundaries, and maintenance into financial power moves This isn’t about deprivation—it’s about alignment. And it’s your permission slip to spend your summer building a life that feels rich in every way. Follow the show on your favorite podcast app so you never miss an episode. Leave a quick rating and review to help us reach more amazing listeners. Keep the conversation going on Instagram @everyonestalkinmoney. Remember: Money should be a tool to live life on your term Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

If wealth is up, why is happiness down? In this soulful episode of Everyone’s Talkin’ Money, Shari sits down with educator and award-winning author Jeff Golden to explore one of the biggest contradictions in modern life: we have more money than ever, yet we’re more disconnected and unfulfilled. Drawing from his book Reclaiming the Sacred, Jeff shares how we’ve been conditioned to chase the wrong things—and how to realign with what truly matters. You’ll hear: Why money only accounts for 2–4% of happiness What really drives our well-being (and it’s not what you think) How our culture of consumption is numbing us, not fulfilling us What “enough” actually looks like—and how to know when you’ve reached it Why micro-actions are more powerful than big life overhauls How to model a healthier money narrative for your kids (and yourself) Reclaiming the Sacred, Healing Our Relationships with Ourselves and the World was named Best Environmental Book of 2023 by IndieReader, and winner of the Grand Prize at the Nautilus Book Awards (previous winners include the Dalai Lama, Brené Brown, and Barbara Kingsolver). Buy Jeff's Book: Reclaiming the Sacred Follow us on Instagram: @everyonestalkinmoney Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

What if you’re not broke—you’re just pre-rich? In this powerhouse episode of Everyone’s Talkin’ Money, Shari sits down with Rachel Rodgers—CEO and founder of Hello Seven, wealth coach to thousands, and bestselling author of We Should All Be Millionaires and her latest, Future Millionaire—to talk about what it really takes to create wealth in a world that wasn’t built for you. Rachel is a trailblazer helping women, BIPOC, and LGBTQIA communities build seven-figure businesses and dismantle the generational cycle of overworking and under-earning. Her latest book, Future Millionaire, is designed to empower the next generation with the tools, mindset, and strategy to make wealth inevitable—and trust me, it’s not just for the teens. You’re going to want this roadmap too. We talk about abundance without delusion, raising money-smart kids in a cashless world, and how to finally stop shrinking your dreams to fit your paycheck. YOU’LL WALK AWAY LEARNING: Why Rachel says wealth is a choice—but not without calculated risk How to talk to your kids about money in a way that’s real, relatable, and builds financial confidence Why Gen Z isn’t lazy—they’re overwhelmed, and what they need instead of shameHow to use a job as seed capital—not a financial destination What Rachel means by “million dollar decisions” and how to start making them now How parents can shift from financial gatekeepers to financial guides Why saving isn’t the only goal—and sometimes spending is the smarter move What it takes to build wealth as an adult when you feel like you’re already behind The money conversations every family needs to start having ASAP CONNECT WITH RACHEL RODGERS: Website: https://www.helloseven.co Instagram: @rachrodgersesq Book: Future Millionaire (Available wherever books are sold) More Books & Resources: We Should All Be Millionaires, Million Dollar Habits, Plan Your Year Like a Millionaire, Six Figure Side Hustle Follow the show on your favorite podcast app so you never miss an episode! Please leave a quick rating and review to help us reach more listeners like you Keep the conversation going on Instagram @everyonestalkinmoney And remember: money should be a tool to live life on your terms—not a source of guilt or confusion Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

You’ve got the budget app. You’re reading the personal finance books. You know what you should be doing with your money—so why does it still feel so hard to follow through? In this episode of Everyone’s Talkin’ Money, Shari breaks down six sneaky psychological biases that shape your money decisions without you even realizing it. From anchoring to optimism bias, these aren’t personal flaws—they’re predictable brain glitches. But once you spot them, you can stop them. You’ll walk away understanding: What anchoring bias is and why it makes that $100 dress feel like a steal (when it’s not) Why the fear of losing money feels worse than actually losing it—and how that keeps you stuck How your brain protects old money stories through confirmation bias Why instant gratification keeps winning, even when your future self is begging you to chill How optimism bias tricks you into thinking “next month” will magically fix everything Why social proof bias is fueling lifestyle creep—and what to do instead This is the episode that will make you pause mid-scroll, mid-spend, or mid-self-doubt and say, “Ohhhh, that’s what’s going on.” If any of these biases hit home, share the episode with a friend and DM Shari @everyonestalkinmoney to keep the conversation going Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Scarlett Stanhope, better known as The Biz Hippie, helps coaches, creatives, and conscious entrepreneurs heal their relationship with money and finally feel supported by their businesses. In this raw and powerful conversation, Scarlett opens up about the dark side of doing everything “right” financially—and how it nearly broke her. In this episode, we discuss: How childhood experiences shaped Scarlett’s perfectionism and money patterns Why saving without purpose is just another form of self-protection The real reason making more money doesn’t fix money problems How unspoken scarcity beliefs show up in your pricing, marketing, and sales calls Scarlett’s 3-part framework for identifying and healing money scarcity at its root How to align your pricing with your value (without fear, guilt, or second-guessing) Why “legit business owner energy” starts with knowing your numbers And how to balance intuitive money decisions with strategic action You’ll walk away learning: How to uncover and challenge your internal “scarcity seeds” Why being good at saving doesn’t always mean you’re good with money What “energetic alignment” has to do with pricing your services Why you might be repelling clients without even knowing it The difference between hustle energy and grounded abundance How to finally feel safe in your business—even during a slow month Follow Scarlett Stanhope and The Biz Hippie: Instagram: @scarlettthebizhippieWebsite: thebizhippie.com Let’s keep the conversation going on Instagram @everyonestalkinmoney Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Is feeling “broke” a mindset—or a money problem? In this eye-opening episode of Everyone’s Talkin’ Money, I’m joined by Tiffany Grant, AFC®, creator of Money Talk With Tiff and a nationally recognized voice in personal finance education. Tiffany gets honest about what it really takes to move from financial anxiety to clarity—and how to stop letting shame or unrealistic goals derail your progress. We talk about the emotional baggage we bring to our finances, the myths about debt and income that need to die already, and how a little creativity—hello, gamification—can completely change your budgeting experience. Tiffany also opens up about her own debt journey, including what happened when she didn’t hit her goal of being debt-free by 30—and why she now sees that as a win. If you’re tired of “six-figure salary” hype, comparison traps, or beating yourself up for not being perfect with money, this episode is the mindset reset you didn’t know you needed. You'll walk away with: A new perspective on what being “broke” really means Tactical ways to document and take inventory of your finances How self-talk impacts your money habits and confidence Why gamifying your budget could be the trick to staying consistent The power of redefining financial goals when life throws curveballs The difference between using credit as a tool versus as income Permission to ditch the shame and take small, intentional steps forward How to personalize your path to financial freedom Tips for questioning financial advice that doesn’t fit your life A reminder that kindness to yourself is key on this journey Resources + Connect with Tiffany: Website: moneytalkwitht.com Podcast: Money Talk With Tiff Instagram: @moneytalkwitht YouTube: Money Talk With Tiff Twitter: @moneytalkwitht TikTok: @moneytalkwitht Facebook: Money Talk With Tiff Pinterest: Money Talk With Tiff Instagram @everyonestalkinmoney Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Minimalism isn’t about cold white walls, tossing your kid’s favorite toys when they’re not looking, or never buying another throw pillow again. It’s about being radically intentional with your space, your time, and your money — and learning how to clear what’s cluttering your life, both physically and emotionally. In this episode of Everyone’s Talkin’ Money, Shari sits down with globally recognized home organizing expert and bestselling author Shira Gill, whose books Minimalista, Organized Living, and LifeStyled have transformed how people across the world think about clutter. Together, they unpack what minimalism really looks like (hint: it’s not about deprivation), how to raise kids who value their things without hoarding them, and how simplifying your home can lead to greater financial confidence, more time, and more freedom. Whether your kitchen counter is your current catch-all or your closet is basically a time capsule, this episode will help you get unstuck and start fresh — no color-coded labels required. In this episode, we discuss: How minimalism is actually about radical intention, not restriction Shira’s "one in, one out" rule that keeps chaos in check The hidden emotional and financial costs of clutter How disorganization leads to overbuying, time scarcity, and missed bills Simple organizing systems you can implement today (hello, action basket!) Why letting go of items can actually create abundance How to involve kids in the decluttering process without the meltdowns The connection between a clean space and better decisions — even with food and money You’ll walk away with: An empowering definition of minimalism that doesn’t require a beige aesthetic One simple habit to stop the clutter before it starts Why the “one in, one out” rule is a game-changer — especially with kids How clutter leads to overbuying, time stress, and even financial disorganization The emotional cost of keeping stuff “just in case” How to set up an action basket and donation system that creates instant relief Why getting organized boosts confidence, wellness, and even helps you eat better How to finally let go of items you think you might sell — without guilt Learn more about Shira Check out her bestselling books: Minimalista Organized Living LifeStyled Follow Shira on Instagram: @shiragill Let’s keep the conversation going! Follow Everyone’s Talkin’ Money on Instagram: @everyonestalkinmoney Visit everyonestalkinmoneypodcast.com for more episodes, resources, and to join our email list! Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices

Why do we keep making money decisions that go against our best interests? In this episode, I’m sitting down with Hanna Horvath, Certified Financial Planner (CFP®) and financial psychology expert, to unpack why our brains are literally wired to sabotage our financial goals—and what we can do to change that. Hanna shares powerful insights from her work as the creator of “Your Brain on Money,” explaining how cognitive biases like loss aversion and decision fatigue impact everything from investing to impulse spending. We also dive into why more money doesn’t automatically equal more peace, how to align your financial habits with your core values, and practical strategies to work with your brain rather than against it. Plus, Hanna reveals the simple mindset shifts that can help you spend without guilt, stop financial perfectionism in its tracks, and finally break free from those unconscious money scripts that are keeping you stuck. You’ll hear: Why our brains are wired to make terrible financial decisions The connection between money anxiety and identity How to set up financial guardrails that align with your values The role of decision fatigue in impulsive spending How to separate self-worth from net worth You’ll walk away knowing: Our brains are hardwired to make poor money choices. Loss aversion can lead to irrational financial behaviors. Understanding the emotional aspects of money is crucial. Automating financial decisions can reduce decision fatigue. Creating guardrails helps in making better financial choices. The digital age has made spending frictionless and impulsive. Investing can feel less tangible and more emotional than spending. Self-compassion is key in financial decision-making. Recognizing the disconnect between financial reality and emotions is important. Labeling oneself as 'bad with money' can be counterproductive. Practice self-compassion in financial behavior. Financial habits are a journey, not a destination. Social media heightens financial anxiety. Follow Hanna for more financial psychology insights. https://yourbrainonmoney.substack.com/ Website: https://www.hannahorvath.com/ Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/yourbrain_onmoney/ Youtube: https://www.youtube.com/@yourbrainonmoney LinkedIn: https://www.linkedin.com/in/hanna-riley-horvath/ Tiktok: https://www.tiktok.com/@yourbrainonmoney Don’t forget to follow us @everyonestalkinmoney for more money mindset content. Learn more about your ad choices. Visit megaphone.fm/adchoices