
The New Man
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Jun 25, 2024 • 60min
Sebastian Junger’s Near Death Experience — Sebastian Junger (In My Time of Dying)
What’s going to happen to you after you die?
Is death something you ignore or something you use to enjoy your days more?
And are near death experiences proof of an after life or just the brain going apeshit because it’s losing oxygen?
Sebastian Junger is no stranger to death. As a war correspondent he survived an IED attack on his vehicle and spent a grueling stint in the treacherous Korengal Valley of Afghanistan.
But in 2020 he came face to face with his own mortality in a very different setting. At home. With his family. And this brush with death shook him much, much deeper because of what — and who — he saw at the threshold into the unknown.
In this discussion, Sebastian shares his amazing story and most importantly how his near death experience has shaped the man he is today.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/06/sebastian-junger-near-death-experience
COACHING
→ To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com
→ To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com
BOOK
→ We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life.
→ Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Jun 13, 2024 • 45min
Feeling Pressured to Get Married — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Do you feel pressured to get married because you’ve been with someone a long time?
Are you and your partner kicking the can down the road so you don’t have to face the reality of your challenges?
And how much longer can you tolerate your relationship if it doesn’t change for the better?
Today’s question comes from someone whose relationship is stuck in a rut. Their sex life is boring. They avoid difficult conversations, and he feels pressured to get married even though he has zero desire to commit. Is it possible to get things on a better trajectory?
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/06/pressure-to-marry
COACHING
→ To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com
→ To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com
BOOK
→ We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life.
→ Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

May 30, 2024 • 0sec
Motivation, Resistance, and The Cult of Success — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Experts Alyson and Tripp Lanier discuss motivation, resistance, and success. They delve into the dangers of the hustle mentality, the importance of creating success on your terms, and the need to forge your own path. The conversation highlights the contrast between external success and internal fulfillment, emphasizing the significance of authenticity and aligning personal goals with true desires.

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May 14, 2024 • 53min
Finding Your Gold and Essence — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Alsyon and Tripp Lanier discuss the quest for authenticity, imposter syndrome, and finding one's gold. They explore uncovering personal essence, balancing work with passion, and embracing authenticity amidst societal pressures. The conversation delves into the interconnectedness of human essence with nature's creative iteration and the importance of integrating one's essence into daily life for fulfillment.

Apr 30, 2024 • 46min
Spiritual But Not Religious? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Does your BS meter keep you from having a spiritual life?
Are mystical experiences just our brain chemicals fooling us to believe we have a connection with God?
And is spirituality something you can cultivate on your own or should you depend on a tradition or guru?
Today my wife Alyson and I talk about religion, spirituality, and just how common it is to wrestle with this stuff. I share a bit about my own messy journey as well as what it may look like to forge your own path — on your own terms.
If some of these ideas are helpful for you then great. And if they don’t align with your views, then please toss them aside.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/04/spiritual-but-not-religious
COACHING
- To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com
- To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com
BOOK
- We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life.
- Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

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Apr 16, 2024 • 38min
Is Marriage Killing Your Aliveness? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Alyson and Tripp Lanier explore domestication in marriage, discussing how responsibilities don't have to kill aliveness. They challenge the idea that marriage stifles freedom and creativity, emphasizing the importance of embracing authenticity and adventure in relationships.

Apr 2, 2024 • 32min
Is it Cheating to Watch Porn? — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Is watching porn the same as cheating on your partner? Alyson and I try to help someone who is at odds with his partner about porn. Instead of debating who is right or wrong, what if we understood what’s driving us to seek porn in the first place?
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/04/porn-cheating
What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com
Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com.
http://dangerousbookstore.com

Mar 19, 2024 • 48min
Is Healing for the Weak? – Jeff Boss (fmr Navy SEAL turned therapist)
Former Navy SEAL turned therapist, Jeff Boss, talks about his struggles as a civilian and how healing is not just for the weak. He shares insights on mental health challenges post-military, the importance of seeking help, and the transformation from a war fighter to an inner warrior. The podcast explores authenticity, self-love, spirituality, and finding peace through emotional discomfort.

Mar 5, 2024 • 54min
How to Tell if You’re Soul Mates — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Do you believe in soul mates or is that just some rom com BS? And what relationship advice would have helped your younger self avoid a huge headache? Tripp and Alyson discuss past relationship failures and what it may really mean to have a soul mate.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/03/soul-mate
What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com
Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com.
http://dangerousbookstore.com

Feb 13, 2024 • 44min
Going to War with Yourself — Alyson and Tripp Lanier
Alyson and Tripp discuss trying to improve ourselves by going to war with ourselves. What really helps us attain the emotional peace we hope that victory will bring? Plus, embarrassing stories about Tripp's many blind spots.
https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/02/at-war-with-yourself
What are the 3 Steps to Find Clarity and Get Unstuck? Watch the free video course now. Visit https://www.TrippLanier.com
Most men will let fear get the best of them. This book is not for most men.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is a swift kick in the ass that will make you laugh out loud. It’s a practical guide to play for what we truly want, to get over ourselves, and have a ton of fun along the way.
This Book Will Make You Dangerous is now available at DangerousBookstore.com.
http://dangerousbookstore.com
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