The New Man

Alyson and Tripp Lanier delve into the pain of loneliness and its impact on romantic choices. Alyson, a relationship expert, reflects on how fear of being alone can lead to settling for unhealthy partnerships. Tripp, a coach, shares strategies for overcoming loneliness and gaining self-awareness. They discuss the importance of embracing solitude for healthier relationships and advocate for authenticity in modern dating. Tune in for insights on navigating love while cultivating a strong sense of self!

Is the purpose of therapy to just dig up junk from your past? We talk about why many folks — including therapists we know and love — find the conventional form of therapy to be limiting. Is there another possibility? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/08/frustrated-with-therapy COACHING   → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com   BOOK   → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Can a nerd become a stud? Alyson and Tripp react to a movie called The Hitman and the topic of reinventing ourselves. This leads us to discuss pickup artists, neutered men, and handling our inner critic. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/07/reinvent-yourself COACHING   → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com   BOOK   → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Former Navy SEAL commander Mark Divine discusses trusting intuition and emotional development, journey towards surrender and personal growth, 'Not Enough' mentality and ego's role, navigating thoughts and emotions, non-attachment vs. disengagement, power of intuition and heart intelligence.

What’s going to happen to you after you die? Is death something you ignore or something you use to enjoy your days more? And are near death experiences proof of an after life or just the brain going apeshit because it’s losing oxygen? Sebastian Junger is no stranger to death. As a war correspondent he survived an IED attack on his vehicle and spent a grueling stint in the treacherous Korengal Valley of Afghanistan. But in 2020 he came face to face with his own mortality in a very different setting. At home. With his family. And this brush with death shook him much, much deeper because of what — and who — he saw at the threshold into the unknown. In this discussion, Sebastian shares his amazing story and most importantly how his near death experience has shaped the man he is today. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/06/sebastian-junger-near-death-experience COACHING   → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com   BOOK   → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Do you feel pressured to get married because you’ve been with someone a long time? Are you and your partner kicking the can down the road so you don’t have to face the reality of your challenges? And how much longer can you tolerate your relationship if it doesn’t change for the better? Today’s question comes from someone whose relationship is stuck in a rut. Their sex life is boring. They avoid difficult conversations, and he feels pressured to get married even though he has zero desire to commit. Is it possible to get things on a better trajectory? https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/06/pressure-to-marry COACHING   → To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com → To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com   BOOK   → We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. → Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Experts Alyson and Tripp Lanier discuss motivation, resistance, and success. They delve into the dangers of the hustle mentality, the importance of creating success on your terms, and the need to forge your own path. The conversation highlights the contrast between external success and internal fulfillment, emphasizing the significance of authenticity and aligning personal goals with true desires.

Alsyon and Tripp Lanier discuss the quest for authenticity, imposter syndrome, and finding one's gold. They explore uncovering personal essence, balancing work with passion, and embracing authenticity amidst societal pressures. The conversation delves into the interconnectedness of human essence with nature's creative iteration and the importance of integrating one's essence into daily life for fulfillment.

Does your BS meter keep you from having a spiritual life? Are mystical experiences just our brain chemicals fooling us to believe we have a connection with God? And is spirituality something you can cultivate on your own or should you depend on a tradition or guru? Today my wife Alyson and I talk about religion, spirituality, and just how common it is to wrestle with this stuff. I share a bit about my own messy journey as well as what it may look like to forge your own path — on your own terms. If some of these ideas are helpful for you then great. And if they don’t align with your views, then please toss them aside. https://www.thenewmanpodcast.com/2024/04/spiritual-but-not-religious COACHING - To learn more about coaching with Tripp Lanier visit https://TrippLanier.com - To learn more about working with Alyson Lanier visit https://AlysonLanier.com BOOK - We live in a world with more possibilities than ever before. So why do most men settle for lackluster, cookie-cutter lives that leave them feeling stuck, drained, and uninspired? _This Book Will Make You Dangerous_ is a guide for the rare, few men who refuse to sleepwalk through life. - Visit https://TrippLanier.com/book

Alyson and Tripp Lanier explore domestication in marriage, discussing how responsibilities don't have to kill aliveness. They challenge the idea that marriage stifles freedom and creativity, emphasizing the importance of embracing authenticity and adventure in relationships.