Results & Relationships

Easy for you might not be easy for others. Just because its easy for you, dont take for granted that its easy for others. Look for the Positive intent! It might not be due to disrespect its "not finished". They're "not getting it". Its not done "your" way. It could just be plainly due to … Continue reading Easy for you might not be easy for others →

We can learn more about ourselves using anything. I'm a computer gamer and love healing people but you know what? most often its the ones that ask the most for HEALS that doesn't learn to avoid the need in the first place. And once your out of power to keep helping them they blame you … Continue reading HEAL ME plz plz →

You need Results in order to grow power. Otherwise, eventually, the powerful people will not invest their time and other resourses with you. Help others get there results done. Help them complete their missions. Their plans. Their delivery promises to their managers or themselves. Doesn't have to be much or taking much from you. Could … Continue reading People AND Results →

Most of the successful people I know say it's mostly due to small repetitive progress. Don't wait for that huge one thing that will make ALL the difference. Start doing anything, however small, TODAY!   And help others see the value of what they are already doing, even in the smallest of things. If you … Continue reading Embrace Reality – small progress is progress too – help others see theirs →

Unmet needs and your expectations Unmet needs and your expectations. You have to own your own expectations, because no one else but you can give you want you one. No one else has walked in your shoes for the length of time you have. We all have un-met needs, but when those repeatedly carry over … Continue reading Unmet needs and your expectations, only you can own your own expectations →

When to talk and when to not… Choose active listening to build power with awareness Listening is, according to my humble opinion, by far the most effective Relationship Building action you can take. One of the times when it can be really good to just shut up is when you're invited to a demo of … Continue reading When to talk and when to not.. Choose active listening to build power with awareness →

The Power of Positivity within – to yourself and others   Be positive. As much as possible. Manager Tools, of whom I am a big fan say "start with 3 months positive feedback" BEFORE going into what can be perceived as negative. Positivity is the only real way to encourage someone to want to listen, … Continue reading The Power of Positivity within – to yourself and others →

    Fear is natural – Showing vulnerability will connect you – to yourself and to others Honor your fear. Listen to it. Trust it. But do what you can not to let it define your reality. Fears unvoiced often are much worse remaining shadows then when we talk about them and illuminating them. ..And … Continue reading Fear is natural – Showing vulnerability will connect you →

Todays episode is more philosophical in nature than most of my previous ones. I hope you enjoy it and that it helps you shift perspective, encouraging you to take action today – For a better future for yourself and those close to you soon. This is from a "positive outlook" its not about surrendering to … Continue reading Everything decays – What actions do you take for what effect? →

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