Results & Relationships

How well are you tending to yours? How aware are you that they're at the helm of everything you do, and everyone you meet. What do you expect to see on the other side of your effort? How often are you right? Dont expect anything to happen differently without you doing differently. Dont expect things … Continue reading Expectations are the fuel and engine of perceptions →

Its easy to forget when a decision is actually made. When we're stuck fighting the system of not embracing a YES fully, or not setting a clear and strong boundary, aka said NO to something when it mattered more, than when we're standing knee-deep into it. How can you help yourself trace back when a … Continue reading Decision traceback – delayed feedback and results, learn to embrace yes or no when it matters →

How do I know this is the idea to go all in for? I hear this from clients and people often, in different forms like: Please tell me THIS is the idea to go all in for Is this THE idea to go for? Please tell me I'm at the tipping point, that it will … Continue reading How do I know this is the idea to go all in for? →

Teach Dare to do things that might not work Don't wait for school or anyone else to teach those that matter to you the most important things like daring to do things that might not work, daring to do things that society doesn't understand. Daring to listen to yourself thru a dip, quit and give … Continue reading Teach Dare to do things that might not work →

Beware Fake Paths, illusionary progress and blockers Learn to listen to yourself, including when to, and when not to, others

Algoritms- why they matter so much to your relationships The chain of algoritms is woven around all you meet, all day long. Your reputation preceede you in all your first contacts There is no escape. Use it or get used by it.  

Christmas is coming – talk to your people. We are all rusty and emotional during this holiday, be kind to yourself AND those around you. Start talking now, before tickets get [too] costly and while dates and items are easier to set and get.

What you are unaware of controls you Always work to become more aware. You can't work with stuff that you're not aware of. You can't know the great potential that lies within you or others if you're not exploring, and daring to be curious where others don't. Always A/B test what you think you know, … Continue reading What you are unaware of controls you →

Patience is something you can become better at. Its not a born thing that you either have or don't have. Patience matter now most urgently because all the easy jobs will be gone soon. Easy is replacable. Automatable. Easy jobs also makes you a commodity the instant you take it.   Sure, its scary leveling … Continue reading Patience – Race dont chase →

Meta talk about YOUR communication. Yes, I'm talking about your message earlier today. Are you seeing the effect you want when you say something?