
Self Obsessed
Tam Kaur’s Self-Obsessed is the ultimate guide to everything society didn’t want you to learn. In a world where women are criticised for wanting and being ‘too much’ it's time to change the narrative. Join our host Tam in learning how to be self-obsessed. After all, it’s only about prioritising your self-love, self-care, self-confidence, self-worth and self-growth.
‘Self-Obsessed’ simplifies the process of closing the gap between your current self and your desired self. Every episode is a straight-to-the-point carefully curated guide to help women everywhere fall in love with themselves. Each episode will provide actionable advice while navigating topics such as building confidence, embracing authenticity, setting boundaries, cultivating healthy relationships, and pursuing your passions.
So, consider this your safest space on the internet as Tam gives you the life secrets no-one else ever shared. It’s time to be your own idol.
Latest episodes

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Jul 9, 2023 • 27min
HOW TO MANIFEST YOUR DREAM LIFE | ATTRACT ALL OF YOUR DESIRES USING THESE METHODS
Learn how to manifest your dream life as an entrepreneur and discover powerful methods for reprogramming your subconscious mind. Embrace the power of visualization and the law of assumption to attract your desires. Plus, hear success stories and get sponsored by Shopify.

Jul 7, 2023 • 35min
how to HEAL from your emotional trauma
📱 join our community to chat with likeminded women: https://discord.gg/qbXANwERvQWatch the full video of this episode on my YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBnHZUkOqg73h7gWiIu0ITAMy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en ALL MY LINKS: https://stan.store/tamkaur

Jun 15, 2023 • 20min
how to get out of a rut | regain motivation & get your life back on track
Learn effective strategies for dealing with a bad mood and breaking free from a rut. Start your day off right with a morning routine for motivation and productivity. Break out of a rut by adopting new habits and visualizing your dream self. Establish good habits, schedule tasks, and practice self-care. Discover the power of journaling and nightly meditation for regaining motivation.

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Jun 15, 2023 • 36min
How to CONQUER your 20s | habits, mindset, relationship and wealth advice in your 20s
Exploring key habits for success in your 20s, including physical and mental health care, goal pursuit, and future planning. Shifting mindsets and adopting habits for personal growth and happiness. Overcoming limiting beliefs and using pain as a source of empowerment. Navigating through heartbreak and focusing on personal growth. Building wealth, finding purpose, and managing finances in your twenties.

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Jun 15, 2023 • 25min
how to MASTER your emotions | emotional intelligence
This podcast discusses the importance of mastering emotions and emotional intelligence. It explores the differences between emotional intelligence and mastering emotions in social settings. It emphasizes the power of choosing how we respond and changing the narrative we tell ourselves. It also highlights the significance of compassion, self-soothing, understanding behavior, gratitude, and emotional maturity.

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Jun 15, 2023 • 29min
HOW TO GLOW UP FOR SUMMER | healthy habits, beauty hacks, mindset shifts & success secrets
Topics discussed include beauty rituals, drinking enough water, self-tanning, maintaining a healthy diet, setting relationship standards, mastering the abundance mindset, detachment, and spreading love instead of negativity.

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Apr 30, 2023 • 28min
how to stop being jealous & comparing yourself to others and become obsessed with yourself instead.
This is how you stop comparing yourself to others and feeling jealous. In this video we dive into the causes of jealousy, how to overcome envying the success of others, how to beat feeling jealous of other people and how to get rid of FOMO for good. The end of the video includes 10 affirmations and a few tasks you can start using on your healing journey. GOOD LUCK XXX
📱 join our community to chat with likeminded women: https://discord.gg/qbXANwERvQWatch the full video of this episode on my YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBnHZUkOqg73h7gWiIu0ITAMy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en ALL MY LINKS: https://stan.store/tamkaur

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Apr 22, 2023 • 32min
how you can HEAL your attachment style for healthy relationships | anxious & avoidant to SECURE
Explore attachment styles and learn how to heal them for healthier relationships. Discover the development and consequences of avoidant attachment styles, overcoming avoidant beliefs, and setting boundaries. Understand the importance of open communication, self-validation, and letting go of baggage for healing attachment styles. Explore homework tasks like quizzes, journaling, and therapy for a secure attachment style.

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Apr 14, 2023 • 26min
how to emotionally DETACH | master detachment in dating, manifestation and life
Learn about the importance of detachment in manifesting desires, dating, and daily life. Explore misconceptions, benefits, and principles of emotional detachment. Discover how detachment can positively impact relationships, work, and self-growth. Emphasize self-love, setting limits, and letting go of control. Understand the relevance of detachment in manifesting your dream life. Master emotional detachment in dating, manifestation, and personal growth by embracing the present moment and finding inner validation.

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Apr 14, 2023 • 11min
how to deal with fear of failure
✨USE FAILURE IN YOUR FAVOUR✨ In this video, I share 5 lessons I’ve learned in coping with a fear of failure and how to shift your mindset when you feel like a failure. 🏽https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=1iB1eRbtdd8&t=18s
📱 join our community to chat with likeminded women: https://discord.gg/qbXANwERvQWatch the full video of this episode on my YouTube: https://www.youtube.com/channel/UCBnHZUkOqg73h7gWiIu0ITAMy Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en ALL MY LINKS: https://stan.store/tamkaur