
Self Obsessed
Tam Kaur’s Self-Obsessed is the ultimate guide to everything society didn’t want you to learn. In a world where women are criticised for wanting and being ‘too much’ it's time to change the narrative. Join our host Tam in learning how to be self-obsessed. After all, it’s only about prioritising your self-love, self-care, self-confidence, self-worth and self-growth.
‘Self-Obsessed’ simplifies the process of closing the gap between your current self and your desired self. Every episode is a straight-to-the-point carefully curated guide to help women everywhere fall in love with themselves. Each episode will provide actionable advice while navigating topics such as building confidence, embracing authenticity, setting boundaries, cultivating healthy relationships, and pursuing your passions.
So, consider this your safest space on the internet as Tam gives you the life secrets no-one else ever shared. It’s time to be your own idol.
Latest episodes

May 30, 2025 • 22min
how to become UNRECOGNIZABLE by summer 2025 | daily habits, beauty hacks, mindset shifts & glow up
Explore the ultimate guide to transforming into your best self by summer 2025! Discover beauty tips, nutrition advice, and personal style strategies that empower you to shine. Embrace your individuality and foster emotional resilience while building confidence through gratitude practices. Learn how to integrate self-care and fun into your daily routine, moving away from hustle culture. This is your blueprint for intentional living and manifesting the glow-up of your dreams!

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May 23, 2025 • 14min
life is a movie & you’re the STAR so ACT like it | the ultimate guide to being the main character
Step into the spotlight and become the star of your own life story! Discover how to rewrite your inner dialogue and embrace 'main character energy' to live authentically. Learn to ditch the need for external validation and romanticize your daily rituals. With mindset shifts and practical action steps, you'll glow up from the inside out, becoming the person your younger self always dreamed of. It’s time to take control of your narrative and make your life a movie worth watching!

May 16, 2025 • 19min
the ULTIMATE energy protection guide | stop draining yourself & start aligning
Protecting your energy is the ultimate form of self-care 🫶 In this video, we’re talking about the quiet habits that can shift everything—from avoiding draining conversations to being intentional with the content you consume. I’m sharing the small mindset shifts that helped me stay grounded, protect my peace, and stop pouring into things that don’t pour back into me.If you’ve been feeling overstimulated, low-vibe, or just off lately, this one’s for you. Think of it as your reset: a guide to setting boundaries, raising your frequency, and creating a life that actually feels good on the inside 💌♡ WHAT'S IN THIS PODCAST: 00:00 The Importance of Energy Protection 00:37 Understanding Negative Energy 02:43 Lesson 1: Choose Your Battles Wisely 05:31 Lesson 2: Stop Rehashing Negative Experiences 07:30 Lesson 3: Visualize Your Protective Aura 09:52 Lesson 4: Be Mindful of Your Words 12:51 Lesson 5: Stop Chasing and Rushing 14:32 Lesson 6: Curate Your Consumption 17:59 Final Thoughts and Encouragement✨ RESOURCES & LINKS: SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL PODCAST INSTAGRAM LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS ORDER MY BOOK THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER💖 CONNECT WITH ME: MY INSTAGRAM MY SNAPCHAT [BTS] MY YOUTUBE MY VLOGS MY OTHER LINKS📩 BUSINESS ENQUIRIES:Email: tam@mvetalent.com*my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder ! https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DUfCnZxvAKI&t=1s

May 9, 2025 • 22min
10 lessons to LEVEL UP your 20s | mindset, self-growth & confidence tips
navigating your 20s can feel overwhelming—so here are 10 life lessons that helped me find clarity, confidence, and purpose ✨ from building self-worth and mastering your mindset, to creating financial flow and embracing failure, these are the tips I wish I had when I was starting out. this video is your guide to glowing up in your 20s—inside and out. we’ll talk daily habits, communication skills, manifestation, and how to truly step into your highest self. if you're in your self-growth era, this one's for you 💌♡ WHAT'S IN THIS EPISODE: 00:00 – Introduction: Level Up in Your 20s 00:44 – Step 1: You Control Your Life 03:15 – Step 2: Conscious vs. Subconscious Mind 06:13 – Step 3: The Power of Manifestation 08:24 – Step 4: Building Financial Abundance 09:23 – Step 5: Embrace Failure 10:43 – Step 6: Master Communication Skills 12:05 – Step 7: Focus on Self-Love Before Relationships 14:35 – Step 8: Stay Authentic 16:24 – Step 9: Enjoy the Journey 18:13 – Step 10: Let Go of Parental Expectations 20:11 – Conclusion: Your Self-Improvement Journey✨ RESOURCES & LINKS: SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL PODCAST INSTAGRAM LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS ORDER MY BOOK THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER💖 CONNECT WITH ME: MY INSTAGRAM MY SNAPCHAT [BTS] MY YOUTUBE MY VLOGS MY OTHER LINKS📩 BUSINESS ENQUIRIES:Email: tam@mvetalent.com

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May 6, 2025 • 22min
10 tips and habits to MASTER your mental health | break the cycle and start healing
Struggling with mental health? Discover 10 simple habits to regain control and find balance. Learn how to create a nurturing routine by journaling and setting boundaries. Explore the power of your environment and how it influences your mindset. Delve into ways to break free from toxic familiarity and establish a joyful life through intentional practices. Auditing your thoughts and practicing self-awareness are key to personal growth and emotional stability. It's all about protecting your peace and cultivating a supportive daily routine.

Jan 15, 2025 • 30min
S4 EP10: The 10 laws of self obsession | How to become self obsessed
Explore the fascinating shift from FOMO to JOMO as the host shares their journey of self-discovery. Discover ten impactful laws of self-obsession, emphasizing the power of self-care and setting healthy boundaries. Delve into the importance of celebrating personal achievements and the surprising link between gut health and well-being. Embrace the concept of 'casual magic' to find joy in the everyday, while grounding yourself in core values for a more authentic life. This finale will inspire you towards personal growth and deeper self-awareness.

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Jan 8, 2025 • 45min
S4 EP9: How to make every day of your life a happy one | romanticising your life and creating happiness [UnJaded Jade]
UnJaded Jade is a creator and author known for inspiring women to find joy in everyday moments. In this lively discussion, she shares insights on romanticizing life and embracing 'casual magic' to enhance daily happiness. The conversation dives into the power of mindfulness, the importance of gratitude, and how to frame negativity into positive experiences. Jade emphasizes the beauty in small moments and the journey of self-discovery, reminding listeners that happiness is often hidden in the ordinary.

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Jan 1, 2025 • 43min
S4 EP8: how to fix your gut health and step into the healthiest version of yourself [Dr Megan Rossi]
In this engaging discussion, Dr. Megan Rossi, an award-winning scientist and nutritionist specializing in gut health, reveals the profound connection between gut health and overall well-being. She shares practical strategies to assess and improve gut health, emphasizing the impact of dietary choices on inflammation and menstrual cycles. Dr. Rossi highlights the benefits of whole plant foods, probiotics, and mindful eating. Listeners will find inspiration in her tips for nurturing gut health effortlessly while stepping into their healthiest versions!

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Dec 25, 2024 • 49min
S4 EP7: ‘being humble’ is holding you back | career progression & self-worth [Stefanie Sword-Williams]
SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL: https://tamkaur.com/products/growthjournal?_pos=1&_sid=e42fa6aa8&_ss=r
ORDER MY SELF-LOVE BOOK: https://geni.us/TamKaurBook
THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER: https://tamkaur.com/
PODCAST INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/selfobsessedpodcast/?hl=en
LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS: https://linktr.ee/selfobsessed
STEFANIE'S WORK: https://www.instagram.com/stefaniesw/?hl=enhttps://www.fuckbeinghumble.com/
MY INSTAGRAM: https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en
MY SNAPCHAT [BTS]: https://story.snapchat.com/s/tamxkaur
MY YOUTUBE: https://www.youtube.com/@tamkaur
MY VLOGS: https://www.youtube.com/@TamKaurVlogs
MY OTHER LINKS: https://bio.site/tamkaur
BUSINESS ENQUIRIES: tamkaur@sixteenth.com

Dec 18, 2024 • 27min
S4 EP6: How make 2025 your best and most abundant year yet
Get ready for transformative insights as the hosts share actionable steps to elevate your personal growth in 2025. Discover the importance of releasing past burdens and nurturing key relationships. Engage in reflective practices like journaling and vision boards to set powerful intentions for the new year. Learn how to break free from negative habits that drain your joy and energy while adopting daily uplifting rituals. This conversation is packed with inspiration to seize the upcoming year and make it your most abundant yet!