Self Obsessed

friendships are harder than relationships sometimes… and no one talks about it. this is the ✨ULTIMATE ✨guide to friendships — the advice i wish i knew earlier to build real, aligned, and lasting connections. we’re diving into red flags, green flags, setting boundaries, and why so many of us settle for surface-level friendships. if you’ve ever felt misunderstood, drained, or unsure of your standards, this video is for you 🤍 ♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO: 00:00 Introduction 01:50 Chapter 1: What to Avoid in Friendships 10:29 Chapter 2: Setting Your Standards 19:36 Chapter 3: Being a Great Friend 26:41 Conclusion 🛍️ SHOP & LINKS: SHOP MY ABBOTT LYON COLLECTION use my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 — buy one get one FREE sitewide! SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL PRE-ORDER MY MANIFESTATION JOURNAL ORDER MY BOOK THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER STAY CONNECTED: MY INSTAGRAM MY SNAPCHAT [BTS] MY YOUTUBE MY VLOGS LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS PODCAST INSTAGRAM MY OTHER LINKS Business enquiries: tam@mvetalent.com *my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

mastering self-love while dating isn’t always easy — especially when no one talks about the detachment, boundaries, confidence, and self-worth it really takes. if you’ve ever felt like you start shrinking in relationships, this video is for you. i’m sharing the exact mindset shifts that helped me stay independent, grounded, and fully in my power while navigating love. after spending time single, focused on building my dream life and reconnecting with myself, i learned that the right relationship should expand your world — not consume it. whether you’re dating, in a relationship, or healing from one, this video will help you protect your peace, stop overgiving, and keep becoming her — the woman you were always meant to be. 💅🏽💖♡  WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:00:00 Introduction: The Importance of Self-Love and Independence02:21 Chapter 1: The Talk08:44 Chapter 2: The Lifestyle15:43 Chapter 3: Homework18:48 Final Thoughts🛍️ SHOP & LINKS:SHOP MY ABBOTT LYON COLLECTIONuse my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 — buy one get one FREE sitewide!SELF OBSESSED JOURNALPRE-ORDER MY MANIFESTATION JOURNALORDER MY BOOKTHE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTERSTAY CONNECTED:MY INSTAGRAMMY SNAPCHAT [BTS]MY YOUTUBEMY VLOGSLISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMSPODCAST INSTAGRAMMY OTHER LINKSBusiness enquiries: tam@mvetalent.com*My intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

the 5 laws of self-obsession aren’t about being selfish — they’re about how to build unshakable confidence, protect your peace, and start choosing you. in this episode, i share the mindset shifts that helped me heal, stop people pleasing, and finally become the most confident, grounded version of myself. we’ll talk self-love, boundaries, personal growth, and how to rewrite the stories you tell yourself. if you’ve ever been told you’re “too much” for simply prioritizing yourself — this one’s for you. ✨ it’s time to reclaim your power and start living for you. 💅🏽💭💖♡  WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:00:00 Introduction: Why Self-Obsession Isn’t Selfish01:11 Critique of Societal Views on Self-Obsession02:41 Law 1: The Mirror Law06:22 Law 2: The Boundary Law08:25 Law 3: The Celebration Law10:18 Law 4: The Upgrade Law13:04 Law 5: The Rewire Law15:52 Final Words of Empowerment🛍️ SHOP & LINKS:SHOP MY ABBOTT LYON COLLECTIONuse my exclusive code TAM2FOR1 — buy one get one FREE sitewide!SELF OBSESSED JOURNALPRE-ORDER MY MANIFESTATION JOURNALORDER MY BOOKTHE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTERSTAY CONNECTED:MY INSTAGRAMMY SNAPCHAT [BTS]MY YOUTUBEMY VLOGSLISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMSPODCAST INSTAGRAMMY OTHER LINKSBusiness enquiries: tam@mvetalent.com*My intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder!

<p><strong>feeling stuck or in a slump? here’s your sign to reset and realign 🫶 i’ve been there. in this video, i’m sharing 7 reminders and mindset shifts that helped me break out of low-energy phases and reconnect with my higher self. we’ll talk about how to stop spiraling, reconnect with your future self, and turn quiet seasons into your biggest growth moments. whether you’re going through a rough patch or just feeling off, this is your sign to reset, reflect, and step into your comeback era.</p><p>🛍️ <strong>shop my abbott lyon collection:</strong> <a href="https://www.abbottlyon.io/TamKaur-YouTube-Collection" target="_blank">https://www.abbottlyon.io/TamKaur-YouTube-Collection</a><br>use my exclusive code <strong>TAM2FOR1</strong> for buy one get one FREE sitewide!</p><p><strong>♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:</strong><br>00:00 – Overcoming the Slump Phase<br>01:14 – Fact 1: Emotions Are Not Reality<br>03:19 – Fact 2: It's Just a Phase<br>05:27 – Fact 3: Stop Identifying with the Slump<br>06:59 – Fact 4: One Decision Away<br>08:32 – Fact 5: Future Self Knows Best<br>10:32 – Fact 6: Resisting the Next Version of You<br>12:28 – Fact 7: You Are Resilient<br>13:28 – Final Motivation</p><p><strong>SHOP & LINKS:</strong><br><a href="https://tamkaur.com/products/growthjournal?_pos=1&_sid=e42fa6aa8&_ss=r" target="_blank">SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL</a><br><a href="https://tamkaur.com/products/manifestationjournal" target="_blank">PRE-ORDER MY MANIFESTATION JOURNAL</a><br><a href="https://geni.us/TamKaurBook" target="_blank">ORDER MY BOOK</a><br><a href="https://tamkaur.com/" target="_blank">THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER</a></p><p><strong>STAY CONNECTED:</strong><br><a href="https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en" target="_blank">MY INSTAGRAM</a><br><a href="https://story.snapchat.com/s/tamxkaur" target="_blank">MY SNAPCHAT [BTS]</a><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/@tamkaur" target="_blank">MY YOUTUBE</a><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/@TamKaurVlogs" target="_blank">MY VLOGS</a><br><a href="https://linktr.ee/selfobsessed" target="_blank">LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS</a><br><a href="https://www.instagram.com/selfobsessedpodcast/?hl=en" target="_blank">PODCAST INSTAGRAM</a><br><a href="https://bio.site/tamkaur" target="_blank">MY OTHER LINKS</a></p><p><strong>Business enquiries:</strong> <a href="mailto:tam@mvetalent.com">tam@mvetalent.com</a></p><p><em>*My intro and outro music was made by the incredible <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DUfCnZxvAKI&t=1s" target="_blank">@raaginder</a>!</em></p>

<p>💚 you might be pushing away healthy love without even realizing it. in today’s episode, we’re talking about the 10 “red flags” in men that are actually signs of emotional maturity — and why your past might be making you miss them. from taking time to reply, moving slow, having female friends, or even being a little “boring”… these things aren’t toxic, they’re actually green flags 🫶</p><p>🛍️ <strong>shop my abbott lyon collection:</strong> <a href="https://www.abbottlyon.io/TamKaur-YouTube-Collection" target="_blank">https://www.abbottlyon.io/TamKaur-YouTube-Collection</a><br>use my exclusive code <strong>TAM2FOR1</strong> for buy one get one FREE sitewide!</p><p><strong>♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:</strong><br>00:00 – Introduction<br>01:45 – Debunking Dating Red Flags<br>01:49 – Green Flag #1: He is Picky<br>03:13 – Green Flag #2: He Rejects You<br>04:54 – Green Flag #3: No Past Relationships<br>05:55 – Green Flag #4: Has Female Friends<br>07:11 – Green Flag #5: Takes Time to Texting Back<br>09:03 – Green Flag #6: Challenges You<br>10:36 – Green Flag #7: He Has His Own Life<br>12:03 – Green Flag #8: He Moves Slow<br>13:53 – Green Flag #9: There Are No Sparks<br>15:48 – Conclusion</p><p><strong>SHOP & LINKS:</strong><br><a href="https://tamkaur.com/products/growthjournal?_pos=1&_sid=e42fa6aa8&_ss=r" target="_blank">SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL</a><br><a href="https://tamkaur.com/products/manifestationjournal" target="_blank">PRE-ORDER MY MANIFESTATION JOURNAL</a><br><a href="https://geni.us/TamKaurBook" target="_blank">ORDER MY BOOK</a><br><a href="https://tamkaur.com/" target="_blank">THE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER</a></p><p><strong>STAY CONNECTED:</strong><br><a href="https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=en" target="_blank">MY INSTAGRAM</a><br><a href="https://story.snapchat.com/s/tamxkaur" target="_blank">MY SNAPCHAT [BTS]</a><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/@tamkaur" target="_blank">MY YOUTUBE</a><br><a href="https://www.youtube.com/@TamKaurVlogs" target="_blank">MY VLOGS</a><br><a href="https://linktr.ee/selfobsessed" target="_blank">LISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS</a><br><a href="https://www.instagram.com/selfobsessedpodcast/?hl=en" target="_blank">PODCAST INSTAGRAM</a><br><a href="https://bio.site/tamkaur" target="_blank">MY OTHER LINKS</a></p><p><strong>Business enquiries:</strong> <a href="mailto:tam@mvetalent.com">tam@mvetalent.com</a></p><p><em>*My intro and outro music was made by the incredible <a href="https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=DUfCnZxvAKI&t=1s" target="_blank">@raaginder</a>!</em></p>

Tired of pleasing others and seeking validation? Discover how to center yourself and reclaim your confidence. Learn the importance of self-awareness and personal agency in achieving fulfillment. Embrace self-discovery while setting intentions grounded in your desires. Find actionable steps for personal growth, including journaling and curating a positive online environment. This insightful discussion encourages you to let go of external validation and embrace authentic self-expression.

As we hit the midpoint of the year, it’s the perfect time to reset and realign your goals. Discover a six-step strategy designed to help you reassess your progress. Learn how to get back to basics and celebrate your wins, while also turning losses into valuable lessons. The importance of scheduling is emphasized to keep you on track. This mid-year check-in is your chance to shift into your highest self and make the rest of 2025 extraordinary!

ITS THAT TIME AGAIN GIRLIES! I'm answering all of your juicy dilemmas and sharing real advice you can actually use. from calling out red flags in relationships, dealing with toxic friendships, and setting boundaries, to healing your self-esteem, building confidence, and learning how to stop comparing yourself to others. we’re also talking about normalizing your wins, trusting your timeline, and how to stay focused on your own growth 💖 grab a drink and let’s get into it!♡ WHAT'S IN THIS VIDEO:00:00 Introduction00:54 Dating Dilemmas: Identifying Red Flags and Breaking Cycles10:42 Friendship Dilemmas: Setting Standards and Identifying Envy17:16 Being Your Best Self: Achieving Goals and Self-Love26:02 Final ThoughtsRESOURCES & LINKS: SELF OBSESSED JOURNAL:https://tamkaur.com/products/growthjournal?_pos=1&_sid=e42fa6aa8&_ss=rPODCAST INSTAGRAM:https://www.instagram.com/selfobsessedpodcast/?hl=enLISTEN ON OTHER PLATFORMS:https://linktr.ee/selfobsessedORDER MY BOOK:https://geni.us/TamKaurBookTHE SELF OBSESSED SCOOP NEWSLETTER:https://tamkaur.com/STAY CONNECTED:MY INSTAGRAM:https://www.instagram.com/tamkaur/?hl=enMY SNAPCHAT [BTS]:https://story.snapchat.com/s/tamxkaurMY YOUTUBE:https://www.youtube.com/@tamkaurMY VLOGS:https://www.youtube.com/@TamKaurVlogsMY OTHER LINKS:https://bio.site/tamkaurFor business enquiries please contact:tam@mvetalent.com*my intro and outro music was made by the incredible @raaginder !

Feeling stuck despite your hard work? Discover why effort alone isn't enough for real transformation. Learn how the subconscious mind shapes your reality and the importance of mindset shifts. Unlock the power of meditation and visualization to reprogram your thoughts. Explore environmental and lifestyle conditioning to create lasting change. This discussion offers practical tools to help you reshape your beliefs and align with your goals.

Explore the ultimate guide to transforming into your best self by summer 2025! Discover beauty tips, nutrition advice, and personal style strategies that empower you to shine. Embrace your individuality and foster emotional resilience while building confidence through gratitude practices. Learn how to integrate self-care and fun into your daily routine, moving away from hustle culture. This is your blueprint for intentional living and manifesting the glow-up of your dreams!