

Oh, That’s Just My Autism
Melissa Tacia
Join me (a woman in her 40’s) as I process the ins and outs of seeking, obtaining, and processing an autism diagnosis at the age of 41.
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Mar 3, 2022 • 21min
Ep 63: Everything’s Gonna Be Ok!
I just finished watching the show “Everything’s Gonna Be Ok” and holy moley I loved it! Autistic actors playing relatable autistic characters that aren’t seen as burdensome or tragic - this is exactly what I asked for and it made me so happy. The only thing I didn’t like is that it ended. Now what do I watch?? If you want to reach out you can email me at ohthatsjustmyautism@gmail.com or find me on IG @oh.thatsjustmyautism

Feb 26, 2022 • 28min
Ep 62: Sorry...NOT Sorry?
Struggling with the idea of apologizing for behavior related to my autism, even when that behavior contributes directly to a conflict. Is it ever ok to not apologize? Thanks for listening! If you’d like to reach out, you can email me at ohthatsjustmyautism@gmail.com or find me on IG @oh.thatsjustmyautism.

Feb 17, 2022 • 32min
Ep 61: How Many Friends Do I Have?
When your therapist asks how many friends you have and you have no idea how to answer because there is no set way to quantify what a friendship is. I think I have two friends. But I don’t know. Can someone make a chart or some rules for me to follow please?? Thanks for listening - if you’d like to reach out you can email me at ohthatsjustmyautism@gmail.com or follow on IG @oh.thatsjustmyautism

Feb 17, 2022 • 24min
Ep 60: Leave Me Alone, I’m Lonely
The past few weeks have been a little rough. Been battling some depression and feeling pretty lonely. The seemingly enormous task of integrating back into the world socially is incredibly daunting though, so I feel stuck. Thanks for listening, and don’t worry, I will be ok! If you’d like to reach out, you can email me at ohthatsjustmyautism@gmail.con or find me on IG @oh.thatsjustmyautism

Feb 9, 2022 • 31min
Ep 59: Why Representation Matters
After all my ranting about the media’s representation of autism on the last episode, I wanted to elaborate a little more about why I feel like representation matters. Thanks for listening! If you want to reach out, you can email me at ohthatsjustmyautism@gmail.com or follow on IG at @oh.thatsjustmyautism

Feb 9, 2022 • 28min
Ep 58: My Thoughts on the Show “As We See It”
Spoiler alert: I didn’t like it. Is this an unpopular opinion? Am I the only one who found this show super cringe and upsetting?? Here is the link to the panel interview that I mentioned in this episode: https://youtu.be/tbqaotMiCl8 and here is the link to the episode of Mayim Bialik’s podcast interview with Bill Prady of The Big Bang Theory: https://open.spotify.com/episode/1tC6wn1Prcz2qgtD5MN18L?si=OkuGq5uETnG32xhqyNX07w

Feb 1, 2022 • 34min
Ep 57: I Can’t Think When My Ankles Are Cold, and Other Temperature-Related Sensory Issues
Fluctuations in temperature are an actual nightmare. I especially hate being cold! Even something as simple as getting undressed to change my clothes in the morning can be a very uncomfortable task. Can the world and everything in it just stay at a reasonable 78 degrees at all times? If you’d like to reach out, you can email me at ohthatsjustmyautism@gmail.com or follow on IG @oh.thatsjustmyautism

Jan 24, 2022 • 39min
Ep 56: Am I Good at Communicating or Just Good at Talking A Lot?
I thought I was a good communicator, but after thinking about all the ways that I can get hung up when it comes to talking to others, I’m realizing that maybe I’m not as good as I thought I was. Which is fine. It’s just my autism, right? :-) If you’d like to reach out you can email me at ohthatsjustmyautism@gmail.com or follow me on IG @oh.thatsjustmyautism

Jan 15, 2022 • 30min
Ep 55: My First Week of School & the Perils of Sitting Still
Hey guys! I am back after a bit of a hiatus. Things have been wildly busy over here but are starting to settle now. Today I want to tell you about my first week of school and the unorthodox accommodations that I think would help me. If you’d like to reach out, you can email me at ohthatsjustmyautism@gmail.com or find me on IG @oh.thatsjustmyautism - also if you can leave a review for this podcast please do! It will help more people find the show :-)

Jan 4, 2022 • 23min
Ep 54: When You Almost Melt Down on the Vegas Strip
Ooof. Las Vegas on New Year’s Eve is NO JOKE. It’s like regular Vegas on steroids. As the clock struck midnight, I was nearing full meltdown status and just wanted to go home. Not the ideal way to ring in the new year! In this episode I unpack all of the things that went wrong on this trip, and give myself a little pat on the back for how well I handled it all. As usual, you can reach out via email at ohthatsjustmyautism@gmail.com or find me on IG @oh.thatsjustmyautism


