The Jordan Harbinger Show

Navigating the tricky waters of supporting a friend involved with a cheating ex sparks a lively discussion. There’s also an amusing account of accidentally overhearing a Zoom call gone wrong. The hosts share insights on networking during tough times and how to assert your worth in a male-dominated workplace. They tackle the complexities of remote work negotiations and critique a shady mentorship program, keeping the conversation light and lively. Tune in for a blend of humor and practical advice!

Cheryl Strayed, the award-winning author of 'Wild' and co-host of the Dear Sugars podcast, shares her journey of resilience and creativity. She discusses the importance of accepting mediocrity to finish endeavors, why we often give sound advice yet struggle to follow it for ourselves, and the necessity of relinquishing the need for approval. Cheryl also highlights the transformative power of life's challenges, emphasizing that our dreams shouldn't hinder our well-being. Her reflections on hiking and emotional burdens offer profound insights into the creative process.

Robert Wittman, former senior investigator and creator of the FBI's National Art Crime Team, shares insights on the $6 billion art crime industry. He explains why art is a favored target for criminals over drugs and guns, highlighting the importance of provenance and authenticity in valuing art. Wittman recounts the emotional toll of undercover work, detailing his tactics for remaining hidden in plain sight and the psychological challenges he faced. He also contrasts the U.S.'s late start in art crime investigations with Europe’s long-standing efforts, including Italy's unique art crime submarine.

This time, the hosts tackle the tricky issue of neighborly disputes over pet messes, advocating for direct communication over passive-aggressive tactics. They explore the moral dilemmas of raising kids to balance ambition with kindness. Networking’s impact on career success, especially in sports, is also discussed, alongside the importance of meaningful relationships for opening new opportunities. Finally, they touch on the complexities surrounding name changes in marriage and the balance between identity and tradition.

Jennifer L. Eberhardt, a Stanford University psychology professor, dives into the fascinating world of bias. She reveals how our brains create and maintain biases, and why they can alter our perceptions. Eberhardt discusses the contagious nature of bias and its roots in evolution, exploring its impact on society and individuals alike. She also shares strategies for recognizing and mitigating our own biases, shedding light on the systemic implications they bring, particularly in areas like law enforcement and hiring practices.

Danny Trejo, a legendary actor and restaurateur known for his roles in over 350 films, shares his incredible journey from crime to Hollywood success. He reflects on his battle with addiction, emphasizing the importance of maintaining sobriety for over 50 years and his mission to help at-risk youth. Trejo humorously discusses why he avoids stunts, recounts poignant experiences from his time in prison, and advocates for better representation of Hispanic actors in film. His story is one of redemption, kindness, and the significance of second chances.

Explore the emotional tug-of-war between personal ambitions and familial duties as a young adult grapples with guilt over leaving behind their special needs sister. Discover insights on maintaining friendships amidst differing values while navigating career challenges, from asking for a raise to managing client relationships with professionalism. Throughout, the importance of self-acceptance and effective communication shines through, offering a roadmap for personal growth and resilience.

In this engaging discussion, Anders Ericsson, a renowned cognitive psychologist, shares insights from his research on deliberate practice and expertise. He debunks the myth of innate talent, emphasizing that skill development hinges on intentional training. Listeners learn how the brain can be rewired for improvement at any age. Ericsson also critiques the famous 10,000-hour rule and advocates for a 'try differently' approach to mastering skills. With fascinating examples from music and sports, he reveals the power of mental representations in achieving expertise and success.

Gabriel Mizrahi, a scams expert, dives into the murky waters of fraud and deception. He reveals the most common scams lurking out there, like MLM schemes and fake gurus. Mizrahi discusses why even the sharpest minds can fall prey, exploring the psychological traps of desperation and insecurity. He shares insights on how to handle conversations with scam victims, advocating for empathy and patience. Listeners learn about the environmental factors that heighten vulnerability and ways to support those recovering from scams.

Dive into the complex realms of relationships and self-worth as the hosts explore whether financial support can unintentionally label someone a sugar daddy. Discover the emotional fallout of supporting a partner through college and the challenges of navigating corporate culture during a pandemic. They also tackle the dilemma of letting an accident slide in a romantic context and provide insights on building genuine, non-transactional relationships. Tune in for humor, reflections, and thoughtful advice!