Lisa A Romano Breakdown to Breakthroughs

Lisa A. Romano
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May 24, 2024 • 24min

Codependency: Why You Tango With Narcissists

Are you stuck in a toxic relationship and can't seem to end it? And do you feel like you are in a one way relationship and no matter how you try to get heard, the person you are dealing with cannot, will not, or refuses to hear you or meet you half way? If you identify as a codependent, you may recognize that it is not easy for you to stand up for yourself, to speak your truth, or to say no. You may take care of others at the expense of yourself, and then feel incredibly wounded when others do not seem to consider your feelings, wants, or needs. You may or may not be aware of how often childhood emotional neglect, parental gaslighting, and being raised by parents who only offer conditional love have conditioned you at the level of the subconscious to seek approval, all while subordinating yourself to others. So if you are an adult child of an alcoholic, narcissist, or were raised in a home that was unpredictable, critical and lacked emotional authenticity, this episode is for you, especially if you are aching to understand why you attract narcissistic people into your life. Ready to breakthrough and start living above the veil as opposed to recreating unhealthy childhood dynamics? If so, begin your Conscious Healing Journey with Lisa A. Romano's 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program, designed specifically for the adult child who is ready to find their authentic self, despite a painful past. https://www.lisaaromano.com/12-wbcp
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May 20, 2024 • 9min

Codependency Causes You To Attract These Partners

If you are codependent, you don't know who you are, you lack a sense of self, feel like a feather in the wind and tend to agree with others because you never learned to honor the self. In this episode, Lisa A. Romano the Breakthrough Life Coach, reveals the secrets to why codependents who have suffered childhood emotional neglect tend to develop personality traits that make them a target for narcissistic, toxic and unhappy relationships. The good news is, Lisa has broken the codependency code and has discovered a holistic healing approach to healing the faulty beliefs that were downloaded into your subconscious mind when you were an innocent child. So, if you're ready to learn more, let's dive in to this episode! Serious about getting in touch with your authentic self? If so, visit https://www.lisaaromano.com/12-wbcp to learn how you can begin your journey back to the divine you, the one faulty default settings of the brain have prevented you from accessing all outside of consciousness.
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May 17, 2024 • 37min

Narcissistic Mothers Exploit Your Need to be Loved

Narcissistic mothers are hard to spot. All children have a tendency to see their mother through a tainted lens, one that causes a child to take responsibility for how a dysfunctional mother might cause them to feel rather than being able to comprehend the challenging dynamics. For example, a highly narcissistic mother, may exploit their child's need for approval, love, and validation. When those necessary needs are exploited, a child will naturally assume blame for not gaining a narcissistic mother's love. This results in feelings of shame and will also create emotional triggers tied to abandonment, rejection, and the fear of disapproval. The consequences of being raised by a narcissistic mother are wide, varied, and lifelong. The fear of criticism, the fear of engaging with others socially, the need to isolate, and avoid social interactions can also be tied to feeling rejected by a narcissistic mother. The stupendous news is, you can heal from maternal narcissistic abuse, IF you are willing to come out of denial, and accept your inner child's truth. Lisa A. Romano is a renowned Life Coach and expert in the field of healing parental narcissistic abuse, and codependency. If you are a victim of narcissistic abuse and you want to know the absolute, proven steps that will help you take your life back, and assist you with individuation as a autonomous human being despite never receiving your mother's love, reach out at coach@lisaaromano.com for next steps, or begin your healing journey today with Lisa's proven program The 12 Week Breakthrough Coaching Program https://www.lisaaromano.com/12-wbcp
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May 13, 2024 • 21min

Signs You're Ready to Find Love Again

In this enlightening discussion, Lisa A. Romano, a renowned Life Coach specializing in codependency and narcissistic abuse recovery, shares insightful knowledge about returning to love. She emphasizes that feeling anxious about dating is a positive sign, while lack of concern might indicate unresolved issues. Lisa outlines how to recognize emotional readiness and the importance of self-love and independence in healthy relationships. She guides listeners on the path to overcoming codependency and reclaiming their self-worth, making way for a fulfilling love life!
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May 10, 2024 • 31min

Emotional Manipulators Do This to Keep Their Targets In Line

Exploring the tactics of emotional manipulators, focusing on DARVO and how it affects targets. Dive into the insidious behavior of narcissists, showcasing denial, gaslighting, and victim portrayal. Learn how to recognize and resist DARVO to reclaim your reality. Gain insights on navigating narcissistic abuse, setting boundaries, and prioritizing self-care for mental well-being.
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May 6, 2024 • 27min

When You Confront a Narcissist

If you've ever had to confront a narcissist, you've undoubtedly been met with projection, gaslighting, blame-shifting, accusations, and the twisting of the truth. In this episode, Lisa A. Romano, renowned Life Coach, bestselling author, and founder of Conscious Healing Academy, helps you better understand what to say and what not to say to a narcissist. As you begin to understand how a narcissist's mind operates to maintain power and control over their target's emotions, perceptions, beliefs, and behaviors, the clearer the boundaries you need to set. If you are someone who has been raised to seek approval, who feels unworthy, and not good enough, you must do what you can to heal the beliefs that subconsciously control your perception of self, and your behaviors. As you elevate your consciousness, you step out of the negative paradigms of the past and step into your authentic life. This is a process of transformation, and although it is not easy, it is your life's greatest quest. If you are ready to begin your transformation, Lisa A. Romano has created three life changing courses that will help you ascend and transcend the limitations of the past. Contact Lisa and her team at coach@lisaaromano.com Or begin your transformation journey today at https://www.lisaaromano.com
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May 3, 2024 • 18min

4 Steps to Better Mental Health: The Art of Letting Go

Mental health and wellness include feeling confident in your decision making abilities, and the ability to overcome life's challenges. It also includes the ability to make clear and conscious decisions regarding what relationships work in your life and which ones are a source of emotional, mental, spiritual, physical and financial destruction. It also includes the courage to end relationships that make your life worse as opposed to better, the ones in which you are taking care of others at the expense of your own mental and emotional wellness. Often, we are unaware of how our brains operate to keep us safe, rather than happy. If you were raised in a toxic environment, and you felt unsafe when you expressed an emotion, you may have been subconsciously programmed to fear expressing your authentic self. Below the veil of consciousness, you may unknowingly operate your life and make decisions out of survival, and out of needing to deny yourself for the sake of safety, rather than making decisions from a place of authenticity. Although this is not your fault and it is normal, unless you awaken and make mental and emotional adjustments, it is possible your authentic self will remain silent while default processes of the brain and mind control your decision-making. In this episode, Lisa A. Romano, respected Life Coach, best-selling author, and creator of Conscious Healing Academy, imparts valuable insights, lucidity, and mindfulness to assist you in enhancing your self-awareness regarding your thought processes, emotional responses, and decision-making. Her guidance aims to support you in cultivating conscious decision-making that resonates with your true, authentic self. Contact Lisa and her team to begin your conscious healing journey, coach@lisaaromano.com Or begin your conscious healing today https://www.lisaaromano.com/12-wbcp
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Apr 29, 2024 • 37min

Narcissists Will Never Agree With You, So Stop Trying to Get Through to Them

Narcissistic people are not always easy to spot, especially if you struggle with codependency, have been raised in a dysfunctional home, and by those who emotionally neglected you or routinely minimized your emotions. When you are neurologically and subconsciously programmed to look outside of you for a sense of worthiness, and you meet a narcissist, you will easily become swept up in a crazymaking relationship, where they hold approval over your head. And outside of consciousness, an adult child may not be able to recognize they are dealing with a narcissist, because these dynamics seem so normal and familiar. In this episode, learn from esteemed Life Coach and bestselling author; adult child advocate Lisa A. Romano as she unpacks the signs that you are dealing with a narcissist so you can peel back on losing yourself trying to get through to someone who cannot and will never hear you, or agree with you. Once you understand the #1 thing that keeps a narcissist from being able to relate to others in a fair, respectable, empathic way, it will be far easier for you to let go. If you are an adult child and you are sick and tired of being sick and tired of unhealthy relationship dynamics and you are interested in a proven action based, consciousness training program that will increase your mental toughness skills and empower you to become the authority in your life despite a painful past, Conscious Healing Academy is for you. To learn more contact Lisa and her team at coach@lisaaromano.com or start your journey here; https://www.lisaaromano.com/12-wbcp
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Apr 26, 2024 • 19min

Gaslighting: Why Narcissists Do It and What You Need to Know

Gaslighting is essential to understand. When dealing with a narcissist or toxic person, it is essential to understand this destructive form of communication. When dealing with a narcissist, you will eventually discover that their agenda is to confuse their victim so that the victim does not have the confidence to own their version of reality. With a narcissist inflicting crippling self doubt it is nearly impossible to stand up for yourself, when gaslighting is present. In this episode, learn what you need to know about gaslighting and arm yourself against this destructive form of manipulative and toxic form of communication. If you are ready to take your emotional intelligence to new heights, first by healing limiting beliefs created in childhood, contact Lisa A. Romano and her team to learn more about how you can begin your inner transformation journey with The Conscious Healing Academy. Email: coach@lisaaromano.com https://www.lisaaromano.com
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Apr 22, 2024 • 24min

5 Trauma Personalities That Are Caused by Childhood Trauma

Childhood trauma helps give rise to specific personality traits. Are you codependent, a helper, fixer, perfectionistic, anxious or controlling person, and wonder how your childhood may have helped shape how you live in the world? If so, this episode is for you. Listen in as renowned Life Coach and bestselling author Lisa A. Romano carefully explains how growing up in a dysfunctional home impacts the developing personality. As she explains, our authentic self is waiting to emerge, however, without inner child and emotional recovery work, our trauma personality remains a mask. The good news is that it is possible to find the road back to the authentic self, set healthy boundaries, and cope with troubling family dynamics in healthier and more productive ways. Learn more about Lisa's groundbreaking approach to healing from codependency and reprogramming the subconscious mind, at https://www.lisaaromano.com To reach Lisa for one to one or group coaching contact her at coach@lisaaromano.com

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