This American Life

Shalom Auslander, author of 'Fear', revisits his daunting childhood in religious school, sharing the weight of having a name associated with the divine. Lyn Brown, an Army Reserve chaplain who served in Iraq, delves into the heavy moral implications of 'Thou shalt not kill' faced by soldiers. Their conversations uncover the intersection of faith, identity, and ethical dilemmas, offering listeners a poignant reflection on the challenges of adhering to ancient commandments in the modern world.

In this gripping narrative, Sierra Crane Murdoch, along with Mika Westwolf's parents, Kevin Howard and Carissa Heavy Runner, share their heart-wrenching fight for justice following Mika's tragic death in a hit-and-run. The trio highlights the systemic challenges faced by Native families and the historical distrust of law enforcement. Kevin’s determination and Carissa’s public advocacy shine a light on broader injustices, as they recount their interactions with authorities and their strategic moves to elevate their daughter's story and seek accountability.

People tossing words out into the world impulsively to ignite and burn over decades. Visit thisamericanlife.org/lifepartners to sign up for our premium subscription.Prologue: Host Ira Glass plays a strange voicemail left by a 96-year-old surgeon about a letter that was written five decades ago. (6 minutes)Act One: Producer Lilly Sullivan reports out that voicemail. (13 minutes)Act Two: On his deathbed, a wealthy man in Toronto decides to make some trouble. Hundreds of babies are involved. Stephanie Foo tells the story. (25 minutes)Act Three: Cyclist Mike Friedman said something to cyclist Ian Dille in the middle of a race that ate at both of them for years. Jared Marcelle tells the story. (12 minutes)Transcripts are available at thisamericanlife.orgThis American Life privacy policy.Learn more about sponsor message choices.

Emmanuel Dzotsi, a producer, brings a poignant piece from the 'Black Lives Matter' mural demolition. Aviva DeKornfeld shares Ranjani Srinivasan's harrowing journey navigating ICE after her visa was revoked, capturing the panic of international students. Laura Starecheski recounts a gripping court hearing against the Trump administration's transgender military ban, revealing the stakes for those involved. This insightful discussion highlights the emotional and political turbulence defining our current moment.

Comedian Daniel Sloss, known for his jigsaw puzzle analogy that has led to many breakups, discusses how comedy can inspire self-reflection in relationships. Former nurse Kwaneta Harris shares her unique experience of offering medical advice to inmates, illustrating resilience and the complexities of access to healthcare behind bars. Together, they explore how unconventional perspectives can change lives and the power of humor and shared struggles in understanding love and health.

Liz Flock, a reporter known for her investigation into the A Gay Girl in Damascus hoax, joins producer Dana Chivvis to discuss the strange world of online deception. M. Gessen, an author and journalist, sheds light on 'bully lies' in politics, while Ike Sriskandarajah humorously defends the case for lying in certain contexts. The conversation weaves through personal anecdotes and the bizarre motivations behind unnecessary lies, leaving listeners to ponder the complexities of truth in our increasingly digital lives.

Zach Mack, a reporter, shares a candid journey of attempting to mend his strained relationship with his father through an unusual bet on political predictions. They confront radical beliefs inspired by conspiracy theories and navigate the emotional tensions that arise from differing ideologies. Family dynamics come to the forefront as Zach's mother and sister offer their perspectives. The story reflects humor, disappointment, and the complexities of acceptance, showcasing the fragile yet vital bonds of family amidst challenging times.

Valerie Kipnis, a producer known for her engaging storytelling, shares insights on managing street parking chaos in a New York neighborhood. She highlights the struggles and humorous dynamics between long-time residents and newcomers as community tensions rise over limited parking. The discussion offers a unique lens on urban life, revealing how one man's efforts to ease frustrations can foster a sense of connection among neighbors. Kipnis' anecdotes provide a poignant yet entertaining look at the everyday challenges that bind communities together.

Armando Ianucci, the British comedy maestro behind hits like Veep, dives into dark humor's role in navigating existential dread, reflecting on how laughter can provide fresh perspectives at turbulent times. Susan Burton, an editor, opens up about her journey through perimenopause, giving voice to the emotional upheavals many face during this transition. Valerie Kipnis engages with Ukrainian soldiers, sharing their vulnerabilities and hopes amidst ongoing conflict, highlighting the personal impact of war in the face of political uncertainty.

Josh Johnson, a comedian, dives into the thorny topic of spanking, reflecting on his own childhood and its implications. Etgar Keret, a celebrated writer, shares a whimsical yet thought-provoking tale about a bus driver who won't open the doors for late passengers, exploring themes of fairness and human connection. John Mulaney, a renowned actor and comedian, brings his storytelling flair, leaving listeners chuckling while tackling the intricacies of everyday life with humor and heart.