
The Long Distance Love Bombs Podcast
Making kindness cool and the world better than yesterday, join us for conversations that shift perspectives toward a more conscious and compassionate collective. The host, Dr. Jeremy Goldberg, is a ferocious never-giver-upper, an empathy-collecting, anti-quitting word wizard, and a connoisseur and collector of fine silver linings. He is also a recovering scientist turned life coach and spoken word poet who speaks fluent burrito. Find him on Instagram @LongDistanceLoveBombs or at www.longdistancelovebombs.com.
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Mar 30, 2024 • 1h 12min
207: Bryan Reeves - How can we stop sucking at love and relationships?
A former US Air Force Captain, Bryan Reeves is now an internationally renowned author and coach with a current focus on supporting men to have better lives and relationships. His viral blog has been read by over 50 million people in every country on the planet (except North Korea). He’s the co-founder of "Elevate Your Relationship,” a live coaching program for men ready to elevate their relationship game, which currently serves men in 10 countries. He's co-host of the popular podcast “Men, This Way” and author of two books, "Choose Her Every Day (Or Leave Her)" and "Tell The Truth, Let The Peace Fall Where It May."
Check out his online courses: "Love, Sex, Relationship Magic" Program (https://bryanreeves.com/lovemagic) and also "Boundaries: Relationships Suck Without 'Em!" (https://bryanreeves.com/Boundaries)
Book private 1-on-1 coaching and couples coaching here: https://bryanreeves.com/coaching
Read his book, Choose Her Every Day (Or Leave Her): https://bryanreeves.com/book
Listen to his podcast: https://bryanreeves.com/menthiswaypodcast
Follow his Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/bryanreevesinsight
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Feb 14, 2024 • 1h 12min
206: Julie Christiansen - How do we harness the most misunderstood emotion?
Julie A. Christiansen, MA, is a registered psychotherapist and the author of several books about anger, stress, bullying, and coping with crisis. She is an award-winning public speaker and creator of the Anger Solutions method of anger resolution training tools. Her work in Anger Solutions had her named one of the 30 Most Influential Forensic Psychologists Practicing Today. She is also the recipient of a Niagara 40 Under 40 award and has been a two-time finalist for the YWCA Women of Distinction award. Christiansen lives in St. Catherines, Canada, with her husband.
Check out her new book, Rise of Rage: https://amzn.to/49fsIV4
Follow her Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/julz_christiansen
Visit her website: https://juliechristiansen.com/
Listen to her Freedomology podcast: https://open.spotify.com/show/4mxTRPgGRtJvw4wlPVoIa2
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Jan 24, 2024 • 1h 2min
205: Amanda Ruggeri - What makes an expert trustworthy?
Amanda Ruggeri is a multi-award-winning journalist and editor who spent eight years on the BBC's international features team. During that time, she was editor of BBC Future (bbc.com/future; a website devoted to in-depth, evidence-based features), managing editor of the BBC.com features teams (managing a team of 20+ editorial and production staff), and a senior journalist. A graduate of Yale (B.A., history) and Cambridge (M.Phil, international relations), Amanda previously worked as a political reporter in Washington, D.C. Now freelance, her beats include the science of parenting, child development, history, and archaeology. She is frequently interviewed as an expert in history documentaries on Ancient Rome, including for Netflix and the History Channel.
She has reported, written, and presented long-form online features and television documentaries from as far afield as Tajikistan and China. These included a half-hour documentary on Maya ruins called Guatemala's Lost World, which won silver in the 2021 Lowell Thomas SATW awards, a written feature on Guatemala's ruins which won gold in the same awards, and a long-form story on Miami's fight against sea level rise, which won the 2019 Journalist Award from the European Meteorological Society.
Her website: https://www.amandaruggeri.com
Her Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/mandyruggeri
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Jan 9, 2024 • 1h 7min
204: James McCrae - Does the reclamation of creativity enhance aliveness?
James McCrae is an author, poet, meme artist, and creative strategist based in Austin, Texas. In his writing and art, he applies the principles of mindfulness and Eastern philosophy to modern life with humor and candor. James offers coaching and consultation services and teaches classes on conscious creativity.
James is the author of two books: Sh#t Your Ego Says (Hay House, 2017), an autobiographical guidebook for quieting negative self-talk and reconnecting with intuition, and How to Laugh in Ironic Amusement During Your Existential Crisis (Thought Catalog, 2021), a book of poetry and memes about leaving your comfort zone to embrace the unknown.
As a creative strategist, James has led workshops and brainstorms with top global brands (including Microsoft, NBC, Target, Organic Valley, and United Healthcare) to help define their mission, vision, and brand story.
He has written articles on creativity for publications like Forbes, HuffPost, Adweek, Yogi Times, Entrepreneur, and Elephant Journal, and his poetry has been featured in literary journals such as the American Journal of Poetry, 34th Parallel Magazine, Thought Catalog, New Millennium Writings, and Musepaper.
On his Instagram page (@wordsarevibrations) James shares daily memes, poems, and illustrations. He also hosts Sunflower Club a podcast that explores the intersection of creativity, consciousness, and culture.
In his spare time, James enjoys practicing yoga, visiting art museums, watching basketball, walking his dogs, and listening to music.
Pre-order his new book, out on February 5, 2024: https://linktr.ee/art.of.you
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Nov 28, 2023 • 1h 1min
203: Dr. Alexandra Solomon - Can we redefine what it means to love and be loved?
Dr. Alexandra H. Solomon, Ph.D., is internationally recognized as one of today's most trusted voices in the world of relationships. Her framework of Relational Self-Awareness framework has reached millions of people around the globe. A couples therapist, speaker, author, and professor, Dr. Solomon is passionate about translating cutting-edge research and clinical wisdom into practical tools people can use to bring awareness, curiosity, and authenticity to their relationships. She is a clinician educator and a frequent contributor to academic journals, and she translates her academic and therapeutic experience to the public through her popular Instagram page, which has garnered over 200K followers. She is on faculty in the School of Education and Social Policy at Northwestern University and is a licensed clinical psychologist at The Family Institute at Northwestern University. Her hit podcast, Reimagining Love, reaches tens of thousands of listeners across the globe each week and features high-profile guests from the worlds of therapy, academia, and pop culture. She is the award-winning author of three books: Love Every Day, Taking Sexy Back, and Loving Bravely, which was featured on the TODAY show.
Her first book, Loving Bravely, can be found here: https://amzn.to/2KSQKMS.
For her second book, Taking Sexy Back: How to Own Your Sexuality and Create the Relationships You Want, click here: https://amzn.to/33VGjzy.
To check out her latest book, Love Every Day, click here: https://amzn.to/3sSqWJs.
Check her website out here: http://www.dralexandrasolomon.com
Follow her on Instagram here: https://www.instagram.com/dr.alexandra.solomon
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Nov 15, 2023 • 1h 20min
202: Elijah Kala McShane - Can aloha bring the rainbow to everyone?
Elijah Kala McShane, also known as Son of O'ahu, is a devoted Ambassador of Aloha from the sacred islands of Hawai'i. His mission of sharing The Way of Aloha has reached millions worldwide via his social media reach and his work as a demanded speaker, facilitator, and ceremonialist. Elijah's message focuses on three fundamental principles of Hawaiian spirituality: Aloha 'Aina (connection to the land), Aloha Akua (connection to spirit), & Aloha Kanaka (connection to one another).
As a Native Hawaiian on O'ahu, Elijah grew up in a Catholic and Christian context of spirituality that rarely fulfilled his thirst for truth, love, connection, and universal wisdom. This propelled Elijah on a spiritual and cultural quest to rediscover his unique connection to his ancestors, cultural practices, and ways of being through the principle of Aloha. Through consciousness work, healing inter-generational trauma, and creative expression, he developed Awakened Aloha, a multi-faceted organization that works toward "inspiring a world where Aloha is the heartbeat of humanity" where he, alongside his wife, Jazmin, shares the message of Aloha as a transformative principle for self-discovery, connection, and contribution to the planet.
Elijah shares a universal message of Aloha that brings forth empowerment, inspiration, and internal transformation within his audience. His engaging and energetic facilitation style immerses his participants in a deep sense of oneness, unity, and connection. With his combination of cultural wisdom, universal spiritual principles, and masterful art of storytelling, thousands of attendees have experienced a profound feeling of being 'Ohana (family) and in oneness with all things in the environment.
He has also been a guest speaker at high schools, non-profit organizations, and communities throughout North America, bringing this transformative message of Aloha. As a ceremonialist and facilitator of sacred space, Elijah has created trauma-informed containers of healing for people suffering from depression, drug addiction, deep-rooted insecurities, and post-traumatic stress. These ceremonies, including the Ke Ala Pili, have been recorded to guide people into a more resonant vibration of life that brings about inspiration, positive change, and inner transformation of self-identity.
His website: https://www.awakenedaloha.org
His Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sonofoahu
Awakened Aloha's Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/awakenedaloha
His Pono Settler online course: https://www.awakenedaloha.org/ponocourse
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Oct 31, 2023 • 1h 6min
201: George (@TheTinMen) - Why and how is society failing our men and our boys?
George is trying to widen perspectives around men by initiating uncomfortable conversations and sharing ugly truths about the unpopular other half of gender equality. He is a proponent of facilitating dialogues and discussions around men’s mental health.
Here are the various ways to get in touch with him and follow his work:
Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/thetinmen
Discord: https://discord.com/invite/tnv6q7PHWT
Twitter: https://twitter.com/TheTinMenBlog
Facebook: https://www.facebook.com/thetinmenblog
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CHAPTERS:
0:02:54 The Tin Men: Explaining the Choice of Name0:07:04 The Tin Men vs. the Wicked Witch: A Beautiful Story0:10:59 Personal detachment and focus on men's advocacy0:13:48 Creating a vibrant community for discussion and ideas0:20:30 The Support and Following of Tin Man0:27:51 Advocating for a Minister for Men in the UK0:36:15 Lack of Government Support for Men's Issues0:37:38 Richard Reeves' Efforts to Advocate for Boys and Men0:41:37 Educational disparities: boys falling behind in every stage0:44:42 Neglected issues: domestic violence, minority men, and LGBTQ+ rights0:47:56 The Neglected Crisis: 10,000 Boys Abducted by Boko Haram0:48:56 Frustration with trivializing men's issues and meme-ifying masculinity0:52:02 Speaking up against anti-male bigotry and harmful stereotypes0:55:28 Reflecting on the pain behind hurtful statements and seeking understanding0:58:08 Judging Men and Boys by the Actions of a Few1:02:44 Reflecting on the Impact of Advocacy Work1:04:34 Uncertainty and anticipation of the future

Oct 23, 2023 • 1h 15min
200: A Random Show with Traver Boehm
To celebrate the 200th episode of this podcast, I asked my good friend, Traver Boehm, to get weird and do something a bit different. I sent him a text asking him to think about a couple of random things he loves or is inspired by so we could talk about them. Neither of us knew what the other was bringing to the table. A surprising feast ensued.
I've long loved the podcast conversations Tim Ferriss has with his pal, Kevin Rose, so I decided to emulate that here. This chat is informal and unpredictable. It's also filled with random stories, lots of laughter, and it's quite different than any other I've done before. Please let me know what you think. If you like it, perhaps I can invite more friends to have similar chats.
And a huge and grateful THANK YOU to everyone who listens and shares the podcast. I appreciate you.
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Traver Boehm is the author of the books Today I Rise and Man UNcivilized. He’s a two-time TEDx speaker, men’s coach, and the founder of the UNcivilized Men’s Movement. He’s helped men all over the world to become UNcivilized as they wake up to meditate, train their bodies, and blaze their own path by uniquely blending both the primal and the divine within them. He is dedicated to doing his part to help end the suffering in men and the suffering caused by men by guiding them through their own journey into an actualized version of masculinity.
For more information about Traver, please visit his website: www.manuncivilized.com.
Find him on Instagram: @traverboehm - https://www.instagram.com/traverboehm
Buy his book here: https://amzn.to/3tQ5p4c
And listen to his podcast, The UNcivilized Podcast with Traver Boehm, on all major platforms.
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CHAPTERS:
0:01:07 Recording Secrets and Embracing Imperfection0:05:38 Mysterious Half-Buddhist Statue Unveiled0:05:42 Contemplating a Unique Tattoo Design0:07:15 A Random Start with Tattoo Stories0:10:14 Candid Conversations: Sharing Medical History and Unexpected Connections0:19:35 Intrigued by non-alcoholic Guinness and the search for it0:22:56 Wrestling with the idea of drinking non-alcoholic beer0:26:03 The rule of three for checking cravings and habits0:28:05 Evaluating the Progress of the Conversation0:28:16 The Story of the Special Bread Knife0:32:26 Upgrading Everyday Items for a 10x Experience0:38:37 Childhood Fork: A Sentimental Keepsake0:47:04 Discussions about knives and documentaries0:53:06 Considering becoming a Zen master or starting a bread company0:58:33 A Shift in Perspective on Death and Myth1:02:02 Recommendation: Interview with a Funeral Home Director1:05:18 The Benefits and Deliciousness of Sprouting1:09:10 The Potential of Selling Sprouts and Merchandise

Oct 11, 2023 • 1h 8min
199: Erin Skye Kelly - Can you end money fights forever?
Erin Skye Kelly is a multiple award-winning author who has helped thousands of people pay off millions of dollars in consumer debt and ultimately change their lives, through her online course, Get the Hell Out of Debt.
Erin has written two best-selling books:
Get The Hell Out Of Debt - The Proven 3-Phase Method That Will Radically Shift Your Relationship With Money
Naked Money Meetings - Ending Money Fights With Your Partner Forever
In spite of her terrible stage fright and general Canadian awkwardness, she has shared the stage with legendary motivational speakers such as Tony Robbins, Phil Town, and Gary John Bishop.
She wrote her first book, Get the Hell Out of Debt, after her own struggle to become free from consumer debt. She was tired of listening to middle-aged men in suits tell her to consolidate and refinance her debt when all that seemed to happen was she’d end up in more of it while they profited from it.
Her seminars and workshops are judgment-free zones made up of equal parts personal growth, rock concert, and love. She is hired to work with ordinary humans who want to achieve extraordinary things, and because of her track record helping people create a trajectory of success, the phrase she most often hears when people meet her for the first time is, “Wow. I thought you’d be taller.”
Check out her new book, NAKED MONEY MEETINGS: ENDING MONEY FIGHTS WITH YOUR PARTNER FOREVER: https://amzn.to/3LsRrLU
Find her on Instagram at @GetTheHellOutOfDebt, and you can see the students who are in the thick of debt rehabilitation or who got the hell out by searching the hashtag, #getthehelloutofdebt. You can also find Erin personally on social media @ErinSkyeKelly.
Facebook: Her Get the Hell Out of Debt community is second to none - they support one another, offer advice, vent frustrations, and celebrate wins - big or small. While our Facebook group is private, it is a major incentive to join the Get the Hell Out of Debt Course and/or buy the Get the Hell Out of Debt book!
Check out the Get the Hell Out of Debt course & the How to Teach Your Kids About Money course if you're interested in joining her community!
Listen to her podcast, The Get the Hell Out of Debt Podcast, on Apple, Spotify, Soundcloud, and anywhere else you listen to podcasts.
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CHAPTERS0:12:18 Introducing "Naked Money Meetings" book0:14:00 Introduction to the Financial Background0:17:08 The Power of Understanding Money and Financial Freedom0:23:39 From MTV to Speaking on Stages0:27:05 The Emotional Challenges of Leading the Camino Journey0:28:11 Bonding and dropping masks on the Camino0:37:42 Different Money Blocks and their Effects on Wealth Building0:42:18 Understanding Conflicts Arising from Different Money Blocks0:45:40 The Challenge of Implementing a Simple Yet Powerful Idea0:45:58 Transforming through Growth and Progress0:47:22 The Challenge of Misaligned Goals in Relationships0:51:25 The Importance of Feedback and Validation in Creative Work0:55:04 Book as Trojan Horse for Personal Development0:55:21 The Importance of Conscious Spending1:00:20 Reflecting on the importance of learning relationship skills

Oct 2, 2023 • 1h 15min
198: Sylvester McNutt III - How do you move beyond pain via the healing power of self-care?
Sylvester McNutt III is a best-selling author, podcaster, public speaker, course creator, and father who teaches people how to transform their mindsets through self-awareness and healing practices. As a retired arena football player and survivor of traumatic experiences, Sylvester now uses storytelling to teach people how to introspect, gain confidence, and sustain self-love. He believes healing is the key to success, and self-awareness unlocks freedom. Sylvester's passions are writing, lifting, traveling, yoga, and exploring the human experience.
In this conversation, we discuss the release of his newest book, "Care Package: Harnessing the Power of Self-Compassion to Heal and Thrive." This book delves deep into many important topics, such as addictions, trauma, pain, codependency, boundaries, and the art of letting go. Sly emphasizes the significance of embracing healing and moving away from negative energy and victim mentality.
Join his Mastery Circle: https://sylvester-mcnutt-iii.mykajabi.com/mastery-circle
Check out his People Pleasing 101 course: https://sylvester-mcnutt-iii.mykajabi.com/offers/eokY498e/checkout
Find his courses here: https://www.sylvestermcnutt.net/courses
His website and books are here: https://www.sylvestermcnutt.net
Follow his Instagram: https://www.instagram.com/sylvestermcnutt
Listen to his Free Your Energy podcast: https://www.sylvestermcnutt.net/podcast
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0:02:53 Morning Routine: Winning the Morning0:06:15 Importance of Fashion and First Impressions0:11:29 The Power of Dressing Well0:15:01 The Power of Energy and Swagger0:18:47 The Promise of a House and a Future0:27:40 The Impact of Your Environment on Personal Growth0:28:42 The Power of Conscious Choices and Making Better Decisions0:37:21 The Power of Integrity and Following Through0:46:31 The Challenge of Beating the Final Boss0:50:05 The Core of Being a Writer Remains the Same0:55:12 Introducing his New Book and its Purpose0:59:31 The Necessity of Facing and Working through Past Wounds1:02:11 Appreciating the Difficulty of Implementation1:02:34 Deep Connection and Endless Conversations1:03:29 The Desire to Find a Way1:08:11 Making a Life-Saving Decision at the Spartan Race1:12:04 The Importance of Self-Preservation and Resilience