RecoverU | Betrayal Trauma, Sex Addiction Support, Betrayal Recovery, Reconciliation, Porn Addiction Recovery

What is empathy? At its core, it's the ability to understand someone else's experience and perspective. When a couple chooses to stay together, empathy is a critical skill for both individuals to learn. YES it's learnable! We must practice things that don't come naturally before they become second nature. In today's episode, Kylene and Patrick discuss what empathy is, why is important fro the recovering sex addict to empathize with the trauma his partner is going through, and why it's just as important for the betrayed partner to empathize with the addicts experiences, and of course, how can you express empathy?   If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU   For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune

Kylene Terhune, a dedicated coach for betrayed partners, shares her insights on healing from infidelity. She discusses the complexities of emotional recovery, emphasizing that personal healing can happen even if reconciliation isn’t feasible. Kylene breaks down the importance of communication and trust, while also addressing the challenges of setting personal boundaries. Listeners gain valuable strategies for managing triggers and fostering a supportive community during their recovery journey.

Discover the intricate journey of forgiveness after betrayal, particularly in the context of sex addiction. Explore how personal definitions of forgiveness can complicate healing. Understand the emotional relief that true forgiveness brings, emphasizing empathy and respect. Delve into the challenges faced in parent-child relationships and the turmoil of conflicting feelings. Learn to trust your intuition and embrace self-compassion to navigate forgiveness more effectively. This discussion invites a transformative perspective on rebuilding trust and emotional safety.

Is it possible for GOOD to come from all the pain of sex addiction and betrayal trauma?    Nick and Michelle Stumbo are examples of how good CAN come from the pain we have experienced. A former pastor and now head of Pure Desire ministries, Nick shares his personal story of transformation along with his wife Michelle who talks about what it was like being married to a pastor and feeling like she had to keep all of this to herself at the time.   If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU   For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune

How do we navigate conversations about sex with our children?  Whether you are a couple going through recovery after betrayal and sex addiction, or you are just parents trying to raise healthy kids, healthy sexuality is something they should learn about from you. But it's often a very uncomfortable topic for many of us and we just don't know how to bring it up in safe and healthy ways. Rodney and Traci Wright recommend that parents have many small conversations with our children around this topic to better prepare them for their life experiences, to create safety in the relationship with you, and to let them know they can always come to you with questions.    If you have children you won't want to miss this episode!    Check out their book for more support: How to Talk to Your Kids about Sex here: https://puredesire.org/shop/how-to-talk-with-your-kids-about-sex/       If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU   For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune

What does it feel like to discover your husband is a sex/porn addict without any warning? How do you navigate those first few months?   In today's episode, Patrick asks Kylene questions about her experience including: What was going through your head the first 2 weeks after discovery? What seemed to help the first few weeks/months? What behaviors from (Patrick) did you find helpful? What gave you strength through this? When did you feel most vulnerable?   If you are a betrayed partner, you may related to how Kylene describes her experience. If you are a sex/porn addict moving through recovery, you may gain a deeper understanding about how the betrayed partner thinks and feels through this process.   If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU   For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune

Can a spouse recovery from betrayal? Can an addict recovery? Can we actually live healthy lives? These are some of the questions Kylene's client Katherine* experienced after discovering her husband was hiding a secret sex addiction. After doing some of their own work and then coming to Kylene for continued healing work, Katherine is here today to share their story of redemption and healing. Their story is inspirational, I know you will find encouragement in this episode!  *Names changes for anonymity If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU   For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune

Navigating the aftermath of betrayal can feel overwhelming. The discussion emphasizes the importance of emotional processing and reflection on past behaviors. It offers practical tools for making informed decisions about relationships. Plus, there are reflective questions designed to help individuals clarify their desires for a healthier partnership. Healing is not just about moving on; it's about understanding yourself and your needs in the context of love and trust.

Can I just read books, listen to podcasts, and navigate recovery by myself? Humans are designed for connection and community is often what helps us feel more grounded, more safe, more secure, and it even has positive benefits for our mental health. All things that ultimately benefit recovery whether you are a betrayed spouse recovering from the trauma of discovery, or a partner navigating recovery from sex/porn addiction. In today's episode, one of Patricks personal mentors joins us on the podcast as we discuss the importance of connection and mentorship through this journey. If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU   For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune

Betrayal is incredibly traumatic and painful. Recovery as an addict means feeling difficult emotions. When a couple commits to the process, will it ever be worth it?   Today, Kylene and Patrick share some of the benefits they have experienced by really committing to recovery every step of the way and how facing your fears can ultimately provide some of the best growth you experience in life.   If you are a betrayed partner and would like to connect with Kylene for 1:1 coaching support, please click this link and book a free connection call: https://p.bttr.to/3ttk0Ql   Join the free RecoverU Facebook page for betrayed partners: www.facebook.com/groups/recoverU   For addicted spouses check our puredesire.org and soulrefiner.org Follow Kylene: On TikTok: @KyleneTerhune  On IG: @KyleneTerhune